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By *uicy 2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

a profile or 1st message?

For me, i can overlook spelling mistakes, but bad English puts me off. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally just men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get irritated by women who claim to be not looking to sleep with everyone then has 50+ different meets in a short space of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally just men"

I’m thinking of changing my name to just another boy FYI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sentence…

What are you in too?

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its obvious have not read profile or don't seek what I offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody call the grammar police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be bad but any indication of fetishisation and not genuine attraction puts me off. Also a profile that is more than 3/4 paragraphs is off putting. And anything that’s unironically talking about Sydney university.

In messages, any message with the subject ‘Hi’ or ‘Hello’ puts me off slightly but I’d never reject someone for that of the message was good.

I was turned off by a message calling me ‘daddy’ recently too. Don’t do that. I don’t even know you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally just men

I’m thinking of changing my name to just another boy FYI "

It'll get shortened to JAB

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

You'd like a list ?...

Bad photos.

Lazy/uninteresting profile.

One line/word replies to our paragraphs.

Claims of great interest then they don't log in for weeks.

Being ghosted after claiming interest or just before a meet.

Demands for photos/videos with little to nothing in return.

Worms who claim interest just to get to your friends pics.

Endless excuses why they can't meet even though claiming interest.

And so on....

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"a profile or 1st message?

For me, i can overlook spelling mistakes, but bad English puts me off. X "

Did you mean bad grammar?

Maybe the English language isn’t the message senders first language

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be bad but any indication of fetishisation and not genuine attraction puts me off. Also a profile that is more than 3/4 paragraphs is off putting. And anything that’s unironically talking about Sydney university.

In messages, any message with the subject ‘Hi’ or ‘Hello’ puts me off slightly but I’d never reject someone for that of the message was good.

I was turned off by a message calling me ‘daddy’ recently too. Don’t do that. I don’t even know you. "

Forgot about the Sydney university thing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally just men

I’m thinking of changing my name to just another boy FYI

It'll get shortened to JAB"

JAG and JAB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of cock pics

"I wont bite.. unless you ask"

Ask if you wanna know more

These are just a start lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

9 times out of 10 the profile or pics have already put me off so I don’t even get to the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally just men

I’m thinking of changing my name to just another boy FYI

It'll get shortened to JAB

JAG and JAB. "

Like zig and zag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it's me is the problem

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By *uicy 2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Did you mean bad grammar?

Maybe the English language isn’t the message senders first language "

Yes, that is what i should have said, i worded it poorly, im afraid. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get irritated by women who claim to be not looking to sleep with everyone then has 50+ different meets in a short space of time. "

Doesn't mean she has slept with them..very judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be bad but any indication of fetishisation and not genuine attraction puts me off. Also a profile that is more than 3/4 paragraphs is off putting. And anything that’s unironically talking about Sydney university.

In messages, any message with the subject ‘Hi’ or ‘Hello’ puts me off slightly but I’d never reject someone for that of the message was good.

I was turned off by a message calling me ‘daddy’ recently too. Don’t do that. I don’t even know you. "

I was called Mommy yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a dick avatar or objectifying me in the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be bad but any indication of fetishisation and not genuine attraction puts me off. Also a profile that is more than 3/4 paragraphs is off putting. And anything that’s unironically talking about Sydney university.

In messages, any message with the subject ‘Hi’ or ‘Hello’ puts me off slightly but I’d never reject someone for that of the message was good.

I was turned off by a message calling me ‘daddy’ recently too. Don’t do that. I don’t even know you.

I was called Mommy yesterday. "

What are the odds of finding your own son on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally just men

I’m thinking of changing my name to just another boy FYI

It'll get shortened to JAB

JAG and JAB.

Like zig and zag"

glad you’re on board x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a dick avatar or objectifying me in the message. "

That’s why you blocked whippersnappers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be bad but any indication of fetishisation and not genuine attraction puts me off. Also a profile that is more than 3/4 paragraphs is off putting. And anything that’s unironically talking about Sydney university.

In messages, any message with the subject ‘Hi’ or ‘Hello’ puts me off slightly but I’d never reject someone for that of the message was good.

I was turned off by a message calling me ‘daddy’ recently too. Don’t do that. I don’t even know you.

