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"I think in a way it’s the opposite OP Fresh meat and all that BG" Yep. You've not turned down people, they've not turned down you etc. The amount of messages new women get! | |||
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"Is that thing? Meet? " Yeah socials??? | |||
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"I think in a way it’s the opposite OP Fresh meat and all that BG Yep. You've not turned down people, they've not turned down you etc. The amount of messages new women get! " Yeah I can understand that the ratio on here is crazy. | |||
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"Naaa im not having that dude" Just a general thought ? | |||
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"I think in a way it’s the opposite OP Fresh meat and all that BG" | |||
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"No. You just learn the best way to approach people and how to ‘sell’ yourself. There’s still a lot of rejection and it’s still hard work at times" Understood completely buddy it’s how I put myself out there. | |||
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"No. You just learn the best way to approach people and how to ‘sell’ yourself. There’s still a lot of rejection and it’s still hard work at times" I agree. There is a lot of noise so sometimes it's a case of ceiving through messages with a lot of patience | |||
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"No. You just learn the best way to approach people and how to ‘sell’ yourself. There’s still a lot of rejection and it’s still hard work at times I agree. There is a lot of noise so sometimes it's a case of ceiving through messages with a lot of patience" Yeah I can see that the ratio between men and women is . | |||
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"Is that thing? Meet? Yeah socials??? " I'm a closet hermit | |||
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"No. You just learn the best way to approach people and how to ‘sell’ yourself. There’s still a lot of rejection and it’s still hard work at times" This. And I think you hone what and who you're looking for. | |||
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"No. You just learn the best way to approach people and how to ‘sell’ yourself. There’s still a lot of rejection and it’s still hard work at times" I would say this too. It's just you'll quickly learn to see what people you get along with and to take rejection on the chin though | |||
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"I think in a way it’s the opposite OP Fresh meat and all that BG Yep. You've not turned down people, they've not turned down you etc. The amount of messages new women get! " Exactly a lot is instant attraction through intrigue and/or mystery which diminishing over time | |||
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"I think in a way it’s the opposite OP Fresh meat and all that BG Yep. You've not turned down people, they've not turned down you etc. The amount of messages new women get! Exactly a lot is instant attraction through intrigue and/or mystery which diminishing over time" m This. If people don’t meet quickly, i asume with history, the spark and electric attraction fizzles out. They move onto other ‘new’ toy. Not me, I’m patient - gives me more time to plan my attack | |||
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"No. You just learn the best way to approach people and how to ‘sell’ yourself. There’s still a lot of rejection and it’s still hard work at times This. And I think you hone what and who you're looking for. " What do you mean ??? | |||
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"No. You just learn the best way to approach people and how to ‘sell’ yourself. There’s still a lot of rejection and it’s still hard work at times I would say this too. It's just you'll quickly learn to see what people you get along with and to take rejection on the chin though " Always, just thinking because of my age or I don’t know could be doing something wrong ? But it’s just fab in general. I’ve managing to meet quite a lot of people now which makes it easier to understand how this world is. | |||
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"The longer I've been on, the less I meet because you learn to see through the bullshit x" And this. | |||
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"The longer I've been on, the less I meet because you learn to see through the bullshit x" I came on here because I foolishly thought the people would be less disingenuous haha xx | |||
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"The longer I've been on, the less I meet because you learn to see through the bullshit x" bulls shit is invisible Careful where you walk folks | |||
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"The longer I've been on, the less I meet because you learn to see through the bullshit x" Exactly this you think people are super kind and awesome but they end up being full of themselves and liars. | |||
