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"I've been on fab for a few years. Do you think more people are arranging meets then ever before or less? " 42. | |||
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"I've been on fab for a few years. Do you think more people are arranging meets then ever before or less? 42." ²¹ | |||
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"I think the same amount are meeting and loads of people with no intention of meeting have joined so it feels like less " Agreed | |||
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"I think the same amount are meeting and loads of people with no intention of meeting have joined so it feels like less " many retirees | |||
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"Any more thoughts on this? Meets ...are they easier to arrange now than 5 years ago? What you think?" I think that I have no clue or interest in what others are doing. Stop comparing yourself to the fun that you think others are having! | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems " I would never meet anyone after a week. People throw the "time-wasters" line about a little too easily. | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems I would never meet anyone after a week. People throw the "time-wasters" line about a little too easily. " Agreed. My time waster is someone that arranges a time and a place. Then fails to show up. | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems I would never meet anyone after a week. People throw the "time-wasters" line about a little too easily. " Really? When they literally dissappear? What would you call it then? | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems I would never meet anyone after a week. People throw the "time-wasters" line about a little too easily. Agreed. My time waster is someone that arranges a time and a place. Then fails to show up. " Indeed. | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems I would never meet anyone after a week. People throw the "time-wasters" line about a little too easily. Really? When they literally dissappear? What would you call it then?" Got bored. Started talking to someone else. Chatting to someone does not mean they plan to meet. Ffs if that was the case I'd be having sex all the time. | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems I would never meet anyone after a week. People throw the "time-wasters" line about a little too easily. Really? When they literally dissappear? What would you call it then? Got bored. Started talking to someone else. Chatting to someone does not mean they plan to meet. Ffs if that was the case I'd be having sex all the time. " No. I mean they UNLOS. | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems I would never meet anyone after a week. People throw the "time-wasters" line about a little too easily. Really? When they literally dissappear? What would you call it then? Got bored. Started talking to someone else. Chatting to someone does not mean they plan to meet. Ffs if that was the case I'd be having sex all the time. No. I mean they UNLOS. " Then they really got bored. | |||
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"I think there are a lot of people on here that are just here for wank fodder. I find more want to phone/cam than want to actually meet." I share your view x | |||
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"I think there are a lot of people on here that are just here for wank fodder. I find more want to phone/cam than want to actually meet." what this girl said! FAF? | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems I would never meet anyone after a week. People throw the "time-wasters" line about a little too easily. Really? When they literally dissappear? What would you call it then? Got bored. Started talking to someone else. Chatting to someone does not mean they plan to meet. Ffs if that was the case I'd be having sex all the time. No. I mean they UNLOS. Then they really got bored. " . You’ve actually got a point | |||
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"Any more thoughts on this? Meets ...are they easier to arrange now than 5 years ago? What you think?" Things have changed in many ways. The way people use the site, we’ve had over 2 years of covid in between and various lockdowns. To ask if it’s easier to meet all depends on yourself. | |||
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"I think there are a lot of people on here that are just here for wank fodder. I find more want to phone/cam than want to actually meet." I find this too and I never engage, not here to be someone's wank fodder or to help get them off, get to know me with normal conversation then meet me. It's not rocket science. And if they disappear then I'm obviously not worth the effort of a coffee and they are not worth my time | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems I would never meet anyone after a week. People throw the "time-wasters" line about a little too easily. Agreed. My time waster is someone that arranges a time and a place. Then fails to show up. " Agreed. Chatting then dropping off isn’t a time waster. That’s them getting bored or ruling you out of their interest | |||
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"Let’s be honest …. women can meet at a drop of a hat if they wish to, and of course if there’s a person that they find attractive ( or not in some circumstances) So .. are people meeting more - if they want to and there’s interest. Pretty much the same now as it was in 2009 " Some people like the thrill of the chase. There are some people I genuinely love talking to too xx | |||
