FabSwingers.com forum: Are you positive or are you realistic?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You can only be one. Which one are you? Tell us!

Please show working out. And mail me your homework if you haven’t already. (French or Saunders thread).

It is almost exam season

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither im a daydreamer

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Doom.

Doom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't you be both? I am realistic, but also positive!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am sarcastic does that count

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

So positive, my vanilla friends always joke that I try to turn most situations into a positive. Which can be annoying if they really wanted to bitch about life.

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Definitley realistic. That way you dont get too disappointed, but you might be pleasantly surprised. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So positive, my vanilla friends always joke that I try to turn most situations into a positive. Which can be annoying if they really wanted to bitch about life. "

What about your mint choc chip friends?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't you be both? I am realistic, but also positive!? "
oh go on then

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The clue is in the name

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I am a positive realist.

Things may be shit or may be amazing, but all things will pass and in the long run not much that I go through really matters. May as well just enjoy myself along the way.

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"So positive, my vanilla friends always joke that I try to turn most situations into a positive. Which can be annoying if they really wanted to bitch about life.

What about your mint choc chip friends?

Oooh they always get me into trouble so tend to only meet up once a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm positively realistic ??

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By *elight 99Woman
over a year ago

richmond

Definitely realistic

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Both

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I'm both the glass is always half full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realistic. Doesn't mean I'm not positive or that I'm all doom and gloom but I also don't think if I wish hard enough, a flying unicorn will shit rainbows in the sky.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Realistic. Doesn't mean I'm not positive or that I'm all doom and gloom but I also don't think if I wish hard enough, a flying unicorn will shit rainbows in the sky.

Px"

Conversely, I often look for flying rainbow poop and always pack a brolly just in case

E x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realistic

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

A bit of both. Stay positive but stay realistic.

Allll about managing those expectations.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I'm both but shall choose positive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It aint easy being cheesey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positive - always turn a negative into a positive which makes me annoying AF

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Initially positive.

But having 'seen' the recent performance of our new Fab Mayor I have a realisation that she's as much use as tits on a fish.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm positively realistic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a bright side

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I’m a cynical and pessimistic realist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t choose one either. I am mostly positive, but also a realist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna go with realistic. An overly optimistic or pessimistic approach to life risks missing opportunities. If you're too pessimistic you won't take them when offered because, well, what's the point? If you're too optimistic you'll ignore them as why make the effort when everything will work out just fine anyway?

Realistic means setting the world as it is not as you believe it to be.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m positive, we create what we imagine, there’s no place for realism when creating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm positive about realistic goals

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