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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

We all know legally at 18 you are classed as an adult but did you feel like one at 18 or were you younger or older??

I know some will say they have never grown up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know legally at 18 you are classed as an adult but did you feel like one at 18 or were you younger or older??

I know some will say they have never grown up x"

Don’t remember tbh, long time ago

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

I honestly still do not feel like a grown up. Maybe i will when i hit 40? X

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I went to war at 18… I grew up quickly..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel the stress of one but im still even after all my crap very childish

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

I wasn't adult adult until my mid 20s.

At 18 I knew nothing (Jon Snow)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shall let you know as soon as i do grow up

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Married at 16 and first baby at 17 but still feel same in my mind as back then just a bit wiser! Or maybe not ha ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I grew up when I gave birth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I felt like an adult at 18. Voted in a GE on my 18th birthday. And felt really mature. I’d had a job before that and was really quite sensible anyway but voting was when I really felt like a grown up.

And more recently being a parent and a responsible adult that kids come to at parties when something happens has made me feel doubly grown up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was still very immature. I think I grew up and felt like an adult early 20’s. Before that I thought I was invincible and nothing mattered. No concerns etc, and not really any direction.

I was a dick.

*nobody needs to reply to that last line thank you.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Oh at 18 I knew everything and was invincible. I had no fear and hurled myself into unsuitable situation after unsuitable situation with absolute abandon. Of course I was an adult. I was the adultiest adult who ever adulted.

It was only in my 30s that I started to get some perspective and truly see my behaviour in context for what it was. I was just so desperately young and naive in my 20s that it makes me sad for that young me. Poor cow.

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By *ueenpersephoneWoman
over a year ago

yorkshire

I didn’t feel like one, I think most of us are pretending at being grown up.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think I was much more grown up than I am now! I had a wife & kid at 19, a great job, a pension, my own house and had travelled the world.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

I think certain life events make people grown up faster than others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no infact I am 34 and still dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t feel like one, I think most of us are pretending at being grown up. "

I agree with this I'm 46 now but I still feel like 18 now and back then it didn't feel very adult at all.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"We all know legally at 18 you are classed as an adult but did you feel like one at 18 or were you younger or older??

I know some will say they have never grown up x"

At 18 I thought I was grown up but looking back I am not so sure I was.

In my early twenties I was considered to have a mature head on my shoulders it's why Alexis married me but as I have gotten older I seem to have gone backwards I the maturity stakes.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I get to play with boobs. Grown up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve still not grown up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think certain life events make people grown up faster than others x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think certain life events make people grown up faster than others x"

Exactly this, I had to grow up way before my adult years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grown up, No!

Matured, Yes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I was all grown up. Full time job at 16 yrs old, bought my 1st house at 19 yrs old, engaged and married at 21 yrs old. I thought I knew it and was doing the right things in life. How wrong was I. I would do it all differently.

As for feeling grown up, nahhh, some days I'm just like a big kid

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I recall very clearly the first time I felt grown up, it was on my 7th birthday.

I was fairly immature as a teen but grew up fairly fast when I left home at 18.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 34, married with kids and have a mortgage and still don’t feel like an adult. I have to pretend sometimes but I don’t think I’ll ever truly grow up.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’d left home by 18, so had responsibilities of rent etc. I was more a grown up adult, serious at times, than I am now.

My friends say I’m getting younger in my ways as I get older…… maybe. I just see it as I’ve learnt how to manage life’s stresses, they don’t consume me, so I can give myself that freedom to let my hair down & enjoy life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to leave a bad situ at home when I was 18 and set up house with my first wife, was also in a military environment at work. Certainly was adult at that time, now stuck feeling around 34 years old mentally (Tony).... Cherry feels like she's still in her 40's mentally (she says thats when 'fun' started for her )

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