FabSwingers.com forum: Reclaim Sex

By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Does this treat the lady as a mere possession..

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

To the people who do that kind of stuff I doubt it.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Only when they want it to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like ponds.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Only when they want it to.

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

So what is reclaim sex and who enjoys it and why?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I like ponds.

Are you french?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"So what is reclaim sex and who enjoys it and why?"

Guys who like being cucked I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like ponds.

The name's Ponds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reclaim sex is between 2 people reclaiming each other.

Unless dynamics are otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what is reclaim sex and who enjoys it and why?

Guys who like being cucked I suppose"
always saw it as a hot wife thing.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I've always seen it as a couple having sex to reclaim each other after one/both of them have had sex with someone else.

It can be extremely passionate, kind of your bodies way of saying "that was fun, but this is what I really want".

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I thought it's like a dog pissing to mark its territory

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I think 'reclaim sex' is where you put the plastic bits in a different bin to the wooden bits when the fucking is over.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I thought it's like a dog pissing to mark its territory "

Yes, but less watersports and more fucking

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I thought it's like a dog pissing to mark its territory "

Do bitches mark territory Tom ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Does this treat the lady as a mere possession.. "

Some ladies like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No doubt a little bit of both.

If anything goes off on Saturday we will be very sure not to go to sleep before we "reclaim" each other.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Also women can reclaim men

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Sometimes 5 minutes on google can prevent you looking like a tit. Sometimes…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always good to reclaim what is yours after it's been borrowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does it mean

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"I thought it's like a dog pissing to mark its territory

Do bitches mark territory Tom ?"

I honestly don't know...

I am not a dog owner but I know dogs piss against lamposts if that helps

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"What does it mean "

Say you're seeing someone ReformedSlute. Then you meet someone else to bump uglies with. Then, when you go back to Brad (the man you're seeing), he has really, really hot sex with you as one of the ways of reconnecting with you.

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Also women can reclaim men "

You are spot on Evie....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What does it mean

Like have I broken up with Brad? Is it some sort

Of make up sex I’m not aware of?

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"What does it mean

But why are you disconnected in the first place ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"What does it mean

Like have I broken up with Brad? Is it some sort

Of make up sex I’m not aware of?

No. It's when you are shared with someone else then the sex you have after with your regular partner. It can be pretty hot.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We call it Reconnection, not reclaiming. However, even if we viewed it as reclaiming it is in the context of a sexual kink, so I would not see it as literal objectification.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I like ponds.

Aye up

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By *uncouple 321Couple
over a year ago

south West

"I've always seen it as a couple having sex to reclaim each other after one/both of them have had sex with someone else.

It can be extremely passionate, kind of your bodies way of saying "that was fun, but this is what I really want". "

Thats how we see it to and we love it !!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"It can be extremely passionate, kind of your bodies way of saying "that was fun, but this is what I really want". "

That's a great way of putting it.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Done it .. do it .. love it ..

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"So what is reclaim sex and who enjoys it and why?

Guys who like being cucked I supposealways saw it as a hot wife thing. "
It’s not something that’s only for a certain dynamic. My husband isn’t a cuck and I’m not a hot wife we don’t do separate meets and we only play in same room .

Some of the hottest sex we’ve had is after we’ve watched each other with other people.It’s like our way of saying wow that was good but your amazing and I love you .

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Whyet her go in the first place

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Whyet her go in the first place "

*googles swingers*

Because it’s a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always good to reclaim what is yours after it's been borrowed "

I feel I shouldn't find that hot but it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what is reclaim sex and who enjoys it and why?"

It is the sex that two people have that helps them gloss over the psychological ‘characteristics’ that cause them to need sex with other in the first place. It is intended to reassure - a yes for some there could be a degree of possessiveness associated with it. Everyone’s dynamic is subtly different so there win’t be a single catch all definition. It is a bit like ‘make up’ sec but with a specific motive.

Or it is just two people fucking after they fucked someone else.