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"Let’s be honest …. women can meet at a drop of a hat if they wish to, and of course if there’s a person that they find attractive ( or not in some circumstances) So .. are people meeting more - if they want to and there’s interest. Pretty much the same now as it was in 2009 Some people like the thrill of the chase. There are some people I genuinely love talking to too xx" | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems " That’s not time wasting really is it | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it" Ok, I'll bite. What do you call it then? | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Ok, I'll bite. What do you call it then?" Preference | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Ok, I'll bite. What do you call it then?" We’re friends … but I’ll bite - Why is that time wasting ? Maybe they just like to chat | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it" Any time spent on a person whether it's online or in life is wasted if they ghost or fuck off for whatever reason imho. It's all about perception | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Ok, I'll bite. What do you call it then? Preference" I have to agree, people can change their mind at any time, and that’s not time wasting. | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Any time spent on a person whether it's online or in life is wasted if they ghost or fuck off for whatever reason imho. It's all about perception " That line of thinking labels anyone who changes their mind a time waster. People can and should be able to change their minds without being derided. Perception and perspective is often what labels women as ‘teases’ when they’re not. In my opinion, unless you’ve gone out of your way and wasted a portion of your time, it’s not time wasting. Messaging online isn’t time wasting | |||
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"I think the same amount are meeting and loads of people with no intention of meeting have joined so it feels like less " I agree | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Any time spent on a person whether it's online or in life is wasted if they ghost or fuck off for whatever reason imho. It's all about perception That line of thinking labels anyone who changes their mind a time waster. People can and should be able to change their minds without being derided. Perception and perspective is often what labels women as ‘teases’ when they’re not. In my opinion, unless you’ve gone out of your way and wasted a portion of your time, it’s not time wasting. Messaging online isn’t time wasting" I was thinking more about ghosting. Of course it's not time wasting if they have the balls to say they've changed their mind. Many don't and that to me is time wasting | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Ok, I'll bite. What do you call it then? We’re friends … but I’ll bite - Why is that time wasting ? Maybe they just like to chat " Yeah, we're friends, we chat, but you haven't spent a week chatting, then just UNLOS. That's not preference, that's wasting my time, when I could be chatting to someone else xx | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Any time spent on a person whether it's online or in life is wasted if they ghost or fuck off for whatever reason imho. It's all about perception " x | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Any time spent on a person whether it's online or in life is wasted if they ghost or fuck off for whatever reason imho. It's all about perception That line of thinking labels anyone who changes their mind a time waster. People can and should be able to change their minds without being derided. Perception and perspective is often what labels women as ‘teases’ when they’re not. In my opinion, unless you’ve gone out of your way and wasted a portion of your time, it’s not time wasting. Messaging online isn’t time wasting I was thinking more about ghosting. Of course it's not time wasting if they have the balls to say they've changed their mind. Many don't and that to me is time wasting " Do you tell everyone if you change your mind? Many don’t because they don’t want the conflict or reprisals. Leaving a conversation isn’t ghosting either | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Any time spent on a person whether it's online or in life is wasted if they ghost or fuck off for whatever reason imho. It's all about perception That line of thinking labels anyone who changes their mind a time waster. People can and should be able to change their minds without being derided. Perception and perspective is often what labels women as ‘teases’ when they’re not. In my opinion, unless you’ve gone out of your way and wasted a portion of your time, it’s not time wasting. Messaging online isn’t time wasting I was thinking more about ghosting. Of course it's not time wasting if they have the balls to say they've changed their mind. Many don't and that to me is time wasting Do you tell everyone if you change your mind? Many don’t because they don’t want the conflict or reprisals. Leaving a conversation isn’t ghosting either" Everyone has a viewpoint. Mine is that ghosting or UNLOS has wasted my time. Each to their own. | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Any time spent on a person whether it's online or in life is wasted if they ghost or fuck off for whatever reason imho. It's all about perception That line of thinking labels anyone who changes their mind a time waster. People can and should be able to change their minds without being derided. Perception and perspective is often what labels women as ‘teases’ when they’re not. In my opinion, unless you’ve gone out of your way and wasted a portion of your time, it’s not time wasting. Messaging online isn’t time wasting I was thinking more about ghosting. Of course it's not time wasting if they have the balls to say they've changed their mind. Many don't and that to me is time wasting Do you tell everyone if you change your mind? Many don’t because they don’t want the conflict or reprisals. Leaving a conversation isn’t ghosting either" If I had been chatting to them then yes I will because it's courteous. There is no right or wrong is there! Your perception is different to mine and that is fine is it not? | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Ok, I'll bite. What do you call it then? We’re friends … but I’ll bite - Why is that time wasting ? Maybe they just like to chat Yeah, we're friends, we chat, but you haven't spent a week chatting, then just UNLOS. That's not preference, that's wasting my time, when I could be chatting to someone else xx" Aww what a shame. I think you can chat to more than one person at a time. They probably just decided they didn’t like you after