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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pretended to like something the attract someone?

I pretended to like 'indie' music & noodles to get into a cute girls knickers even went to see the killers with her.

It worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretended to like something the attract someone?

I pretended to like 'indie' music & noodles to get into a cute girls knickers even went to see the killers with her.

It worked "

Errr the killers are amazing!!!

I pretended that I could get into watching football and that I was totally cool with watching it with him

Errrr I get the hot footie players but so don’t understand the game or anything like that

Also pretended to be so into skiing when in fact, I don’t like it

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I was thinking about this the other day actually...

I haven't. I've shown interest in things I may not have been interested in particularly but that's because I am intensely curious about people. I enjoy listening to people talk about the things they enjoy and get excited about. So while my interest my not be in their interest, and it might seem as if I'm feigning it, I'm not... because I'm finding them interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife pretended to like football and Red Hot Chili Peppers when we first met. She hates them both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pretended to like something the attract someone?

I pretended to like 'indie' music & noodles to get into a cute girls knickers even went to see the killers with her.

It worked

Errr the killers are amazing!!!

I pretended that I could get into watching football and that I was totally cool with watching it with him

Errrr I get the hot footie players but so don’t understand the game or anything like that

Also pretended to be so into skiing when in fact, I don’t like it "

they arnt 'that' bad i suppose, oh god thatd be hard for me to pretend to like footy! Good effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never

But what I have done is say I not really in to that

But for you I will go

Seems to work better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretended to like something the attract someone?

I pretended to like 'indie' music & noodles to get into a cute girls knickers even went to see the killers with her.

It worked

Errr the killers are amazing!!!

I pretended that I could get into watching football and that I was totally cool with watching it with him

Errrr I get the hot footie players but so don’t understand the game or anything like that

Also pretended to be so into skiing when in fact, I don’t like it

they arnt 'that' bad i suppose, oh god thatd be hard for me to pretend to like footy! Good effort "

Haha thanks!

Generally tho now I avoid that, but I’d be glad to listen somebody talk about what they are passionate about

I’ve always been attracted to people that liked different things to me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My wife pretended to like football and Red Hot Chili Peppers when we first met. She hates them both "

Bahahahahaha see but it worked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was thinking about this the other day actually...

I haven't. I've shown interest in things I may not have been interested in particularly but that's because I am intensely curious about people. I enjoy listening to people talk about the things they enjoy and get excited about. So while my interest my not be in their interest, and it might seem as if I'm feigning it, I'm not... because I'm finding them interesting."

She thats future proofing right there post chops... a wise head on those shoulders indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife pretended to like football and Red Hot Chili Peppers when we first met. She hates them both

Bahahahahaha see but it worked "

It did but she had to go to St James’ Park a few times before she told me she hated it. I almost took her to see Red Hot Chili Peppers too until I asked her what her favourite song was and she couldn’t even name one

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Nah.

Tried stuff because they liked it, didn't like it, didn't pretend to. Whether that's food, music, people or whatever. Sometimes it takes a little reflection to work out if you enjoyed the time with someone else, or enjoyed the activity.

Like, would I do that again alone or with someone different? Nah. Then nope, wasn't really for me.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I was thinking about this the other day actually...

I haven't. I've shown interest in things I may not have been interested in particularly but that's because I am intensely curious about people. I enjoy listening to people talk about the things they enjoy and get excited about. So while my interest my not be in their interest, and it might seem as if I'm feigning it, I'm not... because I'm finding them interesting."

Same. I learned all about lead light windows, temporary structures and welding. Never done any of them personally, not actually interested in them but listened to so much of it over the years I don't sound totally clueless.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’m often tempted to like Jaffa cakes.

Please, don’t shoot me

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Nah I can’t be bothered to pretend about things. Takes too much energy to remember things you are supposed to like but don’t.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

God no…I absolutely love when someone is passionate about something, I like watching there mannerisms and facial expressions when they talk about it,but I can’t pretend to enjoy the activity/music etc if I don’t like it - that’s just not me xx

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Nah, I've usually said what I like first and if we had absolutely nothing in common, we'd know we weren't compatible.

I've hated things my exes liked and vice versa. It's pretty fun taking the mick out of each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends if i promised to always tell the truth or not

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I love listening to what someone is passionate about for sure, whether I would actually do said thing I don't know, depends on how into them I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh do better op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m often tempted to like Jaffa cakes.

Please, don’t shoot me "

They are magnificent

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My face would tell them if my words didn't. Couldn't pretend for the life of me if I didn't like something x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I’m often tempted to like Jaffa cakes.

Please, don’t shoot me

They are magnificent "

Only the orange ones. The others can fuck off

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Nah he'd see straight through me if I tried to pretend that I liked something, If I'm into it I'm excitable and I can't fake that

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

No, I would never pretend to be something I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m often tempted to like Jaffa cakes.

Please, don’t shoot me

They are magnificent

Only the orange ones. The others can fuck off "

Too right peachy OG orange the others are wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe when I was very young! But I haven't ever done that as an adult. I think you'd be easily able to tell I was faking it anyway if I did try.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yep, when I was a young teenager there was a beautiful girl who loved anime and manga. So, I got into anime and manga. I think it's something that young people do, I have no shame to say I did it.

Nowadays, I'll listen. Gently tease someone when they go on about catching pandas or tulips or football, not pretend I'm interested/knowledgeable about it but enjoy the passion that flows out when someone truly works out about what they love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m often tempted to like Jaffa cakes.

Please, don’t shoot me "

We are going on a Jaffa Cake tour when we have our social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not pretended, but tried them to see if i like them too. I was a football season ticket holder once for 4 or 5 years I disliked every minute hey ho!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

No I haven't. But I am living my life doing a business that I wouldn't dream of doing if it wasn't for Mr, some days I really hate it, and it's so demanding, but I do it to fully support him as it's all he has wanted to do since being a young boy.

Ruby

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I pretend to like men, to get into their knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not pretended, but tried them to see if i like them too. I was a football season ticket holder once for 4 or 5 years I disliked every minute hey ho! "

For which team?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe when I was very young! But I haven't ever done that as an adult. I think you'd be easily able to tell I was faking it anyway if I did try. "

Tbh neither would i, i was 19 at the time

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"I’m often tempted to like Jaffa cakes.

Please, don’t shoot me

We are going on a Jaffa Cake tour when we have our social "

Keep on dreaming madam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no, probably because I would forget what it was I was supposed like and end up looking like a knobhead

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

No because I’m already pretty awesome as I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to see you back MrG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh no, probably because I would forget what it was I was supposed like and end up looking like a knobhead

"

And the line of 'You know I've not tried that/don't know much about it but would love you to show me' has always gone down very well

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"Good to see you back MrG "

Thanks. I’ve not been me the last few weeks but better now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not pretended, but tried them to see if i like them too. I was a football season ticket holder once for 4 or 5 years I disliked every minute hey ho!

For which team?"

A very disappointing one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pretend to like men, to get into their knickers."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not pretended, but tried them to see if i like them too. I was a football season ticket holder once for 4 or 5 years I disliked every minute hey ho!

For which team?

A very disappointing one "

No wonder you disliked it.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve got a mate who pretended to

be a socialist because the girl he was chasing was.

They’ve been seeing each other six months and he still hasn’t told her he’s a true blue Tory!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Nah I can’t be bothered to pretend about things. Takes too much energy to remember things you are supposed to like but don’t."

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I agree. Protracted subterfuge also emotionally draining.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I’ve got a mate who pretended to

be a socialist because the girl he was chasing was.

They’ve been seeing each other six months and he still hasn’t told her he’s a true blue Tory! "

That's going to end well

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