FabSwingers.com forum: What do you think of me; debrief

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

After my thread last night and today, for those of you who took part, do you think that the impressions that others have of you are fair? Do you think that they reflect you as a person/people and did some people surprise you with how much they read into your posts?

Was it a positive or negative experience for you?

Pop your thoughts and reactions down here folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got some really lovely comments, but also some comments which have made me think, not negative at all, but just things to ponder.

I always enjoy taking part in these threads, and I think there’s always thinking points on both sides

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Positive because it was more of a reciprocated thing - I dislike when it's one sided and solely focused on the other. I'm a needy bitch hence why I join in.

No, being more serious, I enjoyed it. I'm naturally curious, enjoy reading how others view and respond to things. It's perception, nothing more and an interesting one at that.

I did enjoy one particular message, very much so, because it allowed us to discuss a few things, I think we both have a better understanding of each other and I have a lot of respect for him (yep that's you Mr PB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was pleasantly surprised.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

As per usual it was interesting. One message really has made me ponder about myself and I need to do a bit of re-evaluation, which is all good.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Very positive and spot on how people see me in real life! So must come across same on here which is pleasing! I am an open book x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only got the one message, but the one I got was very good and quite reassuring that my profile is a decent one( which is always a plus)

Now i know it must be my opening messages that are utter tripe...but at least I know half the puzzle now

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I told someone I thought they were nice. They didn’t seem to like that

It was nice to reach out to people I haven’t or wouldn’t otherwise engage with.

But no one told me anything I didn’t already know. I am fucking awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had positive messages.. But interestingly some were from opposite ends of the spectrum, which i guess is because they see me on different threads - upbeat/funny or serious/heavy

It was a great experience and i interacted with some new (to me) forumites, which is always good!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I think no one thinks anything of me

However, I now like myself (never used to) and think I behave in a way I'm proud of, and that is all that really matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I told someone I thought they were nice. They didn’t seem to like that

It was nice to reach out to people I haven’t or wouldn’t otherwise engage with.

But no one told me anything I didn’t already know. I am fucking awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was suprised at the volume of messages to be honest, didn't realise people take notice of me that much. It's amazing how some people can get you spot on and I appreciate everything that was said so thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I received nothing but can't complain as I didn't send any messages, I don't feel I know enough of those I noticed posting for me to make a judgement, only thing I could consider messaging was that I appreciated postings of some, but that felt a little sycophantic, so didn't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The replies I got were nice. And all were pretty spot in. Some things I know about myself already but nice to think people think of me in a good way. (Or they are fibbing)

Good fun op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent a handful out and had a handful in too, quite interesting to get the perspective of strangers at the end of a keyboard on how you’re perceived from what you say and do online when people can’t see your body language or tone of voice and they’re dependent on words alone!

I found it a positive experience and I’ll do it again - thanks (again!) to everyone who messaged, I really appreciate it!

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

I got one message about my boobs, rather than anything personality based, so nothing to think on, but will always appreciate a compliment.

MJ x

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

I inly got two messages, one expected and one was a nice message, so no real opinions to reflect on

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Didn’t get a comment lol

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I got called an arsehole.

….and I wasn’t even on the thread.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I only recieved replies to the messages I sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got called an arsehole.

….and I wasn’t even on the thread."

I get called that at least twice a day...and not on fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a few messages, was nice to get some not regarding looks, but more as they see me as a person. One lovely one picked up on things I’ve shared and some insight into that, it made me smile

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

not local even if it says I am

I really enjoyed it and was surprised by some people that took time out to message (it was a lovely message too)

Thanks

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Didn’t get a comment lol

I never do on these (I am pretty invisible though so it would shock me if anyone had an opinion!), but all the messages I sent were received in the spirit they were intended, so it was all good.

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