I was called Mommy yesterday. "

In fairness, I was joking when I called you that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a profile or 1st message?

For me, i can overlook spelling mistakes, but bad English puts me off. X

Did you mean bad grammar?

Maybe the English language isn’t the message senders first language "

Shame on you op

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Nothing in particular, but lecherous men make me feel quite uncomfortable. Not that I get many, but that's my only beef.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sentence…

What are you in too?

J x "

Yep my pet hate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a dick avatar or objectifying me in the message.

That’s why you blocked whippersnappers"

I haven't blocked younger men! I just have a cut off age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a dick avatar or objectifying me in the message.

That’s why you blocked whippersnappers

I haven't blocked younger men! I just have a cut off age "

Whippersnappers are anyone under 25 don’t you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be bad but any indication of fetishisation and not genuine attraction puts me off. Also a profile that is more than 3/4 paragraphs is off putting. And anything that’s unironically talking about Sydney university.

In messages, any message with the subject ‘Hi’ or ‘Hello’ puts me off slightly but I’d never reject someone for that of the message was good.

I was turned off by a message calling me ‘daddy’ recently too. Don’t do that. I don’t even know you.

I was called Mommy yesterday.

In fairness, I was joking when I called you that. "

I wish I could say I was joking about daddy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a dick avatar or objectifying me in the message. "

But I’ve been told I have a beautiful cock

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I get irritated by women who claim to be not looking to sleep with everyone then has 50+ different meets in a short space of time.

Doesn't mean she has slept with them..very judgemental "

This kind of thing annoys me too. All my veris are social bar one or two. I don’t show sexual ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a dick avatar or objectifying me in the message.

That’s why you blocked whippersnappers

I haven't blocked younger men! I just have a cut off age

Whippersnappers are anyone under 25 don’t you know? "

Only a few more days, Steve. And then you will be a whapper-snipper! And I find it amusing that you "block" older women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One liners, or ‘up2’… bore off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One liners, or ‘up2’… bore off"

Wuup2?

Faf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a dick avatar or objectifying me in the message.

But I’ve been told I have a beautiful cock "

I've been told the same about my otter's pocket. I don't stick a pic of it where people are forced to look at it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a dick avatar or objectifying me in the message.

But I’ve been told I have a beautiful cock

I've been told the same about my otter's pocket. I don't stick a pic of it where people are forced to look at it..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a profile or 1st message?

For me, i can overlook spelling mistakes, but bad English puts me off. X "

People being massively presumptuous/arrogant, not bothering to read profiles and engaging in body shaming come to mind.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Probably a dick avatar or objectifying me in the message.

But I’ve been told I have a beautiful cock

I've been told the same about my otter's pocket. I don't stick a pic of it where people are forced to look at it..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a dick avatar or objectifying me in the message.

That’s why you blocked whippersnappers

I haven't blocked younger men! I just have a cut off age

Whippersnappers are anyone under 25 don’t you know?

Only a few more days, Steve. And then you will be a whapper-snipper! And I find it amusing that you "block" older women! "

Used to welcome women up to 55 round ere. But they kept calling me whippersnapper and asking me to carry their shopping

P.s. it’s currently on (any age can message)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be bad but any indication of fetishisation and not genuine attraction puts me off. Also a profile that is more than 3/4 paragraphs is off putting. And anything that’s unironically talking about Sydney university.

In messages, any message with the subject ‘Hi’ or ‘Hello’ puts me off slightly but I’d never reject someone for that of the message was good.

I was turned off by a message calling me ‘daddy’ recently too. Don’t do that. I don’t even know you.

I was called Mommy yesterday.

In fairness, I was joking when I called you that.

I wish I could say I was joking about daddy... "

BLOCKEDT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a dick avatar or objectifying me in the message.

That’s why you blocked whippersnappers

I haven't blocked younger men! I just have a cut off age

Whippersnappers are anyone under 25 don’t you know?

Only a few more days, Steve. And then you will be a whapper-snipper! And I find it amusing that you "block" older women!

Used to welcome women up to 55 round ere. But they kept calling me whippersnapper and asking me to carry their shopping

P.s. it’s currently on (any age can message) "

I've never once asked you to carry my shopping!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be bad but any indication of fetishisation and not genuine attraction puts me off. Also a profile that is more than 3/4 paragraphs is off putting. And anything that’s unironically talking about Sydney university.

