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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Let’s be positive, my list is very small to things that turn me off, I mean, with the right partner anything could be fun right?

But explain one or a few sexual things that do turn you on.

Me, words seducing and suggestive words that prelude a passionate kiss. - just one

*possible sexting, which was mentioned as someone’s ‘turn off’

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Trust

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trust"

I trust my team mates, it doesn’t get me hard though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The build up with a gorgeous person …

The kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour, intelligence and a senile of fun.

Lips, curves, broad shoulders, a shapely penis.

Heels, gloves, fetish wear.

Bi couples.

To name a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stoking of my neck and back I know some one that gets turned on by someone doing a low growl in their ear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence (not to be confused with cockiness).

Someone holding my gaze for a second longer than usual- just long enough for the penny to drop and make me release they're thinking "yeah, you'd get it lady."

Back of my neck being kissed or lightly bitten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humour, intelligence and a senile of fun.

Lips, curves, broad shoulders, a shapely penis.

Heels, gloves, fetish wear.

Bi couples.

To name a few"

*sense of ..... not sure

senile fun sends the right message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

List of things but nothing that others on here want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay; a grab, a spank, a tease.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Someone just finding me sexually attractive, and openly admitting it, is quite a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"List of things but nothing that others on here want "

Oh and Wonko turns me on too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"List of things but nothing that others on here want

Oh and Wonko turns me off too"

FTFY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The teasing that comes with the naughty chat. A must when you all live so bloody far away!!! J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice friendly & patient people who don’t think they are gods gift and aren’t up their own arses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Confidence (not to be confused with cockiness).

Someone holding my gaze for a second longer than usual- just long enough for the penny to drop and make me release they're thinking "yeah, you'd get it lady."

Back of my neck being kissed or lightly bitten."

*looks in the direction of this profile…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In person a bit of rough play, I have a thing about hands…holding me down, holding my hips grabbing my hand and wrists. Oooo this is. making me all fluttery J x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Kissing and teasing. The light touch with the promise of more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of things. Love cuffs or rope x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

A gorgeous face. Great chat. Personalty. The ability for them to overlook my ugliness. They smell nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often just that look and smile is enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love soft long kisses and touches and erotic conversation while playing. I hate porn where they don't kiss or speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accents,conversation, humour, "I want you" eyes, a bit of facial hair...

Not much really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Often just that look and smile is enough "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing the back of my neck and feeling his rock hard cock against my ass.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Accents,conversation, humour, "I want you" eyes, a bit of facial hair...

Not much really "

x

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

The eyes. The look of hunger for me in his eyes is enough to put me to my knees!

The delicate touches too, like pushing my hair behind my ear to kiss my neck, whispering in my ear absolute filth when we're out in public.... grrrrrr!

Cherry x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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A good voice.

Someone who makes me feel desired. Like they can't wait to fuck me and until they do their cock is meaningless, just a thing bobbing about.

Kisses that make me melt into the other.

Witty folk who make me think. Challenge me because most of the time people let me get away with utter crap.

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

A room plenty of nude bodies, wet skins eager to be touched, greedy mouths searching each other, bold hands exploring hidden treasures, creative libidos challenging their boundaries, moans of pure pleasure, the scent of sex...

Can you picture it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Accents,conversation, humour, "I want you" eyes, a bit of facial hair...

Not much really

x"

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Cuddling a woman with her sat on my lap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a dam thing.

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Boots, bums, boobs, brains.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also forgot, someone who can keep me in line ....by no means a sub or looking for any kind of dom, but a strong man is a massive turn on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a dam thing. "

This is true

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

Kissing… can’t beat a great knicker fizzing fanny fluttering kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biting makes me orgasmic and gives me goosebumps all over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To clarify.. Being bitten...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten... "

I have to agree especially on the back of the neck

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery


"To clarify.. Being bitten... "

This ^^^^ Oh my days this

Cherry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

I have to agree especially on the back of the neck "

Funny how common this is....I thought it was just me.

