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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a big girl as u can see from our pics and I'm very happy with that was just wondering what u guys think xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big girls are fascinating. But its not size as much as it is confidence in one' own skin. That is the sexy and attractive part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" its not size as much as it is confidence in one' own skin. That is the sexy and attractive part."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigger girls are very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a big girl as u can see from our pics and I'm very happy with that was just wondering what u guys think xx "

I love curves on women - much nicer to run my hands over and spend time exploring.. had a quick look at your pics and you look v.sexy indeed... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MASSIVE turn off (literally).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know that a lot of guys like 2 have sex with big girls but don't want 2 call them there girlfriend

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that a lot of guys like 2 have sex with big girls but don't want 2 call them there girlfriend "

Not sure why to be honest - people get way too hung up on what others think. If someone makes you happy it shouldn't matter what others think. I'd be happy to have sex with a bigger girl - and date them....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I know that a lot of guys like 2 have sex with big girls but don't want 2 call them there girlfriend "

They are desperate men!!

Same as anything in life, some will like, some won't. Some will be dignified in their preference, some won't.

There certainly is room ( ) for larger ladies in swinging, as was seen last night at chams in darlaston (nearly put Birmingham then ) where they held a bbw Halloween party. Well attended and lots of fun x

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

I'm gonna sound horribly politically correct with this but I find some big women attractive and some big women unattractive... same with thin women.

Attraction is about so many other factors than size... otherwise it'd be easy to say who I find attractive. Sometimes I can't even put my finger on what it is about a woman that attracts me to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres deffo a limit to how big a girl can be and still be sexy. You my darling are yummy.

Have chatted with many so called BBW's on here and to be honest quite a few really dont qualify for that second B!!! Probably going to get slammed for this but no one likes a massive gut on a guy so why would it look any better on a woman?

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows

Yes I would

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm gonna sound horribly politically correct with this but I find some big women attractive and some big women unattractive... same with thin women.

Attraction is about so many other factors than size... otherwise it'd be easy to say who I find attractive. Sometimes I can't even put my finger on what it is about a woman that attracts me to her."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theres deffo a limit to how big a girl can be and still be sexy. You my darling are yummy.

Have chatted with many so called BBW's on here and to be honest quite a few really dont qualify for that second B!!! Probably going to get slammed for this but no one likes a massive gut on a guy so why would it look any better on a woman?"
I like that LOL

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

There are big...and BIG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big girls are lovely!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that a lot of guys like 2 have sex with big girls but don't want 2 call them there girlfriend "

I married my plus size girlfriend (now wife, obviously) and I don't care what people think. I'm happy and she is happy, so stuff whatever hangups other people have about the plus size woman!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know that a lot of guys like 2 have sex with big girls but don't want 2 call them there girlfriend

I married my plus size girlfriend (now wife, obviously) and I don't care what people think. I'm happy and she is happy, so stuff whatever hangups other people have about the plus size woman!"
I have no problem with the way I look I love all that I have but a friend of mine is a few sizes bigger than me and has thought about cumming on ya but thinks no1 would like her I think she has a very pretty face and is a fab girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are big...and BIG"

When are you classed as big? I think I'm big - no this isn't a post to see how many guys check me out - but I think some would see me as a bbw and others wouldn't??

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"There are big...and BIG

When are you classed as big? I think I'm big - no this isn't a post to see how many guys check me out - but I think some would see me as a bbw and others wouldn't??"

Does it matter how others see you? Isn't what's important how you see yourself?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I know that a lot of guys like 2 have sex with big girls but don't want 2 call them there girlfriend

I married my plus size girlfriend (now wife, obviously) and I don't care what people think. I'm happy and she is happy, so stuff whatever hangups other people have about the plus size woman!"

Purely for the purposes of continuing discussion - If YOU're happy and SHE's happy, why are you on Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find big girls a huge turn on, absolutely love curves on a woman; better than the bony size 0's, whom I'd be scared off in case I'd snap in half lol.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I know that a lot of guys like 2 have sex with big girls but don't want 2 call them there girlfriend "

You can take the word 'big' out of that statement and it still holds true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bigger is better i prefer women to bounce not rattle

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I find big girls a huge turn on, absolutely love curves on a woman; better than the bony size 0's, whom I'd be scared off in case I'd snap in half lol. "
juast because someone isnt a big girl doesnt mean they are "boney"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are big...and BIG

When are you classed as big? I think I'm big - no this isn't a post to see how many guys check me out - but I think some would see me as a bbw and others wouldn't??

Does it matter how others see you? Isn't what's important how you see yourself?"

That was the point I was trying to make though. How I see myself isn't the same as other people may see me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"bigger is better i prefer women to bounce not rattle "
what a load of twaddle.....since when do slimmer women rattle ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are big...and BIG

When are you classed as big? I think I'm big - no this isn't a post to see how many guys check me out - but I think some would see me as a bbw and others wouldn't??"

Having looked at your pics and profile I'd love the opportunity to play with, you sound like loads of fun with v.sexy pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that a lot of guys like 2 have sex with big girls but don't want 2 call them there girlfriend

I married my plus size girlfriend (now wife, obviously) and I don't care what people think. I'm happy and she is happy, so stuff whatever hangups other people have about the plus size woman!

Purely for the purposes of continuing discussion - If YOU're happy and SHE's happy, why are you on Fab?"

Possibly because they like swinging - you know being a swinging site and all that?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am on fab with my husband because I like having sex with other couples the question I asked was do u find big girls a turn on or off I know why im on fab do u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big turn off. Apart from the fact that i find rolls of flab hanging over stretched knickers to be a turnoff, i find it hard to respect someone who cares for their body so little that they allow themsrlves to get like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I carry more wieght than I should, does that make me a bbw, perhaps should change my profile from curvey. (runs away).

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

I do go for the person and their sexuality/personality more than their size but I do actually find larger ladies a lot sexier.

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By *lasgowguy64Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

it's all about the person for me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that a lot of guys like 2 have sex with big girls but don't want 2 call them there girlfriend

I married my plus size girlfriend (now wife, obviously) and I don't care what people think. I'm happy and she is happy, so stuff whatever hangups other people have about the plus size woman!

Purely for the purposes of continuing discussion - If YOU're happy and SHE's happy, why are you on Fab?"

Someone clearly understands what swinging is all about (not).

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well ive always been over weight, not including swinging ive never been short of a proper boyfriend, quite a few had never been with someone as large as me before, but it was me as a person they where attracted to. Swinging is different, but if i was with a vanilla and he didnt want to be seen in public with me, he certainly wouldnt last 2 minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 word ..........NIGELLA ! Or is she classed as "curvy"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a big girl as u can see from our pics and I'm very happy with that was just wondering what u guys think xx "

I do prefer a bigger lady. But it's not just about the size it's the personality too. But I do find bigger ladies more appealing x

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"I know that a lot of guys like 2 have sex with big girls but don't want 2 call them there girlfriend

I married my plus size girlfriend (now wife, obviously) and I don't care what people think. I'm happy and she is happy, so stuff whatever hangups other people have about the plus size woman!

Purely for the purposes of continuing discussion - If YOU're happy and SHE's

happy, why are you on Fab?"

Err. May be for the Sexxy experiences, by inferring that if she's happy she wouldn't be on fab are you saying you are unhappy or that everyone else is unhappy so come on here to boost confidence lol.( yes I know you only asked to keep thread going, I'm just playing Devils advocate. )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a big lady..aint been a girl for ages ,sometimes its a turn on sometimes its a turn off....sometikes i feel sexy other times i feel like a beach whale....but slowly changing things for ME and my health NEVER for a man or to fit into society...im more than a plus size im me...

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Big turn off. Apart from the fact that i find rolls of flab hanging over stretched knickers to be a turnoff, i find it hard to respect someone who cares for their body so little that they allow themsrlves to get like that"

You cant say that.. okay so maybe some people (not just women) are over weight because they didnt respect themselves but not all.. just to back this up only... we have been doing this for years but never through a site i wasnt initially keen on the idea of using a site as i couldnt imagine anyone wanting to play with me at my size.. yes my size bothers me (mrs) diesnt bother hubby by the way just me. however people clearly dont see my size as an issue.

However i would like to point out i wasnt this size until after surgery for a large tumour.. and due to the surgery being cocked up i was left in horrific pain and have been taking maximum does of really strong painkillers for years.. main side effect.. weight gain.. I have dieted exercised etc but not much change..it eventually got to me so much that i stopped the pain killers just over a month ago and hey presto the weight is dropping off.

So you cannot say being over weight is everyones own fault.

