FabSwingers.com forum: Do you think they know

By *urvySub87 OP Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

If you fall for someone you probably shouldn't, say a friend or a fwb or someone who is taken or whatever. Do you think they know that you like them even if you keep it to yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much you let slip

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If it’s a bloke, I’d say not. Just tell him straight. Say ‘gizzashagyahunk’.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Some people will pick up on subtle tells and some won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you fall for someone you probably shouldn't, say a friend or a fwb or someone who is taken or whatever. Do you think they know that you like them even if you keep it to yourself?"

Depends on the circumstance, but yeah, I think we're prone to giving away more than we should do when we're into someone.

I know I've done it, and all that long ago either..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends on how open the signals are that you’re giving off, and how receptive they are at reading them.

Me? I can’t ever see it. But that’s probably because nobody has ever thought it to be fair!

There’s been people I’ve liked, do they know? Maybe, but they didn’t ever mention it or act on it. Probably because they didn’t want to!

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

It really depends on whether you give any subtle signs and whether they pick them up or not.

I think it’s easier to just be honest.

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By *urvySub87 OP Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

"It really depends on whether you give any subtle signs and whether they pick them up or not.

I think it’s easier to just be honest."

Far too shy to be honest lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think if they're in a relationship that you should do your best to conceal it unless you know it's open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably would do...

But would I act on it? No..

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"I think if they're in a relationship that you should do your best to conceal it unless you know it's open."

I’d agree with this.

It’s ok to have feelings for someone, it can be really difficult to not develop feelings for a fwb for instance, but I guess you have to weigh up the options… tell him and he feels the same- great. Tell him and he doesn’t feel the same-not so great and probably the end of what you have.

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By *urvySub87 OP Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

"I think if they're in a relationship that you should do your best to conceal it unless you know it's open.

I’d agree with this.

Risk losing great sex. Not sure it's worth it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did still do very complicated if they don’t know I not shour how after all the hints and stuff

Can never be the one to make the first movie though

Why I say did is time away from the person takes it away

But when i am with them it brings it back but it’s all on them to make the first movie

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