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Do men and women differ in the bedroom?

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I would say yes they are, this may be obvious to you, because there are different parts involved, so yes, in that sense it is.

However the difference is actually more psychological than it is psychical, while men are more stimulated by visual, women tend to be more sensitive to touch and emotions, would you agree with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm stimulated by kissing personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m stimulated by both really x obviously I feel like If I have that chemistry with the person, that’d make it extra special

But I mean if he’s a super fittie… I can still open my legs for him ya know …

Whoops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone once said ‘men are visual and women like words, This is why women put on make up and why men lie.’

*can’t remember who, I think it was a comedian

I can be different depending who I am with. (I explain a little on my profile ) I’m actually quite sensitive, but damn put a gorgeous sexy mind infront of me and damn. Grrrrrr.

And then their is when I feel damn horny and ready to prove my manly power, and she just looks beautiful, then all sensual me appears. It’s all good though isn’t it?

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"I would say yes they are, this may be obvious to you, because there are different parts involved, so yes, in that sense it is.

However the difference is actually more psychological than it is psychical, while men are more stimulated by visual, women tend to be more sensitive to touch and emotions, would you agree with that? "

You could generalise and say that yet even within the same sex there can be huge differences... Cherry has been known to not be attracted to others (visual) yet also known to warm to them and consider intimacy after spending time together. On the other hand she is often driven by first sight visual attraction (especially in clubs or while out and about)... Many men are visual yes, but Tony is also a man of deep feeling. He is very tactile and loves giving and receiving lots of affection, stroking, caressing, even if it isn’t returned in the same amount or doesn't lead to full sex. He has also been known to NOT be stimulated by the sight of a particular woman yet warm to her in time and become intimate... We are NOT all the same and have often found that during meets we've had over the years

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I’m stimulated by both really x obviously I feel like If I have that chemistry with the person, that’d make it extra special

But I mean if he’s a super fittie… I can still open my legs for him ya know …

Whoops "
That is good and yes, it could be with both as well

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

Its a proven fact that the majority of men are turned on more than women by visual stimulisation e.g porn,magazines and sexy lingerie

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Someone once said ‘men are visual and women like words, This is why women put on make up and why men lie.’

*can’t remember who, I think it was a comedian

I can be different depending who I am with. (I explain a little on my profile ) I’m actually quite sensitive, but damn put a gorgeous sexy mind infront of me and damn. Grrrrrr.

And then their is when I feel damn horny and ready to prove my manly power, and she just looks beautiful, then all sensual me appears. It’s all good though isn’t it? "
Yes and yes, it also depends who one is with too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe there are some differences between men and women, not just in the bedroom but wherever they are.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I would say yes they are, this may be obvious to you, because there are different parts involved, so yes, in that sense it is.

However the difference is actually more psychological than it is psychical, while men are more stimulated by visual, women tend to be more sensitive to touch and emotions, would you agree with that?

You could generalise and say that yet even within the same sex there can be huge differences... Cherry has been known to not be attracted to others (visual) yet also known to warm to them and consider intimacy after spending time together. On the other hand she is often driven by first sight visual attraction (especially in clubs or while out and about)... Many men are visual yes, but Tony is also a man of deep feeling. He is very tactile and loves giving and receiving lots of affection, stroking, caressing, even if it isn’t returned in the same amount or doesn't lead to full sex. He has also been known to NOT be stimulated by the sight of a particular woman yet warm to her in time and become intimate... We are NOT all the same and have often found that during meets we've had over the years "
That is good and yes, there could be huge differences as well

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Depends how things went outside of the bedroom first.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Its a proven fact that the majority of men are turned on more than women by visual stimulisation e.g porn,magazines and sexy lingerie "
Yes and you are right there as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I think so. Women leave their panties and smalls all over the place and complain that men are messy. Men hang an item up and say that be OK for another day after wearing it once.

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