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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you read a username do you envision a certain person? How many times do you get it right or wrong?

I say this because I see a username and click into the profile to see if there’s more of an image than just a cleavage or a cock, to see who I am reading or replying to.

Chances are I think ‘oh’ I didn’t expect them.

Even in real life, ‘Dave’ does not look like a Dave when I meet him. You know what I mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the image you make in your head matches them perfectly other times it's a pleasure being wrong as the username is just a name not an accurate description, although that guy "oldwartydick" did live up to it

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've been pleasantly surprised sometimes, though on more occasions, I've been spot on with my thoughts on someone x

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By *lectrumMan
over a year ago

south shields

Yes especially the hotwife usernames can be very misleading

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been pleasantly surprised sometimes, though on more occasions, I've been spot on with my thoughts on someone x"

So have I

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I've been pleasantly surprised sometimes, though on more occasions, I've been spot on with my thoughts on someone x

So have I "

Me too. I think that a username can be a deterrent to me. I've certainly swerved a few

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Don't forget socials, that used to be my biggest 'oooo you're nothing like I imagined'

I love that feeling of a nice surprise

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Don't forget socials, that used to be my biggest 'oooo you're nothing like I imagined'

I love that feeling of a nice surprise "

I'm terrible at socials as I never recognise people if they are dressed x

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

And you find out their username and think 'Noooooo - it can't be you. Nothing like I thought!'

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Some of the usernames I look at the person and think that's a very apt name! Pmsl! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't forget socials, that used to be my biggest 'oooo you're nothing like I imagined'

I love that feeling of a nice surprise

I'm terrible at socials as I never recognise people if they are dressed x"

I can turn up naked.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Don't forget socials, that used to be my biggest 'oooo you're nothing like I imagined'

I love that feeling of a nice surprise

I'm terrible at socials as I never recognise people if they are dressed x

I can turn up naked. "

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been pleasantly surprised sometimes, though on more occasions, I've been spot on with my thoughts on someone x

So have I

Me too. I think that a username can be a deterrent to me. I've certainly swerved a few "

Maybe the same. Some names also draw me in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't forget socials, that used to be my biggest 'oooo you're nothing like I imagined'

I love that feeling of a nice surprise

I'm terrible at socials as I never recognise people if they are dressed x

I can turn up naked.

x"

If it helps.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Some of the names are very imaginative and show a bit of thought even if they are a bit risque, others well!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

People probably expect me to turn up with a blue rinse and my knitting.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Don't forget socials, that used to be my biggest 'oooo you're nothing like I imagined'

I love that feeling of a nice surprise

I'm terrible at socials as I never recognise people if they are dressed x

I can turn up naked. "

Where would you put the cream though??

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By *lossyLegsGlassesCouple
over a year ago

stafford

We do love an imaginative username

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't forget socials, that used to be my biggest 'oooo you're nothing like I imagined'

I love that feeling of a nice surprise

I'm terrible at socials as I never recognise people if they are dressed x

I can turn up naked.

Where would you put the cream though?? "

Bend over and I’ll show y…….

Erm, I’ll carry it in my hand.

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Now wondering if people would expect us to turn up in a smart shirt riding a horse

*disclaimer - I'm terrified of them so that would never happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now wondering if people would expect us to turn up in a smart shirt riding a horse

*disclaimer - I'm terrified of them so that would never happen "

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I am a wide gritty expanse if anyone was wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking this after the last group social I went to. I realised I should probably change my username after having to try and introduce myself

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath


"When you read a username do you envision a certain person? How many times do you get it right or wrong?

I say this because I see a username and click into the profile to see if there’s more of an image than just a cleavage or a cock, to see who I am reading or replying to.

Chances are I think ‘oh’ I didn’t expect them.

