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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve noticed on here and other social media platforms that bareback sex is on the increase. Am I missing a change in society that now makes this not only really acceptable but almost expected?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely don’t think people think bareback is expected with sex. It’s quite the opposite in my experience. Thank goodness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t say I’ve noticed it on the increase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think maybe people don’t consider STDs. PREP is an option to eliminate the HIV risk but I think lots of people don’t even get tested. SHL.UK provides free home testing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed on here and other social media platforms that bareback sex is on the increase. Am I missing a change in society that now makes this not only really acceptable but almost expected?"

I've noticed it

I've had countless messages where men have mentioned creampies etc and had a couple of meets where guys have tried to enter me without a condom on and almost acted shocked when I've stopped them and told them to put one on

It ifs something that you're not comfortable then make sure you stand your ground, and don't make plans with anyone who mentions it via message because you can almost always guarantee they will try and do it thinking you're not going to notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t say I’ve noticed it on the increase"

Only in porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In meets over past five years is always been the under 25s wanting bareback more than anything, seems they think they are immune to anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if it's on the increase then I'm still playing safe. If it means my options are limited or non-existent then so beit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not noticed a difference. I've gone bareback with all but one or two sexual partners I think. It's always been the norm xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think there has been a change. Lots of people still prefer bareback. Regular testing is easier these days.

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"SHL.UK provides free home testing "

London only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"SHL.UK provides free home testing

London only "

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I've met 17/18 couples and single women since joining fab, and only 1 has ever asked me to wear a condom.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

It's not the most comfortable riding style anyway. It hurts your groin, especially when trotting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there’s a lot more risk takers let’s be honest people are getting dumber

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By *uicytits78Woman
over a year ago

gloucester


"SHL.UK provides free home testing

London only "

No, I use the service and live far outside London. It's available in many counties..

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By *tarbuck007Man
over a year ago

up2no good

Bb it's a high risk I'd rather not have sex than risk of not having sex forever. Condoms all the way and you last longer

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"SHL.UK provides free home testing

London only

No, I use the service and live far outside London. It's available in many counties..

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Sadly not available everywhere. Yet since covid the clinic (here anyway) will happily send out testing kits free of charge, it's just a ball ache to sort it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive read on Twitter that for the first time, HIV seems to be higher among straight

“For the first time in a decade, the number of new HIV diagnoses among heterosexuals is higher than for gay and bisexual men, according to new figures for England from the UK Health Security Agency.“

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By *iss ImperfectWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"SHL.UK provides free home testing

London only

No, I use the service and live far outside London. It's available in many counties.. "

They don’t send to Hertfordshire unfortunately, just tried to order a test kit…. We must be immune

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By *ames JaneCouple
over a year ago

Bury St Edmunds

This is up for debate a lot but when playing the way most of us do. Have to say condoms all the way. Safe sex or no sex.

Honestly I think it comes down to trust. Not just about STDs and potential for getting sick there is pregnancy also to prevent.

We use condoms all the way, there is only one person I would consider not using condoms with and only because trust him so much but is a discussion has never come up as both comfortable with gloving up lol.

There are so many stories you hear where the younger generation think it’s ok / cool to ‘sneak’… use a condom then at some point take it off without partner knowing and finish without, it’s just not right and so disrespectful.

The risks are real so open honest discussions and respect all the way.

That way everyone has the best kinkiest fun while being safe

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed on here and other social media platforms that bareback sex is on the increase. Am I missing a change in society that now makes this not only really acceptable but almost expected?"

I can't speak for all guys but I have found in the last year or so that middle aged white guys assume they don't need to wear a condom. Some turn up without one and I turn them away again.

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By *S2505Couple
over a year ago

lon

We do bareback. We are both still alive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do bareback. We are both still alive!"

Same

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield


"SHL.UK provides free home testing

London only "

https://sh24.org.uk/

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It's not for people to accept, except or judge.