See when you watch the wild life programmes and the big male lion grabs the lioness and bites the back of her neck before he starts humping away...."Ooft....gies some of that ya durty big bastard!"

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Also forgot, someone who can keep me in line ....by no means a sub or looking for any kind of dom, but a strong man is a massive turn on."

Get back in the shower.....I'm on my way xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten... "

Damn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

I have to agree especially on the back of the neck "

Anywhere around the neck or shoulders!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

This ^^^^ Oh my days this

Cherry x"

I fucking love it.. Do you get the goosebump reaction??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

I have to agree especially on the back of the neck

Funny how common this is....I thought it was just me.

See when you watch the wild life programmes and the big male lion grabs the lioness and bites the back of her neck before he starts humping away...."Ooft....gies some of that ya durty big bastard!" "

Oooooh yes, yes,yes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

I have to agree especially on the back of the neck

Funny how common this is....I thought it was just me.

See when you watch the wild life programmes and the big male lion grabs the lioness and bites the back of her neck before he starts humping away...."Ooft....gies some of that ya durty big bastard!" "

Yaaaasss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

Damn. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smile can turn me on, the look in the eyes. Kissing me on the neck. Pretty much any touch anywhere will make me shiver, in a good way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

I have to agree especially on the back of the neck

Funny how common this is....I thought it was just me.

See when you watch the wild life programmes and the big male lion grabs the lioness and bites the back of her neck before he starts humping away...."Ooft....gies some of that ya durty big bastard!"

Yaaaasss! "

Ha ha ha....we are a strange bunch, eh?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

That first touch of fingertips across a table or your hands brushing together as you walk.

Kissing, stroking, nibbling behind my ear. Don’t want to give too much away

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

This ^^^^ Oh my days this

Cherry x

I fucking love it.. Do you get the goosebump reaction?? "

I can't stand up! Goosebumps over my whole body and my legs turn to jelly! Instantly wet and ready

Cherry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

Damn.

"

Mines more us both naked her arms wrapped around me as she bites on my neck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also forgot, someone who can keep me in line ....by no means a sub or looking for any kind of dom, but a strong man is a massive turn on.

Get back in the shower.....I'm on my way xx"

Don't forget your soap on a rope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good sense of humour, and a happy disposition. Looks not important but my fetish is glasses

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

A switch

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

I have to agree especially on the back of the neck

Funny how common this is....I thought it was just me.

See when you watch the wild life programmes and the big male lion grabs the lioness and bites the back of her neck before he starts humping away...."Ooft....gies some of that ya durty big bastard!" "

Oh dear lord yes please.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I have a few but one that gets me really hard and I struggle to hold back is when I'm fucking in missionary and I can kiss the woman's nyloned foot.

Off for a lie down now.

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By *igGfunMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Dirty talk and long passionate kissing and neck biting/kissing for me, do that and I'm hard before my trousers are down ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of things,

A knowing look across a room.

The simple fact they want to be devoured by me.

Teasing, kissing their body from head to toe, mixed in with biting, licking and sucking, but nowhere too long. Running my finger tips up their inner thigh, lightly grazing the lips and watching them flinch in anticipation of more.

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Lots of things,

A knowing look across a room.

The simple fact they want to be devoured by me.

Teasing, kissing their body from head to toe, mixed in with biting, licking and sucking, but nowhere too long. Running my finger tips up their inner thigh, lightly grazing the lips and watching them flinch in anticipation of more. "

I'll take one of these please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

I have to agree especially on the back of the neck

Funny how common this is....I thought it was just me.

See when you watch the wild life programmes and the big male lion grabs the lioness and bites the back of her neck before he starts humping away...."Ooft....gies some of that ya durty big bastard!"

Yaaaasss!

Ha ha ha....we are a strange bunch, eh? "

Its like a primal response

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

This ^^^^ Oh my days this

Cherry x

I fucking love it.. Do you get the goosebump reaction??

