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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Help me out fabbers.

I have a work colleague who I know really well. Never in a million years would I think she would be on fab.

Yesterday I see a profile with her pic on it. Not sure if it's a genuine profile or not.

Don't really want her to know thatt I'm on here either so how do I approach the subject with her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't, you block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know what to do it is staring you in the face

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Block

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs


"You don't, you block and move on"

End of thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you dont want her to know why would you consider approaching the subject with her im a little lost

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Help me out fabbers.

I have a work colleague who I know really well. Never in a million years would I think she would be on fab.

Yesterday I see a profile with her pic on it. Not sure if it's a genuine profile or not.

Don't really want her to know thatt I'm on here either so how do I approach the subject with her?

"

You don't want her to know but want to know how to talk to her about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if it's a good idea to, potentially, cause yourself issues at your employment.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Could you ask her out for a drink without mentioning Fab ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't, you block and move on"

Exactly correct!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the photo you have seen be from another social media platform?

Of course you can always stick a conversation up and ‘your friend is on this site and he sent you a photo of someone he’s trying to pluck the courage up to talk to’ then show her the photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help me out fabbers.

I have a work colleague who I know really well. Never in a million years would I think she would be on fab.

Yesterday I see a profile with her pic on it. Not sure if it's a genuine profile or not.

Don't really want her to know thatt I'm on here either so how do I approach the subject with her?

You don't want her to know but want to know how to talk to her about it?"

I’m guessing in case someone is using her photo on a fake profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is the photo you have seen be from another social media platform?

Of course you can always stick a conversation up and ‘your friend is on this site and he sent you a photo of someone he’s trying to pluck the courage up to talk to’ then show her the photo"

As a woman I would find that creepier than being asked outright. This is someone's private life that may want keep private, being approached at work would also be a no

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Help me out fabbers.

I have a work colleague who I know really well. Never in a million years would I think she would be on fab.

Yesterday I see a profile with her pic on it. Not sure if it's a genuine profile or not.

Don't really want her to know thatt I'm on here either so how do I approach the subject with her?

You don't want her to know but want to know how to talk to her about it?

I’m guessing in case someone is using her photo on a fake profile"

I understood that is the OP's concern. Someone is using her private photos to open a Fab profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help me out fabbers.

I have a work colleague who I know really well. Never in a million years would I think she would be on fab.

Yesterday I see a profile with her pic on it. Not sure if it's a genuine profile or not.

Don't really want her to know thatt I'm on here either so how do I approach the subject with her?

You don't want her to know but want to know how to talk to her about it?

I’m guessing in case someone is using her photo on a fake profile

I understood that is the OP's concern. Someone is using her private photos to open a Fab profile. "

Then they need to report it....It's not hard to check if you right click and open with Google lens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't, you block and move on"

This

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By *oft-and-gentle123Couple
over a year ago

thurrock

How do you know she hasn't worked out who you are by looking at this post , be a man ask her out talk about the normal things or block her simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help me out fabbers.

I have a work colleague who I know really well. Never in a million years would I think she would be on fab.

Yesterday I see a profile with her pic on it. Not sure if it's a genuine profile or not.

Don't really want her to know thatt I'm on here either so how do I approach the subject with her?

You don't want her to know but want to know how to talk to her about it?

I’m guessing in case someone is using her photo on a fake profile"
oh of course it would be for her protection my guess is either way the lass would be really embarrassed whether its fake and her pics used or if it is her profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open message to anyone who i work with who recognise me dont confront me about it its not going to end well thanks for your cooperation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't you keep using the word "Fab" in conversation? Such as "I saw a film on Netlix yesterday, it was fab", "Going out with my mates next weekend, it's going to be fab", see if she cottons on.

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By *hatEscalatedQuicklyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Help me out fabbers.

I have a work colleague who I know really well. Never in a million years would I think she would be on fab.

Yesterday I see a profile with her pic on it. Not sure if it's a genuine profile or not.

Don't really want her to know thatt I'm on here either so how do I approach the subject with her?

"

There's a few things that could help you decide if it's genuine or a chance someone has used her picture.

Is it a new profile? Has it been picture verified or verified by meets? Is the photo one from social media? Does the profile content sound like her if you know her well?

Just because you don't think she would be here doesn't mean she isn't.

We are very private people and even quite close friends wouldn't know we're here. That's how we like it. If she's genuinely here and posted a face pic she obviously doesn't mind people knowing. If you think it's a fake profile then report it, you don't need to speak to her about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Open message to anyone who i work with who recognise me dont confront me about it its not going to end well thanks for your cooperation "

Dave? Is that you? I didn't recognise you without the mascot suit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm concerned it's a fake profile. I'm not thinking of asking her for a meet just concerned that it's a fake.

The profile is a couples profile but says that she is now single

Worked with her a long time and consider a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm concerned it's a fake profile. I'm not thinking of asking her for a meet just concerned that it's a fake.

The profile is a couples profile but says that she is now single

Worked with her a long time and consider a friend. "
i would stay out of it its not your place to police the internet unless thats your job

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Does the profile have verifications ?

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Work should be just that...work. Anything else can get complicated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One but its not displayed. the age of the couple profile isn't right either so I smell a fake profile with my friends face pic. I think I'm going to stay out of it. Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her your penis and she might recognise it

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Have you considered messaging the profile without revealing who you are ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Show her your penis and she might recognise it "

I wish lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you considered messaging the profile without revealing who you are ?"

Yeah I have. Just a bland message. Unread and profile has been offline for a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Open message to anyone who i work with who recognise me dont confront me about it its not going to end well thanks for your cooperation

Dave? Is that you? I didn't recognise you without the mascot suit.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Would block the profile and forget about it personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm concerned it's a fake profile. I'm not thinking of asking her for a meet just concerned that it's a fake.

The profile is a couples profile but says that she is now single

Worked with her a long time and consider a friend. "

It's difficult. I'd want to know.

If she's a friend I'd ask her if she's on any internet dating sites.

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