Should i be happy with the weight gain and just be greatful the tumour didnt kill me probably.. should i be pain free and put up with the weight probably.. but no me i would prefer to be smaller.Oh and yes there is a painkiller they could try that wouldnt cause weight gain but its too expensive lol same old story.

Oh an for the record i get plenty of people interested on here and i want to be smaller only for me and the way i feel about me..

This is not a post about what was wrong with me its to show that a larger person is not just because they eat too much etc.

Any women that are larger and happy i think you are amazing and i really wish i could be the same.

When i get to the size i want to be (not too much to go thankfully)

Also as so many say sexy is not linked to size its how you carry yourself and come across.

Oh and i have never worn knickers stretched with flab hanging out over, very uncomfortable.

Guys obviously do love womem of all sizes really big and really small. even seriously skinny.. confidence in yourself is the key.

But stating why you think people are larger is wrong as you cant tar everyone with same brush.

Oh and would i want to play with larger men.. no doesnt do anything for me.. (by that i mean big men) but thats personal preference.. am i saying they are lazy slobs.. no.. could be like it through no fault of their own but just not for me.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Im a big lady..aint been a girl for ages ,sometimes its a turn on sometimes its a turn off....sometikes i feel sexy other times i feel like a beach whale....but slowly changing things for ME and my health NEVER for a man or to fit into society...im more than a plus size im me... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bigger is better i prefer women to bounce not rattle what a load of twaddle.....since when do slimmer women rattle ffs "

they do believe me or it could just be there dentures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well ive always been over weight, not including swinging ive never been short of a proper boyfriend, quite a few had never been with someone as large as me before, but it was me as a person they where attracted to. Swinging is different, but if i was with a vanilla and he didnt want to be seen in public with me, he certainly wouldnt last 2 minutes"

oh jeez i thort i did well lasting 38 seconds with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are big...and BIG

When are you classed as big? I think I'm big - no this isn't a post to see how many guys check me out - but I think some would see me as a bbw and others wouldn't??

Does it matter how others see you? Isn't what's important how you see yourself?"

I think so. There's enough people in the world, we don't all have to like everyone else. Just like ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's more to me than my body, I'd like to think my personality shines and that's what people like, not everyone is going to like me, and that's fine. I realise there has to be a physical attraction, I myself like younger slim guys, it's my preference we all have them, but tbh you can have the sexiest body in the world, but if you're a complete ass it doesn't really count for much, now does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big turn off. Apart from the fact that i find rolls of flab hanging over stretched knickers to be a turnoff, i find it hard to respect someone who cares for their body so little that they allow themsrlves to get like that

You cant say that.. okay so maybe some people (not just women) are over weight because they didnt respect themselves but not all.. just to back this up only... we have been doing this for years but never through a site i wasnt initially keen on the idea of using a site as i couldnt imagine anyone wanting to play with me at my size.. yes my size bothers me (mrs) diesnt bother hubby by the way just me. however people clearly dont see my size as an issue.

However i would like to point out i wasnt this size until after surgery for a large tumour.. and due to the surgery being cocked up i was left in horrific pain and have been taking maximum does of really strong painkillers for years.. main side effect.. weight gain.. I have dieted exercised etc but not much change..it eventually got to me so much that i stopped the pain killers just over a month ago and hey presto the weight is dropping off.

So you cannot say being over weight is everyones own fault.

Should i be happy with the weight gain and just be greatful the tumour didnt kill me probably.. should i be pain free and put up with the weight probably.. but no me i would prefer to be smaller.Oh and yes there is a painkiller they could try that wouldnt cause weight gain but its too expensive lol same old story.

Oh an for the record i get plenty of people interested on here and i want to be smaller only for me and the way i feel about me..

This is not a post about what was wrong with me its to show that a larger person is not just because they eat too much etc.

Any women that are larger and happy i think you are amazing and i really wish i could be the same.

When i get to the size i want to be (not too much to go thankfully)

Also as so many say sexy is not linked to size its how you carry yourself and come across.

Oh and i have never worn knickers stretched with flab hanging out over, very uncomfortable.

Guys obviously do love womem of all sizes really big and really small. even seriously skinny.. confidence in yourself is the key.

But stating why you think people are larger is wrong as you cant tar everyone with same brush.

Oh and would i want to play with larger men.. no doesnt do anything for me.. (by that i mean big men) but thats personal preference.. am i saying they are lazy slobs.. no.. could be like it through no fault of their own but just not for me. "

Big big couldn't of put it better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't get a gallop on for someone who doesn't appeal to me visually. She might be the most amazing person in other respects but if I don't find her attractive then all we'll ever be is friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you look lovely the way you are, it's about how your feel about yourself really, if your big and have a hang up about it change it, if your big and confident then good on you, I'm a firm believe in the fact you should be comfortable in your own skin.

men like big some men like small everyone has preference but it is usually about personality and what the person is like, yes I do think there has to be attraction after all we are on a swing site for sex ! but I think a face has alot to do with it if you have a gorgeous body and not so nice face it's just the same as having a nice face and a not so nice body people will always show there best features.

I like my body and being bi I also find curvy girls more attractive, yes I like thinner ladies too but again if I like you it's for you generally and not always what you look like on the outside xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a big girl as u can see from our pics and I'm very happy with that was just wondering what u guys think xx "

I think I love you

Tits and arse to die for

Xxx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the fact people keep asking this question, may signify that there is a level of self confidence issues greater than people admit.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Id rather a slim to curvey woman but as has been said above..... Some bigger women can be sexy too but....... How bigs to big???

I normally dont go over a size 14 ( My choice )

Each to there own

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Id rather a slim to curvey woman but as has been said above..... Some bigger women can be sexy too but....... How bigs to big???

I normally dont go over a size 14 ( My choice )

Each to there own "

Do you check the labels in their clothing before going any further?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't go looking for a big girl deliberately, but if I was attracted to someone, size wouldn't figure too greatly.

I have had a female partner who was 5ft and a Size 6 and I have had a female partner who was 5ft9 and (at her biggest) a size 30.

I think that is because what I find attractive in women tends to be less physical and more character based.

The things I seem to be attracted to tend to be femininity mixed with ballsyness, self worth and the ability to laugh at both others and themselves.

With men however, I have no great interest in their personality (within reason) as my only real attraction is based solely on the physical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow

Give me a big girl any day

I much prefer a bit of meat and curves on a lady than tiny stick insect that you might break getting it on, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow

Give me a big girl any day they are a real turn on,

I much prefer a bit of meat and curves on a lady than tiny stick insect that you might break getting it on, lol

That said for some hygiene can be a bit of a problem, but then it can for smaller people too and not just women....I think everyone would agree bo is a turn off

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By *exybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

Tidworth

I am 'bigger' and still get lots of messages! I think it is personal preference, if you look happy, and sound happy you will be approached. I am always approached in night clubs etc as well, so I think its more about being confident, rather than how you look.

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By *ainaldoMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I generally seem to find curvy women more attractive but ultimately from a physical point of _iew if I think she's pretty out doesn't matter what her body looks like.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Well ive always been over weight, not including swinging ive never been short of a proper boyfriend, quite a few had never been with someone as large as me before, but it was me as a person they where attracted to. Swinging is different, but if i was with a vanilla and he didnt want to be seen in public with me, he certainly wouldnt last 2 minutes

oh jeez i thort i did well lasting 38 seconds with you "

Ha ha ha, you sneaky git, sneaking in here. Think it was longer than 38 seconds but may have to bring my stop watch lol

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Never met one I didn't have a fantastic experience with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a big girl as u can see from our pics and I'm very happy with that was just wondering what u guys think xx "

had a look and be proud of your size; we are all different and it be a boring world if every female was a calkwalk stunner and every man was build like Brad Pitt - take me for instance ; i come on here and im 25 stone with one leg and the as a limp; one good eye and the other i keep in my pocket and as for hair and teeth ; what can i say other than i aint got any and dont mention my bad breath - so if i can have fun anyone can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think its personal preference. some guys will like bigger women, some wont.

Thanks god for guys like my bf though who loves bigger women! lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

My mum defines me as round with huge tits . i have been a size 10 and i size 20 which i am now.. i love my wobble ...most days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on a few bbw forums around the net and there is a lot of love out there for bbws, you just can't beat big boobs and a big arse

I've always just been more turned on with bigger women, there's just more to play with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the fact people keep asking this question, may signify that there is a level of self confidence issues greater than people admit.