Even in real life, ‘Dave’ does not look like a Dave when I meet him. You know what I mean? "

Every time I read your username I think of woody from toy story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't pay any attention to usernames, normally they're just spur of the moment thoughts.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

On a slight tangent though, many profile names put me off even looking into their profiles!! *shudder*

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery


"I don't pay any attention to usernames, normally they're just spur of the moment thoughts."

This is a gold standard username ^^^

Cherry x

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By *unfriendly 123Man
over a year ago

boston

Does anyone use there real name

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On a slight tangent though, many profile names put me off even looking into their profiles!! *shudder*"

It’s related. And I agree, it can, but above I did say some draw you in.

*I like elderflower. I make the champagne each year.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"On a slight tangent though, many profile names put me off even looking into their profiles!! *shudder*"

Me too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you read a username do you envision a certain person? How many times do you get it right or wrong?

I say this because I see a username and click into the profile to see if there’s more of an image than just a cleavage or a cock, to see who I am reading or replying to.

Chances are I think ‘oh’ I didn’t expect them.

Even in real life, ‘Dave’ does not look like a Dave when I meet him. You know what I mean?

Every time I read your username I think of woody from toy story "

I feel I should apologise.

However……. You can play with me if you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think usernames of women give less away so I don’t really ever know what to expect. With men, I actually think people suit their usernames well

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By *rDiscretionXXXMan
over a year ago

Gilfach

I'm always amazed by those guys that give themselves names like BitchTamer or FannyRuiner. Are they not thinking at all?

ps. I made those names up, and checked to make sure they didn't exist. I originally used slightly stronger language for one of them, and found that there is already someone with that name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is a play on a word.

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By *rDiscretionXXXMan
over a year ago

Gilfach

It took me a few seconds. Well done sal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naaaa i give people nickname based on interactions

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"On a slight tangent though, many profile names put me off even looking into their profiles!! *shudder*"

Hopefully mine doesn't and people can tell I'm just having fun with the name.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On a slight tangent though, many profile names put me off even looking into their profiles!! *shudder*

Hopefully mine doesn't and people can tell I'm just having fun with the name. "

Having fun with your what?….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It took me a few seconds. Well done sal. "

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It took me a few seconds. Well done sal.

Thank you."

It’s taking me longer

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales


"On a slight tangent though, many profile names put me off even looking into their profiles!! *shudder*

Hopefully mine doesn't and people can tell I'm just having fun with the name. "

I took yours as jokey. I do sometimes wonder if ours makes us look up ourselves when really we took it from an Alan Partridge episode, big fans.

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By *awtybikerMan
over a year ago

Barnoldswick

Never really thought about it, although I have been thinking of changing mine, but I haven’t thought of a good one yet

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

People really shouldn't use first names imo

(sorry Jim)

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

You only need to hear first names in some related context for any of them to work fine imo, but without any context they can immediately remind you of anyone that you happen to know with it, from a close colleague to an errant sibling! The only initial context for the usernames on Fab is being on a sex site unfortunately.

It's why I find one particular name beginning with S (which seems weirdly quite popular on here) really uncomfortable to read sometimes. People who have it seem to love to alliterate with it too! Kind of does my head in. -pt-

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It took me a few seconds. Well done sal.

Thank you.

It’s taking me longer "

I needed help, that’s brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People probably expect me to turn up with a blue rinse and my knitting.

"

Not after they've seen you on the forum for more than a day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking this after the last group social I went to. I realised I should probably change my username after having to try and introduce myself "

Nooooooo

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Some folks see my username & assume I'm Chinese hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is disappointed when they realise I’m not blue

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Haha people just think I’m older by my name haha

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My username is self explanatory

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By *orthlands85Man
over a year ago

Wick

I think mine describes what I like to do pretty well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It took me a few seconds. Well done sal.

Thank you.

It’s taking me longer

I needed help, that’s brilliant. "

Haha. Thank you. You got there then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"On a slight tangent though, many profile names put me off even looking into their profiles!! *shudder*

Hopefully mine doesn't and people can tell I'm just having fun with the name.

