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By *andMCromer OP Couple
over a year ago

Cromer

To the lovely ladies out there, my wife is worried about the after effects of anal, can you reassure her.... For my sake! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What after effects?

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By *axmanaterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

The shitting of sausages ? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's got nothing to worry about. The weirdest bit is feeling a bit empty and the phantom cock you think is in your arse afterwards. Or is that just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To the lovely ladies out there, my wife is worried about the after effects of anal, can you reassure her.... For my sake! Lol"
apparently it's not an issue, loads of lube and taking your time during penetration, don't try and ram it In and go mental she Will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest tip I can give is don’t force it lot off first times get put off because

Someone harp and harp at them about it

They done it just to stop the harping

And not injoyed it

Let her want it

Also long term effects

None at the moment and emmm

I took some pritty big things up there

And been banged more times than a car door

And still get the your so tight comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Biggest tip I can give is don’t force it lot off first times get put off because

Someone harp and harp at them about it

They done it just to stop the harping

And not injoyed it

Let her want it

Also long term effects

None at the moment and emmm

I took some pritty big things up there

And been banged more times than a car door

And still get the your so tight comments "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Biggest tip I can give is don’t force it lot off first times get put off because

Someone harp and harp at them about it

They done it just to stop the harping

And not injoyed it

Let her want it

Also long term effects

None at the moment and emmm

I took some pritty big things up there

And been banged more times than a car door

And still get the your so tight comments

True though I still get a giggle inside when I hear that

And I think to my self only if you new wonder if they be saying that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Biggest tip I can give is don’t force it lot off first times get put off because

Someone harp and harp at them about it

They done it just to stop the harping

And not injoyed it

Let her want it

Also long term effects

None at the moment and emmm

I took some pritty big things up there

And been banged more times than a car door

And still get the your so tight comments

True though I still get a giggle inside when I hear that

And I think to my self only if you new wonder if they be saying that

"
no one needs to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Biggest tip I can give is don’t force it lot off first times get put off because

Someone harp and harp at them about it

They done it just to stop the harping

And not injoyed it

Let her want it

Also long term effects

None at the moment and emmm

I took some pritty big things up there

And been banged more times than a car door

And still get the your so tight comments

True though I still get a giggle inside when I hear that

And I think to my self only if you new wonder if they be saying that

no one needs to know "

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London

I was very relaxed and loved it (lots of lube was key too).

The only after effect was me wanting more!!

That said, anal sex is not everyone’s cup of tea so if it ends up not being something she wants just respect her decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I enjoy experimenting alone with toys/plugs too. Takes the pressure of massively, and gets me pretty aroused

Anal for myself isn't always a sure thing. Sometimes it works for me, sometimes not. I don't stress about it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest advice to her is to relax as much as possible,don't tense up. I love anal, never used to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps my advice is what I've been told. I've never actually done anal

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Tell her to put the plastic sheets down and drink plenty of pink gin and she’ll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps my advice is what I've been told. I've never actually done anal "

Don't knock it till you've tried it perhaps?

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By *ocalguy4youMan
over a year ago

cardiff

"Ps my advice is what I've been told. I've never actually done anal

Don't knock it till you've tried it perhaps?

Good answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps my advice is what I've been told. I've never actually done anal

Don't knock it till you've tried it perhaps?

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I know, I'm not into guys but if a female wanted to peg me I could be down. But I've never given either

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"To the lovely ladies out there, my wife is worried about the after effects of anal, can you reassure her.... For my sake! Lol"

Why don't you let her fuck you in the ass to show her she has nothing to worry about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The echo after anal when she farts it will sound like a saxophone being played in a tin bucket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fine..if you douche beforehand first should be no issues. When going in if she pushes out slightly like she is going for a s... And breath in and lots of lube. Gently ease it in bit by bit . Just some friendly advice which makes it easier and pleasurable for all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of lube and take your time going in, once the initial 'ooh!' Is out the way you can slowly pick up pace but make sure she's comfortable throughout. Good luck

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

TGIF. (Tongue Goes In First)

You don't need to progress straight to anal sex. Maybe try a couple of sessions where you just use your tongue and a finger, so she gets used to the sensation. If its really not for her then respect her wishes.

Douche kits may help if she has a mental block about things getting messy. Have some dark towels and wet wipes on hand.

If she does want to progress then warm up with lots of vaginal sex first, maybe add a small buttplug so she can relax around it.

As said, lots of lube and GO GENTLY. Don't try and slide all the way in. Try just the tip, let her relax, go in a little more. Reassurance is always good. If she wants to continue let her dictate the pace. A vibrator on her clit may help her relax.

With a slow build up like this you may be getting a lack of stimulation. A cock ring can help you remain rigid enough for penetration.

If she isn't comfortable don't try and go back to vaginal without cleaning yourself first. Nobody wants to be out of action with a yeast infection.

Finally don't store swarfega and deep heat next to your lube where they could get mixed up in the heat of the moment..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying getting some butt plugs that go up in size. That can help. I normally find the more hornier I am the better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trying getting some butt plugs that go up in size. That can help. I normally find the more hornier I am the better x"
could have her say do ra mi fa so la ti dooooo as each one goes in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What after effects from anal?

As long as you are gentle and she relaxes she’s gonna be fine

Also I’d definitely recommend some prepping in making sure she’s all clean. As that could cause anxiety and not being able to relax x

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By *hatEscalatedQuicklyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

No real after effects if you go slow and let her relax around you (as others have said). My first time, he had watched too much porn and thought you could just slide in like pussy. I didn't try again for over 10 years and now I love it but only when I feel comfortable and empty lol

If it gets a little messy during then as long as you don't freak out and start screaming I'm sure you will be ok.

If you cum in her then there will be the hilarity of that coming out but if it's your wife then I'm sure it'll be nothing you haven't heard before

Condoms will prevent that and reduce any risk to you too, but obviously that's your call.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Douche

Lube

Communicate

Enjoy..

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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago

Broxbourne

Some good advice here .

I've been curious to try taking anal too .

I've had two bad attempts / experiences.

Guys were too pushy and o was not relaxed enough

.I know I enjoy amal play as my ex gf used to love to finger my ass and that's what got my curiosity aroused.

Maybe I should stick to female only stimulation ?

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By *hatEscalatedQuicklyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

"Some good advice here .

I've been curious to try taking anal too .

I've had two bad attempts / experiences.

Guys were too pushy and o was not relaxed enough

.I know I enjoy amal play as my ex gf used to love to finger my ass and that's what got my curiosity aroused.

Maybe I should stick to female only stimulation ?

Guys have fingers too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No real after effects if you go slow and let her relax around you (as others have said). My first time, he had watched too much porn and thought you could just slide in like pussy. I didn't try again for over 10 years and now I love it but only when I feel comfortable and empty lol

If it gets a little messy during then as long as you don't freak out and start screaming I'm sure you will be ok.

If you cum in her then there will be the hilarity of that coming out but if it's your wife then I'm sure it'll be nothing you haven't heard before

Condoms will prevent that and reduce any risk to you too, but obviously that's your call.

Ha ha cum farts are real

Worse if you for get abs go about your day as normal

Just got to flaunt the wet patch and own it

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