FabSwingers.com forum: What do you 'look' for in a lover?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We can talk about anything: politics + religion (you can tell a lot about a person here), strong (mentally), integrity, and an insatiable sex drive(and hopefully her flower is always fresh. If she's pretty down there, you know you'll be in good hands).

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lightning in a bottle a bit of something extra

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

A great sense of humour is something I look for, amongst other qualities.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

A pulse...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passionate kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a man's flower to be fresh too

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Enthusiasm

The willingness to have a carefree pleasurable time

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By *agicM53XMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Literally just someone that is honest, well mannered, educated and treats me with respect ...

And it's shocking how difficult it is to find people like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who listens and takes notice, is open and honest, a bit cheeky, not scared to try new things, trustworthy, clean, funny, sparkling eyes, someone who likes some of the things I do, experienced in bed.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Attraction is such a weird thing.

I was asked out by someone the other day - had a fantastic first date - impromptu second date last night when she turned up at the pub to be greeted by me and all of my idiot friends, which she handled with class and aplomb.

She's attractive, smart, funny, tough..... but I just don't fancy her - and I'm dreading the whole "let's just be friends" talk - although I'd genuinely like her as a friend because she's awesome.

Fast forward to this morning, I bump into a friend of a friend of mine who I've seen around for ages but don't really know and has never "pinged" on my radar and suddenly she pings my radar - she's gorgeous and I somehow never noticed.

We chat, we hit it off, we have a laugh, then the bomb drops ..... she's a massive jesus freak - the last sort of person I could ever make something with long term (and due to the jesus freakery short term is probably off the menu too

) - but I can't stop thinking about her

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Emotional maturity

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Attraction is such a weird thing.

She's attractive, smart, funny, tough..... but I just don't fancy her - and I'm dreading the whole "let's just be friends" talk - although I'd genuinely like her as a friend because she's awesome.

) - but I can't stop thinking about her"

Talk about sex before you run(quietly).

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's a 3 orifice minimum for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a 3 orifice minimum for me"

What.. um.. what's the maximum?!!

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It's a 3 orifice minimum for me

What.. um.. what's the maximum?!!

No real upper limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a 3 orifice minimum for me

What.. um.. what's the maximum?!!

No real upper limit

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

I like the c's

Connection

Communication

Consideration

Excellent cunnilingus haaaaaaa

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Depends. When it's Rex... my watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Individualism.

People that see past all the bullshit and wanna have fun.

Also, good teeth.

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

"Individualism.

People that see past all the bullshit and wanna have fun.

Also, good teeth."

Yes why are good teeth so hard to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Individualism.

People that see past all the bullshit and wanna have fun.

Also, good teeth.

Yes why are good teeth so hard to find

So please be gentle with these teeth of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the c's

Connection

Communication

Consideration

Excellent cunnilingus haaaaaaa

Almost perfect

Cool

Calm

Collected

Cunnilingus

Cake

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

"Individualism.

People that see past all the bullshit and wanna have fun.

Also, good teeth.

Yes why are good teeth so hard to find

So please be gentle with these teeth of mine"

Always

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Someone tall and dominant who's not afraid to take it too far.

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

"I like the c's

Connection

Communication

Consideration

Excellent cunnilingus haaaaaaa

Almost perfect

Cool

Calm

Collected

Cunnilingus

Cake"

How did I miss

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Humour

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Connection and chemistry. Looking through my list of friends and prior meets I don't have any physical type. But I have clicked with them all. Personality wise they have all had a certain joie de vivre.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Literally just someone that is honest, well mannered, educated and treats me with respect ...

And it's shocking how difficult it is to find people like that

I knew I shouldn't have told you I left school aged 15

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone that sees me and considers my experience. Someone that likes art and social history exhibitions. Someone that I can wear very few or no clothes around when we’re chilling.

Ummm sexually... Likes sensual sex. Likes receiving oral. Communicates well about sex. Is open minded.

