FabSwingers.com forum: Are you competitive or a loser.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You know the game. You can only be one. Which are you going with.

Countdown to exams begins so doing booster classes before school, lunch times, after school and on Saturdays. Gotta get those A*s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm competitive when I know I should be winning. If someone is clearly better than me at something, I can hold my hands up and say fair play

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

In school regarding studies not at all, happy to be in the middle

On the playing field watch out, happily competing with the lads as I could keep up with them and easily match their strengths, one thing I never got the chance to play and I wish I had was rugby as our school rated football higher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm most competitive with myself. When you accept that you'll never be the fastest, strongest or best at pretty much anything you're free to be the best you can be. Then it's just a case of deciding how much I want something and how much time I want to dedicate to achieving it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very competitive.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Very very competitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm most competitive with myself. When you accept that you'll never be the fastest, strongest or best at pretty much anything you're free to be the best you can be. Then it's just a case of deciding how much I want something and how much time I want to dedicate to achieving it.

Mr"

That's a great way of looking at it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, sometimes tries to compete I just say 'great, you win' and walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very competitive.

You should see me play Adult Monopoly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Neither. "

Nora!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

competitive

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Competitive playing

Squash

Mario Kart

Uno

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Neither.

Nora!!!!!!!!!!"

Sorry

. If I have to choose I’d have to say competitive. I’m not branding myself a loser!

. Although I’m not very competitive in most things. I shouldn’t have commented should I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Competitive playing

Squash

Mario Kart

Uno "

Mario Kart

wii DS and the switch. All the way back to the snes. F’kin loved it.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Competitive as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very, very competitive.

I'm also gracious if I lose a game of something. I hate losing tho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Neither.

Nora!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry

. If I have to choose I’d have to say competitive. I’m not branding myself a loser!

. Although I’m not very competitive in most things. I shouldn’t have commented should I

I’m glad you did to be honest.

especially for this second comment

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Competitive playing

Squash

Mario Kart

Uno

Mario Kart

wii DS and the switch. All the way back to the snes. F’kin loved it. "

Same. Don’t really play video games much these days but, still love Mario Kart

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

In lessons / exams if I knew it I knew it, no point sleeping on the page I didn’t know or trying to remember everything five minutes before going in. Go with the gut, try your best at that point, so not competitive at all in that respect

Sport, quizzes very different, competitive as and don’t get in my way or not try your best in a team sport.

Work life, neither. I do me, I do my job I have no interest in how good or bad someone else is, unless they don’t deliver something that effects my output.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Looser! X

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Not competitive at all

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

Competitive in all things I do ,if I get beat , I've been beaten by the better person and strive to improve

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I’m a Loser baby

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

"Nope, sometimes tries to compete I just say 'great, you win' and walk away

Yep, totally this!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm a certified loser

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Highly uncontrollably competitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't compete you can't lose ...

But I'm competitive

You have to be when playing the biscuit game.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Innocent is the most competitive person I know!!!

Me... not so much

I always try and get the upper hand tho....win or lose i enjoy it

Sweet xx

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By *iltopbearMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

Soy un perdedor

I'm a loser baby so why dont you kill me...

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm probably slightly more competitive than I'd like to admit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Highly uncontrollably competitive "
but saying that i did lose what i wanted most so it doesnt guarantee you win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

competitive

It was that drive that put me whare I am to day

I am currently number 1 in the world for a full sub genera off games

And it’s a very big popular game as well

Lot off people have probably looked and seen my name

I am a house hold A lister in that community

Also very hated as well

Most off the time I need to hide out on noob accounts

Or I face people leaving public lobby’s when I enter

Or ddoss my internet so I can’t enter public lobby’s

Or blocking me so I can’t match make in to they public lobby

As when I enter that lobby if I feel like comeing first all day

There’s nothing anyone can do about it considering I can run or close to my world record times ever time

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Competitive

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I compete to do well at most things but do it to better myself.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Loser. I don't want to waste my energy on useless bullshit

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I'm not at all competitive! I even used to let the kids win at board games! Partly to have the game finish! When i play with my sister and her grown up kids god they are competitive! Sore loosers x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’ve both won and lost, not sure what that makes me. But that person in the mirror is still up and fighting each day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total loser with a misguided competitive streak

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I am not a loser, but I am not overly competitive. I am happy if I have done my best and come second, but dissatisfied if I have been sub par but won.

Winning isn't everything, doing your best is.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

I am very competitive especially if I am surrounded by stronger competitors.

Losing the interest if it’s obvious I am the winner though

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I am very very competitive, but I can handle losing as long as I know I did all I could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im hungry who wants to wrestle me for a chinese?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

It's too much effort and stressful to be competitive.

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By *igDickSubMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Very competitive with myself. As long as I do the best I can at whatever it is I'm happy, but I will practice until I've got nothing left in me ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I'm not competitive but I'm actually quite competitive, and will happily throw someone under a bus (metaphorically) to win a game

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

"I like to think I'm not competitive but I'm actually quite competitive, and will happily throw someone under a bus (metaphorically) to win a game "

Amazing…

If you’re not prepared to lose friends while playing a game you’re not playing hard enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in the real world you don't have to be either. You can be a winner without being competitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately I'm competitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be competitive...

Now I find happiness in letting others win gleefully

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Only look to improve me and my family not in competition with anybody but will to stand up for what important in my world.

Hopefully you're studies payoff and you achieve great things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m extremely competitive when it comes to things that I’m good at but I’m happy to accept defeat if I’m terrible at something.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

More non participating or playing by my own rules

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

not that much on here now, i think the better men are winning and i give them there due

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I’m so used to losing I’ve never been competitive. Doesn’t mean I can’t be a sore one sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to be competitive...

Now I find happiness in letting others win gleefully

Hmmm it depends on whether its a zero sum game I guess lol

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'm not even a loser I'm a lose R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a loser baby, so why don't you kill me?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Mr"

I agree with that but I think it’s also useful to really know your niche and accept that you may not be the best generally but in you’re niche you are the best or at least in the top 5% hopefully them lean into that. I learned this mindset from Seth Godin, it really works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good natured competition that promote personnal and/or team development is fine but the ultra-competitive types, who are only interested in beating the other guys, do my head in. It spoils the fun for everyone.

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Neither

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

I dont think im competitive at all, but i do occassionally surprise myself by becoming competitive when im winning at something! Like if im watching catchphrase with someone, then watch out! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to think I'm not competitive but I'm actually quite competitive, and will happily throw someone under a bus (metaphorically) to win a game

Amazing…

If you’re not prepared to lose friends while playing a game you’re not playing hard enough!

Haha, right?! And if it starts to look like I can't win, I just try to take everyone else down with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not competitive at all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a competitive loser. I go in fighting knowing full well in the end I'll only lose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m am occasionally competitive when I’m playing a game or sport. But afterwards I don’t care - not a sore loser.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Loser. It's far simpler for me that way.

I find being competitive requires a lot more effort. I enjoy being languid.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Competitive. Always wanted and still do want to win.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Well if I can only be one or the other then I guess I’m probably a loser - my ex would certainly think so.

I’m good at very few things and I readily accept that I’m crap at many things.

My skills are all ‘soft’ skills - not something you could really compete at.

Except for connect 4 - for some bizarre reason I’m incredibly competitive when it comes to that!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Loser. I don't want to waste my energy on useless bullshit"

That's the spirit

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