In messages, any message with the subject ‘Hi’ or ‘Hello’ puts me off slightly but I’d never reject someone for that of the message was good.

I was turned off by a message calling me ‘daddy’ recently too. Don’t do that. I don’t even know you.

I was called Mommy yesterday.

In fairness, I was joking when I called you that.

I wish I could say I was joking about daddy...

BLOCKEDT. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be bad but any indication of fetishisation and not genuine attraction puts me off. Also a profile that is more than 3/4 paragraphs is off putting. And anything that’s unironically talking about Sydney university.

In messages, any message with the subject ‘Hi’ or ‘Hello’ puts me off slightly but I’d never reject someone for that of the message was good.

I was turned off by a message calling me ‘daddy’ recently too. Don’t do that. I don’t even know you.

I was called Mommy yesterday.

What are the odds of finding your own son on here "

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Lazy no effort profiles with no pics or blurry ones and no bio,fill in later,one line bios.

Pretentious or entitled messages or bios.

Messages that are slating other people on here or trying to convince me they are the nice ones while saying everyone else on here are assholes. If you have to convince someone you're not an asshole then you most likely are one I've found.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Clichés

"Fill in later"

List of demands, bulletpointed.

"No dick pics" but have numerous gynaecology pics on display.

Wants safe sex but has multiple BB pics action shots in profile.

"Norty/Nawty"

420

In a message asks for face pics without checking I have several clear face pics public.

First message "do you like fucking on ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally far more things actually put me off than engage my mind if I’m looking at profiles, I do appreciate a polite respectful engaging message as then you get to feel a bit of a vibe from the person, unless it’s the hows you’re day going how’s fab treating you will you breed me Daddy

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

420 friendly. Not a prude, utterly the smell makes me want to puke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally far more things actually put me off than engage my mind if I’m looking at profiles, I do appreciate a polite respectful engaging message as then you get to feel a bit of a vibe from the person, unless it’s the hows you’re day going how’s fab treating you will you breed me Daddy "

Yeah sorry about that last one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"420 friendly. Not a prude, utterly the smell makes me want to puke "

Wanna blowback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who bring the mood down. That’s a turn off

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By *scanioMan
over a year ago

Runcorn

Fill in later................

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By *handsMan
over a year ago

Warrington


"a profile or 1st message?

For me, i can overlook spelling mistakes, but bad English puts me off. X "

grammar/spelling not important to be, it’s those that come across as above others, rude and full of self importance.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

The username is the first one that gets to me if it's vulgar or too smutty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lack of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lack of humour. "

She looks like Quasimodo but she’s funny as fuck. Still smash?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lack of humour.

She looks like Quasimodo but she’s funny as fuck. Still smash? "

No because sooner or later she'll have the hump with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being sent photos of pics and shiney faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not our first rodeo so we know how it works!" So is this supposed to impress me or be a warning and who cares anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lack of humour.

She looks like Quasimodo but she’s funny as fuck. Still smash?

No because sooner or later she'll have the hump with you "

Boom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lack of humour.

She looks like Quasimodo but she’s funny as fuck. Still smash?

No because sooner or later she'll have the hump with you

Boom. "

Mike drop and walks away

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

The Attic - Derby.

Asking to watch us. Obversly not even bothered to read our profile title. And offering everything we're not looking for. Eg, we put a glory hole meet at ours for between 1 to 3pm. We get offers, I can meet you at 4.30pm, or dogging at 7pm, club meet a week on Sat ect. Take what's on offer, don't change it.

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By *uce1977Woman
over a year ago

Suffolk coast


"You'd like a list ?...

Bad photos.

Lazy/uninteresting profile.

One line/word replies to our paragraphs.

Claims of great interest then they don't log in for weeks.

Being ghosted after claiming interest or just before a meet.

Demands for photos/videos with little to nothing in return.

Worms who claim interest just to get to your friends pics.

Endless excuses why they can't meet even though claiming interest.

And so on...."

Amen and dick pic first message.

