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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many messages do you get? Or how many unread do you have now?

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Too many to count. 4 unread as of now

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

A few, especially if I upload a new pic. I do try and keep up with the messages but have been slacking lately x

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

None and none.

Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero today, I think I got one yesterday

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I don't really keep count, but certainly not hundreds like a lot of women on here.

The most unread was probably about 25. But that's a rare occurrence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find if I participate in these I’m perceived to be “bragging” rather than “answering the damn question”.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I find if I participate in these I’m perceived to be “bragging” rather than “answering the damn question”. "

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

None, zero. Don't get many messages on here.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Came back on a day ago, there were 10 in my box.

Now have 85 so think my profile is finally working and people are taking the hint that if I don't know them to leave me alone (forum folk excluded)

A portion of the new ones are shitty ones mind telling me all about myself and how I'm a rancid human oxygen thief who has no right to be here.

Seeing the world through my eyes makes people uncomfortable and they don't like it, so much so they take it upon themselves to let me know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find if I participate in these I’m perceived to be “bragging” rather than “answering the damn question”. "

Well that's on those people who see it like that. I'm just curious here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got 30 haven't read today which probably be deleted later, think about 50 answered today mostly via the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Came back on a day ago, there were 10 in my box.

Now have 85 so think my profile is finally working and people are taking the hint that if I don't know them to leave me alone (forum folk excluded)

A portion of the new ones are shitty ones mind telling me all about myself and how I'm a rancid human oxygen thief who has no right to be here.

Seeing the world through my eyes makes people uncomfortable and they don't like it, so much so they take it upon themselves to let me know "

They just can't handle the truth eh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Came back on a day ago, there were 10 in my box.

Now have 85 so think my profile is finally working and people are taking the hint that if I don't know them to leave me alone (forum folk excluded)

A portion of the new ones are shitty ones mind telling me all about myself and how I'm a rancid human oxygen thief who has no right to be here.

Seeing the world through my eyes makes people uncomfortable and they don't like it, so much so they take it upon themselves to let me know "

I will never understand why people have the need to send stuff like that. They clearly have too much time on their hands. I'm a fan of your profile nice and direct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find if I participate in these I’m perceived to be “bragging” rather than “answering the damn question”.

Well that's on those people who see it like that. I'm just curious here "

Fair enough OP, but some cretin will come out of the wood work sooner or later to make unfounded accusations. I cba with my third ban in a week from the forums

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"I find if I participate in these I’m perceived to be “bragging” rather than “answering the damn question”. "

Anyone that suggests a woman is bragging by having an inbox full of blank profiles saying “FAF” has no idea how this site works

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Not many, and no unread in my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know how many I get in a day, 20 maximum maybe and none unread I like a tidy box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enough some days not enough other days

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find if I participate in these I’m perceived to be “bragging” rather than “answering the damn question”.

Well that's on those people who see it like that. I'm just curious here

Fair enough OP, but some cretin will come out of the wood work sooner or later to make unfounded accusations. I cba with my third ban in a week from the forums "

Ah that's fair and already had 2 so far. Cretins are hard at work then

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Came back on a day ago, there were 10 in my box.

Now have 85 so think my profile is finally working and people are taking the hint that if I don't know them to leave me alone (forum folk excluded)

A portion of the new ones are shitty ones mind telling me all about myself and how I'm a rancid human oxygen thief who has no right to be here.

Seeing the world through my eyes makes people uncomfortable and they don't like it, so much so they take it upon themselves to let me know

I will never understand why people have the need to send stuff like that. They clearly have too much time on their hands. I'm a fan of your profile nice and direct"

Makes em feel like they have a voice. If they can't see my profile is one of resignation at society and that of a person who's given up having hope, and instead of showing a kind nature they add fuel to the blaze that is my outlook, then, well, at least they're leaving someone else alone, someone who may still have a modicum of hope left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahaha. good one op. Good one.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

None x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Came back on a day ago, there were 10 in my box.

Now have 85 so think my profile is finally working and people are taking the hint that if I don't know them to leave me alone (forum folk excluded)

A portion of the new ones are shitty ones mind telling me all about myself and how I'm a rancid human oxygen thief who has no right to be here.

Seeing the world through my eyes makes people uncomfortable and they don't like it, so much so they take it upon themselves to let me know "

I don't want to add to your unread pileup but I glad to see you back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only five unread. I have tight filters so max 20 a day.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

19 unread at the moment but I have filters and certain options switched off to remain a little incognito

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I've set my filters really tight at the moment, due to issues. So not many at all.

If filters were down then 20 maximum. If in a forum post etc, then maybe a few more.

I'm not popular and that suits me.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Today... 46 unread. But I got my boobs out and added a new photo this morning (which added maybe 10 messages). And I haven't looked at anything in my box except messages from forum game threads for about a week. So... that is probably a grand total of 50 or so messages (not forum game related) in a week. Maybe 60.

Yeah. Women get hundreds of messages a day, so I keep reading.

Not all women

(By the way, I'm fine with not getting more messages. I'm rubbish at looking at my inbox, let alone replying)

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"How many messages do you get? Or how many unread do you have now?"

None.... er none lol . Knew a young lady who'd get around 500 a day though, she showed me her profile , most unread for obvious reasons.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Usually less than the fingers on one hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be lucky if I got one message !

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

do get some, mostly when playing postie for “ my mate fancied you “ game / topic …. currently no unread messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No women ever sends me a message.

My inbox never changes colour.

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I get as near as makes no difference zero. Unsurprisingly, I have zero unread.

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman
over a year ago

Sussex

115 unread currently.

I had about 205 the other day. Managed to get it down to about 50 and now its crept up again.

I do try and keep on top of it but it drives me a bit crazy. And I also end up missing messages I do actually want to reply too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"115 unread currently.

I had about 205 the other day. Managed to get it down to about 50 and now its crept up again.

I do try and keep on top of it but it drives me a bit crazy. And I also end up missing messages I do actually want to reply too. "

Thought you was just ignoring me

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

None unread. I only get a handful of messages a week sometimes I go days without any and that suits me.I do have very tight filters tho so they really help to stop messages. It could be that my profile doesn't appeal to others but either way it works for me on here.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"How many messages do you get? Or how many unread do you have now?"

Feck all (hopefully because people read our profile) and zero.

A

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

When I first logged on this morning I had none unread, now I've got 2 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me just check... Nope just emptiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Came back on a day ago, there were 10 in my box.

Now have 85 so think my profile is finally working and people are taking the hint that if I don't know them to leave me alone (forum folk excluded)

A portion of the new ones are shitty ones mind telling me all about myself and how I'm a rancid human oxygen thief who has no right to be here.

Seeing the world through my eyes makes people uncomfortable and they don't like it, so much so they take it upon themselves to let me know "

It’s so good to see you back!

Haters gonna hate regardless, but there is no world where abuse is acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread made me clear out my inbox- 2 hours wasted but at least it’s all tidied up now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first logged on this morning I had none unread, now I've got 2 x "

Stop answering on here, go and read them then

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"When I first logged on this morning I had none unread, now I've got 2 x

Stop answering on here, go and read them then "

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By *l6789Man
over a year ago

croydon

What’s a message

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

5 unread.

But I get loads when I open my messages

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Open my profile* not messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough , I don’t get a lot of responses but suppose people will only like what they like.

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"What’s a message "

The things I get from admin to say my site supporter pass is running out and I should give them more money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s a message

The things I get from admin to say my site supporter pass is running out and I should give them more money."

Hahaha yes. (I have a day left)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had 2 today. None unread because I usually read and reply/delete as soon as I see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

45 unread at the moment

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

My strict filters equal minimal messages

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

0 since joining last year

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Filters are marvellous things, as is the delete button.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I average a couple of messages a month and have one unread.

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By *l6789Man
over a year ago

croydon


"What’s a message

The things I get from admin to say my site supporter pass is running out and I should give them more money."

Ah yes mine ran out and I decided not to line their pockets again, makes little difference to knowing who viewed me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rare, maybe I’m just not anyones type it it’s because I live on such a small island.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Zero. Life is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

69

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Came back on a day ago, there were 10 in my box.

Now have 85 so think my profile is finally working and people are taking the hint that if I don't know them to leave me alone (forum folk excluded)

A portion of the new ones are shitty ones mind telling me all about myself and how I'm a rancid human oxygen thief who has no right to be here.

Seeing the world through my eyes makes people uncomfortable and they don't like it, so much so they take it upon themselves to let me know

I don't want to add to your unread pileup but I glad to see you back "

Same here.

This place needs some Peach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So hard to get messages here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any unread, and I don't get very many messages.

NBVN x

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Half a dozen a week at the most. We dont have any unread as we read them as soon as we see them.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Usually it's about one every week or two, assuming you mean from people we don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9,274 unread. My ego is bulging like a cock in grey joggers.

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