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"No. You just learn the best way to approach people and how to ‘sell’ yourself. There’s still a lot of rejection and it’s still hard work at times This. And I think you hone what and who you're looking for. What do you mean ??? " It's like being a kid in a sweet shop for the first time. You see all the glorious sweet things and want to try them all. But you soon realise that you can't, and that you actually might not really want to try them all, because some just don't have the appeal you thought when you were blinded by the quantity. So you figure out that you want to try either... All that you can over whatever timescale you choose. A few, hoping to find some you really like and will go back to time and again. One or two, because you find they get better the more you have. Just one. Because that's all you actually wanted. And maybe you'll see if that one, or one or two, work well with some others now and again. You figure it out. But it takes time. | |||
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"The longer I've been on, the less I meet because you learn to see through the bullshit x Exactly this you think people are super kind and awesome but they end up being full of themselves and liars. " so true x | |||
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"If anything it gets much much harder, unfortunately. Had a few meets early on, and now can't get a message or a meet to save my life. Haha " How strange | |||
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"No. You just learn the best way to approach people and how to ‘sell’ yourself. There’s still a lot of rejection and it’s still hard work at times" You also spot the fakes more easily, so don’t waste your time on them | |||
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"The longer I've been on, the less I meet because you learn to see through the bullshit x" Guess that’s what ruins it for the best of us but hopefully we get filtered out through the nonsense | |||
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"The longer I've been on, the less I meet because you learn to see through the bullshit x Exactly this you think people are super kind and awesome but they end up being full of themselves and liars. " Why taking time is key in all of this I guess | |||
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"I find the longer I'm on here the less I want to meet others if I'm honest. Too much background bullshite and disingenuous talk goes on and I get less tolerant the longer I'm on here. " Is that why clubs and socials meets are so much better ?? | |||
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"No. You just learn the best way to approach people and how to ‘sell’ yourself. There’s still a lot of rejection and it’s still hard work at times This. And I think you hone what and who you're looking for. What do you mean ??? It's like being a kid in a sweet shop for the first time. You see all the glorious sweet things and want to try them all. But you soon realise that you can't, and that you actually might not really want to try them all, because some just don't have the appeal you thought when you were blinded by the quantity. So you figure out that you want to try either... All that you can over whatever timescale you choose. A few, hoping to find some you really like and will go back to time and again. One or two, because you find they get better the more you have. Just one. Because that's all you actually wanted. And maybe you'll see if that one, or one or two, work well with some others now and again. You figure it out. But it takes time." The best way to put it bless you | |||
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"How you use fab and present yourself is what gets you meets. But actually getting out there to socials and clubs also helps. Not the amount of time you’ve been here. " Yeah that’s why I’ve got myself out there and thanks to a couple of ladies I’ve got my self into some meets at some clubs and hopefully it goes from there. Still don’t get why I’m not verified though | |||
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"In my opinion. The length of time on fab especially with 0 'met in person' verifications can also go against you as it could be perceived as to 'why this person hasn't had anything yet?' " Completely get that but I guess that comes with time ?? | |||
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"It's nice to see and share a thread with people who, like me have been here, seen that and erm done here. Hello OGs! " Basically why I put this thread out there | |||
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"We meet people off here? " I know right, apparently its a thing these day's | |||
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"We meet people off here? I know right, apparently its a thing these day's " Jesus! I wish someone had told me years ago! I've been doing it all wrong! | |||
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"It's nice to see and share a thread with people who, like me have been here, seen that and erm done here. Hello OGs! Basically why I put this thread out there " You've been here before? | |||
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"It's nice to see and share a thread with people who, like me have been here, seen that and erm done here. Hello OGs! Basically why I put this thread out there You've been here before? " Clearly not as I thought meets were a thing | |||
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"We meet people off here? I know right, apparently its a thing these day's Jesus! I wish someone had told me years ago! I've been doing it all wrong! " Well apparently self gratification is less traumatic so not totally wrong. | |||
