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To wink or not to wink

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's seems 50/50 whether they like it or not. Some say they will block you. Confused??

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they say they will block you don’t wink…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I’ll be lazy and send a wink, I do look at mine and have either winked back or sent a message, I do think its an easy way to show a bit of interest however completely understand why some don’t like or look at them

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"If they say they will block you don’t wink… "

OP, heed this excellent advice and you won't go wrong!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Wink, what's the worst that can happen?

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By *uckyNineMan
over a year ago

prescot

I like a wink, better that than being a copy and paste message bandit. If I get a wink back then I’ll send a (non copy and pasted) message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they say they will block you don’t wink… "

…….. I wink …..

Gives them something to do rather dictate to everyone

*rule breaker runs back down the corridor in his trainers knocking on all the classroom doors

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By *ookie doughMan
over a year ago

leic

I think the wink system is a good one personally. But if someone states that they don't respond to them then there's no point in sending one.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

I ignore winks…. Just think there lazy… so I never acknowledge

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

I don't look at winks although if you do look at someone's profile you can see that they have winked which is an indication that they may have interest in you.

I still don't usually notice until after a message though .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have read my profile it shouldn't be a question.

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By *amdenfunMan
over a year ago

London

winks are great - like trying to catch someone's eye in a bar.

but does one reply with a wink, leaving it for them to elaborate on their interest, or a message?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"winks are great - like trying to catch someone's eye in a bar.

but does one reply with a wink, leaving it for them to elaborate on their interest, or a message?"

Up to you.

We've received a number of winks, we assume off the back of this thread. We winked back to acknowledge them

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By *uce1977Woman
over a year ago

Suffolk coast

If winked i go view their profile, but sometimes theres just tto mamy winks. I prefer a little message.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I like winks but if it's from a blank profile I don't see the point, not so keen of its from a cock picture profile either but that's just me

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By *uce1977Woman
over a year ago

Suffolk coast


"I like winks but if it's from a blank profile I don't see the point, not so keen of its from a cock picture profile either but that's just me"

Totally agree, if winked I want something that's going to draw me in.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk


"I like winks but if it's from a blank profile I don't see the point, not so keen of its from a cock picture profile either but that's just me

Totally agree, if winked I want something that's going to draw me in. "

Exactly

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

I think a wink can be taken in 2 ways, either laziness with no imagination to start a conversation or the person is shy ( not all people are confident in an approach , for numerous reasons ) always worth a look at profile to try figure out which it may be.

I would never wink at anyone that specifies on there profile not too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send winks not because I am lazy but sure there are many messages to wade through for some and then hope that the profile will capture their imagination

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

I've done my fair share of winking. It's just the total randomness of receiving a reply. You can write half an essay, but you won't get a reply. So sometimes it's just a wink. Seeing as both are ignored I'd say each works as well as the other, i.e. not at all.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I never get any notifications so I just looked and I have loads of winks! I feel really bad for not seeing them. Im sorry if you winked me and I didn't wink back. Should I toss a sheep at you as penance?

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

A wink is a nice way of saying your interested. If you go out you eye someone up with a little flirt so whats wrong with a little wink. It's just an ice breaker between 2 people. People on here that say don't look at winks they're lazy, send a message etc....they're just up em selfs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there's anything to be gained by winking to be fair. I read the profile and if I feel like I meet what she's looking for then I send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink just shows your intrested, if we like the profile we message back.

If we get a wink from a profile that's just not for us we just delete, the block tends to be seldom used tbh.

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By *el13ABCMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

If I like a profile I'll send a wink always thank people for there winks only polite

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By *he MinionMan
over a year ago

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I wink. If i get a wink back then message. If i dont get one back i just admire from afar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never looked at my winks so don't wink me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not get many but I do not mind a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wink, I have a natural nervous twitch in my left eye

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Some people like winks as a "Hi, I'm interested, are you?", some hate them, and even more don't pay any attention to them at all

LvM

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By *he MinionMan
over a year ago

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By *he MinionMan
over a year ago

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"[Wink removed by poster at 27/04/22 18:32:49]"

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I like getting a wink. If I like them I'll follow up with a message.

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Love a good wink

MJ x

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

I usually forget to even look at them, until a thread like this comes along! I never send them either.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a wink...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like getting a wink. If I like them I'll follow up with a message. "

Me too..

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Perfect a message, although if I get winked at I'll see who did it - mostly though I don't respond to one

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Wink away...what's the harm ...it might make someone's day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a wink... "

I think just making yourself accessible to 20000 winks is now inevitable

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"I like getting a wink. If I like them I'll follow up with a message.

Me too.. "

Worth a try

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