I’m easy like Sunday morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a lover with an easy touch

I want somebody who will spend some time

Not come and go in a heated rush

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"I want a lover with an easy touch

I want somebody who will spend some time

Not come and go in a heated rush"

I like your work!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I look for if she wears blue underwear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pretty face and that ‘something’. I know they have it when I can imagine being naked with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Humour

Oh yeah humour is so overlooked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A deviant smile

A good sense of humour

A sexy stare

A sensual touch.....

Oh and can make a dynamite bacon sandwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given up looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given up looking. "

Yeh, should be reworded to ‘hope to find’ on here. Looking makes it sound like we are all hunting in the wild

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Individualism.

People that see past all the bullshit and wanna have fun.

Also, good teeth.

Yes why are good teeth so hard to find

So please be gentle with these teeth of mine"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Custom made for me

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

A great sense of humour is a must for me. Make me laugh and that's it, I'm hooked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look for the best clit AND the bestest boobs on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me it's the kiss, followed by someone who's tactile, passionate, sensual, be able to hold a conversation and not forgetting. have a sense of humour. or did I mention a great kisser to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Given up looking. "

Honestly? That's why we're all here isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the c's

Connection

Communication

Consideration

Excellent cunnilingus haaaaaaa

Almost perfect

Cool

Calm

Collected

Cunnilingus

Cake

How did I miss

love Cunnilingus, especially followed by Cake. lol having a sweet tooth helps

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

A pretty cock

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Individualism.

People that see past all the bullshit and wanna have fun.

Also, good teeth.

Yes why are good teeth so hard to find

Probably because no one can get a fucking dentist appointment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pretty cock aka a rat trap "

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"A pretty cock aka a rat trap

. Rat trap

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A pretty cock "

All cocks and flowers look pretty. It's all down to the owner.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"A pretty cock

All cocks and flowers look pretty. It's all down to the owner. "

Oh god they don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pretty cock

All cocks and flowers look pretty. It's all down to the owner. "

Speak for yourself. Mine isn’t pretty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pretty cock aka a rat trap

. Rat trap

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A pretty cock

All cocks and flowers look pretty. It's all down to the owner.

Oh god they don’t "

Nora if you can't love your partners cock/flower then how can you enjoy 'it'?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"A pretty cock

All cocks and flowers look pretty. It's all down to the owner.

Oh god they don’t

Nora if you can't love your partners cock/flower then how can you enjoy 'it'? "

I only have partners with pretty ones

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"A pretty cock

All cocks and flowers look pretty. It's all down to the owner. "

Precisely. If you really like the person then what their personal parts look like really doesn't matter. I would be mortified if someone judged me on how my fanny looked, I would never dare take my knickers off again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want a lover with an easy touch

I want somebody who will spend some time

Not come and go in a heated rush

I like your work!

“Slow hand”

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

If she is "into" me.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"A pretty cock

All cocks and flowers look pretty. It's all down to the owner.

Can I add my comment was tongue in cheek

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

A pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pretty cock

All cocks and flowers look pretty. It's all down to the owner.

Can I add my comment was pretty cock aka rat trap in cheek

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yes add away

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"A pretty cock

All cocks and flowers look pretty. It's all down to the owner.

Can I add my comment was pretty cock aka rat trap in cheek

. yes add away"

Haha or more cock in cheek

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"I look for if she wears blue underwear

I have blue underwear

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"A pulse

...is that even optional?!

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By *ev257Man
over a year ago

cardiff

A woman who is very d*unk.

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I want a lover with an easy touch

I want somebody who will spend some time

Not come and go in a heated rush

I like your work!

“Slow hand”

Slow and loving

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"I want a lover with an easy touch

I want somebody who will spend some time

Not come and go in a heated rush

I like your work!

“Slow hand”

Yeah, I knew...who doesn't love the Pointer Sisters!

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