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By *etmeteaseyou1 OP   Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne

ok this is question for the woman would you fuck a guy who had a stoma bag a lot on here have said they would like fun with me but soon as i say i have a stoma bag its a no so ladys would you have fun with guy who had a stoma bag

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

The correlation here is lost on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A whole new meaning to secure the bag but who knows

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"The correlation here is lost on me"

What's hard to understand? The poor guy's colostomy bag is putting the ladies off.

Good luck OP, I hope you find somebody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok this is question for the woman would you fuck a guy who had a stoma bag a lot on here have said they would like fun with me but soon as i say i have a stoma bag its a no so ladys would you have fun with guy who had a stoma bag"

I think that as it’s very much a part of you, I’d be honest up front & put in your bio on your profile, that way it can come up in conversation & you can reassure the ladies on whatever they want or need to know.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I have a friend with one who gets laid left, right, and centre. So in my experience, it's the person not the bag they are about.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The correlation here is lost on me

What's hard to understand? The poor guy's colostomy bag is putting the ladies off.

Good luck OP, I hope you find somebody"

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By *etmeteaseyou1 OP   Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne


"ok this is question for the woman would you fuck a guy who had a stoma bag a lot on here have said they would like fun with me but soon as i say i have a stoma bag its a no so ladys would you have fun with guy who had a stoma bag

I think that as it’s very much a part of you, I’d be honest up front & put in your bio on your profile, that way it can come up in conversation & you can reassure the ladies on whatever they want or need to know. "
i did have it on my bio and received some really nasty messages so took it off

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

If I found the person attractive yes.

If not no

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Some people are put off by disabilities (all sorts of different disabilities) but as Lorenzo says, plenty of people with various disabilities also have lots of sex. It might be worth including a photo that makes your stoma bag obvious and/or mention on the profile? I use wheelchair and have some wheelchair pics on the profile to illustrate. I keep meaning to mention it in the writing too but we're not really actively seeking meetings right now.

Good luck!

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By *etmeteaseyou1 OP   Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne


"I have a friend with one who gets laid left, right, and centre. So in my experience, it's the person not the bag they are about.

LvM"
well you are right there but lot guys lose there confidence when they get alot off no due to it

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By *etmeteaseyou1 OP   Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne


"Some people are put off by disabilities (all sorts of different disabilities) but as Lorenzo says, plenty of people with various disabilities also have lots of sex. It might be worth including a photo that makes your stoma bag obvious and/or mention on the profile? I use wheelchair and have some wheelchair pics on the profile to illustrate. I keep meaning to mention it in the writing too but we're not really actively seeking meetings right now.

Good luck!"
i did have it on my profile an photo but got lots nasty comments about it saying take that ugly thing off here it makes us sick

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Fair play to you talking about this OP. I'm not sure I could.

One of my kids had one but it has been reversed now and I often thought how would it impact their life when they met someone.

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By *etmeteaseyou1 OP   Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne


"Fair play to you talking about this OP. I'm not sure I could.

One of my kids had one but it has been reversed now and I often thought how would it impact their life when they met someone. "
mine cant be reversed a i think people need to see beyond bag an who person is

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"Fair play to you talking about this OP. I'm not sure I could.

One of my kids had one but it has been reversed now and I often thought how would it impact their life when they met someone. mine cant be reversed a i think people need to see beyond bag an who person is "

Yes they do. There are lots of sites that will explain what a stoma is and answer lots of FAQs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ask what point you are bringing it up in the chat? Not being harsh but your profile is pretty blank. If you don't want to mention it in that fair enough!

But people do like to know any information that might feel relevant fairly soon on?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Some people are put off by disabilities (all sorts of different disabilities) but as Lorenzo says, plenty of people with various disabilities also have lots of sex. It might be worth including a photo that makes your stoma bag obvious and/or mention on the profile? I use wheelchair and have some wheelchair pics on the profile to illustrate. I keep meaning to mention it in the writing too but we're not really actively seeking meetings right now.

