FabSwingers.com forum: What lessons did you learn the hard way

By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posting your facepic as public bot private on my first profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't eat yellow snow.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

That cars and ditches are not a good match

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Measure twice cut once

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If alarm bells ring when you meet someone, run, don't walk.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Never spit into an oncoming wind….

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

That no matter how hard you wish for something, it never comes true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t be too cheeky on the forums.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Don't have dreams.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

That people will talk crap about you regardless, so not to let anyone live rent free in your head. You can't control what they say or think so sod em

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By *rTongueMan
over a year ago

...

That you need money to have a roof over your head

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By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"That people will talk crap about you regardless, so not to let anyone live rent free in your head. You can't control what they say or think so sod em

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sod em . Havnt heard that for ages .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never risk a fart when you have an upset stomach …..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t trust anyone they just brake your hart in to a million peace’s

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Keep your enemies close. This guy wound me up for years we almost killed each other, in the end I just decided to pretend to be his best friend and use him

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Don't trust what people say so easily.

It wasn't the hard hard way though. I still have faith aplenty in people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust no one. Not even yourself.

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

Life in general

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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere sweet and sour

"That people will talk crap about you regardless, so not to let anyone live rent free in your head. You can't control what they say or think so sod em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a man asks you for money, tell him to get lost

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

That not everyone you think of as a friend thinks of you the same way.... more what they can get out of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That even the people who are closest to you can take your life down a very dark path. Blood means nothing.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

To never expect anything from anyone, you’ll only be disappointed.

Also during the worst times in your life you’ll see the true colours of those who say they care for you

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Working hard only gets you so far,

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Don't take viagra (was an experiment) on a night out out lol

Was almost declined entry into few bars thinking I had a cancelled weapon haha

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By *oubleTrouble666Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Not to do my laces up in revolving doors.

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

"To never expect anything from anyone, you’ll only be disappointed.

Also during the worst times in your life you’ll see the true colours of those who say they care for you "

It's only disappointments that teach you how to spot disappointing people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought Tahini was just like peanut butter, and made a sandwich

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

In a public shower, if you drop the soap never bend over to pick it up, you can have too many suds.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Everyone without exception no matter how nice they appear to be, no matter how well intentioned they profess to be, is out for themselves.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

An ex is an ex for a reason

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Once someone lies to you, you question everything from that point on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An ex is an ex for a reason"

This! x

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Lanson

"Never spit into an oncoming wind…."

Or have a piss!

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

We have 2 ears 1 mouth

Use them accordingly...

Listen twice as much than you speak

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Having a flourescent orange motorbike, doesn't mean a driver will see you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fly with the crows, you get shot with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To give constantly with disregard for my own well-being

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That you can't 100% trust many people. There is only my husband I fully trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone says they're there for you but when you really need them they're not there. That's when you realise who actually cares for you

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Bullies, acting alone, can be faced down, but bullies in a group are called mobbers and feed off each other in a feeding frenzy of rage and violence.

Run towards the lone bully to deter them; run away from the mob in order to survive, and pick them off at your future leisure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have a joint bank account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone says they're there for you but when you really need them they're not there. That's when you realise who actually cares for you "

Absolutely

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

Marriage, terrible idea.

Alternatively, find someone you hate and buy them a house.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Not keeping carb cravings under control makes you fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To never let my guard down again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t play Russian roulette with a shotgun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can’t play Russian roulette with a shotgun. "
true true

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Advanced calculus. I don't think there is any easy way to learn it. Circular motion and angular momentum always gives me trouble as well.

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By *oah VailMan
over a year ago

Dover

Don’t get between two brothers fighting.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

Stop, look, listen! (anyone remember the Green Cross Code infomercials)?

Even after the immediate trauma, broken long bones bloody hurt for a long time!

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

That I should have saved money for a rainy day... because it's about to start pissing down

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Who learns lessons the easy way ?? There isn't a lesson learned without it being hard or painful hence the lesson learned .. so we all have and thousands of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who learns lessons the easy way ?? There isn't a lesson learned without it being hard or painful hence the lesson learned .. so we all have and thousands of them "

People who pay attention. Most learn the hard way because the hardship helps memory, but observant can learn lessons from other’s mistakes and observe effective behaviour. That comes at little or no cost to the one learning. The teacher need not even know they’e being observed and taking the pain

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By *unTimesRnJCouple
over a year ago

linc

[Removed by poster at 29/04/22 03:53:32]

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Who learns lessons the easy way ?? There isn't a lesson learned without it being hard or painful hence the lesson learned .. so we all have and thousands of them

You think people who pay attention don't learn the hard way .. your wrong my friend

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By *licecdTV/TS
over a year ago

Hatfield

Beware of the Hun from the Sun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People change when they become wealthy, even if unintentionally x

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Listen to your gut instinct 100% of the time, always.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I learnt never to trust someone with my heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it sounds too good to be true .. it is !

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Nothing and I mean nothing lasts for ever

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Don’t act on your emotions they are always inaccurate, changing, exaggerated

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

How devious and nasty some men can be to get a wet dick.