Everyone makes their own risk assessments and enjoys sex how they see fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

prefer BB, and do get tested regularly.

also, I always cum clean if having caught an STI and will not play until meds taken and retested to ensure clear from STI.

thankfully, only caught once (Chlamydia) and cleared after taking meds.

In addition, if having played and taken multiple loads, with test still pending then I will always suggest to others they use protection...

honesty in these matters of safety is paramount - free from STI’s/STD’s

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Bareback is like a game of Russian Roulette. Keep playing the game and eventually you will take a bullet

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By *aylonMan
over a year ago

Earlsfield

I think everyone has boundaries which should be respected, but the sexual energy when you see someone in person overrides some rules. When everything's going well, drinks, laughter, etc and it gets serious, she just wants you inside her and she let's you know ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback is like a game of Russian Roulette. Keep playing the game and eventually you will take a bullet "

How long were people having unprotected sex ignorant Of the HIV Virus? By which I mean before it was discovered and wider society was aware if the dangers?

Is it inconceivable that another as yet undiscovered slow burning but fatal illness could pop up and transmit whilst we are more risk averse of the current diseases due to recent medical advances?

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Bareback is like a game of Russian Roulette. Keep playing the game and eventually you will take a bullet

How long were people having unprotected sex ignorant Of the HIV Virus? By which I mean before it was discovered and wider society was aware if the dangers?

Is it inconceivable that another as yet undiscovered slow burning but fatal illness could pop up and transmit whilst we are more risk averse of the current diseases due to recent medical advances?"

That's why Tom double bags..

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Well at least it’s helping the population to keep growing….. keep them eggs fertilized! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback is like a game of Russian Roulette. Keep playing the game and eventually you will take a bullet

How long were people having unprotected sex ignorant Of the HIV Virus? By which I mean before it was discovered and wider society was aware if the dangers?

Is it inconceivable that another as yet undiscovered slow burning but fatal illness could pop up and transmit whilst we are more risk averse of the current diseases due to recent medical advances?

That's why Tom double bags.. "

??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@Tom, that should have been

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

There was speculation that some women were going to swingers clubs and having unprotected sex to get themselves pregnant...

Is this true?

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"@Tom, that should have been "

Tom wears more than one condom when in clubs.

If the lady has a hairy bush be wears three...

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"I can’t say I’ve noticed it on the increase

Only in porn. "

Even in porn there is a strict testing policy for the performers involve, but then, this is what I read.. wether it's true or not, that's another case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anybody mentioned French boule’s yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met 17/18 couples and single women since joining fab, and only 1 has ever asked me to wear a condom."

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others."

100% Agree with this.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Anybody mentioned French boule’s yet?"

I once fisted a man and found he already had a boule up his bum

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Bareback is like a game of Russian Roulette. Keep playing the game and eventually you will take a bullet "

This ^^

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Probably the same crowd that trot out the line, "I'll rely on my immune system thank you".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others."

Well said xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others.

Well said xx"

xx

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By *alulaLovesCumWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others."

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wear my raincoat, even when the sun's out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others."

Defeats the purpose of a forum if your banning people expressing their views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others."

I think most are concerned about in terms of the risk appetite, not from a judgemental view. Not sure many give two hoots how other fuck or whether they get hit by a bus. As you say it is non of their business really, but the topic as a risk factor is interesting. Well it was the first time it was discussed. Not that we’re on the 10,987th thread on the subject it may have lost a little lustre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the profiles that state they are clean & safe

Then message wanting bareback and haven't tested for months.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others.

I think most are concerned about in terms of the risk appetite, not from a judgemental view. Not sure many give two hoots how other fuck or whether they get hit by a bus. As you say it is non of their business really, but the topic as a risk factor is interesting. Well it was the first time it was discussed. Not that we’re on the 10,987th thread on the subject it may have lost a little lustre. "

Agreed. It's all about risk. Show me a barebacker and I will show you a car speeder, illegal Parker and a red light amber gambler...

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