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I agree, people who are happy and self confident about certain aspects of their life don't usually feel the need to be reassured in any way. When you're very happy and confident with something you don't normally question it.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Shurrup SJ its my choice..... My eyes and brain dont need to check labels....... I did fab some of your pix awhile ago....... So Im not against curvy women

Curvy women are like roads without bends or jeans without pockets

No fun......and nowhere to put your hands

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

PS I dint say anythin about turn off

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"I can't get a gallop on for someone who doesn't appeal to me visually. She might be the most amazing person in other respects but if I don't find her attractive then all we'll ever be is friends."

Exactly how I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the fact people keep asking this question, may signify that there is a level of self confidence issues greater than people admit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about choice and attraction , I've been with skinny ladies and larger ladies , the size only becomes an issue if there obese or so skinny you want to contact food aid.

On a personal level though I've always had more fun with larger ladies , so big is beautiful in my book.

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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent.

some women cant help being big, or have medical issues that make losing weight extremely difficult.

i like some of my curves but dislike others.

i do like curves on other ladies tho and love seeing pics of ladies bent over seeing their lovely bums in the air.love the curve of the bum slowly curving down to their back is a lovely sight.not keen on curves on guys tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna sound horribly politically correct with this but I find some big women attractive and some big women unattractive... same with thin women.

Attraction is about so many other factors than size... otherwise it'd be easy to say who I find attractive. Sometimes I can't even put my finger on what it is about a woman that attracts me to her."

^^^ Totally this!

It is about so much more than just size. Some ladies are just gorgeous and some are not and it is usually nothing to do with size Or that's what we find anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some women cant help being big, or have medical issues that make losing weight extremely difficult.

i like some of my curves but dislike others.

"

From what I can see, all your curves are great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big turn off. Apart from the fact that i find rolls of flab hanging over stretched knickers to be a turnoff, i find it hard to respect someone who cares for their body so little that they allow themsrlves to get like that

You cant say that.. okay so maybe some people (not just women) are over weight because they didnt respect themselves but not all.. just to back this up only... we have been doing this for years but never through a site i wasnt initially keen on the idea of using a site as i couldnt imagine anyone wanting to play with me at my size.. yes my size bothers me (mrs) diesnt bother hubby by the way just me. however people clearly dont see my size as an issue.

However i would like to point out i wasnt this size until after surgery for a large tumour.. and due to the surgery being cocked up i was left in horrific pain and have been taking maximum does of really strong painkillers for years.. main side effect.. weight gain.. I have dieted exercised etc but not much change..it eventually got to me so much that i stopped the pain killers just over a month ago and hey presto the weight is dropping off.

So you cannot say being over weight is everyones own fault.

Should i be happy with the weight gain and just be greatful the tumour didnt kill me probably.. should i be pain free and put up with the weight probably.. but no me i would prefer to be smaller.Oh and yes there is a painkiller they could try that wouldnt cause weight gain but its too expensive lol same old story.

Oh an for the record i get plenty of people interested on here and i want to be smaller only for me and the way i feel about me..

This is not a post about what was wrong with me its to show that a larger person is not just because they eat too much etc.

Any women that are larger and happy i think you are amazing and i really wish i could be the same.

When i get to the size i want to be (not too much to go thankfully)

Also as so many say sexy is not linked to size its how you carry yourself and come across.

Oh and i have never worn knickers stretched with flab hanging out over, very uncomfortable.

Guys obviously do love womem of all sizes really big and really small. even seriously skinny.. confidence in yourself is the key.

But stating why you think people are larger is wrong as you cant tar everyone with same brush.

Oh and would i want to play with larger men.. no doesnt do anything for me.. (by that i mean big men) but thats personal preference.. am i saying they are lazy slobs.. no.. could be like it through no fault of their own but just not for me. "

Thank you

I was just about to say the same - I am on medication for a long term health problem and it has caused my weight gain. I was a size 10-12 for years even bouncing back after 3 pregnancies but as soon as I began to take medication the weight crept up and up and up I spent 4 years despising my body esp after my (now ex) husband told me his erection problems were down to him not being attracted to me anymore because I was soo FAT and NO man would ever find me attractive

Luckily for me I met J and the first time we slept together I hid under the covers embarrassed with my body. He has rebuilt my confidence and I have now accepted the size I am and know that some men will find me attractive and some won't - in the same way that some guys do nothing for me and others get me hot and bothered

L xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna sound horribly politically correct with this but I find some big women attractive and some big women unattractive... same with thin women.

Attraction is about so many other factors than size... otherwise it'd be easy to say who I find attractive. Sometimes I can't even put my finger on what it is about a woman that attracts me to her.

^^^ Totally this!

It is about so much more than just size. Some ladies are just gorgeous and some are not and it is usually nothing to do with size Or that's what we find anyway!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bigger is better i prefer women to bounce not rattle what a load of twaddle.....since when do slimmer women rattle ffs "

When they are holding the cutlery and being shagged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bigger is better i prefer women to bounce not rattle what a load of twaddle.....since when do slimmer women rattle ffs

When they are holding the cutlery and being shagged "

PMSL!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I'm gonna sound horribly politically correct with this but I find some big women attractive and some big women unattractive... same with thin women.

Attraction is about so many other factors than size... otherwise it'd be easy to say who I find attractive. Sometimes I can't even put my finger on what it is about a woman that attracts me to her."

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"bigger is better i prefer women to bounce not rattle what a load of twaddle.....since when do slimmer women rattle ffs

When they are holding the cutlery and being shagged "
That is HILARIOUS!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bigger is better i prefer women to bounce not rattle what a load of twaddle.....since when do slimmer women rattle ffs

When they are holding the cutlery and being shagged "

Not for me, I'd be using said cutlery on anyone that said something so pathetic like that to me to make them bounce very far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right I may get knocked here but some slim girls really need to learn to smile and enjoy life a bit more and not be worried about what they look like. Many bigger girls have the personality and know how to have a laugh and not to take life so seriously. Most ladies are curvy its called having boobs and bums and being mums change body shapes too with stretch marks etc its called having a life.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Id rather a slim to curvey woman but as has been said above..... Some bigger women can be sexy too but....... How bigs to big???

I normally dont go over a size 14 ( My choice )

Each to there own

Do you check the labels in their clothing before going any further?"

That made me giggle as I could just picture it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right I may get knocked here but some slim girls really need to learn to smile and enjoy life a bit more and not be worried about what they look like. Many bigger girls have the personality and know how to have a laugh and not to take life so seriously. Most ladies are curvy its called having boobs and bums and being mums change body shapes too with stretch marks etc its called having a life."

I won't knock what you are saying because I find it is the same regardless of size...as said lots of times being comfortable in your own skin will give you confidence and the ability to feel and be sexy.

However it does annoy me when people band around stick thin, would break etc...and the misconception that it is slim girls that need to learn to smile, as I said above (and I know you said some), I think your statements applies to all size girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right I may get knocked here but some slim girls really need to learn to smile and enjoy life a bit more and not be worried about what they look like. Many bigger girls have the personality and know how to have a laugh and not to take life so seriously. Most ladies are curvy its called having boobs and bums and being mums change body shapes too with stretch marks etc its called having a life.

I won't knock what you are saying because I find it is the same regardless of size...as said lots of times being comfortable in your own skin will give you confidence and the ability to feel and be sexy.

However it does annoy me when people band around stick thin, would break etc...and the misconception that it is slim girls that need to learn to smile, as I said above (and I know you said some), I think your statements applies to all size girls. "

True but most big girls come across as bouncy lol. And I know it goes over the spectrum of size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another thought most of the stunning super slim model types would be so far out the average joes league unless the average joe was a super model himself that is why they settle for us bbw's just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And another thing when out on a normal night out how many of you guys go and talk to the fat friend to get to the skinny friend.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Right I may get knocked here but some slim girls really need to learn to smile and enjoy life a bit more and not be worried about what they look like. Many bigger girls have the personality and know how to have a laugh and not to take life so seriously. Most ladies are curvy its called having boobs and bums and being mums change body shapes too with stretch marks etc its called having a life."

I don't think size comes into it...your either a happy smiley person with a carefree attitude or your not.

You either have hangups about yourself/body or you don't.

Bigger ladies doesn't mean bigger personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One day ...sometime in the future.

Us big gals will stop caring two hoots if we fit someones criteria.

And maybe begin to like ourselves regardless of if tom , dick or harry fancy us....

I couldnt give a flying fuck if some of the guys dont like bigger women..the ones i meet do and we have great fun and have it many many times too.

So stop bothering with them that dont, and start having fun with them that do

simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big turn off. Apart from the fact that i find rolls of flab hanging over stretched knickers to be a turnoff, i find it hard to respect someone who cares for their body so little that they allow themsrlves to get like that

You cant say that.. okay so maybe some people (not just women) are over weight because they didnt respect themselves but not all.. just to back this up only... we have been doing this for years but never through a site i wasnt initially keen on the idea of using a site as i couldnt imagine anyone wanting to play with me at my size.. yes my size bothers me (mrs) diesnt bother hubby by the way just me. however people clearly dont see my size as an issue.