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By *uce1977Woman
over a year ago

Suffolk coast

Being sent old face pics. There needs to be an attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lack of humour.

She looks like Quasimodo but she’s funny as fuck. Still smash?

No because sooner or later she'll have the hump with you

Boom.

Mike drop and walks away "

Fecking hell get a room you two

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Text speak and lazy messages. “U ok” doesn’t really inspire me to reply

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Crudeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally far more things actually put me off than engage my mind if I’m looking at profiles, I do appreciate a polite respectful engaging message as then you get to feel a bit of a vibe from the person, unless it’s the hows you’re day going how’s fab treating you will you breed me Daddy

Yeah sorry about that last one "

I didn’t want to name and shame x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This whole site is becoming a bit of a joke people pick you up and put you down when it suits them and I don’t think they even care, been played one two many times now. Well done fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone says mmmmmm. It’s so creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people say they put the cream on before the jam in a scone.

Instantly flaccid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says mmmmmm. It’s so creepy."

H ..... MMMMMMMMM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This whole site is becoming creepy to many fake bitch Arse mother fuckers on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says mmmmmm. It’s so creepy."

I know right mmmnn gives you fanny flutters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This whole site is becoming creepy to many fake bitch Arse mother fuckers on here "

He's absolutely raging. Sick of it.

Go on, Andy - you let it all out, buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid questions, them not reading my profile! dick pics for starters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says mmmmmm. It’s so creepy.

I know right mmmnn gives you fanny flutters"

In my penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This whole site is becoming creepy to many fake bitch Arse mother fuckers on here

He's absolutely raging. Sick of it.

Go on, Andy - you let it all out, buddy."

Don’t be so patronising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says mmmmmm. It’s so creepy.

H ..... MMMMMMMMM "

Blocked

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By *uce1977Woman
over a year ago

Suffolk coast


"When people say they put the cream on before the jam in a scone.

Instantly flaccid."

Always cream first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there "

Are you alright?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there "

Mars bar??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there

Are you alright?"

Am now I’ve vented

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Profiles that aren't consistent with pics,bio and verifications as well as forum comments.

When it comes to messages it's a toss up between demands or instructions from someone I've never spoken to or even seen before or fabtag messages.

The latter are when someone tells me how amazing my pics and bio are and when I respond they run away only to come back 6 months later with exactly the same message, and even a third time.

If they are expecting me to chase they are knocking on the wrong door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says mmmmmm. It’s so creepy.

H ..... MMMMMMMMM

Blocked "

Again? Ffs!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there "

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there "

I'm single and am not fake. I might be a cunt, but I'm not fake!

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By *uce1977Woman
over a year ago

Suffolk coast


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there "

Not selling yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there

Are you alright?

Am now I’ve vented "

Cool, take a break and have a Kit Kat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there

Not selling yourself "

Not trying to sell anything in the 1st place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there

Are you alright?

Am now I’ve vented

Cool, take a break and have a Kit Kat "

Done and done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there

Mars bar??"

Up the bum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys that a rude and straight in with, would like to eat that arse or similar.

Loads of public hair

Hi

Just cock pics and nothing else

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Bugger reading these I need change my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there

Mars bar??

Up the bum?"

Well, if that's how you eat yours I won't judge.

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By *ouisebottomTV/TS
over a year ago

London

For me it is when I look through the profile pics and they are all of him having unprotected sex, instant turn off for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there

Mars bar??

Up the bum?

Well, if that's how you eat yours I won't judge. "

I like how you don’t kink shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people use the same crisp to dip in the sour cream and salsa, and the sour cream goes pink.

Bloody double-dippers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys that a rude and straight in with, would like to eat that arse or similar.

Loads of public hair

Hi

Just cock pics and nothing else

All deleted"

We’ll it does look appetising. Just stating the obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people use the same crisp to dip in the sour cream and salsa, and the sour cream goes pink.

Bloody double-dippers."

With you on that one dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they don't give you chance to reply and message again. Neediness isn't attractive.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"When they don't give you chance to reply and message again. Neediness isn't attractive."

