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"Hi all, I've only just got set up and verified here after neglecting the site for some time, and I have a very newbie question. For people who have on their profile comments saying any first message must contain a face pic, is it silly to ask if you'd still want that if someone is verified, with a profile picture and has friends only photos? I can see a lot of profiles don't have a profile picture anyway, so not sure if it's just targeted at that. Any input is appreciated, or any other advice for a new person here!" It does strike me as double standards when someone without a picture on their profile demand a face pic. I get people have their reasons, but theybshoukd understand the reverse is true. Never bothered me on e way or another | |||
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"Hi all, I've only just got set up and verified here after neglecting the site for some time, and I have a very newbie question. For people who have on their profile comments saying any first message must contain a face pic, is it silly to ask if you'd still want that if someone is verified, with a profile picture and has friends only photos? I can see a lot of profiles don't have a profile picture anyway, so not sure if it's just targeted at that. Any input is appreciated, or any other advice for a new person here!" I have this on my profile. I’d still like a face pic attached. I can’t see your friends only pictures and I’m not looking if you are verified or not. I have it to see if I’m attracted to whoever sends me a message. Saves everyone time. | |||
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"Hi all, I've only just got set up and verified here after neglecting the site for some time, and I have a very newbie question. For people who have on their profile comments saying any first message must contain a face pic, is it silly to ask if you'd still want that if someone is verified, with a profile picture and has friends only photos? I can see a lot of profiles don't have a profile picture anyway, so not sure if it's just targeted at that. Any input is appreciated, or any other advice for a new person here!" Photo verified means nothing tbh, you don't have to have your face in the picture for it, I've seen verified profiles use stock pictures of models that I'm pretty sure ain't on here For me it's more a case of putting a face to who I'm talking to and not just a stranger, the last thing I would want is to talk to someone, and then find I'm potentially not attracted to them and then have to let them down | |||
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"You can ask for what you like. The other party can choose to respond or not. " This is true, I ask for a breakdown of their usual weekly shop. How much they spend on groceries, toiletries etc. everyone who doesn’t supply this is fake. *I once asked for someone to tell me how they separated their re-cycling. She did, I was super impressed. true story, I liked her. | |||
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"I need a face pic first, in case it's someone who knows me or my family. " Mum? | |||
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"Hi all, I've only just got set up and verified here after neglecting the site for some time, and I have a very newbie question. For people who have on their profile comments saying any first message must contain a face pic, is it silly to ask if you'd still want that if someone is verified, with a profile picture and has friends only photos? I can see a lot of profiles don't have a profile picture anyway, so not sure if it's just targeted at that. Any input is appreciated, or any other advice for a new person here!" If you want to send a face pic do. If you don't want to, don't. I'm not jumping through hoops (or tickling hoops) for anyone. | |||
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"Hi all, I've only just got set up and verified here after neglecting the site for some time, and I have a very newbie question. For people who have on their profile comments saying any first message must contain a face pic, is it silly to ask if you'd still want that if someone is verified, with a profile picture and has friends only photos? I can see a lot of profiles don't have a profile picture anyway, so not sure if it's just targeted at that. Any input is appreciated, or any other advice for a new person here! If you want to send a face pic do. If you don't want to, don't. I'm not jumping through hoops (or tickling hoops) for anyone." Is that what you were tickling? xx | |||
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"I've never requested or sent a face pic on first message, I've always believed personality over looks is more attractive. Gotta say tho ... Jasmine has both!! " Oh my J xx | |||
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"I usually ask for a recent and clear one within a few messages. Don’t see the point in continuing without knowing I’m attracted. I’m lucky enough that I can put mine in public gallery so seems fair to ask x" Anyone who shows me theirs I show mine. It’s only fair. What I can’t get my head around is the demand for one off me, without me seeing them first. I don’t mean if I contact them, but rather the first way around. It’s odd…. I would expect someone who wants to call hand they should go first | |||
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"Hi all, I've only just got set up and verified here after neglecting the site for some time, and I have a very newbie question. For people who have on their profile comments saying any first message must contain a face pic, is it silly to ask if you'd still want that if someone is verified, with a profile picture and has friends only photos? I can see a lot of profiles don't have a profile picture anyway, so not sure if it's just targeted at that. Any input is appreciated, or any other advice for a new person here! It does strike me as double standards when someone without a picture on their profile demand a face pic. I get people have their reasons, but theybshoukd understand the reverse is true. Never bothered me on e way or another " It’s not double standards for a profile to state they want a face picture attached if you message. They aren’t messaging, you are the one initiating contact. I much prefer a face pic straight away or very early on in chatting. If someone attaches one to the first message and I’m interested then I will always send one in return. If I have to ask for one then I attach mine (when it’s not public) along with my request. | |||
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"Hi all, I've only just got set up and verified here after neglecting the site for some time, and I have a very newbie question. For people who have on their profile comments saying any first message must contain a face pic, is it silly to ask if you'd still want that if someone is verified, with a profile picture and has friends only photos? I can see a lot of profiles don't have a profile picture anyway, so not sure if it's just targeted at that. Any input is appreciated, or any other advice for a new person here! I have this on my profile. I’d still like a face pic attached. I can’t see your friends only pictures and I’m not looking if you are verified or not. I have it to see if I’m attracted to whoever sends me a message. Saves everyone time. " | |||
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