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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well my Vanilla date went very well and I was the perfect gent... Escorted her home and left after a cuppa...

So from experience... I think I should hide my account...

I'll still be sociable and chat so watch this space!

Am I doing the right thing in hiding it?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Well my Vanilla date went very well and I was the perfect gent... Escorted her home and left after a cuppa...

So from experience... I think I should hide my account...

I'll still be sociable and chat so watch this space!

Am I doing the right thing in hiding it?"

I'd say it depends what you want from vanilla dating and if you see this going further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my Vanilla date went very well and I was the perfect gent... Escorted her home and left after a cuppa...

So from experience... I think I should hide my account...

I'll still be sociable and chat so watch this space!

Am I doing the right thing in hiding it?"

If your hoping to go further with this lady then maybe thats the best option. at least folk will know your not playing

good luck with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww glad your date went well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my Vanilla date went very well and I was the perfect gent... Escorted her home and left after a cuppa...

So from experience... I think I should hide my account...

I'll still be sociable and chat so watch this space!

Am I doing the right thing in hiding it?"

If you want to carry on dating the lucky lady then I would. You can still socialise in the forums.

Glad it all went well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my Vanilla date went very well and I was the perfect gent... Escorted her home and left after a cuppa...

So from experience... I think I should hide my account...

I'll still be sociable and chat so watch this space!

Am I doing the right thing in hiding it?"

That's your choice, if you feel something could come from your date, then good luck, I'm glad it went well for you

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Well my Vanilla date went very well and I was the perfect gent... Escorted her home and left after a cuppa...

So from experience... I think I should hide my account...

I'll still be sociable and chat so watch this space!

Am I doing the right thing in hiding it?

If you want to carry on dating the lucky lady then I would. You can still socialise in the forums.

Glad it all went well "

Plus 1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As I have been on my own far too long...

I'd like to see where this will go...

So will hide my account but keep in toch on the forums ect...

Cheers guys for your well wishes and for being sucha genuine bunch of people!

respect

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

How lovely that it went well. If you want to further your date to a fuller and longer relationship then not meeting on here is probably a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my Vanilla date went very well and I was the perfect gent... Escorted her home and left after a cuppa...

So from experience... I think I should hide my account...

I'll still be sociable and chat so watch this space!

Am I doing the right thing in hiding it?

If you want to carry on dating the lucky lady then I would. You can still socialise in the forums.

Glad it all went well

Plus 1 "

+2 xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I have been on my own far too long...

I'd like to see where this will go...

So will hide my account but keep in toch on the forums ect...

Cheers guys for your well wishes and for being sucha genuine bunch of people!

respect"

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Can you leave your pics up to perve please tongue

Seriously though, good luck with your new lady friend

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Glad your date went well..... means there's less competition on here now

Just kidding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chuffed your date went well,.go for it

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Good luck tongue.

Just don't judge me.if I stay here while I'm nilla dating...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck tongue.

Just don't judge me.if I stay here while I'm nilla dating... "

Nowt wrong with that. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck tongue.

Just don't judge me.if I stay here while I'm nilla dating... "

well if your only dating and not in a relationship its not like your cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad all went well and good luck x

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Good luck tongue.

Just don't judge me.if I stay here while I'm nilla dating...

well if your only dating and not in a relationship its not like your cheating.

"

Nope. I made it clear I was still dating others so he can't expect me to be monogamous... Yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But that all depends how much Groove likes this lady and where he's hoping it all leads to!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But that all depends how much Groove likes this lady and where he's hoping it all leads to!!

"

...

Well Rusty as I have been single for so long(god knows why as I am such an Adonis)I would like to see how this develops... However I was at work today feeling a bit..."But I'll miss the thrill and freedom swinging gives me"... I guess time will tell, so watch this space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my Vanilla date went very well and I was the perfect gent... Escorted her home and left after a cuppa...

So from experience... I think I should hide my account...

I'll still be sociable and chat so watch this space!

Am I doing the right thing in hiding it?

If you want to carry on dating the lucky lady then I would. You can still socialise in the forums.

Glad it all went well

Plus 1

+2 xx"

Good luck with it x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"But that all depends how much Groove likes this lady and where he's hoping it all leads to!!

...

Well Rusty as I have been single for so long(god knows why as I am such an Adonis)I would like to see how this develops... However I was at work today feeling a bit..."But I'll miss the thrill and freedom swinging gives me"... I guess time will tell, so watch this space "

How about me and you go on a date... both swingers haha.. Joke by the way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about me and you go on a date... both swingers haha.. Joke by the way.... "

If he was covered in tattoo's he'd be your dream man lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"How about me and you go on a date... both swingers haha.. Joke by the way....

If he was covered in tattoo's he'd be your dream man lol "

I am open to suggestions...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You could just hide your profile for awhile until you realize if this relationship is going somewheer. The when have deiced you can either inhide it or deletle it complelty

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. It is NOT the right thing to hide your profile.

I'm assuming this is your FIRST date ?

C'mon ... does that really constitute committment and the ending of a past lifestyle?

At least wait until you both declare exclusivity.

Jesus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good luck tongue.

Just don't judge me.if I stay here while I'm nilla dating...

well if your only dating and not in a relationship its not like your cheating.

"

You are sucha bad influence on me young lady and from so far too

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Good luck tongue.

Just don't judge me.if I stay here while I'm nilla dating...

well if your only dating and not in a relationship its not like your cheating.

You are sucha bad influence on me young lady and from so far too"

She was being a bad influence on me!

But since I don't need leading astray I'll pass it on to you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. It is NOT the right thing to hide your profile.

I'm assuming this is your FIRST date ?

C'mon ... does that really constitute committment and the ending of a past lifestyle?

At least wait until you both declare exclusivity.

Jesus. "

Firstly it is my choice to seek advice from fellow forumites.

Secondly it is my choice wether I take it on board and a) hide my account and/or b) carry on playing.

It may have only been a first date, but having waited so long to meet some one I like, I for one don't want to do anything to jeapordise this developing. We, as in the lady in queston have agreed to see where this goes, it may have olny been one date, but it will lead to hopefully many more...The next being on Wednesday...My choice

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