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When someone really annoys you what do you do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The Wife has various colleagues at work who don't like her. It's obvious from their behaviour towards her. She comes home Spitting tar and feathers because of it.

I tell her to breathe, and imagine them constipated on the toilet and then always act friendly, just smile and wave. Really wind them up properly.. what do you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her to flush there heads down the toilet

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I tend to wind them up more, why not get a bit of enjoyment out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally have a look which tells them what I'm thinking....apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make them realise that I can be ten times worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the best thing you can do is say nothing at all. You don't need to justify who you are to people who have already decided their version of you. Let it go and focus on the people who truely matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I worked in that kind of environment, I couldn’t be arsed with getting involved in that kinda nonsense. I’d get my head down, so the work, ignore the cretinous attitudes of others. Be the bigger person, by not giving them the audience for their garbage.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Deep breath and don’t respond. It’ll wind them up a lot more.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

At work, I'd go for being overly nice and smiley with them...it will wind them up, but there's no chance of ending up in a disciplinary

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Tell them

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I just try to limit contact. If I have to talk to them, then it's about work related stuff only and if it veers off, I just give short answers in an attempt to kill the conversation. Harsh? Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore but if doesn’t end go to HR and make a formal complaint of bullying.

In this market it’s a good time to make a change if your employer doesn’t support you!

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle somewhere

I just walk away. Usually my face will tell them I’m getting annoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just try to limit contact. If I have to talk to them, then it's about work related stuff only and if it veers off, I just give short answers in an attempt to kill the conversation. Harsh? Maybe"

I do this with the bunch of two faced cunts I have to deal with.

I don't even attempt to smile at them anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just walk away. Usually my face will tell them I’m getting annoyed "

I was told recently that my constantly angry face gives it away.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I come home, have a good moan for 20 minutes then not give them another thought.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If it's work related then I keep answers short and sweet for professional reasons but in general day to day life, I just ignore. They aren't worth my time or energy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At work, I'd go for being overly nice and smiley with them...it will wind them up, but there's no chance of ending up in a disciplinary "

That's what I told her. Apparently she tried it, and it worked. A manager commented on the wife being nice to a colleague and even got a good comment card with a bunch of flowers

You can imagine how that went down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell them"

Spike their drink with industrial strength laxatives, then tell them and add that they’re going to be crapping for a week to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laugh at them and walk away. It will really wind them up

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Be really, really nice to them and kill them with kindness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Wife has various colleagues at work who don't like her. It's obvious from their behaviour towards her. She comes home Spitting tar and feathers because of it.

I tell her to breathe, and imagine them constipated on the toilet and then always act friendly, just smile and wave. Really wind them up properly.. what do you do?"

Tell them they're being annoying, and how.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Wife has various colleagues at work who don't like her. It's obvious from their behaviour towards her. She comes home Spitting tar and feathers because of it.

I tell her to breathe, and imagine them constipated on the toilet and then always act friendly, just smile and wave. Really wind them up properly.. what do you do?

Tell them they're being annoying, and how."

The calm, even, logical approach is infuriating to Muppets, and (if there's a genuine misunderstanding), gives a chance of sorting it out on the spot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say anything. My facial expressions give away how I'm feeling 99.9% of the time.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I just ignore it and don't let them take up any space in my mind. They aren't worth it.

If it gets to the point it's actually harassment or bullying, then report it to HR as you probably aren't the only person on the end of it.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

At work: I'll ignore such behaviour unless it effects the business mission; in which case, I'd find the best way to address it through official routes and strategies. After all, we're at work to ensure that the business succeeds.

Amongst close family: I'll try to found out why people are treating me in such a way and then discuss what can be done to address the situation.

Another other situation: I'd just let it go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was your wife I'd be looking for a new place of work. I wouldn't perform well in that kind of environment. I like harmony not conflict.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Avoid them, or kill them with kindness. I'm sorry your wife is in this situation, OP.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually sack them if it's a work thing, if outside that I find having large fields and access to a JCB is very helpful

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Just avoid them

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Take a shit on their desk/in their lunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take a shit on their desk/in their lunch"

Omg it was you!

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