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By *cottish-sin69 OP   Man
over a year ago

scotland

Hi all i know from a single guys point of view on here it can be hard for us, even starting a convo is a challenge

So everyone what are your go to, will work convo starters when messaging someone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask if she farted

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"TALK TO ME NOW!". Works every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basic algebra works

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By *adgetgeek69Man
over a year ago

barnsley

I have found it can be a nightmare to know what to write . Mainly due to the fact I know my message will be one of hundreds they have to read . So what will make them choose to reply to me ?

So I have tried lots of different kinds of messages and I find I get just as many unopened or not replied to messages regardless of what I say .

Think it’s mainly down to looks here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D'you know, I am in the same boat here with all other men. I'm genuine (veris and photo veri to show), but still starting a convo without saying something that's already been said is a needle in a haystack. If we say things straight to the point, there's been no repport or buildup so where do we start??

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

" can you tell me how much a polar bear weighs please ? " , actually don't bother i've googled it and it say's enough to break the ice. then start conversation

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Hi all i know from a single guys point of view on here it can be hard for us, even starting a convo is a challenge

So everyone what are your go to, will work convo starters when messaging someone ?"

To be honest, mate, I don't think there's any such thing as a "go to" line. Be yourself! Find something on a profile that resonates with you and start there, but I think it's got to be genuine - anything that looks like a "line" will appear fake. Good luck!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"" can you tell me how much a polar bear weighs please ? " , actually don't bother i've googled it and it say's enough to break the ice. then start conversation "

I quite like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all i know from a single guys point of view on here it can be hard for us, even starting a convo is a challenge

So everyone what are your go to, will work convo starters when messaging someone ?"

Wuuu2 or Hey, how are you?

Massive crowd pleasers!

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Ask her if she’s ever heard of the tragedy of Darth Plagueis The Wise.

Guaranteed to work, 60% of the time, every time.

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Our profile clearly states no single men but many try and get blocked each day.

The worst and cringiest one is the “may I ask you a question?” Or similar type of hook.

Just don’t.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"" can you tell me how much a polar bear weighs please ? " , actually don't bother i've googled it and it say's enough to break the ice. then start conversation

I quite like that "

Yes, I've banked that too! Also found out today why men have nipples so another useful ice breaker I'm sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much dose a polar bear weigh ?

Enough to break the ice

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Faf always seems to work

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hiya wuup2

Fancy a chat

Seriously just be you and treat the other person as a human being with respect

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Our profile clearly states no single men but many try and get blocked each day.

The worst and cringiest one is the “may I ask you a question?” Or similar type of hook.

Just don’t. "

You can set your filters so that men can't message you

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Hi all i know from a single guys point of view on here it can be hard for us, even starting a convo is a challenge

So everyone what are your go to, will work convo starters when messaging someone ?

Wuuu2 or Hey, how are you?

Massive crowd pleasers!"

Defo winners.

The “couple here” line (from a single male profile) is also a classic.

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Our profile clearly states no single men but many try and get blocked each day.

The worst and cringiest one is the “may I ask you a question?” Or similar type of hook.

Just don’t.

You can set your filters so that men can't message you"

We used to do that but then if I am correct it doesn’t show the single men on who looked at you. For personal reasons on which we won’t elaborate we like to see who’s looking.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all i know from a single guys point of view on here it can be hard for us, even starting a convo is a challenge

So everyone what are your go to, will work convo starters when messaging someone ?

Wuuu2 or Hey, how are you?

Massive crowd pleasers!

Defo winners.

The “couple here” line (from a single male profile) is also a classic.

"

Haha, classic. "Yeah, my Mrs has access to the account, she comes on here all the time!" Pull the other one..

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Hi,

You look amazing,

Do you have any Irish in you?

No,,,

Want some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how 'bout this weather, am I right?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Hi,

You look amazing,

Do you have any Irish in you?

No,,,

Want some "

Yes.

That works.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I tell them I like their blue underwear.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

To me the first message isn't really a dealbreaker as to whether I reply. Unless it's suggesting they are speaking to a sex object rather than a person.

I look at profile first anyway. If that attracts me I've seen me replying to a 'hi, how are you' message.

Conversely if you write paragraphs of what you will do to me it's a guarantee no reply. I'm here for me not your fantasy porn scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello.

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