However i would like to point out i wasnt this size until after surgery for a large tumour.. and due to the surgery being cocked up i was left in horrific pain and have been taking maximum does of really strong painkillers for years.. main side effect.. weight gain.. I have dieted exercised etc but not much change..it eventually got to me so much that i stopped the pain killers just over a month ago and hey presto the weight is dropping off.

So you cannot say being over weight is everyones own fault.

Should i be happy with the weight gain and just be greatful the tumour didnt kill me probably.. should i be pain free and put up with the weight probably.. but no me i would prefer to be smaller.Oh and yes there is a painkiller they could try that wouldnt cause weight gain but its too expensive lol same old story.

Oh an for the record i get plenty of people interested on here and i want to be smaller only for me and the way i feel about me..

This is not a post about what was wrong with me its to show that a larger person is not just because they eat too much etc.

Any women that are larger and happy i think you are amazing and i really wish i could be the same.

When i get to the size i want to be (not too much to go thankfully)

Also as so many say sexy is not linked to size its how you carry yourself and come across.

Oh and i have never worn knickers stretched with flab hanging out over, very uncomfortable.

Guys obviously do love womem of all sizes really big and really small. even seriously skinny.. confidence in yourself is the key.

But stating why you think people are larger is wrong as you cant tar everyone with same brush.

Oh and would i want to play with larger men.. no doesnt do anything for me.. (by that i mean big men) but thats personal preference.. am i saying they are lazy slobs.. no.. could be like it through no fault of their own but just not for me.

Thank you

I was just about to say the same - I am on medication for a long term health problem and it has caused my weight gain. I was a size 10-12 for years even bouncing back after 3 pregnancies but as soon as I began to take medication the weight crept up and up and up I spent 4 years despising my body esp after my (now ex) husband told me his erection problems were down to him not being attracted to me anymore because I was soo FAT and NO man would ever find me attractive

Luckily for me I met J and the first time we slept together I hid under the covers embarrassed with my body. He has rebuilt my confidence and I have now accepted the size I am and know that some men will find me attractive and some won't - in the same way that some guys do nothing for me and others get me hot and bothered

L xx"
that's all fine and I would agree with almost everything you said. I do however think that the majority of women I was referring to are fat due to lifestyle. My ex was and throughout our relationship I was able to boost her confidence (through my acceptance of her weight). Ultimately it was her not being happy with herself that sowed the seeds of that relationship going tits up.

but yes women (and men) blame this, that and the other but for 90% of women it's calories in vs calories out, just as it is for men. I genuinely sympathise with the ones with medical reasons -- it may happen to me one day!

I know lots won't agree, but you don't have to - who cares what I think anyway? I simply answered the question of whether it was a turn on/off. There's no accounting for taste, you either like something or you don't. If you are happy and confident with it, more power to you, have fun.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

haven't read it all but caught up with some 'gems'

bigger girls are more prone to be 'bubbly' in the personality department than slimmer girls

slimmer girls rattle when having sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"haven't read it all but caught up with some 'gems'

bigger girls are more prone to be 'bubbly' in the personality department than slimmer girls

slimmer girls rattle when having sex

"

well i am not bubbly and dont feel the need to be either.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"I find big girls a huge turn on, absolutely love curves on a woman; better than the bony size 0's, whom I'd be scared off in case I'd snap in half lol. "

But thats where you are mixed up ?

theres a diff between being curvy and being fat.

Curvy women are not fat

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over a year ago


"I find big girls a huge turn on, absolutely love curves on a woman; better than the bony size 0's, whom I'd be scared off in case I'd snap in half lol.

But thats where you are mixed up ?

theres a diff between being curvy and being fat.

Curvy women are not fat "

Completely agree - Mrs P is slim and curvy and that's my own turn on. Wobbly isn't my idea of curvy.

For those that believe big girls have more fun and slim girls are hung up on how they look, you need to meet a few more people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just out of curiosity why do u think this place attracts so many "BBWS"

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"just out of curiosity why do u think this place attracts so many "BBWS""

most swing

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over a year ago


"haven't read it all but caught up with some 'gems'

bigger girls are more prone to be 'bubbly' in the personality department than slimmer girls

slimmer girls rattle when having sex

"

and the comment by a lady who said that her ex couldnt get a hard on because she was fat and he didnt fancy her.

There are a lot of men who cover up their own erectile dysfunction with this corker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just out of curiosity why do u think this place attracts so many "BBWS""

Have wondered that too from time to time - maybe also because so many people are overweight nowadays too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right I may get knocked here but some slim girls really need to learn to smile and enjoy life a bit more and not be worried about what they look like. Many bigger girls have the personality and know how to have a laugh and not to take life so seriously. Most ladies are curvy its called having boobs and bums and being mums change body shapes too with stretch marks etc its called having a life.

I don't think size comes into it...your either a happy smiley person with a carefree attitude or your not.

You either have hangups about yourself/body or you don't.

Bigger ladies doesn't mean bigger personality."

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

and the comment by a lady who said that her ex couldnt get a hard on because she was fat and he didnt fancy her.

There are a lot of men who cover up their own erectile dysfunction with this corker "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally love big women and their curves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just out of curiosity why do u think this place attracts so many "BBWS"

Have wondered that too from time to time - maybe also because so many people are overweight nowadays too?"

they have almost monopolized the place

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"just out of curiosity why do u think this place attracts so many "BBWS"

Have wondered that too from time to time - maybe also because so many people are overweight nowadays too?

they have almost monopolized the place "
Come on you fitness expert... give everybody a chance lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"just out of curiosity why do u think this place attracts so many "BBWS""

the level of attention that they MAY NOT get elsewhere.

note MAY

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"Big turn off. Apart from the fact that i find rolls of flab hanging over stretched knickers to be a turnoff, i find it hard to respect someone who cares for their body so little that they allow themsrlves to get like that

You cant say that.. okay so maybe some people (not just women) are over weight because they didnt respect themselves but not all.. just to back this up only... we have been doing this for years but never through a site i wasnt initially keen on the idea of using a site as i couldnt imagine anyone wanting to play with me at my size.. yes my size bothers me (mrs) diesnt bother hubby by the way just me. however people clearly dont see my size as an issue.

However i would like to point out i wasnt this size until after surgery for a large tumour.. and due to the surgery being cocked up i was left in horrific pain and have been taking maximum does of really strong painkillers for years.. main side effect.. weight gain.. I have dieted exercised etc but not much change..it eventually got to me so much that i stopped the pain killers just over a month ago and hey presto the weight is dropping off.

So you cannot say being over weight is everyones own fault.

Should i be happy with the weight gain and just be greatful the tumour didnt kill me probably.. should i be pain free and put up with the weight probably.. but no me i would prefer to be smaller.Oh and yes there is a painkiller they could try that wouldnt cause weight gain but its too expensive lol same old story.

Oh an for the record i get plenty of people interested on here and i want to be smaller only for me and the way i feel about me..

This is not a post about what was wrong with me its to show that a larger person is not just because they eat too much etc.

Any women that are larger and happy i think you are amazing and i really wish i could be the same.

When i get to the size i want to be (not too much to go thankfully)

Also as so many say sexy is not linked to size its how you carry yourself and come across.

Oh and i have never worn knickers stretched with flab hanging out over, very uncomfortable.

Guys obviously do love womem of all sizes really big and really small. even seriously skinny.. confidence in yourself is the key.

But stating why you think people are larger is wrong as you cant tar everyone with same brush.

Oh and would i want to play with larger men.. no doesnt do anything for me.. (by that i mean big men) but thats personal preference.. am i saying they are lazy slobs.. no.. could be like it through no fault of their own but just not for me.

Thank you

I was just about to say the same - I am on medication for a long term health problem and it has caused my weight gain. I was a size 10-12 for years even bouncing back after 3 pregnancies but as soon as I began to take medication the weight crept up and up and up I spent 4 years despising my body esp after my (now ex) husband told me his erection problems were down to him not being attracted to me anymore because I was soo FAT and NO man would ever find me attractive

Luckily for me I met J and the first time we slept together I hid under the covers embarrassed with my body. He has rebuilt my confidence and I have now accepted the size I am and know that some men will find me attractive and some won't - in the same way that some guys do nothing for me and others get me hot and bothered

L xxthat's all fine and I would agree with almost everything you said. I do however think that the majority of women I was referring to are fat due to lifestyle. My ex was and throughout our relationship I was able to boost her confidence (through my acceptance of her weight). Ultimately it was her not being happy with herself that sowed the seeds of that relationship going tits up.

but yes women (and men) blame this, that and the other but for 90% of women it's calories in vs calories out, just as it is for men. I genuinely sympathise with the ones with medical reasons -- it may happen to me one day!

