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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Ladies now important is it in a man,

Like when you look across a bar and see someone and think,, I'm going to throw the leg over him how much of that if any relates back to how much confidence he protrays ?????

Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ambassador!

With threads like this, you are really spoiling us.

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Ambassador!

With threads like this, you are really spoiling us. "

ahhh shucks,

I'm bored in work and it was a real life debate in the canteen. 30 min ago,

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I need a man to have confidence to find him attractive.

I do not find every confident man attractive.

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I need a man to have confidence to find him attractive.

I do not find every confident man attractive.

"

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Confidence is important to me definitely. I'm shy and two shy people means bugger all will happen

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Absofuckinglutely! But not arrogant

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I prefer quiet confidence, someone who holds his head up and stands tall but someone overly cocky in confidence is an immediate turn off.

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Confidence is important to me definitely. I'm shy and two shy people means bugger all will happen "
lol,

Thats what Gin was invented for

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

It’s not essential to me. I quite like shy men.

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Absofuckinglutely! But not arrogant "
lol

No no just Confidence,,

Bums get smacked for the other,

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think confidence and arrogance/cockiness are even close. They're completely different traits

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"It’s not essential to me. I quite like shy men. "
is that because they are easier to eat alive Nora,

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I prefer quiet confidence, someone who holds his head up and stands tall but someone overly cocky in confidence is an immediate turn off. "

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It’s not essential to me. I quite like shy men. is that because they are easier to eat alive Nora, "

Yes

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"It’s not essential to me. I quite like shy men. is that because they are easier to eat alive Nora,

Yes "

lol

Knew you would say that,,

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It’s not essential to me. I quite like shy men. is that because they are easier to eat alive Nora,

Yes lol

Knew you would say that,, "

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Confidence is definitely a trait that can make me come over a little unnecessary, but it also makes me withdraw as I'm pretty certain they would be drawn to more beautiful and confident women.

So it's a double edged sword really.

I also find I'm drawn to the quiet guy in the corner. Depends if im attracted anyway I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a little bit unassuming. Chilled

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito


"I don't think confidence and arrogance/cockiness are even close. They're completely different traits"

But doesn’t cockiness come from over confidence?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I like a confident chap.

Can't be doing with wallflowers - of either sex. X

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Confidence is definitely a trait that can make me come over a little unnecessary, but it also makes me withdraw as I'm pretty certain they would be drawn to more beautiful and confident women.

So it's a double edged sword really.

I also find I'm drawn to the quiet guy in the corner. Depends if im attracted anyway I guess."

now I know for a fact you are eating shy guys alive , the Jammy fecker,

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Confidence is important to me definitely. I'm shy and two shy people means bugger all will happen lol,

Thats what Gin was invented for "

Lol not enough gin in the world to make me confident.

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I’m a little bit unassuming. Chilled "
but you can have confidence while being chilled and unassuming,

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Confidence is important to me definitely. I'm shy and two shy people means bugger all will happen lol,

Thats what Gin was invented for

Lol not enough gin in the world to make me confident. "

is that a challenge

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Confidence is important to me definitely. I'm shy and two shy people means bugger all will happen lol,

Thats what Gin was invented for

Lol not enough gin in the world to make me confident. "

You are more of a vodka vixen then?

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I like a confident chap.

Can't be doing with wallflowers - of either sex. X"

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I like a cheeky chap - a bit ballsy but not arrogant more of like a class clown personality so confidence is definitely important to me - I’m quite out there myself so someone with a shy nature wouldn’t do much for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a little bit unassuming. Chilled but you can have confidence while being chilled and unassuming, "
I’m confident then lol

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I like a confident chap.

Can't be doing with wallflowers - of either sex. X "

Not that I'm sexually attracted to women...I just can't be arsed making all the effort on a conversation/friendship basis. I get bored & look for stimulus elsewhere. X

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Confidence is definitely a trait that can make me come over a little unnecessary, but it also makes me withdraw as I'm pretty certain they would be drawn to more beautiful and confident women.

So it's a double edged sword really.

I also find I'm drawn to the quiet guy in the corner. Depends if im attracted anyway I guess. now I know for a fact you are eating shy guys alive , the Jammy fecker, "

I'd swallow you in a heartbeat darlin

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I like a confident chap.

Can't be doing with wallflowers - of either sex. X

Not that I'm sexually attracted to women...I just can't be arsed making all the effort on a conversation/friendship basis. I get bored & look for stimulus elsewhere. X"

Soz.