I must be honest I have done that b4 but only when it’s been read and not replayed in hours I just say thanx for reading my message happy fabbing

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By *ungeon loving squirterCouple
over a year ago

redcar

People who can't flirt properly, the word "use" instead of you two really makes me want to block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally far more things actually put me off than engage my mind if I’m looking at profiles, I do appreciate a polite respectful engaging message as then you get to feel a bit of a vibe from the person, unless it’s the hows you’re day going how’s fab treating you will you breed me Daddy

Yeah sorry about that last one

I didn’t want to name and shame x"

thoughtful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there

Are you alright?

Am now I’ve vented "

From your status it would seem not...

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Anyone who messages and aims every conversation towards myself as if I’m single it’s just fucking rude.

Any mention of how good he is and how he can make anyone squirt makes me cringe .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they don't give you chance to reply and message again. Neediness isn't attractive."

Double messages turn me on. Like yesss girl. Show interest in me

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there "

R u ok Hun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there

R u ok Hun?"

I’m ok thanks just need to speak my mind at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BS like choosing yourself as straight then telling us you are bi.

Body and facial hair.

Dick pics.

"finish this later" on a profile and similar.

Profiles which essentially say "hello I am here and want sex" and nothing else.

People saying they are genuine, honest and/or reliable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally just men

I’m thinking of changing my name to just another boy FYI "

You’ll always be pickle to me now!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

1st message of just 'hello' or 'hi'. All lower case and single word = I cannot be bothered to make effort so entertain me before I move on.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there

R u ok Hun?

I’m ok thanks just need to speak my mind at the time "

Please keep replies to the forum.

I was actually being facetious... lol

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Long sex stories in the opening message.

They don’t know me. They don’t know what turns me on. They don’t know how shy and retiring I am.

Yet their opener is a long winded tale of debauched sex that leaves me in no doubt that they are undoubtedly all talk and no action and will be a shit shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go on how single men on here are fake and creepy fuck that and fuck all you fake cunts out there

R u ok Hun?

I’m ok thanks just need to speak my mind at the time

Please keep replies to the forum.

I was actually being facetious... lol "

Burn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Start's making notes).

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By *nblemishedhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Stourport

Lack of any effort. So that's 99% of the messages we get.

Shit profile

No avitar pic

Will meet 18 to 99.

No verifications

Can't be arsed to put any information.

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth


"Generally just men

I’m thinking of changing my name to just another boy FYI "

Good name change lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How’s yous?

I was alright but now I’m fucking irritated.

Thanks.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We've said many many times but when someone described themselves as "professional"

Self proclaimed pretentious nonsense.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Could be anything. I’m pretty flaky at committing and easily distracted.

Those that get a reply have caught me on a good attention day

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"Generally just men"

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

And not enough pictures of the male half in couples profiles and too many pictures of random women especially bare back ones on single guy profiles…yes I know you meet other women but advertising it so graphically is a major turn off.

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By *iss ImperfectWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

It has to be the message first as won’t click on profile unless the message interests me…..

Clangers I’ve received today…..

7 messages in space of about 5 minutes

Do I swallow?

hi hun

To name but a few…..

Loving the thread

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Lazy profile writing.

Poor pics

Or a “shopping list”, whenever I see that I just know they’re often hard work.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"I get irritated by women who claim to be not looking to sleep with everyone then has 50+ different meets in a short space of time.

Doesn't mean she has slept with them..very judgemental

This kind of thing annoys me too. All my veris are social bar one or two. I don’t show sexual ones. "

Snap I have a lot of veris, but only a handful are actually meet meets, the vast majority of them are from group socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles that make yourself come across as bitter/jaded or ones that tell me absolutely nothing about the person

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I get irritated by women who claim to be not looking to sleep with everyone then has 50+ different meets in a short space of time.

Doesn't mean she has slept with them..very judgemental

This kind of thing annoys me too. All my veris are social bar one or two. I don’t show sexual ones.

Snap I have a lot of veris, but only a handful are actually meet meets, the vast majority of them are from group socials "

Mine are mostly socials too... I think I've probably only had meets with maybe 3 or 4? And not everyone verifies either, so you're never going to is the true numbers .. this is such a ridiculous thing to judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a profile or 1st message?

