FabSwingers.com forum: Paying for a hotel room

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you ask for half or do you cover the cost?

We’re in the mindset that you’re our guest so we should cover the room…? After all, we’re getting to fuck you haha

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

If Just two people then half or one pays then the other or one pays for other stuff etc. As a couple we would always pay if someone else joined us x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to when I was younger but not no more. I only meet if they can accommodate. No longer paying for hotel rooms for first time to find out that I wouldn’t meet them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I suggest a hotel that means I am willing to pay, if he wants to contribute then I suggest he pay for dinner.

If he suggests a hotel then I offer to pay towards cost or I buy dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on scenario i guess. you as a couple might be booking room anyway..

is it a premier inn at £65 or Indigo at £185 (or more!)

who got dinner or drinks?

who wants to pay as an alpha dominance move..

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If a couple are with a single person should the couple pay two thirds ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go with the flow, if we're planning a hotel visit anyway, we'll pay

If though, a hotel is suggested entirely for the meet, I think splitting the cost is fair.

Everyone is involved, so all should cover the cost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we’re suggesting the hotel we’ll pay. If they suggest it we would offer half.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ll pay, as more often than not we’ll be staying the night.

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By *agicM53XMan
over a year ago

Orpington

If I invite you, I pay. If you invite me, I offer to pay half...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a couple are with a single person should the couple pay two thirds ?"

I don't think so, it's likely of one of the couple wasn't interested to be involved, neither would be there.

Of course there are those that play alone, though I'm thinking of their aim is to pay together.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Our philosophy is if you are our guests, either in our home or out, then we cover the costs for accommodation, food etc.

However, we also know some people are fiercely independent and so won’t force it or create an argument over it.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"If I suggest a hotel that means I am willing to pay, if he wants to contribute then I suggest he pay for dinner.

If he suggests a hotel then I offer to pay towards cost or I buy dinner "

......awaiting invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've paid for the room (or airbnb, more fun!) quite often, partly because I'm a trad gent who believes in paying for a first date, maybe more, sometimes because I knew the other person wasn't so well off. Happy to share costs or even get a freebie (cos I'm worth it, you know?) It would put me off immensely if anyone made it an issue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am paying for it for a number off reasons

1st safty it’s in my name there’s a record off me being there

2 I probably be staying there the night so I just pay for it sins I be useing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always pay for the room if I'm inviting you as a guest. I never accept anything from someone for it but I do appreciate when they offer anyway.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

We’d pay. It would be our choice & we’d be staying and getting the breakfast too

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

If I’m meeting someone solo for the first time I would always offer to pay

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We would pay as we would use it as a nice night away for us together followed by a breakfast in the morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always paid for the hotel as I enjoy the time away as much as the date..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half each.

Unless one person is sleeping there, then they pay.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

If we are meeting halfway we share costs, if either of us is travelling to each other the other one will host

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I love a nice hotel so I tend to pay. I don't want to be restricted by someone else's budget.

If it's someone I meet regularly then I tend to travel to them so no hotel required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always book a nice hotel as often get a good discount due to using them alot with work

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

whoever invites the other should cover the costs in my eyes, if i was the person not paying then i would pay for the food and drinks etc

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

"If I suggest a hotel that means I am willing to pay, if he wants to contribute then I suggest he pay for dinner.

If he suggests a hotel then I offer to pay towards cost or I buy dinner "

See now thats cool, more of you out there would be fantastic

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Depends on the circumstances.

If I’m not sleeping the night (and it’s not a day room) then I don’t expect to pay.

If I do stay the night then il pay half.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

If somebody already has a room, like they are in holiday, then I wouldn't expect to pay. If it's a group decision to book one then I think everybody should chip in. If somebody really wants to pay then I'm not going to stop them but it wouldn't feel right.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

If I'm inviting a guest(s)then I'll pay for the room

In the past when a couple and myself have agreed to use a room we have split the cost

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I don't like to be paid for so will always want to pay half.

But I'm also not going to argue over it.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I pay because it's my choice to not accommodate at my home x

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

We always pay. That way it’s in our name, we can arrive whenever we like to get ourselves ready and if it’s an overnight then we stay there, just the two of us.

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By *orders CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Kelso

"Do you ask for half or do you cover the cost?

We’re in the mindset that you’re our guest so we should cover the room…? After all, we’re getting to fuck you haha "

We generally take it in turns to pay but it depends on the situation xx

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm another one who only meet if they can accommodate (which doesn't rule out hotels or clubs for that matter)

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

I'd like to go Dutch in the least

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

I used to take turns with a regular friend but i always booked it and he gave me the £.

Except one time he booked a twin room... Mid session the beds parted and I disappeared down the gap

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I always pay half of everything during a meet.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"We’d pay. It would be our choice & we’d be staying and getting the breakfast too

lol "no really I insist, this is on us."

..."c ya"

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

It varies, last Fb we took turns, I always offer to pay or at least half

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"Do you ask for half or do you cover the cost?

We’re in the mindset that you’re our guest so we should cover the room…? After all, we’re getting to fuck you haha "

That would be our understanding too. However guests could always feel free to bring some tasty treats along with them

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