FabSwingers.com forum: Paying for sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So is anybody else fed of talking to people to find out when you try and sort a meet out that they want paying or on of or just want money or is it just me that find them just like to make some real friend if i want to pay id go on adult works lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know who you’re talking to, but I’ve never been asked for money by anyone.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never had a single message or comment about payments or favours in 5 years here so I must be doing something right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them op. I think it’s against FAB rules to ask for money in fab. Soliciting isn’t swinging is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all pay for sex one way or another, i pay with my tears…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So is anybody else fed of talking to people to find out when you try and sort a meet out that they want paying or on of or just want money or is it just me that find them just like to make some real friend if i want to pay id go on adult works lol"

Never happened to me

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Deffo report the message & profile.

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

Been offered money a few times, always arrogant people who think they're gods gift normally

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Never been asked for payment but have been offered money, gifts and even holidays in return for sex by men. We always go on to explain what swinging actually is then report and block.

I'm guessing if there are men out there who are offering to pay there will always be people who will take advantage of this...supply and demand and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never had a single message or comment about payments or favours in 5 years here so I must be doing something right. "

They know you're skint

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"I've never had a single message or comment about payments or favours in 5 years here so I must be doing something right. "

Maybe you look poor?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You always end up paying one way or another

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"You always end up paying one way or another

Was waiting for some bloke to say that

. Had to be you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven’t been asked to pay but we’ve been offered money once. It was weird! He emailed asking what we’d do if he pulled up in a Range Rover and got out with a fistful of money.

Oh! And another who offered “the wife some spends” if he could visit.

I still can’t decide which is the worst of these.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there is money to be made where do I sign up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You always end up paying one way or another

Was waiting for some bloke to say that

. Had to be you!

had to be done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been asked. I do see local updates though from both women and couples wanting a sugar daddy or virtually pleading with someone to pay for a site supporter. Or the people trying to use the site to drive money into their lives through social media or ‘only’ based subscriptions etc. I just ignore them. It’s tough times for some financially and emotionally I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear! Yes, have been offered payment for 'services'... Pretty bloody awkward to be fair! I mean yes, up to an extant on on here 'giving it away for free'... Yet not even for the offer of cash with guy that offered

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Is it inflation-indexed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was offered £3000 once by a man. It was very disturbing what he wanted me to do for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been offered money and gifts quite a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had this before, you can usually spot the fake account or people here not for the right reasons a mile off!

I can't see anyone offering me any money haha

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

It’s the oldest job in the world and people gotta eat. I’ve had it thrown my way but I just say no thanks and move along

I’ve been rejected many times, for many things. Not having enough money was the least of it.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

All I can offer is Coffee and Cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We haven’t been asked to pay but we’ve been offered money once. It was weird! He emailed asking what we’d do if he pulled up in a Range Rover and got out with a fistful of money.

Oh! And another who offered “the wife some spends” if he could visit.

I still can’t decide which is the worst of these."

Christ on a bike!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been offered money on several occasions. And approached by sugar daddies.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I've never been asked, nor have I ever offered. It's not that I disagree with it, I'm just as tight as a ducks arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We haven’t been asked to pay but we’ve been offered money once. It was weird! He emailed asking what we’d do if he pulled up in a Range Rover and got out with a fistful of money.

Oh! And another who offered “the wife some spends” if he could visit.

I still can’t decide which is the worst of these.

Christ on a bike!

I know! Every word they utter drips with misogyny but they still think it will get them a happy sexual encounter. “Some spends” haunted me for a while as I tried to imagine that man’s mind and his relationship with his partner.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I had a couple that wanted me to pay for a taxi from Blackpool and back blocked.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Please report anyone asking for money, gifts, site supporter passes, sugar daddies and/or any paid subscription services. Also anyone offering money or gifts.

Thank you

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