For me, i can overlook spelling mistakes, but bad English puts me off. X "

Bigotry posts on the forum

No manners

"Meet now" messages

Excessive public hair

Men who use my bisexuality as some sort of weird fetish

White men who message saying telling that they've never slept with a black women or on the flip side how many black women they've slept with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get irritated by women who claim to be not looking to sleep with everyone then has 50+ different meets in a short space of time. "

Maybe they aren't looking?

Maybe they're men they already knew and have built up a relationship with?

Maybe they're social verifications?

Maybe they're just being polite because they don't want to meet you specifically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its obvious have not read profile or don't seek what I offer "

That is exactly what put us off too

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Long sex stories in the opening message.

They don’t know me. They don’t know what turns me on. They don’t know how shy and retiring I am.

Yet their opener is a long winded tale of debauched sex that leaves me in no doubt that they are undoubtedly all talk and no action and will be a shit shag.

"

Oh god this! Full on detailed and graphic account of what they're going to do to me!

Meet now? (Clearly says I can't amd wont do last minute meets)

Tbh just the user name can be a bit off putting.... pussy destroyer, heavycummer etc

Certain action shots sometimes

The milf/older woman fantasy..... no I don't want to teach you anything, who says I know much myself

I'll stop as I could ramble on forever

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

And a prime example.... I deleted a message so they message saying you didn't reply are you not interested?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

w

I’m hoping women can relate to this one, I get it a lot and it really grinds my gears

Desperately turning any convo thread towards sex. For no reason. No matter how many times you try to avoid it, they keep trying

Really raining today isn’t it?

Yeah it’s awful

Bet you would could use someone to warm you up? Winky face

Ughhh

Just have a conversation.

What are you studying?

Child care, it’s always been a passion of mine

Yeah? Bet you could talk real good care of a guy like me winky face

Just shh. It’s a total turn off

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"I’m hoping women can relate to this one, I get it a lot and it really grinds my gears

Desperately turning any convo thread towards sex. For no reason. No matter how many times you try to avoid it, they keep trying

Really raining today isn’t it?

Yeah it’s awful

Bet you would could use someone to warm you up? Winky face

Ughhh

Just have a conversation.

What are you studying?

Child care, it’s always been a passion of mine

Yeah? Bet you could talk real good care of a guy like me winky face

Just shh. It’s a total turn off "

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Unfortunately it’s the following.

Profile non existent or has the bare minimum. Tells me they’d be exactly the same even if they did turn up. Something I seriously doubt they’d get the energy to actually meet.

1st Message, same as everyone else. Not reading my profile or it’s a FAF or meet now.

I always answer a message from someone who’s put in an effort. But I get grief off those who expect me to reply to a ‘u meet’ message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

420 friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they assume cos im a man i think there hot shit and will fuck them after 1 message i mean i like confidence but at least flirt a little first and dont just assume cos im a guy im desperate to just shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And a prime example.... I deleted a message so they message saying you didn't reply are you not interested? "

The needy ones argh! I deleted twice and then he said "I won't let you ignore me. I'm perfect for you" or something like that. Reader, he was not perfect for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they assume cos im a man i think there hot shit and will fuck them after 1 message i mean i like confidence but at least flirt a little first and dont just assume cos im a guy im desperate to just shag "

Surely it’s inevitable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they assume cos im a man i think there hot shit and will fuck them after 1 message i mean i like confidence but at least flirt a little first and dont just assume cos im a guy im desperate to just shag

Surely it’s inevitable "
booom boooom

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"And a prime example.... I deleted a message so they message saying you didn't reply are you not interested?

The needy ones argh! I deleted twice and then he said "I won't let you ignore me. I'm perfect for you" or something like that. Reader, he was not perfect for me. "

And how on earth would you know that?!

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Flip flops...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"420 friendly. "

I like to leave them waiting. I turn up at quarter to five.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The absolute worst are the women who message me telling me they don't wait for their windscreen wipers to go all the way down before turning them off, so they're left halfway up their windscreen.

Properly grinds my gears. Instant block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles with pictures of people wearing odd socks. You know they'd be freaky, but there's no way I could meet someone like that. Heathens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the amount of dickheads on here that don’t know how to even chat to women I get it’s a sex site but jeez “the fancy a fuck” message you need to try harder than that we not all just holes to use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it is when I look through the profile pics and they are all of him having unprotected sex, instant turn off for me x"

I thought yes to most of the comments, but this one is my biggest turn off for sure! Especially when their profile states safe sex - errr no thank you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"420 friendly.