I know lots won't agree, but you don't have to - who cares what I think anyway? I simply answered the question of whether it was a turn on/off. There's no accounting for taste, you either like something or you don't. If you are happy and confident with it, more power to you, have fun."

So many people men and women will come up with some crap reason for being over weight..

Its human nature i guess,but except for the few medical cases you mention most are due to people being greedy lazy bastards ..pure and simple

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over a year ago


"just out of curiosity why do u think this place attracts so many "BBWS"

Have wondered that too from time to time - maybe also because so many people are overweight nowadays too?

they have almost monopolized the place Come on you fitness expert... give everybody a chance lol"

if i ever start PT`ing i may advertise my services onhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jesus christ! biggest post quote ever

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

So many people men and women will come up with some crap reason for being over weight..

Its human nature i guess,but except for the few medical cases you mention most are due to people being greedy lazy bastards ..pure and simple"

I accept that people come in different shapes and sizes, colours and creeds - I do not ever see a reason for linking somebody's looks or personalities with harsh judgments about them... unless those who judge have some sort of insecurity themselves? Just a thought...

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over a year ago


"just out of curiosity why do u think this place attracts so many "BBWS"

the level of attention that they MAY NOT get elsewhere.

note MAY"

suppose its a combo of things mate. still theres no denying it once uve been around here a while

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"

So many people men and women will come up with some crap reason for being over weight..

Its human nature i guess,but except for the few medical cases you mention most are due to people being greedy lazy bastards ..pure and simple

I accept that people come in different shapes and sizes, colours and creeds - I do not ever see a reason for linking somebody's looks or personalities with harsh judgments about them... unless those who judge have some sort of insecurity themselves? Just a thought..."

Its in the news,its on Tv shows ...they've been going on about it for years ...Uk has one of the largest obesity figures in the world..

People die from being over weight its fact ..

Theres nothing beautiful about being over weight no matter how people dress it up..

Blokes are blokes we all think with our dicks and most will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag ...Obviously many of big ladies are more insecure than they make out,having to keep justify themselves on these tread week in week out

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"

So many people men and women will come up with some crap reason for being over weight..

Its human nature i guess,but except for the few medical cases you mention most are due to people being greedy lazy bastards ..pure and simple

I accept that people come in different shapes and sizes, colours and creeds - I do not ever see a reason for linking somebody's looks or personalities with harsh judgments about them... unless those who judge have some sort of insecurity themselves? Just a thought...

Its in the news,its on Tv shows ...they've been going on about it for years ...Uk has one of the largest obesity figures in the world..

People die from being over weight its fact ..

Theres nothing beautiful about being over weight no matter how people dress it up..

Blokes are blokes we all think with our dicks and most will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag ...Obviously many of big ladies are more insecure than they make out,having to keep justify themselves on these tread week in week out "

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

So many people men and women will come up with some crap reason for being over weight..

Its human nature i guess,but except for the few medical cases you mention most are due to people being greedy lazy bastards ..pure and simple

I accept that people come in different shapes and sizes, colours and creeds - I do not ever see a reason for linking somebody's looks or personalities with harsh judgments about them... unless those who judge have some sort of insecurity themselves? Just a thought...

Its in the news,its on Tv shows ...they've been going on about it for years ...Uk has one of the largest obesity figures in the world..

People die from being over weight its fact ..

Theres nothing beautiful about being over weight no matter how people dress it up..

Blokes are blokes we all think with our dicks and most will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag ...Obviously many of big ladies are more insecure than they make out,having to keep justify themselves on these tread week in week out "

Size is dictated by fashion and only a few centuries ago the rubenesque woman was celebrated.

You seem to suggest that thin people do not die prematurely and fat people always do - that is factually incorrect.

I am not saying Big is Beautiful anymore than I am saying that thin is beautiful. It is up to the individuals and their chosen life style.

I am saying that it is unacceptable to link somebody's physical appearance to a moralistic judgment about their character eg "lazy bastards" as you did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Theres nothing beautiful about being over weight no matter how people dress it up..

Blokes are blokes we all think with our dicks and most will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag ...Obviously many of big ladies are more insecure than they make out,having to keep justify themselves on these tread week in week out "

oh be oh so dammed perfect... id rather be podgey/fat/obese etc then have my head permantly up my own arse saying how dammed hot i am..

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"

So many people men and women will come up with some crap reason for being over weight..

Its human nature i guess,but except for the few medical cases you mention most are due to people being greedy lazy bastards ..pure and simple

I accept that people come in different shapes and sizes, colours and creeds - I do not ever see a reason for linking somebody's looks or personalities with harsh judgments about them... unless those who judge have some sort of insecurity themselves? Just a thought...

Its in the news,its on Tv shows ...they've been going on about it for years ...Uk has one of the largest obesity figures in the world..

People die from being over weight its fact ..

Theres nothing beautiful about being over weight no matter how people dress it up..

Blokes are blokes we all think with our dicks and most will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag ...Obviously many of big ladies are more insecure than they make out,having to keep justify themselves on these tread week in week out

Size is dictated by fashion and only a few centuries ago the rubenesque woman was celebrated.

You seem to suggest that thin people do not die prematurely and fat people always do - that is factually incorrect.

I am not saying Big is Beautiful anymore than I am saying that thin is beautiful. It is up to the individuals and their chosen life style.

I am saying that it is unacceptable to link somebody's physical appearance to a moralistic judgment about their character eg "lazy bastards" as you did.

"

Whats it got to do with someones character ?

How many over weight people eat crap food ?

How many over weight people do any form of physical exercise " not including opening chocolate wrappers "

How many of these over weight people blame everything or everyone else for being like they are ? How many over weight people need to keep defending themselves on threads ?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"

So many people men and women will come up with some crap reason for being over weight..

Its human nature i guess,but except for the few medical cases you mention most are due to people being greedy lazy bastards ..pure and simple

I accept that people come in different shapes and sizes, colours and creeds - I do not ever see a reason for linking somebody's looks or personalities with harsh judgments about them... unless those who judge have some sort of insecurity themselves? Just a thought...

Its in the news,its on Tv shows ...they've been going on about it for years ...Uk has one of the largest obesity figures in the world..

People die from being over weight its fact ..

Theres nothing beautiful about being over weight no matter how people dress it up..

Blokes are blokes we all think with our dicks and most will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag ...Obviously many of big ladies are more insecure than they make out,having to keep justify themselves on these tread week in week out

"

Ok here is a reply from a fat lazy bastard as you so politely put it... I work.. I go to work.. I walk 1 1/2 miles everyday in the process of getting to work.. I walk up 3 flights of stairs to get to my office..

I am 6ft and around a size 20... I have been 6ft and a size 8 with an eating disorder.. I can't be a size 10 if I tried.. I could however be a size 16 or i could be a suize 20 and live a full and content life.. I am healthy shock horror I hear you cry.. why because the doc said so... I don't eat shit... However I do have poor eating habits.. I.e I pick at stuff.. rather than eat a meal... I have a tendancy to drink vodka at the weekend.. So you don't want to shag me because I am lazy bastard... Well I know and have plenty of men that do... I don't worry what you think as you know years of the fat jibe your skin becomes like leather... What you like is what you like... Me I love me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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oh be oh so dammed perfect... id rather be podgey/fat/obese etc then have my head permantly up my own arse saying how dammed hot i am.. "

Actually we would say you are damned hot yourself....

Wouldn't it be easier for everyone to accept everyone is different without being nasty about it. Each to their own and all that........

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

So many people men and women will come up with some crap reason for being over weight..

Its human nature i guess,but except for the few medical cases you mention most are due to people being greedy lazy bastards ..pure and simple

I accept that people come in different shapes and sizes, colours and creeds - I do not ever see a reason for linking somebody's looks or personalities with harsh judgments about them... unless those who judge have some sort of insecurity themselves? Just a thought...

Its in the news,its on Tv shows ...they've been going on about it for years ...Uk has one of the largest obesity figures in the world..

People die from being over weight its fact ..

Theres nothing beautiful about being over weight no matter how people dress it up..

Blokes are blokes we all think with our dicks and most will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag ...Obviously many of big ladies are more insecure than they make out,having to keep justify themselves on these tread week in week out

Size is dictated by fashion and only a few centuries ago the rubenesque woman was celebrated.

You seem to suggest that thin people do not die prematurely and fat people always do - that is factually incorrect.

