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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It will be my 9th general anaesthetic and it still scares me!

Any tips on getting over the fear?

I already can’t wait to eat food!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t any tips but wish you all the best and speedy recovery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck

The last time I was under I was 5 so can't really help you

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Firstly, hope all goes well.

I’ve had more than my share of operations for various reasons , but I use slow breathing to calm down, we are all different but that helps me.

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By *omptationMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"It will be my 9th general anaesthetic and it still scares me!

Any tips on getting over the fear?

I already can’t wait to eat food! "

Best of luck for the op! I'm sure it'll all be fine

As for anaesthetic, just try and look forward to it... you'll feel all loopy for a few seconds and then the next thing you know it'll be all over and you'll be waking up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone

I’ll ask for the pre med and hopefully that will help. Looking forward to it being over!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It will be my 9th general anaesthetic and it still scares me!

Any tips on getting over the fear?

I already can’t wait to eat food!

Best of luck for the op! I'm sure it'll all be fine

As for anaesthetic, just try and look forward to it... you'll feel all loopy for a few seconds and then the next thing you know it'll be all over and you'll be waking up"

I can’t look forward to it, it petrifies me every time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just here to send love.

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Pre-med and trying to relax - breathing exercises, focus on something else (easier said than done, I know)

Hope the surgery goes well OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv no tips i cant do surgeries hope all goes well for you

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Good luck

. I’ve never ever had a general!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently had general anesthetic and my advice is to look forward to the bit when you go in the little room with the anesthetist because they will give you the magic medicine (head out of the gutter peeps) which I flipping adore. That moment of utter relaxation, calmness and you drift off to the land of nod.

I am almost envious now.

Best wishes for a good recovery post OP, and listen to your body regarding rest.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good luck

. I’ve never ever had a general!"

No way!!! That’s amazing! I can’t seem to stop having them (although the majority were not through choice!)

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By *omptationMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"It will be my 9th general anaesthetic and it still scares me!

Any tips on getting over the fear?

I already can’t wait to eat food!

Best of luck for the op! I'm sure it'll all be fine

As for anaesthetic, just try and look forward to it... you'll feel all loopy for a few seconds and then the next thing you know it'll be all over and you'll be waking up

I can’t look forward to it, it petrifies me every time!!"

I know what you mean, but just try to focus on the fact that once its done, its done, and no need to worry after that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone.

I’m in safe hands I’m sure

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Good luck. Hope that you recover quickly.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"Thanks everyone.

I’m in safe hands I’m sure

Best of luck OP, went through it myself last month for the first time. It went far better than expected. The anticipation is always the worst part. Mrs x

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Ahhhh good luck...literally 8 years ago tomorrow I Nilly had surgery (and willy 8 weeks ago), as I was drifting off I thought...I must think of my children...woke having dreamt about my wellies ....

You're in safe hands...enjoy the after op meds and give yourself plenty of recovery time

Lots of love

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Just accept and be extremely pleased you are anxious.

It's a very normal reaction, good luck, you'll be fine

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Just think of why you are having one and the end result. I've had too many to count so they don't phase me now.

Wishing you a speedy recovery x

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Just think of why you are having one and the end result. I've had too many to count so they don't phase me now.

Wishing you a speedy recovery x"

Totally agree with this xx Don’t do what I did last time though & book an expensive trip away whilst not fully lucid

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone

I’ll ask for the pre med and hopefully that will help. Looking forward to it being over! "

I had many ops as a child and the pre-med was my favourite part, as an adult had a few ops but never been given or offered a pre-med - I feel truly robbed!!

Speak to the anaesthetist about your fear and they should calm you. Wishing you a speedy recovery x

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

All the best to you and a good and speedy recovery

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

All the best to you and a good and speedy recovery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Concentrate on your breathing. You'll get through this. I hope you have a speedy recovery.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou everyone, you’re all the best!

I had a nice dose of midazolam before my last surgery and that was very enjoyable! I will be requesting that again for sure!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Sending you a hug and good luck. X

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By *unfriendly 123Man
over a year ago

boston

"It will be my 9th general anaesthetic and it still scares me!

Any tips on getting over the fear?

I already can’t wait to eat food! "
good luck and hope all goes well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck OP and enjoy it as much as you can. I’m one of the odd ones that really enjoy it and I’ve had a few over the years. It feels like the only time I get a decent sleep

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good luck OP and enjoy it as much as you can. I’m one of the odd ones that really enjoy it and I’ve had a few over the years. It feels like the only time I get a decent sleep

I know what you mean, I strangely enjoy having procedures and being in hospital - someone looks after me for a change!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh best of luck! xx

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the best lovely x

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Wishing you all the best and a speedy recovery.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck OP, hope all goes well x

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

Just look on it that you're going to have a lovely restful sleep. Hope it all goes well and you recover quickly.

Hope you have some handsome doctors to distract you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou all!

You can keep the hot dr’s, the last one I fucked was a nightmare!!! Haha

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

"Thankyou all!

