FabSwingers.com forum: How much truth do you speak

By *onkeynut OP Woman
over a year ago

somewhere

When you’ve had a drink or 10?!

Do you have a tendency to say things you don’t mean? Or are your inhibitions lowered so you say things you mean but wouldn’t necessarily be brave enough to say when sober?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I say things as I see them sober or not.

Having a drink may make me phrase things not as well as they may be or less tactful sober.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I aim to be brutally honest when sober, but alcohol will make me care less about upsetting people

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I don't need a drink. I am too honest already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm honest all the time. I don't need a drink in me to become someone who talks a lot of crap.

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By *C79Man
over a year ago

Caterham

I'm quite shy when I am sober but after a couple of drinks, I'll probably explain where I'd like to lick someone while their finger is in my bum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say what I feel and mean what I say all the times. Can’t handle the truth tough tities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I tend to say and do things I wouldn’t do sober

Led to meny oooo god who are you emmm whares my stuff run for the door call a taxi at the end off the street

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Good question

I've always been honest but considerate, I suppose in my own circumspect kind of way.

Your tits are fucking amazing (@)(@)

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I talk absolute bollocks when I'm d*unk

If you see me d*unk don't listen to a word I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell it like it is sober

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

For some reason decided to tell my mother that we'd opened our relationship after a drink or ten

Thankfully she was more tipsy and didn't remember

Just would have meant explanations that we didn't want to elaborate on

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Speak the truth either way d*unk or sober but I do become fluent in several other languages as well

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I haven't had more than two drinks for so long that I can't remember.

I don't always tell the truth sober either. Sometimes its better to just keep quiet I'm also aware that my opinion isn't the same as the truth

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

There are people that need to be d*unk to be honest?

...that explains a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an obnoxious twat bag when I am d*unk.

I don't get d*unk these days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im pretty up front sober, so no change when d*unk haha

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I'm straight talking when I'm sober...being tipsy just means that I'll giggle when saying it

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Jesus if I were to say the things on my mind when dr*nk, I'd be in serious bother.....

Which is why I say them when sober

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I'm straight talking when I'm sober...being tipsy just means that I'll giggle when saying it"

What Lily said

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm mainly honest but may be a little clumsier with my words after alcohol. I'm respectful of others, so I don't want to upset people

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By *idzmaleMan
over a year ago

telford

I speak the truth as I believe in what they see is what they get. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely drink and couple of reasons I used to have for not drinking was

Afraid i would tell work colleagues what I really thought of them

Afraid I would out myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus if I were to say the things on my mind when dr*nk, I'd be in serious bother.....

Which is why I say them when sober

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to say what I think the person I am speaking to wants to hear. Maybe that's fibbing, maybe that's being nice. Don't know. It's too late and I'm pissed. M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a pure twat when I drink too much... Occasionally also when sober

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I’m the same d*unk or sober but can’t even remember last time I drank that much to worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you’ve had a drink or 10?!

Do you have a tendency to say things you don’t mean? Or are your inhibitions lowered so you say things you mean but wouldn’t necessarily be brave enough to say when sober?"

The latter for me. I'm honest when sober, but I can be less open to sharing certain information about myself too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try always to be honest, but if it ends badly I can blame the drink...

Though at 9am it can be difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both.

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By *azzle1989Man
over a year ago

Canterbury

I have a tendency to lose what little filter i have when sobre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m usually a happy d*unk. I like to gear people io to laugh and have a good time.

V occasionally il say something out of character and the next day I spin it round and round in my head and feel awful about myself.

I’ve seen some vicious d*unks in the past. Horrific in fact. I’ve never been as bad as what I’ve witness thankfully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure. Mines a rum and

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont drink it puts me in dwell mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to speak my truth when sober.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t drink so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm happy to speak my truth when sober. "

You can’t handle the truth!!!!! *best Jack Nicholson impression

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I clam up on the rare occasion I've had too much to drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be far too truthful so I'm wary of that and will sometimes just not comment rather than saying too much that I may later wish I hadn't said.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Whatever d*unk me says can never be taken up with sober me. She won’t have a clue what you’re on about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forever truthful but not entirely brutal, well not brutal in my opinion but suppose someone else could take offence at hearing the truth.

When d*unk I just like to have a laugh.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I’m extremely tactful when sober (most of the time) if I’m still coherent pissed, then it’s usually still polite !

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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Since everyone hates me, I’d say I must be very honest and truthful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who I'm with. I can be brutally honest after a few drinks and will be more confident in what I say but some things will always remain locked away in my head as I'm a man of my word. There's a reason why people trust me to talk to and I will never betray people's trust in me

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I don’t need a drink to be a straight talker but I choose who I talk to & how, if I don’t want to talk to someone I shut it down quickly and walk off.

However, with a drink if someone keeps pushing, can’t let something lie and really wants to know, then they’ll get both barrels and it won’t be pretty. Luckily it’s a rarity that has to be done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too much for my own good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since everyone hates me, I’d say I must be very honest and truthful. "

They might not hate you at all. They may be jealous of your honesty and have stuff to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the exact reason I don't drink. I worry about saying stupid shit sober let alone when I don't have control of myself

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't drink and never have done but I've been the designated driver enough times to have been subjected to the "truth".

More often than not the truth they speak is about bigging themselves up rather than knocking others down and it is really just an exaggerated version of their sober persona.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Because I'm so straight talking when I'm sober its neither tbh.

If I've had too many I'm normally asleep in the corner or on the dance floor full of energy cocktails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found out the other week, that when I've d*unk over half a bottle of neat gin, I say what's really on my mind and don't hold back. Oops

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