I am not saying Big is Beautiful anymore than I am saying that thin is beautiful. It is up to the individuals and their chosen life style.

I am saying that it is unacceptable to link somebody's physical appearance to a moralistic judgment about their character eg "lazy bastards" as you did.

Whats it got to do with someones character ?

How many over weight people eat crap food ?

How many over weight people do any form of physical exercise " not including opening chocolate wrappers "

How many of these over weight people blame everything or everyone else for being like they are ? How many over weight people need to keep defending themselves on threads ?

"

I quote from your previous post as follows

Its human nature i guess,but except for the few medical cases you mention most are due to people being greedy lazy bastards ..pure and simple

I am not here to discuss the ins and outs of what makes some people fat, what they should or should not be doing or indeed whether they are beautiful or not.

I found offensive that you link being overweight with being lazy. It is judgmental, harsh, unjustified in many cases and certainly not in the spirit of forum etiquette.

Does that make sense?

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"

Theres nothing beautiful about being over weight no matter how people dress it up..

Blokes are blokes we all think with our dicks and most will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag ...Obviously many of big ladies are more insecure than they make out,having to keep justify themselves on these tread week in week out

oh be oh so dammed perfect... id rather be podgey/fat/obese etc then have my head permantly up my own arse saying how dammed hot i am.. "

Defo not perfect or up our own arses !!

As for being hot only other people can judge how hot or fantastic you are ..

Our status is actually a piss take for someone we know,that put on their profile how sexy and hot they thought they were...

Its called having an opinion and if you don't agree with it then your up your own arse..

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente


"Big turn off. Apart from the fact that i find rolls of flab hanging over stretched knickers to be a turnoff, i find it hard to respect someone who cares for their body so little that they allow themsrlves to get like that"
funny but true lol

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

Wouldn't it be easier for everyone to accept everyone is different without being nasty about it. Each to their own and all that........ "
Absolutely spot on - that is what I was trying to say - only you were more succinct lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How many over weight people eat crap food ?

How many over weight people do any form of physical exercise " not including opening chocolate wrappers "

How many of these over weight people blame everything or everyone else for being like they are ? How many over weight people need to keep defending themselves on threads ?

"

That is a bit unfair really. I sit in a mixed office all day long. Some people eat crap all day long and do nothing and are stick thin. Others live on an extremely healthy diet and exercise and still struggle with weight.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

anyway I am off to eat a big fat cream cake.... see ya..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"anyway I am off to eat a big fat cream cake.... see ya.......... "

im gonna have some full sugar and some chips

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"anyway I am off to eat a big fat cream cake.... see ya..........

im gonna have some full sugar and some chips

"

what with full fat mayo... can't remember the last time I had that... and loads of cheese....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have Mayo and Cheese you need two cans of Coke to go with it......

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"

Theres nothing beautiful about being over weight no matter how people dress it up..

Blokes are blokes we all think with our dicks and most will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag ...Obviously many of big ladies are more insecure than they make out,having to keep justify themselves on these tread week in week out

oh be oh so dammed perfect... id rather be podgey/fat/obese etc then have my head permantly up my own arse saying how dammed hot i am..

Defo not perfect or up our own arses !!

As for being hot only other people can judge how hot or fantastic you are ..

Our status is actually a piss take for someone we know,that put on their profile how sexy and hot they thought they were...

Its called having an opinion and if you don't agree with it then your up your own arse.."

So tell us ....at what point does someone become Fat or Lazy is your judgement based on BMI, how can you make a judgement about so many peoples lives without having met them ?

I suggest you go look at The big Fat lies site or if your truly interested in getting an opinion based on fact rather than prejudice buying the book .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So many people men and women will come up with some crap reason for being over weight..

Its human nature i guess,but except for the few medical cases you mention most are due to people being greedy lazy bastards ..pure and simple

I accept that people come in different shapes and sizes, colours and creeds - I do not ever see a reason for linking somebody's looks or personalities with harsh judgments about them... unless those who judge have some sort of insecurity themselves? Just a thought..."

I agree with this, the majority of people are not rude about others' and the facrt that the particular user you quoted makes comments about bigger women constantly makes me believe that they themselves are perhaps insecure. Either that or they are just ignorant and rude people.

I will agree that a lot of people are overweight because they eat the wrong type of foods - but they are in no way bastards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to have a celery stick,dipped in water...actually i might pig out and have two.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"anyway I am off to eat a big fat cream cake.... see ya..........

im gonna have some full sugar and some chips

what with full fat mayo... can't remember the last time I had that... and loads of cheese.... "

Yeah don't forget the doughnuts !!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"anyway I am off to eat a big fat cream cake.... see ya..........

im gonna have some full sugar and some chips

what with full fat mayo... can't remember the last time I had that... and loads of cheese....

Yeah don't forget the doughnuts !!"

Oh no I have a big fat choccie cake to go with mine with loads of cream...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"

Theres nothing beautiful about being over weight no matter how people dress it up..

Blokes are blokes we all think with our dicks and most will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag ...Obviously many of big ladies are more insecure than they make out,having to keep justify themselves on these tread week in week out

oh be oh so dammed perfect... id rather be podgey/fat/obese etc then have my head permantly up my own arse saying how dammed hot i am..

Defo not perfect or up our own arses !!

As for being hot only other people can judge how hot or fantastic you are ..

Our status is actually a piss take for someone we know,that put on their profile how sexy and hot they thought they were...

Its called having an opinion and if you don't agree with it then your up yr own arse.."

It's just a shame that some people with opinions seem to be lacking in social skills and can only put their point across by belittling, judging, condemning or stereotyping people that fall outside of their preferences.

That goes both ways, I don't agree with larger people and their admirers putting down slimmer people and their admirers either

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

True but most big girls come across as bouncy lol. And I know it goes over the spectrum of size.

"

for every 'big girl' being bouncy there will be another unhappy..

and the same will go for slim body types..

and gues what, its the same with blokes!

my tits are too big, my dick is too small, my teeth are not straight, i wish i was tall...etc etc

who coined the lable BBW?

Was it women taking control of their selves, a positive image etc in a world where size is directly linked to 'sexiness', success?

the whole 'image' industry is obscene...imho

'We' as people are much more than a size, a look, a colour or a sexuality...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have Mayo and Cheese you need two cans of Coke to go with it......"

oh stop it,, your making my fat wobble and jiggle with excitement..

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Mmmm why does this place attract so many BBW? Spose its the same reason it attracts us all! Weather we tall, short pointy nosed or squinty eyed! Bald or long legged beasties! We human and all got our own likes/dislikes what floats one's boat , can ship wreck another, lol blah blah blah!.... Society and its many cross sections is what makes it such a diverse world we live in. Ignorance is laughable, as does the stereo typical way we can all put others in their little boxes... The fat bird is always needy, desperate and sits on her fat arse all day consuming cream cakes! Lmfao (big one at that lol) I for one have always been big ... Never ever has it made me feel a second class citizen... I just live life to the full, look after myself and respect others ..... So i am here with my partner enjoying myself muchly! If i am not your ting .... Thats cool .... Cos frankly i hope you find your notch and have as much fun as we do! =o) live is too damn short to worry bout what others doing ..... Chillax n enjoy yourself..... Ps for those who let others make you feel inferia .... Simple, dont allow it! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All ladies are a turn-on to me regardless of size. To me it's about the lady who enjoys herself by letting go of everything for the sake of the moment - that's the biggest turn-on of all.

Wolf

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"

Theres nothing beautiful about being over weight no matter how people dress it up..

Blokes are blokes we all think with our dicks and most will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag ...Obviously many of big ladies are more insecure than they make out,having to keep justify themselves on these tread week in week out

oh be oh so dammed perfect... id rather be podgey/fat/obese etc then have my head permantly up my own arse saying how dammed hot i am..

Defo not perfect or up our own arses !!

As for being hot only other people can judge how hot or fantastic you are ..

Our status is actually a piss take for someone we know,that put on their profile how sexy and hot they thought they were...

Its called having an opinion and if you don't agree with it then your up yr own arse..

It's just a shame that some people with opinions seem to be lacking in social skills and can only put their point across by belittling, judging, condemning or stereotyping people that fall outside of their preferences.

That goes both ways, I don't agree with larger people and their admirers putting down slimmer people and their admirers either "

Yep i agree happens all the time on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Theres nothing beautiful about being over weight no matter how people dress it up..

Blokes are blokes we all think with our dicks and most will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag ...Obviously many of big ladies are more insecure than they make out,having to keep justify themselves on these tread week in week out

oh be oh so dammed perfect... id rather be podgey/fat/obese etc then have my head permantly up my own arse saying how dammed hot i am..