You can keep the hot dr’s, the last one I fucked was a nightmare!!! Haha "

Ohhhh, maybe not then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thankyou all!

You can keep the hot dr’s, the last one I fucked was a nightmare!!! Haha

Ohhhh, maybe not then

Haha maybe just a little look then, if I must

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"Thankyou all!

You can keep the hot dr’s, the last one I fucked was a nightmare!!! Haha

Ohhhh, maybe not then

We know a woman doctor who was shagging a male doctor who it turns out had poisoned his two other girlfriends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thankyou all!

You can keep the hot dr’s, the last one I fucked was a nightmare!!! Haha

Ohhhh, maybe not then

We know a woman doctor who was shagging a male doctor who it turns out had poisoned his two other girlfriends "

Funny you should say that, the only time in my life that I’ve been spiked was by a surgeon that I was sleeping with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope all goes well lovely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All the best.

Ta la

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hope all goes well lovely.

Thankyou lovely

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I always look forward to the recovery time after an operation (although last time I was very uncomfortable and couldn't sleep in any position).

It's nice to leave all the responsibilities indoors to someone else for a change.

I've never worried about being anaesthetised, thankfully.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Look for the most good looking in the room and picture them naked it will take your mind of what is happening

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"Thankyou all!

You can keep the hot dr’s, the last one I fucked was a nightmare!!! Haha

Ohhhh, maybe not then

We know a woman doctor who was shagging a male doctor who it turns out had poisoned his two other girlfriends

Funny you should say that, the only time in my life that I’ve been spiked was by a surgeon that I was sleeping with."

Thankfully he is in prison!

I (Mark) went for a camera down the throat one time and they sedated me no issue at all, but when I woke up there was a nun bending over me asking me if she was in the right place, for a moment I thought I had died and all that religious nonsense was true! She just wanted to know what ward it was! Completely true.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Wishing you a speedy recovery

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thankyou all!

You can keep the hot dr’s, the last one I fucked was a nightmare!!! Haha

Ohhhh, maybe not then

We know a woman doctor who was shagging a male doctor who it turns out had poisoned his two other girlfriends

Funny you should say that, the only time in my life that I’ve been spiked was by a surgeon that I was sleeping with.

Thankfully he is in prison!

Omg!!!

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"Thankyou all!

You can keep the hot dr’s, the last one I fucked was a nightmare!!! Haha

Ohhhh, maybe not then

We know a woman doctor who was shagging a male doctor who it turns out had poisoned his two other girlfriends

Funny you should say that, the only time in my life that I’ve been spiked was by a surgeon that I was sleeping with.

Thankfully he is in prison!

Omg!!! "

Promise it’s true. Very funny too. I think I uttered bad language….

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

The only hot doctor I've had attending me was when I had my first baby.

I'd had stitches and he had to check them, in front of some student doctors and the nurse.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

My advice would be to concentrate on your breathing as they wheel you in.

Take slow, deep breaths into the bottom of your lungs, as you think about something or someone who makes you happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have any tips other than just think you’ve been fine with all the other, wish you the best of luck and speedy recovery x

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By *ola xWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry Shropshire

"It will be my 9th general anaesthetic and it still scares me!

Any tips on getting over the fear?

I already can’t wait to eat food! "

Good luck for today xx

It's mine tomorrow. I understand. I'm scared. Keeping myself busy so I don't think about it. Probs get no sleep tonight.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"It will be my 9th general anaesthetic and it still scares me!

Any tips on getting over the fear?

I already can’t wait to eat food!

Good luck for today xx

It's mine tomorrow. I understand. I'm scared. Keeping myself busy so I don't think about it. Probs get no sleep tonight. "

Breathing exercises tonight. Say hello to oswestry I used to be based there !

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Only recently had local anesthetic so no real tips but wanted to wish you good luck for the surgery. Hope it all goes smoothly and the recovery is quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best wishes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

My last surgery took more than 7 hours and involved my heart coming out of my body and I’m fine so genuinely you will be fine. Anaesthesia is far better than the alternative! I found chatting to the people taking me down and in the theatre quite amusing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My last surgery took more than 7 hours and involved my heart coming out of my body and I’m fine so genuinely you will be fine. Anaesthesia is far better than the alternative! I found chatting to the people taking me down and in the theatre quite amusing "

Wow! Well my heart is hopefully staying inside my body today so you have given me hope! Glad you’re ok

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Wow! Well my heart is hopefully staying inside my body today so you have given me hope! Glad you’re ok

It went back in after, but they couldn’t do anything about my face or small Willy!

Although I also had plastic surgery twice….lol

Sorry just trying to lighten the waiting time! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow! Well my heart is hopefully staying inside my body today so you have given me hope! Glad you’re ok

It went back in after, but they couldn’t do anything about my face or small Willy!

Although I also had plastic surgery twice….lol

Sorry just trying to lighten the waiting time! Xx"

Haha I appreciate it

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton