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By *ash69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swiss Cottage

What would be the perfect message you could receive on here a message straight to the point or a more laid back message I'm intrigued and I am aware everyone likes a different approach this is why I’m so intrigued

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"What would be the perfect message you could receive..... I am aware everyone likes a different approach "

With that question you're going to get a different answer from everyone, don't you think?

So what's perfect for one won't be for another.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One without a cock pic and more than "hi" "hows you" "I'm in the area fancy a meet"

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Perfect message?

I know you don't know me but I've chosen you as the person I'm giving my house to. I don't need it anymore. I say house, it's actually more of a stately home with acres of land and plenty of room for an animal sanctuary.

No catches, no nothing.

Don't even want a reply.

Just collect the keys and deeds from XYZ solicitors.

Enjoy your new life and fortune.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perfect message?

I know you don't know me but I've chosen you as the person I'm giving my house to. I don't need it anymore. I say house, it's actually more of a stately home with acres of land and plenty of room for an animal sanctuary.

No catches, no nothing.

Don't even want a reply.

Just collect the keys and deeds from XYZ solicitors.

Enjoy your new life and fortune."

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"What would be the perfect message you could receive on here a message straight to the point or a more laid back message I'm intrigued and I am aware everyone likes a different approach this is why I’m so intrigued "

What do you class as straight to the point

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Perfect message?

I know you don't know me but I've chosen you as the person I'm giving my house to. I don't need it anymore. I say house, it's actually more of a stately home with acres of land and plenty of room for an animal sanctuary.

No catches, no nothing.

Don't even want a reply.

Just collect the keys and deeds from XYZ solicitors.

Enjoy your new life and fortune."

Love it.

But you forgot the "oh and I left a big suitcase of cash in the kitchen. Go shopping. Buy some cake" bit....

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One that shows you have read our profile, understood it and respected our wishes.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield


"Perfect message?

I know you don't know me but I've chosen you as the person I'm giving my house to. I don't need it anymore. I say house, it's actually more of a stately home with acres of land and plenty of room for an animal sanctuary.

No catches, no nothing.

Don't even want a reply.

Just collect the keys and deeds from XYZ solicitors.

Enjoy your new life and fortune."

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Perfect message?

I know you don't know me but I've chosen you as the person I'm giving my house to. I don't need it anymore. I say house, it's actually more of a stately home with acres of land and plenty of room for an animal sanctuary.

No catches, no nothing.

Don't even want a reply.

Just collect the keys and deeds from XYZ solicitors.

Enjoy your new life and fortune.

Love it.

But you forgot the "oh and I left a big suitcase of cash in the kitchen. Go shopping. Buy some cake" bit....

A"

Knowing my luck the suitcase would contain a severed head. I'll settle for a sit on lawn mower

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"One that shows you have read our profile, understood it and respected our wishes."

Exactly this.....

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By *ash69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swiss Cottage


"What would be the perfect message you could receive..... I am aware everyone likes a different approach

With that question you're going to get a different answer from everyone, don't you think?

So what's perfect for one won't be for another.

That’s the plan it’s nice to see all the different answers like u said no two people are the same that’s what makes it so much fun

A"

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Something that piques my interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAF at x club on y event night?

Oops wrong thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing of course. Never one size fits all... I tend to hunt out folk I'm interested in myself, versus sitting around like Cinderella waiting for a bloke to rock up with 'the perfect message', or clutching a virtual shoe

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By *ash69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swiss Cottage


"Perfect message?

I know you don't know me but I've chosen you as the person I'm giving my house to. I don't need it anymore. I say house, it's actually more of a stately home with acres of land and plenty of room for an animal sanctuary.

No catches, no nothing.

Don't even want a reply.

Just collect the keys and deeds from XYZ solicitors. Now that is exactly the message I was going to send just it was a council flat on top of a Chinese shop with a built in zoo kind off lol

Enjoy your new life and fortune."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are amazing!

I want nothing from you, except for your bank details so I can transfer you seven hundred thousand pounds just because you're a perfect woman.

I will send the money and leave you alone forever and ever and just admire you from afar.

My sexiest regards,

Your biggest admirer."

But he actually has to do what he says or it isn't the perfect message

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By *ash69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swiss Cottage


"One that shows you have read our profile, understood it and respected our wishes."
show how then would you choose the right person if they all read n respect your wishes what would make that one person stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something that shows a little personality and humours always a win.

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By *ash69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swiss Cottage


"No such thing of course. Never one size fits all... I tend to hunt out folk I'm interested in myself, versus sitting around like Cinderella waiting for a bloke to rock up with 'the perfect message', or clutching a virtual shoe "

That definitely makes you one of a kind so GO you!!! X

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By *ash69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swiss Cottage


"Something that shows a little personality and humours always a win."

Now that’s what I thought my mum has always said I’m funny but I think she was lying because my humour dont seem to work lol and there’s me thinking mums no best smh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One that shows you have read our profile, understood it and respected our wishes. show how then would you choose the right person if they all read n respect your wishes what would make that one person stand out "

People can’t tell you what to write, it’s about being yourself, being polite and respectful…… the rest is all chemistry. If people read your message and you have good pictures that are not just of your cock, you will stand a better chance. The message alone does not make you stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something that shows a little personality and humours always a win.