I like to leave them waiting. I turn up at quarter to five. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And a prime example.... I deleted a message so they message saying you didn't reply are you not interested?

The needy ones argh! I deleted twice and then he said "I won't let you ignore me. I'm perfect for you" or something like that. Reader, he was not perfect for me.

And how on earth would you know that?! "

A) Neediness B) Fun guy looking for fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some photos put me off completely

Graphic or messy backgrounds for example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd like a list ?...

Bad photos.

Lazy/uninteresting profile.

One line/word replies to our paragraphs.

Claims of great interest then they don't log in for weeks.

Being ghosted after claiming interest or just before a meet.

Demands for photos/videos with little to nothing in return.

Worms who claim interest just to get to your friends pics.

Endless excuses why they can't meet even though claiming interest.

And so on...."

All of the above plus

Photos of just their cocks on their profile.

Overuse of the name Babe.

Sending cock pics with their first message.

"Do you like my photos?". Asking feels crass.

Text speak. You don't have to pay another 10p to send the message if you write words in full.

And the list goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh another one the close ups of genitalia the things some do just to get to the hot pics it’s not classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The absolute worst are the women who message me telling me they don't wait for their windscreen wipers to go all the way down before turning them off, so they're left halfway up their windscreen.

Properly grinds my gears. Instant block."

I'll block you now shall I? Hahaha x

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

List is too long to list, I have a boxing match to watch soon haha

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito


"And a prime example.... I deleted a message so they message saying you didn't reply are you not interested?

The needy ones argh! I deleted twice and then he said "I won't let you ignore me. I'm perfect for you" or something like that. Reader, he was not perfect for me. "

Urgh that’s awful. I had a guy message 9 times in one hour. I wasn’t even online in that time to answer his first message

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito


"Profiles with pictures of people wearing odd socks. You know they'd be freaky, but there's no way I could meet someone like that. Heathens."

Or naked people in just socks.

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By *ood Girl KatWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

When I've been searching for a fwb, the things that would make me go no would be

. No profile picture

. Nothing at all written on the profile

. Dick pics in my inbox I didn't ask for

. "hey" "what are you doing?" etc as minimal messaging

There's probably more but that's what come to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being pushy

Bragging

Entitlement

Saying one thing, doing another

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Being pushy

Bragging

Entitlement

Saying one thing, doing another

"

I'm going to say you're new profile picture is gorgeous and I'm entitled to say that x

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By *ood Girl KatWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Saying one thing, doing another "

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And a prime example.... I deleted a message so they message saying you didn't reply are you not interested?

The needy ones argh! I deleted twice and then he said "I won't let you ignore me. I'm perfect for you" or something like that. Reader, he was not perfect for me.

Urgh that’s awful. I had a guy message 9 times in one hour. I wasn’t even online in that time to answer his first message "

They get a big yellow warning every time! It's insane!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles with pictures of people wearing odd socks. You know they'd be freaky, but there's no way I could meet someone like that. Heathens.

Or naked people in just socks."

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

People who come across as feeling better than you

Beautiful couple , sexy couple, professional couple... Seeks same

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I get irritated by women who claim to be not looking to sleep with everyone then has 50+ different meets in a short space of time. "

They may have been to socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being pushy

Bragging

Entitlement

Saying one thing, doing another

I'm going to say you're new profile picture is gorgeous and I'm entitled to say that x"

You charmer you

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"I get irritated by women who claim to be not looking to sleep with everyone then has 50+ different meets in a short space of time.

They may have been to socials."

Socials as said above knock your meet tally up without having sex with anyone. People need to look at the veris properly before judging. We got 6 so far and not fucked anyone as are all social meets.

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By *weetDaNyMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Being stood up.

Waste my time.

Being abused if I say NO

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Being pushy

Bragging

Entitlement

Saying one thing, doing another

I'm going to say you're new profile picture is gorgeous and I'm entitled to say that x

You charmer you "

Had to be fabbed. Incredibly sexy as usual xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's a charmer. ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good what really puts you off everyone.

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