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"Nah too many delusional women. I littlerally have no problem on tinder. I think either fakes profiles or truly delusional women. Point incase I fucked a chick of here on tinder. No on fab a sex site, fucked after a drink tinder. Women hold the power, rude hungry men don't help. Though understandable from some of these women reactions or no reaction. Thing is it's a sex site. And the women are ruining it slyly. Possibly alot of undercover insecurities and/or mental health. It's just sex aslong as it's safe and people are respectful. Most of these women ain't! " Wanker women!!!! | |||
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"Nah too many delusional women. I littlerally have no problem on tinder. I think either fakes profiles or truly delusional women. Point incase I fucked a chick of here on tinder. No on fab a sex site, fucked after a drink tinder. Women hold the power, rude hungry men don't help. Though understandable from some of these women reactions or no reaction. Thing is it's a sex site. And the women are ruining it slyly. Possibly alot of undercover insecurities and/or mental health. It's just sex aslong as it's safe and people are respectful. Most of these women ain't! " If you're doing well on Tinder then why bother with Fab? If you really believe Fab is a sex site then you probably think Tinder is a dating site too. Like POF used to be of course. Full of people looking for genuine LTR's....... A | |||
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"Fab is a sex site (swingers). I mean your just highlighting your delusion. Tinder is a dating site. Litterally I know couples off tinder and people who’ve got married. And exactly what would YOU call fab then?" Well the clue is in the name of course..... There are probably as many people on Tinder looking for nothing more than casual sex as there are on Fab. Which means there's as many using both sites for potentially the wrong reasons. Swinging isn't just about casual sex. Neither is dating. And 'literally' I know couples who have met and married via Fab, So what? Us included. A | |||
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"Definitely not. Age seems to go against you very true " Not in my experience but I tend to meet in clubs and at parties. | |||
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"How you use fab and present yourself is what gets you meets. But actually getting out there to socials and clubs also helps. Not the amount of time you’ve been here. " Exactly this. I use 'Meets, Events' to initiate a meet or bump into other Fab users at clubs and parties. I've had several meets following on from those encounters. I'm pretty new here but I'm proactive which results in meets, I believe. | |||
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"How you use fab and present yourself is what gets you meets. But actually getting out there to socials and clubs also helps. Not the amount of time you’ve been here. Exactly this. I use 'Meets, Events' to initiate a meet or bump into other Fab users at clubs and parties. I've had several meets following on from those encounters. I'm pretty new here but I'm proactive which results in meets, I believe." You obviously live in the club scene now then, and gave up on Fab completely | |||
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"Wait, what? You mean people meet on here? " Never! | |||
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"The easier it is to spot a time waster you mean " ...exactly that, and you learn to filter out what isn't a Fab match for you | |||
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"Definitely not. Bring on fab has totally killed my sex drive dead." Really? Because you get bored or have had too much? A (female) | |||
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"Definitely not. Bring on fab has totally killed my sex drive dead." It was the opposite for me. My hunger for sex again was brought back from the brink of dying off from talking to a certain woman. Her sexy mind matched mine and BOOM. I realised I did have a pulse … I still need mouth to mouth every now and then | |||
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"No. The longer I am on it, the more picky I become " Picky = preferences. Right? | |||
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"Definitely not. Bring on fab has totally killed my sex drive dead. Really? Because you get bored or have had too much? A (female)" Noooo, just over exposure to the site of dicks, the repetitive sex talk that them becomes mundane. None of it excites anymore because it’s all so saturated. | |||
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"No. The longer I am on it, the more picky I become Picky = preferences. Right? " Yes. As my likes evolve the search for like-minded souls becomes more difficult | |||
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"No. The longer I am on it, the more picky I become Picky = preferences. Right? Yes. As my likes evolve the search for like-minded souls becomes more difficult " The problem is. Likeminded doesn’t just mean we all like sex does it? And that’s what some think it means, you can’t believe how I can feel when someone can match my mind and keep up with me or take everything I have. Those that I’m lucky to connect with amaze me, and they have a loyal friend, forget that we met in a sex website forum. That why i stick around, there’s some cool people that will get each other. | |||
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