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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find the who intro message such a hard one to figure out. Men need to respectful with a just a little naughty, respectful but not vanilla, funny and charming without being corny or Cheesy. Tone is so hard to convey in a message so it's hard to show you are joking around. And men need to be original, so don't dare copy and paste a message. But ultimately if you don't attach a face pic, forget about a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t over think it

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

It helps if it's obvious he read the profile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I always read the profile, no point messaging if it's obvious they looking for something different, thanks for advice

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Just be yourself, mate. What else can you do!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I wouldn't worry about being naughty. Just say something worth saying. Ask questions you are genuinely interested to find out the answer to. Just chat. It doesn't seem much different to what you might say to somebody you get introduced to in your social life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snappy.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Respectful as it is, is just fine. So is "vanilla".

I'd rather get a polite friendly msg than someone trying too hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It helps if it's obvious he read the profile!"

What profile?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

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Don’t think too much into it. It’s mainly luck as to if it even gets opened. Most women are getting messages at a rate it’s basically pointless messaging anyone that’s not “online now” because it’ll get buried

Attach pics, that’s the main focus. Then just don’t be a dick/weirdo and put more effort in than “hi”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the who intro message such a hard one to figure out. Men need to respectful with a just a little naughty, respectful but not vanilla, funny and charming without being corny or Cheesy. Tone is so hard to convey in a message so it's hard to show you are joking around. And men need to be original, so don't dare copy and paste a message. But ultimately if you don't attach a face pic, forget about a reply. "

Read the profile. Be yourself and be respectful. If it's a no, pick yourself up and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It helps if it's obvious he read the profile!"

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I find the who intro message such a hard one to figure out. Men need to respectful with a just a little naughty, respectful but not vanilla, funny and charming without being corny or Cheesy. Tone is so hard to convey in a message so it's hard to show you are joking around. And men need to be original, so don't dare copy and paste a message. But ultimately if you don't attach a face pic, forget about a reply. "

I have never in all my ten years here, got a message from a man that said something along the lines of 'hi Topsy, my name is (....) I've read your profile and I'd really like to know more. I've attached my face pic'.

I'd would reply to messages like that every time but instead I get the misogynistic, self entitled drivel that falls into most inboxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why waste time just tell her, "where, when and how"

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

The Attic - Derby.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

The Attic - Derby.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

The Attic - Derby.

Read our profile, send us a message, asking just to watch. see what happens. Or, ignore Mr, shower me in compliments, tell me that your gonna be the best I've ever had.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Doesn't have to be naughty, cheeky or funny for me.

Although, if you have my kind of humour I'm more likely to respond. But, if I like the face-or torso sometimes-a simple hi there, how you doing will suffice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All else fails use the classics

FAF

Do you fuck on first dates?

Can I shag your mate if you not interested?

Can you pay for my Uber home after?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I do usually need a face pic, just in case it's someone close to my family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do usually need a face pic, just in case it's someone close to my family. "

You first … just in case your family.

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