Good luck!i did have it on my profile an photo but got lots nasty comments about it saying take that ugly thing off here it makes us sick"

That says far more about them than it does about you - your stoma is not ugly or anything else negative. We get abuse amount my wheelchair use. The thing is, I can no more hide my chair than you will be able to hide your stoma, especially if it's more than a social. The thing is to report and block anyone abusive.

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By *etmeteaseyou1 OP   Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne


"Some people are put off by disabilities (all sorts of different disabilities) but as Lorenzo says, plenty of people with various disabilities also have lots of sex. It might be worth including a photo that makes your stoma bag obvious and/or mention on the profile? I use wheelchair and have some wheelchair pics on the profile to illustrate. I keep meaning to mention it in the writing too but we're not really actively seeking meetings right now.

Good luck!i did have it on my profile an photo but got lots nasty comments about it saying take that ugly thing off here it makes us sick

That says far more about them than it does about you - your stoma is not ugly or anything else negative. We get abuse amount my wheelchair use. The thing is, I can no more hide my chair than you will be able to hide your stoma, especially if it's more than a social. The thing is to report and block anyone abusive.

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i try an laugh the abuse off an say at least i can never do smelly fart like you plus when we was in lockdown i was only person not panic buying toilet roll

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Some people are put off by disabilities (all sorts of different disabilities) but as Lorenzo says, plenty of people with various disabilities also have lots of sex. It might be worth including a photo that makes your stoma bag obvious and/or mention on the profile? I use wheelchair and have some wheelchair pics on the profile to illustrate. I keep meaning to mention it in the writing too but we're not really actively seeking meetings right now.

Good luck!i did have it on my profile an photo but got lots nasty comments about it saying take that ugly thing off here it makes us sick

That says far more about them than it does about you - your stoma is not ugly or anything else negative. We get abuse amount my wheelchair use. The thing is, I can no more hide my chair than you will be able to hide your stoma, especially if it's more than a social. The thing is to report and block anyone abusive.

i try an laugh the abuse off an say at least i can never do smelly fart like you plus when we was in lockdown i was only person not panic buying toilet roll"

You should definitely not have to laugh off abuse.

Unfortunately, abuse seems to come with the territory on Fab. People seem to get abuse for all sorts of reasons (often not disability related) - it's a sad reflection on the anonymity of the internet.

You be you. If someone cannot see past your stoma, that's their issue. It's definitely not a reason to be abusive.

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By *etmeteaseyou1 OP   Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne

think im going put photo of it back up an back on my profile see how many off my friends on here runs off

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By *etmeteaseyou1 OP   Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne


"think im going put photo of it back up an back on my profile see how many off my friends on here runs off"
all done lets see

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"think im going put photo of it back up an back on my profile see how many off my friends on here runs off all done lets see"

Perhaps without the status, just as a positive suggestion?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also hopefully constructive criticism - I'd personally just add it as a side note? Maybe post it in your friends pics? I mean frankly I don't show my fanny in my public gallery either

Well worth filling out your profile with a bit about 'you' though I think. And yep defo get shot of the status. If something is a part of your life don't apologise for it OP

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By *etmeteaseyou1 OP   Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne


"Also hopefully constructive criticism - I'd personally just add it as a side note? Maybe post it in your friends pics? I mean frankly I don't show my fanny in my public gallery either

Well worth filling out your profile with a bit about 'you' though I think. And yep defo get shot of the status. If something is a part of your life don't apologise for it OP"
im not going hide photo in friends as not ashamed of it i might fill out more in profile

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

If someone ticked all the right boxes it wouldn't put me off. My boss at work has one and I still want him to bend me over the desk.

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

In a beauty contest with some of the pussy /dick pics on here your not coming last.

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun


"If someone ticked all the right boxes it wouldn't put me off. My boss at work has one and I still want him to bend me over the desk."

Pay rise coming then.

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By *etmeteaseyou1 OP   Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne


"If someone ticked all the right boxes it wouldn't put me off. My boss at work has one and I still want him to bend me over the desk."
well u can bend over for me if you like

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By *etmeteaseyou1 OP   Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne


"In a beauty contest with some of the pussy /dick pics on here your not coming last."
maybe i should entry a pussy/dick contest lol

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I remember seeing someone on here I found attractive and she had one and she was young as well, it didn't put me off.