Take your pick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always good to reclaim what is yours after it's been borrowed

I feel I shouldn't find that hot but it is!

Well it's hotter when you let them know they are better than what they just had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done it .. do it .. love it .. "

Sounds hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always good to reclaim what is yours after it's been borrowed

I feel I shouldn't find that hot but it is!

Well it's hotter when you let them know they are better than what they just had

I wouldn't know...haven't played that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather no share in the first place to reclaim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does this treat the lady as a mere possession.. "

Why is it just the lady? Either party could be with someone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what is reclaim sex and who enjoys it and why?

Or it is just two people fucking after they fucked someone else.

Take your pick

Sorry.... But..... gloss over the psychological ‘characteristics’ that cause them to need sex with other in the first place?????

Please elaborate on what that means exactly?

Characteristics????

Need??????

And like make up sex? How so if there is no fall out or issue?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Always good to reclaim what is yours after it's been borrowed

I feel I shouldn't find that hot but it is!

Well it's hotter when you let them know they are better than what they just had

Oh god yes!

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Always good to reclaim what is yours after it's been borrowed

I feel I shouldn't find that hot but it is!

Well it's hotter when you let them know they are better than what they just had

Oh god yes!"

Evie! Your getting excited

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By *ixi n DogCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"Whyet her go in the first place "
You ask is reclaim sex possessive behaviour and a few posts later you ask 'why let her go in the first place'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what is reclaim sex and who enjoys it and why?

Or it is just two people fucking after they fucked someone else.

Take your pick

Sorry.... But..... gloss over the psychological ‘characteristics’ that cause them to need sex with other in the first place?????

Please elaborate on what that means exactly?

Characteristics????

Need??????

And like make up sex? How so if there is no fall out or issue?

PW "

It can mean whatever you wish it to mean. That’s the beauty of it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Always good to reclaim what is yours after it's been borrowed

I feel I shouldn't find that hot but it is!

Well it's hotter when you let them know they are better than what they just had

Oh god yes!

Evie! Your getting excited

I'm always excited by your posts tom X

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

"I've always seen it as a couple having sex to reclaim each other after one/both of them have had sex with someone else.

It can be extremely passionate, kind of your bodies way of saying "that was fun, but this is what I really want". "

This is how it was for us. It was also our way of showing that we would put as much effort into each other as we would for the other couple or lady we were after meeting

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Whyet her go in the first place You ask is reclaim sex possessive behaviour and a few posts later you ask 'why let her go in the first place'

Are they mutually exclusive...

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

We went to a club for my birthday a few years ago. It was great. We both had a blast. Messy and hot in the right ways and proportions.

I'm not possessive. I'm not a cuck. But the sex we had the following morning was some of the most passionate and best sex we ever had.

Maybe there was a part of my wife reminding me who owned me and a part of me reminding her who owned her. But mostly it just giggles, love and enthusiasm.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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MINE

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

We just find the whole "reclaim" thing cringeworthy. Reeks of insecurity to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just find the whole "reclaim" thing cringeworthy. Reeks of insecurity to us."

Seems a tad judgmental...

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It’s something I’ve always wanted to do. Of course I would need a regular partner to do it with. Lol.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"We just find the whole "reclaim" thing cringeworthy. Reeks of insecurity to us."

Then you don't understand the dynamics involved.

But probably easier to just cringe, so go for it.

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Sounds really hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just find the whole "reclaim" thing cringeworthy. Reeks of insecurity to us."

The term reminds us of an airport. Baggage reclaim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just find the whole "reclaim" thing cringeworthy. Reeks of insecurity to us."
what do you call it?

I cringe at lots of names, but that’s just my personal relationship with the word, not with what it represents.

Is this what you meant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has nothing to do with ownership for us, and certainly nothing to do with cuckolding. Reclaiming is just terminology.

The sex between my husband and I after I’ve been with somebody else is animalistic, passionate, intense, very deeply emotional, and amazing; fuelled with jealousy and horn from the build up of knowing where I’ve been and what I’ve been doing.

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