chatting. That’s not time wasting | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Any time spent on a person whether it's online or in life is wasted if they ghost or fuck off for whatever reason imho. It's all about perception That line of thinking labels anyone who changes their mind a time waster. People can and should be able to change their minds without being derided. Perception and perspective is often what labels women as ‘teases’ when they’re not. In my opinion, unless you’ve gone out of your way and wasted a portion of your time, it’s not time wasting. Messaging online isn’t time wasting I was thinking more about ghosting. Of course it's not time wasting if they have the balls to say they've changed their mind. Many don't and that to me is time wasting Do you tell everyone if you change your mind? Many don’t because they don’t want the conflict or reprisals. Leaving a conversation isn’t ghosting either Everyone has a viewpoint. Mine is that ghosting or UNLOS has wasted my time. Each to their own." 90% of chats fizzle out and do t go no where that's not time wasting. Time wasters are the sad group of people who deliberately lead people on arrange. Face to face meet at a location, say they are going and the simply don't show up without an explanation. That my friend is a time waster. By your definition every fab member including ourselves are time wasters because nobody follows up on all their chats, as stared earlier about 90% fizzle out mostly when one party loses interest and doesn't reply to the last message received. KJ | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Ok, I'll bite. What do you call it then? We’re friends … but I’ll bite - Why is that time wasting ? Maybe they just like to chat Yeah, we're friends, we chat, but you haven't spent a week chatting, then just UNLOS. That's not preference, that's wasting my time, when I could be chatting to someone else xx Aww what a shame. I think you can chat to more than one person at a time. They probably just decided they didn’t like you after chatting. That’s not time wasting " No, they UNLOS. If that was a real life situation, would you consider that good form to just dissappear? Some people seem to think that online isn't real | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Ok, I'll bite. What do you call it then? We’re friends … but I’ll bite - Why is that time wasting ? Maybe they just like to chat Yeah, we're friends, we chat, but you haven't spent a week chatting, then just UNLOS. That's not preference, that's wasting my time, when I could be chatting to someone else xx Aww what a shame. I think you can chat to more than one person at a time. They probably just decided they didn’t like you after chatting. That’s not time wasting No, they UNLOS. If that was a real life situation, would you consider that good form to just dissappear? Some people seem to think that online isn't real " It's just a week... | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Ok, I'll bite. What do you call it then? We’re friends … but I’ll bite - Why is that time wasting ? Maybe they just like to chat Yeah, we're friends, we chat, but you haven't spent a week chatting, then just UNLOS. That's not preference, that's wasting my time, when I could be chatting to someone else xx Aww what a shame. I think you can chat to more than one person at a time. They probably just decided they didn’t like you after chatting. That’s not time wasting No, they UNLOS. If that was a real life situation, would you consider that good form to just dissappear? Some people seem to think that online isn't real " Well what do you want people to do then if they decide they don’t like you etc. | |||
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"We could meet regularly (daily, weekly) if we wanted to. However we aren’t on FAB to meet randoms. We are here to build connections and friendships so aren’t interested in the FAF brigade which plague this site. K" Enjoy the daily worshiping | |||
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"I've been on fab for a few years. Do you think more people are arranging meets then ever before or less? 42." | |||
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"Loads of people chatting, but when you get a week or so in and suggest the meet......they're gone . Time-wasting is an art form it seems That’s not time wasting really is it Ok, I'll bite. What do you call it then? We’re friends … but I’ll bite - Why is that time wasting ? Maybe they just like to chat Yeah, we're friends, we chat, but you haven't spent a week chatting, then just UNLOS. That's not preference, that's wasting my time, when I could be chatting to someone else xx Aww what a shame. I think you can chat to more than one person at a time. They probably just decided they didn’t like you after chatting. That’s not time wasting " No. It's time wasting when they pretend they are looking to meet people but they are only here for the conversation. | |||
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"We could meet regularly (daily, weekly) if we wanted to. However we aren’t on FAB to meet randoms. We are here to build connections and friendships so aren’t interested in the FAF brigade which plague this site. K Enjoy the daily worshiping " The daily cock pics and meet now requests For a straight guy I’ve seen too many cocks for my liking K | |||
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"So to add to this thread who has had a meet in May 2022 ? " Me!... But I definitely pick/choose. Frankly when I can be arsed? This is a bit of fun, not my real life. And I use it that way | |||
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"Interesting.. " Isn't it? Bottom line is there's a 'core' within each area who actually actively look to meet. Then there's the 'I like the idea/teasing chat', who will never meet in a 100yrs. Plus the 'I like to dip a toe?' who may/may not meet? But dunno if they really want to?... I'd say Fab is 90% time wasters (as in zero intention to ever meet), and probably 5% again who may? But 'only' within perimeters to 1%...so that basically leaves you with a core of 5% who may, on a good day if the stars all align... Maybe | |||
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