I think if you like someone then things like that shouldn't really matter at all, after all it could happen to anyone and I think it's important to remember that.

Good luck for the future buddy

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No-one deserves to receive abuse for whatever reason. Says a lot more about them than the person they target. In my profession, I see stomas a lot and I have never once found them off putting. I think it's mostly down to ignorance on some people part.

Good luck in your search OP x

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By *etmeteaseyou1 OP   Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne


"No-one deserves to receive abuse for whatever reason. Says a lot more about them than the person they target. In my profession, I see stomas a lot and I have never once found them off putting. I think it's mostly down to ignorance on some people part.

Good luck in your search OP x"
thank you for your positive comment

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Some folk on here just like to give out abuse no mater what if your happy with it then sod what anybody else thinks ok it’s hard if you want to meet but if they can’t get past it then they are not right for you. You have to just keep trying I’ve been on here for months and never had a meet get to some socials let folk see you for who you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok this is question for the woman would you fuck a guy who had a stoma bag a lot on here have said they would like fun with me but soon as i say i have a stoma bag its a no so ladys would you have fun with guy who had a stoma bag"

It wouldn't bother me. I've met a guy with one. We didn't end up playing after our social but it was nothing to do with that. I don't think he actually told me but you could see it on photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also hopefully constructive criticism - I'd personally just add it as a side note? Maybe post it in your friends pics? I mean frankly I don't show my fanny in my public gallery either

Well worth filling out your profile with a bit about 'you' though I think. And yep defo get shot of the status. If something is a part of your life don't apologise for it OP im not going hide photo in friends as not ashamed of it i might fill out more in profile"

Definately fill out more in your profile. And I wasn't suggesting you should feel ashamed mate. A lot of us have a disability on here. Good luck to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't.

It's up to you when you tell people but it needs to be before you get naked.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally would meet someone with a stoma but i have my reasons for that

I have my own issues that I'm always up front about when speaking to someone new on here and majority of the time it puts men off and the conversation ends up fizzing out

It happens I'm afraid but no one would be abusing you because of it

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I honestly don’t know. If I really like someone I like them that’s it. I’m so sorry you have received nastiness though, that’s so awful and uncalled for. I hope you find someone nice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok this is question for the woman would you fuck a guy who had a stoma bag a lot on here have said they would like fun with me but soon as i say i have a stoma bag its a no so ladys would you have fun with guy who had a stoma bag

I think that as it’s very much a part of you, I’d be honest up front & put in your bio on your profile, that way it can come up in conversation & you can reassure the ladies on whatever they want or need to know. i did have it on my bio and received some really nasty messages so took it off"

Sorry to hear that. Did you report them?

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Good on you for being upfront OP

None of us are perfect, I've had an op on my leg which has left scars, but if that puts someone off that's their problem.

I would be more concerned that you drink Fosters judging by your photos!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely hope you find someone that can see past it mate. You’re brave to put the thread up. Good luck OP

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By *ugme247Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

I’ve got a ileostomy bag 32 years I find it so rude when people turn you down because of the bag in 32 years I had a accident when I first had it during sex. It just a plastic bag it not dirty smelly you don’t poo constantly ,most like me would put a new bag on before meeting a lady. I find it no difference if someone has false teeth or body odour I find that gross but I wouldn’t be rude enough to leave

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By *tan1964TV/TS
over a year ago

brentwood

Unfortunately I find myself in the same position as a wearer of a stoma pouch. I’ve not actually met anyone yet, but I can see it’s going to be a struggle, because I find myself being blanked when I’m exchanging messages and ask if they’ve read my profile. I hate having it, but it kept me alive, so it is what it is. I have had a few nice chats with some guys and they have tried to make me feel a little more positive about myself, but my confidence is really low still

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I’d feel more comfortable with a belt securing the bag cos I’m always scared of accidentally pulling it off and embarrassing people.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

It doesn't bother me, I'm interested in the person it's attached to. It's just a part of them, sorry people are being nasty to you about it. Block the haters and move on.

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