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To live with confidence and joy

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By *asual_Wanderer OP   Woman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

Anyone dipped into the "Pleasure" documentary on Netflix? Bit American, but enjoyed this gem of wisdom last night.

"Confidence is knowing what is true

About your body, about your sexuality, about how your brain works, about the culture you live in

Joy is loving what is true

Even if its not what you were taught should be true, even if its not what you wish were true

Joy is the hard part"

Where are you are with loving what is true for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like drivel to me

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By *asual_Wanderer OP   Woman
over a year ago

A spot you want me


"Sounds like drivel to me"

Ha ha noted...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice norks tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For so many years I tried to live life as a heterosexual, denying myself of the 'real' me.

I now live life as the 'real' bisexual me. Being true to yourself is the only way to live your life. Be yourself and be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea what any of that means

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Confidence

is knowing

what is true

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By *asual_Wanderer OP   Woman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

Yeah the line "confidence is knowing what is true" struck a real chord for me. I have felt my sexual confidence grow since becoming non-monogamous and I think so much of that is gaining clarity my body and my path to arousal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do I find it hard to write the next line?

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By *asual_Wanderer OP   Woman
over a year ago

A spot you want me


"Why do I find it hard to write the next line? "

Prob coz I'm so deeply submerged in thought my "beautiful" clit's out of reach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I find it hard to write the next line?

Prob coz I'm so deeply submerged in thought my "beautiful" clit's out of reach "

I know this much is true.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby


""Confidence is knowing what is true

About your body, about your sexuality, about how your brain works, about the culture you live in"

I think the part about the culture you live in is the outlier here. In a lot of ways, the culture you live in could be completely contradictory to what you are confident in and what you believe to be true.

I think it's also a personal thing. It's what WE believe to be true, but doesn't necessarily mean it's true as a whole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so confident it’s untrue.

We’re living our best sexual lives together and with selected others.

It’s a lot of fun

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I know my body is knackered, not much joy in that.

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By *asual_Wanderer OP   Woman
over a year ago

A spot you want me


""Confidence is knowing what is true

About your body, about your sexuality, about how your brain works, about the culture you live in

I think the part about the culture you live in is the outlier here. In a lot of ways, the culture you live in could be completely contradictory to what you are confident in and what you believe to be true.

I think it's also a personal thing. It's what WE believe to be true, but doesn't necessarily mean it's true as a whole."

I think your right about culture, she said it, but it is maybe hard to make that match with how you see things.

And yes, perception of the same experience is very different for different folk. What is indeed "truth"

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By *asual_Wanderer OP   Woman
over a year ago

A spot you want me


"I’m so confident it’s untrue."

***Mic drop***

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"I know my body is knackered, not much joy in that."

Yet it is clearly beautiful, you need to know that is true

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby


""Confidence is knowing what is true

About your body, about your sexuality, about how your brain works, about the culture you live in

I think the part about the culture you live in is the outlier here. In a lot of ways, the culture you live in could be completely contradictory to what you are confident in and what you believe to be true.

I think it's also a personal thing. It's what WE believe to be true, but doesn't necessarily mean it's true as a whole.

I think your right about culture, she said it, but it is maybe hard to make that match with how you see things.

And yes, perception of the same experience is very different for different folk. What is indeed "truth""

That question is above my pay grade

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Anyone dipped into the "Pleasure" documentary on Netflix? Bit American, but enjoyed this gem of wisdom last night.

"Confidence is knowing what is true

About your body, about your sexuality, about how your brain works, about the culture you live in

Joy is loving what is true

Even if its not what you were taught should be true, even if its not what you wish were true

Joy is the hard part"

Where are you are with loving what is true for you?"

Love yourself before loving another. We cannot know everything about ourselves but learn to love the good and amazing things about yourselves, see beauty everywhere, seek positive things, people, thoughts ....

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I know my body is knackered, not much joy in that.

Yet it is clearly beautiful, you need to know that is true "

I know it looks ok, that's not what I said.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Not sure what to make of that tbh.

American clap trap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone dipped into the "Pleasure" documentary on Netflix? Bit American, but enjoyed this gem of wisdom last night.

"Confidence is knowing what is true

About your body, about your sexuality, about how your brain works, about the culture you live in

Joy is loving what is true

Even if its not what you were taught should be true, even if its not what you wish were true

Joy is the hard part"

Where are you are with loving what is true for you?"

Not very far

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