Defo not perfect or up our own arses !!

As for being hot only other people can judge how hot or fantastic you are ..

Our status is actually a piss take for someone we know,that put on their profile how sexy and hot they thought they were...

Its called having an opinion and if you don't agree with it then your up your own arse.."

Why don't you have your opinion using well thought out diction and not resort to calling people offensive names, or is that beyond you. There was no need to use the language and the insult you chose to use.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"

Theres nothing beautiful about being over weight no matter how people dress it up..

Blokes are blokes we all think with our dicks and most will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag ...Obviously many of big ladies are more insecure than they make out,having to keep justify themselves on these tread week in week out

oh be oh so dammed perfect... id rather be podgey/fat/obese etc then have my head permantly up my own arse saying how dammed hot i am..

Defo not perfect or up our own arses !!

As for being hot only other people can judge how hot or fantastic you are ..

Our status is actually a piss take for someone we know,that put on their profile how sexy and hot they thought they were...

Its called having an opinion and if you don't agree with it then your up your own arse..

Why don't you have your opinion using well thought out diction and not resort to calling people offensive names, or is that beyond you. There was no need to use the language and the insult you chose to use. "

Ahem sister....

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By *rokengirlWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Wow

Give me a big girl any day they are a real turn on,

I much prefer a bit of meat and curves on a lady than tiny stick insect that you might break getting it on, lol

That said for some hygiene can be a bit of a problem, but then it can for smaller people too and not just women....I think everyone would agree bo is a turn off"

What!! Personal hygiene unless you are so big you can't walk etc has NOTHING to do with size....I am a big girl and know and play with many other big girls and none of whom have bo!! To say that is just as bad as saying all big girls are lazy slobs etc.... I am a size 24 and work out three times a week for 90 minutes a time... I am fitter than most other girls at that gym..., size is just a number it doesn't define you I'm proof of that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"anyway I am off to eat a big fat cream cake.... see ya..........

im gonna have some full sugar and some chips

what with full fat mayo... can't remember the last time I had that... and loads of cheese....

Yeah don't forget the doughnuts !!"

sorry should you curvy non fat types are only be allowed to eat salad? Well thats using your own theory that us fatties are large cos we only eat crap junk food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have all the charm of a flatulent chimp.

Perhaps women would feel less insecure if people didn't keep attacking them all the time and holding them up to impossible, unreal standard of beauty portrayed on the media.

Too fat, too thin, too lazy, too much cellulite, boobs too big, boobs too small, too tall, too short, too "hippy", not "hippy" enough, bum too big, boobs too saggy, lips too thin, lips too thick, narrow eyes, close-set eyes, droopy eyes, wrinkles, acne etc. fucking etc. I could carry on all day listing ways women might not measure up.

And then there's the grooming women are expected to do. Hair, nails, hair removal, exfoliating, moisturising, makeup, perfume, jewellery...

Blokes shower, shave and dress and they're acceptable for a meet.

Some of these women who fail on a daily basis to be what it is actually impossible to be, might feel a bit happier if they were not constantly on a podium being judged. Some might feel empowered and encouraged to change things they don't like, rather than thinking there's no point as they'll never measure up. Some might have the confidence to enjoy life and try new things.

Bullying and picking people apart does not "help make them better people" or encourage them to improve themselves or any of the crap those who like to bash others bandy about.

If someone is insecure, belittling them for it only makes it worse.

You don't fancy someone? Don't meet them. You think someone should make an effort to change? Not that it's any of your business but regardless, undermining their confidence is not going to help them, even if they decide they want to change.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"

Theres nothing beautiful about being over weight no matter how people dress it up..

Blokes are blokes we all think with our dicks and most will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag ...Obviously many of big ladies are more insecure than they make out,having to keep justify themselves on these tread week in week out

oh be oh so dammed perfect... id rather be podgey/fat/obese etc then have my head permantly up my own arse saying how dammed hot i am..

Defo not perfect or up our own arses !!

As for being hot only other people can judge how hot or fantastic you are ..

Our status is actually a piss take for someone we know,that put on their profile how sexy and hot they thought they were...

Its called having an opinion and if you don't agree with it then your up your own arse..

Why don't you have your opinion using well thought out diction and not resort to calling people offensive names, or is that beyond you. There was no need to use the language and the insult you chose to use. "

I was not taking a swipe at anyone in particular..

what i said was no diff to the sort of remarks people make everyday,you made the choice to take it personaly.I was not speaking about women either but making an opinion based on why so many people are over weight.The word bastard is no more offensive than all the other colourful language you see and hear on here daily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

peoples size and shape will largely be determined by genetics aswell

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"anyway I am off to eat a big fat cream cake.... see ya..........

im gonna have some full sugar and some chips

what with full fat mayo... can't remember the last time I had that... and loads of cheese....

Yeah don't forget the doughnuts !!

sorry should you curvy non fat types are only be allowed to eat salad? Well thats using your own theory that us fatties are large cos we only eat crap junk food

"

Really ? Maybe you should do a little research into the subject then next you'll be telling me its because of being big boned etc etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

back to the topic lol!

yes is the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clue is in my profile name

Something about big boobs big hips big bums

Love it

Nothing more sexy than a full-figured curvaceous lady with confidence and love of the skin she is in. So sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people have all the charm of a flatulent chimp."

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

Make any opinion on this subject that they don't agree with and the BBW mafia are on your case....

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

Perhaps women would feel less insecure if people didn't keep attacking them all the time and holding them up to impossible, unreal standard of beauty portrayed on the media.

"

would agree but add that some men also have similar insecurities and pander to the 'industry standard' of perfection and attrativeness....

Sales of grooming products, cosmetic surgery etc have increased also for men..

The 'industry' is supported by people buying the products, how many who are unhappy with their image, size etc help to prop up an industry which in general deems that 'they' the consumer will never be 'beautifull' as per their standards?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Make any opinion on this subject that they don't agree with and the BBW mafia are on your case...."

differing opinions are all well and good..

maybe the delivery or terminology used is the issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like to point people in the direction of thttp://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/123440his thread.

I know why I am fat I eat too much but I do lead a very active lifestyle and I do exercise. My main factor is that I comfort eat when I am either low, stressed or going through hell or all of the above.

Now we all have good and bad things that we all like or dont like about our own bodies. Personally I hate my tummy 2 c sections especially the lower part now I can loose a load of weight and have saggy skin or get healthy and accept who I am.

We all have preferences on what type of person we like although I am a bbw well I think I am beautiful. My Ideal lady is a size 14 to 16 with curves and soft squidgy boobs that I can play with.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Make any opinion on this subject that they don't agree with and the BBW mafia are on your case...."

No calling people fat lazy bastards.. will of course provoke a reaction..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Make any opinion on this subject that they don't agree with and the BBW mafia are on your case...."

Not true, make a reasoned, polite and well informed opinion and you will get a decent reply about it.

Make sweeping generalised statements that can be construed as offensive (whether or not you aimed that an individual) and people will certainly call you on it.

Not entirely sure what you thought would happen. Did you expect us all to be too concerned with eating to defend ourselves? Why do you think you have the right to an opinion but no one else does?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make any opinion on this subject that they don't agree with and the BBW mafia are on your case...."

People are on your case not for your opinion but for the delightful way you expressed it, and your beautiful stereotyping.

Start throwing around insults and people are liable to get riled.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think some of the ladies who class themselves as BBW and then need to create threads for reassurance and some of the guys who need to declare their admiration to the site..... create some of the tension on the subject.

If no big deal was made of it, ladies classing themselves as BBW's would be inclusive, rather than being made exclusive.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"the fact people keep asking this question, may signify that there is a level of self confidence issues greater than people admit.

"

Quite agree with you. Seems like a thinly veiled attempt of ego boosting. As night follows day you then get those unable to express their preferences without being nasty: and that's from those for and against.

If you lack confidence and need your ego massaging or feel the need to justify any aspect of your life to people on here...step away from the computer!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and slimmer ladies being badged as less fun and rattling...... never helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and slimmer ladies being badged as less fun and rattling...... never helps"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some of the ladies who class themselves as BBW and then need to create threads for reassurance and some of the guys who need to declare their admiration to the site..... create some of the tension on the subject.

If no big deal was made of it, ladies classing themselves as BBW's would be inclusive, rather than being made exclusive."

Agreed. We're all people, not a number on a clothing label.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I think some of the ladies who class themselves as BBW and then need to create threads for reassurance and some of the guys who need to declare their admiration to the site..... create some of the tension on the subject.