I took yours as jokey. I do sometimes wonder if ours makes us look up ourselves when really we took it from an Alan Partridge episode, big fans. "

Good good

No, by the look of your profile, your username is very apt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very easy to judge someone based on a profile picture and bio until you get chatting. We can also forget that people into things we are not can actually be very pleasant people to talk to once you put aside life/social choices too. And I don't mean for that to sound as bad as it reads because its difficult to get across! Swinging could be considered as an exciting hobby to some but also an opportunity for more intimacy for others. That's my view on it anyway

But then again OP, some Dave's really do turn out to be just that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's very easy to judge someone based on a profile picture and bio until you get chatting. We can also forget that people into things we are not can actually be very pleasant people to talk to once you put aside life/social choices too. And I don't mean for that to sound as bad as it reads because its difficult to get across! Swinging could be considered as an exciting hobby to some but also an opportunity for more intimacy for others. That's my view on it anyway

But then again OP, some Dave's really do turn out to be just that! "

Haha. Also, you have a good view, and the username thing will work for one people to project an image. Thy image might not be what they look like etc..

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"On a slight tangent though, many profile names put me off even looking into their profiles!! *shudder*

Hopefully mine doesn't and people can tell I'm just having fun with the name. "

No! Yours is a fun name a certainly conveys a sense of humour.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never been drawn in by a name alone but I have been put off by a few and I'm not just talking about the more graphic ones.

As controversial as it might be I just laugh now when I see the word lady in a profile name. I accept it's a broad generalisation but my experience has been that very few of them are very ladylike and by that I mean in the way they treat other people.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Think a username says everything

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I like the ones that easily themselves out of my “interested” list

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"On a slight tangent though, many profile names put me off even looking into their profiles!! *shudder*

Hopefully mine doesn't and people can tell I'm just having fun with the name.

No! Yours is a fun name a certainly conveys a sense of humour."

Plus, if people knew enough about dinosaurs they would know there were chicken sized ones, so it's not even a brag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unsure what my username makes people think

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"Unsure what my username makes people think "

Ah it's too easy...

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By *rDiscretionXXXMan
over a year ago

Gilfach


"Unsure what my username makes people think"

It makes me think:

" 'Quim', you don't hear that word very often".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is disappointed when they realise I’m not blue "

But..you are blue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my username sounds a little mysterious and sexy. Until you realise what it's inspired by...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like the ones that easily themselves out of my “interested” list "

I like ones I can pronounce,…. ….

*it’s a joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you read a username do you envision a certain person? How many times do you get it right or wrong?

I say this because I see a username and click into the profile to see if there’s more of an image than just a cleavage or a cock, to see who I am reading or replying to.

Chances are I think ‘oh’ I didn’t expect them.

Even in real life, ‘Dave’ does not look like a Dave when I meet him. You know what I mean? "

I imagine you as Andy’s backup cowboy toy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unsure what my username makes people think

Ah it's too easy...

"

A walking c%*t maybe?

You would be right

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

These days I just determine if people are someone I’d like to chat with, someone I could chat with or someone I’d rather not chat with and don’t give a fig about what they look like.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"Unsure what my username makes people think

Ah it's too easy...

A walking c%*t maybe?

You would be right "

You're not in the slightest, I was being a mischief maker. Plus quim is one of my favourite words. Things.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

There’s definitely some usernames which make you cringe and regardless of whether that person surprises you or not, the fact they’ve chosen that name puts you right off

You’d never want to display the veri of certain usernames

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted the name 'ChlamydiaKaren' but it was already taken.

I think it sounds classy.

I can never guess the real person behind the profile name.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wanted the name 'ChlamydiaKaren' but it was already taken.

I think it sounds classy.

I can never guess the real person behind the profile name. "

Already taken, or was it given to her?

*sorry

I can’t guess either, reason for the post. Lots and especially when faces are not shown and I finally get to see who’s behind the curtain, take me by surprise.

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