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"I agree that you should grab chances for happiness but it isn't always down to what you can do. For example I joined this site wanting to add to my otherwise stagnating life but obviously just joining isn't going to result in anything without someone else. Also carrot goes well with lamb." You joined a site, that is only one step towards what you want not the end of the journey. | |||
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"I agree that you should grab chances for happiness but it isn't always down to what you can do. For example I joined this site wanting to add to my otherwise stagnating life but obviously just joining isn't going to result in anything without someone else. Also carrot goes well with lamb. You joined a site, that is only one step towards what you want not the end of the journey." Indeed, but if it were a journey I could make alone joining the site wouldn't be necessary at all. I'm still making the effort and staying hopeful until the next step is made possible but we all need others to proceed in life. | |||
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"I agree that you should grab chances for happiness but it isn't always down to what you can do. For example I joined this site wanting to add to my otherwise stagnating life but obviously just joining isn't going to result in anything without someone else. Also carrot goes well with lamb. You joined a site, that is only one step towards what you want not the end of the journey. Indeed, but if it were a journey I could make alone joining the site wouldn't be necessary at all. I'm still making the effort and staying hopeful until the next step is made possible but we all need others to proceed in life." I look at it that you have two choices: 1 - think about what else you can do to make it happen....... and there are plenty of options there.... and do it. 2 - sit back and think, well I'm doing something the rest is down to everyone else. I can drive, have a track license and own a helmet... I am not expecting Red Bull or McLaren to turn up anytime soon. It's your journey... you need to do the walking to get there. There is only one person who loses out if you don't. | |||
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" We are all capable of putting things off, sometimes indefinitely. We make excuses to ourselves more than others as to why we can’t do something right now. The saddest thing of all is they are things that will likely make us feel happy. I’ll wait until New Year to start that or stop that. I love that top but it’s too good for just wearing down to the shop. I’ll save those shoes for a special occasion. I’ll look for a change of career soon. I’ll do that course one day. I’d love to learn to do that… may be one day. What if that day in the distance doesn’t come? Events like Hurricane Sandy and all the other shit going on in the world should make us think and live our life to the full every day in one way or another. It doesn’t need to be big things, the small things matter just as much. I was wondering what to have for lunch and part of me started thinking “I can’t do a rack of lamb full roast for a Tuesday lunch”… but another part of me said “why not?” Why do I need to save it if I want it now and can have it now? Why does lunch need to be light and a bigger meal in the evening? Sometimes it’s like we are telling ourselves we don’t deserve a feel good moment each and every time we put off the things which can give us a happy feeling. A friend of mine bought a new suit in the sales one year, it was a really nice suit and she loved it. “I’m saving it for something special” she said “too good for everyday wear at work” she said. By the time she got around to thinking the day was special enough to wear it… it didn’t fit. She lost the chance to enjoy the happiness of wearing it. Big or small……. you do yourself an injustice by, in so many words, saying you don’t deserve it right now. Now what veggies shall I have with this rack of lamb? " Follow your own philosophy!..just have one vegetable with your rack of lamb..maybe some purple sprouting broccoli with mint butter..have a light starter or fruit/cheese course..why do we have to a load of veg with a meat? | |||
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