I can't stand up! Goosebumps over my whole body and my legs turn to jelly! Instantly wet and ready

Cherry x"

The best part is we can be fully clothed and anywhere vanilla. I can sneak up behind her, find the fleshy bit of her shoulder (trap muscle for those familiar) be all ‘gentle loving boyfriend’ and shit by leaning kiss her there but open my mouth and gently sink my teeth and buckle her in an instant..

Ssso FRRRRRICKIN hhhhhhhhot!

Hades

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

Damn.

"

Bit me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

This ^^^^ Oh my days this

Cherry x

I fucking love it.. Do you get the goosebump reaction??

I can't stand up! Goosebumps over my whole body and my legs turn to jelly! Instantly wet and ready

Cherry x"

Fuck.. Taxi to cherry's gaff!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

This ^^^^ Oh my days this

Cherry x

I fucking love it.. Do you get the goosebump reaction??

I can't stand up! Goosebumps over my whole body and my legs turn to jelly! Instantly wet and ready

Cherry x

The best part is we can be fully clothed and anywhere vanilla. I can sneak up behind her, find the fleshy bit of her shoulder (trap muscle for those familiar) be all ‘gentle loving boyfriend’ and shit by leaning kiss her there but open my mouth and gently sink my teeth and buckle her in an instant..

Ssso FRRRRRICKIN hhhhhhhhot!

Hades "

Faaacckkk taxi to Hades

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

Damn.

Bit me! "

I'm the bitee, not the biter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to pinpoint it as my mojo comes and goes far too often

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Lace underwear and quite husky voices. If you’ve recently had a sore throat, or even better had your tonsils out I’d love to chat

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

This ^^^^ Oh my days this

Cherry x

I fucking love it.. Do you get the goosebump reaction??

I can't stand up! Goosebumps over my whole body and my legs turn to jelly! Instantly wet and ready

Cherry x

The best part is we can be fully clothed and anywhere vanilla. I can sneak up behind her, find the fleshy bit of her shoulder (trap muscle for those familiar) be all ‘gentle loving boyfriend’ and shit by leaning kiss her there but open my mouth and gently sink my teeth and buckle her in an instant..

Ssso FRRRRRICKIN hhhhhhhhot!

Hades

Faaacckkk taxi to Hades "

We’ll give you both a demonstration when we next see you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lace underwear and quite husky voices. If you’ve recently had a sore throat, or even better had your tonsils out I’d love to chat "

Oh i debated doing a fab dirty talking video when i had covid last week my voice was a proper premium number one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify.. Being bitten...

This ^^^^ Oh my days this

Cherry x

I fucking love it.. Do you get the goosebump reaction??

I can't stand up! Goosebumps over my whole body and my legs turn to jelly! Instantly wet and ready

Cherry x

The best part is we can be fully clothed and anywhere vanilla. I can sneak up behind her, find the fleshy bit of her shoulder (trap muscle for those familiar) be all ‘gentle loving boyfriend’ and shit by leaning kiss her there but open my mouth and gently sink my teeth and buckle her in an instant..

Ssso FRRRRRICKIN hhhhhhhhot!

Hades

Faaacckkk taxi to Hades

We’ll give you both a demonstration when we next see you "

Oh i love hands on demos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little light BDSM ,spanking,blindfolds ...spreader bars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lace underwear and quite husky voices. If you’ve recently had a sore throat, or even better had your tonsils out I’d love to chat "

Check

Check

Is the penis a deal breaker?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hard to pinpoint it as my mojo comes and goes far too often "

Yes. People push buttons I never knew I had. Some turn me on in ways others don’t, and vise versa. It’s an odd thing but wonderful at the same time.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Kissing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing x"

Definitely xx

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

The smell off freshly brewed coffee in the morning and cinnamon pastries... Deep blowjob's with lots of eye contact works too

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