Now that’s what I thought my mum has always said I’m funny but I think she was lying because my humour dont seem to work lol and there’s me thinking mums no best smh "

Cheer up pal. Fanny flutter by way of words isn’t. Offer cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ash69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swiss Cottage


"One that shows you have read our profile, understood it and respected our wishes. show how then would you choose the right person if they all read n respect your wishes what would make that one person stand out

People can’t tell you what to write, it’s about being yourself, being polite and respectful…… the rest is all chemistry. If people read your message and you have good pictures that are not just of your cock, you will stand a better chance. The message alone does not make you stand out."
this is so true chemistry is such a big thing I just think it can be tricky to get that over a message and regarding photos I think it’s about having a good balance xx

Also who here thinks it would be a good idea to have a feature to be able to voice message on this website??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One that displays a recognition that we are people, not just sex toys.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One that shows you have read our profile, understood it and respected our wishes. show how then would you choose the right person if they all read n respect your wishes what would make that one person stand out

People can’t tell you what to write, it’s about being yourself, being polite and respectful…… the rest is all chemistry. If people read your message and you have good pictures that are not just of your cock, you will stand a better chance. The message alone does not make you stand out. this is so true chemistry is such a big thing I just think it can be tricky to get that over a message and regarding photos I think it’s about having a good balance xx

Also who here thinks it would be a good idea to have a feature to be able to voice message on this website?????? "

You can always record and upload a video of you introduction, all the rest a just people wanking.

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By *ash69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swiss Cottage


"One that displays a recognition that we are people, not just sex toys.

Mr"

I think that’s such a good point people forget we are all still humans that cause we’re on a swinging site that does not mean we should be treated like sex toys lol x

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By *ash69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swiss Cottage


"One that shows you have read our profile, understood it and respected our wishes. show how then would you choose the right person if they all read n respect your wishes what would make that one person stand out

People can’t tell you what to write, it’s about being yourself, being polite and respectful…… the rest is all chemistry. If people read your message and you have good pictures that are not just of your cock, you will stand a better chance. The message alone does not make you stand out. this is so true chemistry is such a big thing I just think it can be tricky to get that over a message and regarding photos I think it’s about having a good balance xx

Also who here thinks it would be a good idea to have a feature to be able to voice message on this website??????

You can always record and upload a video of you introduction, all the rest a just people wanking."
that’s a really good point I may just do that but what would u say about being able to send a voice note as a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always amazed at how many guys disregard everything in our profile and still expect to get somewhere. So reading the profile is a must.

I automatically say no to anyone who obviously hasn't read it.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

A polite one, that shows they've read my profile and why they think we're compatible, with a face pic attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got to be honest, I've never received "fancy a fuck" off any women on here, but did off men till I changed my settings...I can see how horrible it is, no wonder the women just delete delete delete all the time

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Just to throw a spanner in the works of the "perfect message", I've made some great connections in the past when the first message has been "Hi".

I've also not replied to a lot of "Hi", and a lot of probably great messages, because I've not been in the right place to talk, or because I'm not looking.

There is really no such thing as the "best" message, the "perfect" message, because that changes depending on the mood, the situation and the desires of the recipient at the time.

All you can do is try. It's a pain in the arse, and it isn't fair, but it is what it is.

Sorry I can't be more help.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Just to throw a spanner in the works of the "perfect message", I've made some great connections in the past when the first message has been "Hi".

I've also not replied to a lot of "Hi", and a lot of probably great messages, because I've not been in the right place to talk, or because I'm not looking.

There is really no such thing as the "best" message, the "perfect" message, because that changes depending on the mood, the situation and the desires of the recipient at the time.

All you can do is try. It's a pain in the arse, and it isn't fair, but it is what it is.

Sorry I can't be more help."

And also... read the profile. That's the most important thing.

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By *ash69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swiss Cottage


"I'm always amazed at how many guys disregard everything in our profile and still expect to get somewhere. So reading the profile is a must.

I automatically say no to anyone who obviously hasn't read it. "

You’d think that would be the first thing someone would do actually surprising how many people dont and I actually enjoy reading them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A polite one, that shows they've read my profile and why they think we're compatible, with a face pic attached."

I tend not to read profiles but this right here

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By *ash69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swiss Cottage


"Just to throw a spanner in the works of the "perfect message", I've made some great connections in the past when the first message has been "Hi".

I've also not replied to a lot of "Hi", and a lot of probably great messages, because I've not been in the right place to talk, or because I'm not looking.

There is really no such thing as the "best" message, the "perfect" message, because that changes depending on the mood, the situation and the desires of the recipient at the time.

All you can do is try. It's a pain in the arse, and it isn't fair, but it is what it is.

Sorry I can't be more help."

And I guess that is what makes it so interesting and it is hard but I guess it’s about patients and believing in yourself and remembering the ratio on here is crazy

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