If no big deal was made of it, ladies classing themselves as BBW's would be inclusive, rather than being made exclusive."

have to say i agree with you View. i know i comment on a lot of the threads but thats just cos i like a bun fight now and then

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I think some of the ladies who class themselves as BBW and then need to create threads for reassurance and some of the guys who need to declare their admiration to the site..... create some of the tension on the subject.

If no big deal was made of it, ladies classing themselves as BBW's would be inclusive, rather than being made exclusive.

Agreed. We're all people, not a number on a clothing label."

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I think some of the ladies who class themselves as BBW and then need to create threads for reassurance and some of the guys who need to declare their admiration to the site..... create some of the tension on the subject.

If no big deal was made of it, ladies classing themselves as BBW's would be inclusive, rather than being made exclusive."

Stop talking sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and slimmer ladies being badged as less fun and rattling...... never helps"

Don't forget that lovely term "stick insect" and the old favourite "I'd be scared I'd break them".

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I think some of the ladies who class themselves as BBW and then need to create threads for reassurance and some of the guys who need to declare their admiration to the site..... create some of the tension on the subject.

If no big deal was made of it, ladies classing themselves as BBW's would be inclusive, rather than being made exclusive.

Stop talking sense."

preparing for the Pride of Britain Awards and things that really matter

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"I think some of the ladies who class themselves as BBW and then need to create threads for reassurance and some of the guys who need to declare their admiration to the site..... create some of the tension on the subject.

If no big deal was made of it, ladies classing themselves as BBW's would be inclusive, rather than being made exclusive."

Ladies classing themselves as BBW wouldn't need to get defensive every time one of these threads starts if they didn't have insecurities...

Seen it every time one of these threads comes along...this time i'm the bad guy next time it will be somebody else with an opinion they don't like ..

Watch this space !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok here is a question why are bbw nights or parties so popular x maybe we should also have slim beautiful people nights too sorry no pun intended x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

It's the 'average' and 'medium' I feel sorry for in all of this.... they always seem to be left out.

It's there own fault though I suppose for not making their minds up one way or another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just thankful that I'm perfect.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Ok here is a question why are bbw nights or parties so popular x maybe we should also have slim beautiful people nights too sorry no pun intended x "

they are popular because it gives the women that go a sense of security, not bcause bbw's are more popular than slimmer people.

some women dont feel as confident as others with their size and so want to go when they KNOW that the majority of people at the club are big person friendly if you like.

its a shame that is has to be that way but there we go. i dont see why people cant just get on, even at bbw nights at chams there are a lot of non bbw's there as the club is open to the public. they seem to have fun still

i have to say that any night i have been to the club on my ow i have always found someone to play with, but there are also others who clearly dont like the look of me. just like life.

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"I think some of the ladies who class themselves as BBW and then need to create threads for reassurance and some of the guys who need to declare their admiration to the site..... create some of the tension on the subject.

If no big deal was made of it, ladies classing themselves as BBW's would be inclusive, rather than being made exclusive."

well put View...I cringe everytime I see a new BBW thread started whether it be by a BBW or by someone with a bug to bare about them...And yes I do call myself a BBW, not because I think I am beautiful but as a term for people reading my profile to think yea or nay about messaging me. Not everyone is going to be attracted by everyone else, that is human nature. Not eveyone is going to agree with everyone else's opinions either, but when given politely it is accepted in kind...start spouting generalizations and offensive ways to put it across on any subject and people are going to get their backs up. If you do not find bbw/fat women attractive that is your choice, but some people do and people saying that it is just because the men are desperate or can not get a slimmer woman so go for someone like me is just insulting. I am not making any excuses for my size, I know how I got this way and the reasons behind it are no one's business but my own...but to say that I do not care about myself or that I am just a lazy bastard(and not saying it was a personal comment but it was one aimed at bbws which I am one)you know nothing about my life or what I get up to on a daily basis, again I do not need to justify that either.(and when I use "you" it is not aimed at anyone in particular) Do I want to lose weight...yes...am I trying, yes...will I let people's opinions on here make me feel bad...no as it is those people with the problem not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the phrase BBW. Girls with a bit of size to them are far more of a turn on if you ask me.

Port Talbot never looked so good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a big lady..aint been a girl for ages ,sometimes its a turn on sometimes its a turn off....sometikes i feel sexy other times i feel like a beach whale....but slowly changing things for ME and my health NEVER for a man or to fit into society...im more than a plus size im me... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some of the ladies who class themselves as BBW and then need to create threads for reassurance and some of the guys who need to declare their admiration to the site..... create some of the tension on the subject.

If no big deal was made of it, ladies classing themselves as BBW's would be inclusive, rather than being made exclusive.

Ladies classing themselves as BBW wouldn't need to get defensive every time one of these threads starts if they didn't have insecurities...

Seen it every time one of these threads comes along...this time i'm the bad guy next time it will be somebody else with ian opinion they don't like ..

Watch this space !! "

"They" as in "them and us".

With that and the lazy bastards comment you really wonder why you're getting grief.

Fat women disgust you. That's clear from your posts on this thread and from many others you've made on the same subject. It's no reason to be abusive.

You prefer slim women, that's cool. Calling overweight women lazy, junk munching porkers isn't a good way to get that across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some of the ladies who class themselves as BBW and then need to create threads for reassurance and some of the guys who need to declare their admiration to the site..... create some of the tension on the subject.

If no big deal was made of it, ladies classing themselves as BBW's would be inclusive, rather than being made exclusive.

well put View...I cringe everytime I see a new BBW thread started whether it be by a BBW or by someone with a bug to bare about them...And yes I do call myself a BBW, not because I think I am beautiful but as a term for people reading my profile to think yea or nay about messaging me. Not everyone is going to be attracted by everyone else, that is human nature. Not eveyone is going to agree with everyone else's opinions either, but when given politely it is accepted in kind...start spouting generalizations and offensive ways to put it across on any subject and people are going to get their backs up. If you do not find bbw/fat women attractive that is your choice, but some people do and people saying that it is just because the men are desperate or can not get a slimmer woman so go for someone like me is just insulting. I am not making any excuses for my size, I know how I got this way and the reasons behind it are no one's business but my own...but to say that I do not care about myself or that I am just a lazy bastard(and not saying it was a personal comment but it was one aimed at bbws which I am one)you know nothing about my life or what I get up to on a daily basis, again I do not need to justify that either.(and when I use "you" it is not aimed at anyone in particular) Do I want to lose weight...yes...am I trying, yes...will I let people's opinions on here make me feel bad...no as it is those people with the problem not me. "

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I hate these relentless fucking BBW threads with a passion.

An insecure bigger woman posts a 'does anybody like me?' thread and it's like a red rag to a bull to all the petty haters on the site.

What is wrong with you people?? Grow the fuck up!

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

week after week another BBW thread comes up and week after week the same replies,some say they love em some dont,some always attack slim women,some say its because they are unhealthy

wouldnt it be easier if admin just banned these threads,im sure people are fed up with them

and at the end of the day it doesnt make any difference because people will just go with who ever they find attractive

its a big enough site for someone to find someone else they relate to

stop beating up on BBW and stop beating up on slim women,there are enough of us to go round

or heres a thought stop labelling yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't class myself as a BBW because I hate the term.

I'm overweight. I'm fat.

How I feel about that is my business. What I choose to do about that is my business.

HOWEVER, whatever I choose to do about it would be a bloody sight easier without people who think they are somehow better than me trying to make me feel ashamed and embarrassed about who I am and how I look.

Feeling shame and like a failure isn't a good starting platform upon which to build anything.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"I think some of the ladies who class themselves as BBW and then need to create threads for reassurance and some of the guys who need to declare their admiration to the site..... create some of the tension on the subject.

If no big deal was made of it, ladies classing themselves as BBW's would be inclusive, rather than being made exclusive.

Ladies classing themselves as BBW wouldn't need to get defensive every time one of these threads starts if they didn't have insecurities...

Seen it every time one of these threads comes along...this time i'm the bad guy next time it will be somebody else with ian opinion they don't like ..

Watch this space !!

"They" as in "them and us".

With that and the lazy bastards comment you really wonder why you're getting grief.

Fat women disgust you. That's clear from your posts on this thread and from many others you've made on the same subject. It's no reason to be abusive.

You prefer slim women, that's cool. Calling overweight women lazy, junk munching porkers isn't a good way to get that across."

"Junk munching porkers "your words not mine..

Them and us i say this because it is ,every time one of these threads starts its the same old gang of the BBW mafia that jump on the band wagon..

Regardless of my comment "which as i said before was not aimed at women but guys also " .

Doesn't matter the amount of nasty comments that also get made about skinny women on these threads though does it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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