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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who has ever got a meet as a result of the looked at me button?

I see who had looked at me but assume because they haven't winked or messaged, they looked and didn't want to message.

Just wondering what peoples thoughts were

p.s. I know platinum members can see EVERYTHING in mode...

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I check my looked at me, If I like them I'll send over a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t even look at the page. I assume that those looking and not messaging/winking, etc….aren’t interested.

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I always look just to see if I like someone who has I will fab and send a cheeky wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who has ever got a meet as a result of the looked at me button?

I see who had looked at me but assume because they haven't winked or messaged, they looked and didn't want to message.

Just wondering what peoples thoughts were

p.s. I know platinum members can see EVERYTHING in mode..."

I messaged a guy today that I saw had looked at me but not winked or messaged. We are now chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will often send a little message if like who has looked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a site supporter so I can't see mine but tbh I never check out people who wink/request friends or fab pics

I very rarely message men first on here as I'm aware I'm an acquired test

But I have no problem messaging women or couples first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a site supporter so I can't see mine but tbh I never check out people who wink/request friends or fab pics

I very rarely message men first on here as I'm aware I'm an acquired test

But I have no problem messaging women or couples first "

**taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I check my looked at me, If I like them I'll send over a wink "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely pointless. I don’t care who’s looked at me. It’s always been bloke anyway.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I only know if they’ve looked if they’re on my hotlist. Most people I know are in ninja mode anyway

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Who has ever got a meet as a result of the looked at me button?

Just wondering what peoples thoughts were

"

Yep, generally the only way for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who has ever got a meet as a result of the looked at me button?

Just wondering what peoples thoughts were

Yep, generally the only way for me... "

Waiting .....

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood


"Who has ever got a meet as a result of the looked at me button?

Just wondering what peoples thoughts were

Yep, generally the only way for me...

Waiting ....."

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t even look at the page. I assume that those looking and not messaging/winking, etc….aren’t interested. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who has ever got a meet as a result of the looked at me button?

Just wondering what peoples thoughts were

Yep, generally the only way for me...

Waiting .....

Me too"

Well whilst we are waiting .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes look at mine and go ohhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not sure i care who looks more bothered by interacting im not just that doggy in the window the one with the waggly tail

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london


"I sometimes look at mine and go ohhhh "

I wish I could look at yours

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Yes we have had a few meets over the years due to the "who's looked at me". Messaged a few newbies to break the ice and went from there.

Not really something we use a lot but we have used it.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Who has ever got a meet as a result of the looked at me button?

Just wondering what peoples thoughts were

Yep, generally the only way for me...

Waiting ..... Me too

Well whilst we are waiting ... "

Shall we all go for cake then ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes look at mine and go ohhhh

I wish I could look at yours "

So do i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who has ever got a meet as a result of the looked at me button?

I see who had looked at me but assume because they haven't winked or messaged, they looked and didn't want to message.

Just wondering what peoples thoughts were

p.s. I know platinum members can see EVERYTHING in mode..."

If they look at me twice, I send a message lol

Oooh I want the apparent platinum membership...So I can have a good nosey about them looking in private mode...gosh I wish I could read people’s minds lmso

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By *ed velvet thornWoman
over a year ago

over the rainbow


"I don’t even look at the page. I assume that those looking and not messaging/winking, etc….aren’t interested. "

May I borrow your tape measure please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes look at mine and go ohhhh "

I sometimes look at yours and go ‘oooh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes look at mine and go ohhhh

I sometimes look at yours and go ‘oooh "

Ohhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes look at mine and go ohhhh

I sometimes look at yours and go ‘oooh

Ohhhhhh "

We could do this in harmony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look but rarely message since it will get lost in the ether and invariably I'm either too far, wrong sex, Not Bi, not single, not able to accommodate, nor can I meet at a drop of a hat, or a combination.

Besides almost none of the one's I've looked at have looked back at me, or at least not overtly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah anyone looking at my profile and not interacting is not interested in me so I’m not gonna embarrass myself. Or I’ll try not to.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I only realised how many women seriously use 'Viewed Me' on Fab (I thought fewer of them did than clearly do tbh) from a thread where someone was complaining about the amount of the same person she kept seeing over a shortish length of time. Hotlists are clearly for ninjas!

But if it is true that non-payers can't view as Invisible (I can't remember now if it is or not), it could in reality be ironic that those free members may by-default be positioned for a better chance on fab than silver or golds!

Unless unwanted viewers openly-viewing too much does start to piss someone off of course - but for most people it's all about the extents of physical attraction at the end of the day (whatever some people say, as few here would honestly hitch up with someone who repels them somehow.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish more women did that. I literally never received that wink ffs! Haha

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Don't use this function, winks or friends requests. I suppose it could work though.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I do find it strange when the same people look at you, day in day out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find it strange when the same people look at you, day in day out."

Ehh, sometimes If I'm browsing I don't always remember the profiles I've already seen. Which is why the site could benefit if we had the ability to hide other people's profile from our searches, only way to currently do that is to block them I think.

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