FabSwingers.com forum: The vulgar vs the vocabulary

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So this is a question for couples and women, and maybe the odd guy.

The opening message, do you prefer polite and enquiring or direct to the point?

Suggestive or direct?

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Polite.

It's never good to send 'hello slag, fancy a shag?' Nothing makes a vagina dry quicker than a message like that.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Straight to the point. Can’t be bothered with small chat over a website. Let’s meet for a drink. I’ll know more snout you and how I feel about you by the end of the 1st drink then I will 5 years messaging on here

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Polite. They don't get very far if they're anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight to the point. I want your cock size, sex positions and the alleyway we are meeting asap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Straight to the point. I want your cock size, sex positions and the alleyway we are meeting asap. "

Small, doggy, behind Asda?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Polite are my preference .

Straight to the point messages where people go into detail about what they want to do to me or visa versa or ones asking me to meet them just get deleted usually.They are a complete stranger why they think it would make me want to meet them is beyond me especially if they have read my profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite. I don’t want a message telling me what they think they can do to my wife. It’s cringey and chances are they couldn’t do it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Polite.

It's never good to send 'hello slag, fancy a shag?' Nothing makes a vagina dry quicker than a message like that. "

Although...rhyming couplets could work?...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Respectful is 100% essential, which includes politeness. I'm OK with some suggestive contents but

'How's u, fuck now!' doesn't cut it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Polite but not deferential.

Treat me like a person, not a cum bucket, but also not like nobility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Polite but not deferential.

Treat me like a person, not a cum bucket, but also not like nobility."

How about "Goddess, I worship thee"? Too much? #askingforafriend who might receive that kind of thing...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Polite but not deferential.

Treat me like a person, not a cum bucket, but also not like nobility.

How about "Goddess, I worship thee"? Too much? #askingforafriend who might receive that kind of thing..."

Makes my skin crawl...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Politeness never hurts anyone. But you can also be direct in a flirty way without sounding like a sex pest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This post turned out better than I anticipated!

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