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By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"How devious and nasty some men can be to get a wet dick."
love pompey Topsy was a matelot in 1978 Joannas Southsea. Xx

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Cooking esp frying

whilst topless is a bad idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oven gloves are important.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Don't rely on people at work.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

It takes a bigger man to walk away. Had my nose broken to find it out

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

That it’s not selfish to put yourself first

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Friend is a difficult word to understand for some people.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Anyone can be deceived if a person covers their tracks well enough.

But not everyone deceives.

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By *just.meMan
over a year ago

hartlepool

No one can be trusted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who learns lessons the easy way ?? There isn't a lesson learned without it being hard or painful hence the lesson learned .. so we all have and thousands of them

You think people who pay attention don't learn the hard way .. your wrong my friend "

Some do. some don’t. Not everyone has to crash a car, go bankrupt, get divorced or conned by scam artist.

Are you saying that catastrophe is the only way to learn? Thank fk that medics who train for years don’t have to learn every learn that way or there would be a hell of a lot of dead people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect disappointment whenever you make a wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it sounds to good to be true then it normally isnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Browsing for agricultural machinery can lead to public humiliation and loss of employment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use lube.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Calculus was a little tricky

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

That blood is not thicker than water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dishwasher tablets are a con. Tis the hot water does 99% of the job.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Car break before trees do

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

That it says 'apply small amount' for a reason on a tube if tingly lube

my punk ass applied a big ole wallop & my cock was on fire hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it sounds to good to be true then it normally isnt. "

did you find out the hard way

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

The only person who has my best interests at heart is me

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"The only person who has my best interests at heart is me"

Well said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only person who has my best interests at heart is me

Well said x "

Everyone isn't out to get you, they just don't give a shit.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Many of life's lessons....

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Browsing for agricultural machinery can lead to public humiliation and loss of employment. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much absinthe is not big or clever

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"The only person who has my best interests at heart is me

Well said x

Everyone isn't out to get you, they just don't give a shit."

Yeah it’s not always personal. Just priorities

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"Too much absinthe is not big or clever

absinthe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too much absinthe is not big or clever

absinthe

I like it in small doses.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"Too much absinthe is not big or clever

absinthe

I like it in small doses."

The problem is I have too many small doses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get married!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go to school (after primary years) to learn. Go straight to college or get an apprenticeship. You don't need school

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Love hurts "

Snap

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"If alarm bells ring when you meet someone, run, don't walk."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love hurts

Snap

isn't that a song?

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

Fail to prepare prepare to fail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That 80% of people saying that they're kinky aren't even close to kinky

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Don't gamble as the house always wins

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By *ripodius WillyusMan
over a year ago

Here and there

Think with head not my cock thats one nutter I should never had met.

Harsh lesson but good life lesson.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Jaffa cakes taste awful and are evil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what you allow is what will continue....

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

To be careful answering the telephone whilst ironing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what you allow is what will continue...."

That's very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A narcissist will never change

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

My dad always said that driving lessons were required to get you through the test and then you learn to drive, did I listen? 2 weeks after passing I did a full barrel roll in my car

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

That the grass isn’t always greener on the other side

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

"A narcissist will never change

I agree. and I also think that.....hang on a minute , I just need to check myself in the mirror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t rely on friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A narcissist will never change

I agree. and I also think that.....hang on a minute , I just need to check myself in the mirror "

I've definitely learned the hard way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://youtu.be/_b7bgtu2O4E

This is how i motivate myself when i need to fight for a win or a target

Still to this day goosiiiiiies

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

"A narcissist will never change

I agree. and I also think that.....hang on a minute , I just need to check myself in the mirror

I've definitely learned the hard way

I agree . Trouble with narcissists is , you never know when they're going to light the next fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A narcissist will never change

I agree. and I also think that.....hang on a minute , I just need to check myself in the mirror

I've definitely learned the hard way

I agree . Trouble with narcissists is , you never know when they're going to light the next fire."

Yep light the fire & fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live your life your way, as there's always someone who's not going to like qhat you're doing and pass judgment anyways.

Also... beware of "friends" taking shit behind your back.

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By *itygamesMan
over a year ago

"That not everyone you think of as a friend thinks of you the same way.... more what they can get out of you. "

100% this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone you are a friend to is a friend to you.

Don't wear a thong when visiting a chiropractor for treatment.

When your partner is physically abusive to you, leave them the first time.

Turkish Delight doesn't taste nice in any form.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hard way is normally the best way

Do it nice or do it twice

Appreciate the little things

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

"A narcissist will never change

I agree. and I also think that.....hang on a minute , I just need to check myself in the mirror

I've definitely learned the hard way

I agree . Trouble with narcissists is , you never know when they're going to light the next fire.

Yep light the fire & fuck off

Really does sound like it affected you badly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A narcissist will never change

Is this about me?

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

"A narcissist will never change

Is this about me?

I don't know how you can look yourself in the mirror after saying that

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