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I like a cheeky chap - a bit ballsy but not arrogant more of like a class clown personality so confidence is definitely important to me - I’m quite out there myself so someone with a shy nature wouldn’t do much for me xx"
I would never have guessed that about you my Celt Sister

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Confidence is definitely a trait that can make me come over a little unnecessary, but it also makes me withdraw as I'm pretty certain they would be drawn to more beautiful and confident women.

So it's a double edged sword really.

I also find I'm drawn to the quiet guy in the corner. Depends if im attracted anyway I guess. now I know for a fact you are eating shy guys alive , the Jammy fecker,

I'd swallow you in a heartbeat darlin "

you mean you would try my dear friend, you are forgetting I taste of bitter ginger, you would gag and spit me out,,

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I like a confident chap.

Can't be doing with wallflowers - of either sex. X

Not that I'm sexually attracted to women...I just can't be arsed making all the effort on a conversation/friendship basis. I get bored & look for stimulus elsewhere. X"

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I’m a little bit unassuming. Chilled but you can have confidence while being chilled and unassuming, I’m confident then lol "
that's more like it,, Ta Fffk.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Confidence is definitely a trait that can make me come over a little unnecessary, but it also makes me withdraw as I'm pretty certain they would be drawn to more beautiful and confident women.

So it's a double edged sword really.

I also find I'm drawn to the quiet guy in the corner. Depends if im attracted anyway I guess. now I know for a fact you are eating shy guys alive , the Jammy fecker,

I'd swallow you in a heartbeat darlin you mean you would try my dear friend, you are forgetting I taste of bitter ginger, you would gag and spit me out,, "

I've always been a fan of ginger.

I've also got no gag reflex and I never spit

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I like a confident chap.

Can't be doing with wallflowers - of either sex. X

Not that I'm sexually attracted to women...I just can't be arsed making all the effort on a conversation/friendship basis. I get bored & look for stimulus elsewhere. X

Soz."

Noone could ever call you a wallflower, PoshPants xx

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I like a confident chap.

Can't be doing with wallflowers - of either sex. X"

Oh … I can imagine wall flowers would wilt in your presence

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I like a cheeky chap - a bit ballsy but not arrogant more of like a class clown personality so confidence is definitely important to me - I’m quite out there myself so someone with a shy nature wouldn’t do much for me xx"

That's why we get on, lovely x

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Confidence is definitely a trait that can make me come over a little unnecessary, but it also makes me withdraw as I'm pretty certain they would be drawn to more beautiful and confident women.

So it's a double edged sword really.

I also find I'm drawn to the quiet guy in the corner. Depends if im attracted anyway I guess. now I know for a fact you are eating shy guys alive , the Jammy fecker,

I'd swallow you in a heartbeat darlin you mean you would try my dear friend, you are forgetting I taste of bitter ginger, you would gag and spit me out,,

I've always been a fan of ginger.

I've also got no gag reflex and I never spit "

ahh ffs Posh I love a bit of Slurps and gag, big fan on the spit though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quitely confident is the best way..these people that think they are centre of attention, all a bit ott

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I like a confident chap.

Can't be doing with wallflowers - of either sex. X

Oh … I can imagine wall flowers would wilt in your presence "

It has been known, DC!

However, I do have a few quiet, unassuming friends. They're just not terribly shy xx

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Quitely confident is the best way..these people that think they are centre of attention, all a bit ott "

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Quitely confident is the best way..these people that think they are centre of attention, all a bit ott "

Are you talking about people on the thread, or folk in general?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Confidence is important to me definitely. I'm shy and two shy people means bugger all will happen lol,

Thats what Gin was invented for

Lol not enough gin in the world to make me confident. is that a challenge "

Most definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confident but not cocky please J xx

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Confidence is definitely a trait that can make me come over a little unnecessary, but it also makes me withdraw as I'm pretty certain they would be drawn to more beautiful and confident women.

So it's a double edged sword really.

I also find I'm drawn to the quiet guy in the corner. Depends if im attracted anyway I guess. now I know for a fact you are eating shy guys alive , the Jammy fecker,

I'd swallow you in a heartbeat darlin you mean you would try my dear friend, you are forgetting I taste of bitter ginger, you would gag and spit me out,,

I've always been a fan of ginger.

I've also got no gag reflex and I never spit ahh ffs Posh I love a bit of Slurps and gag, big fan on the spit though "

Darn... I'll have to fake it for once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a little bit unassuming. Chilled but you can have confidence while being chilled and unassuming, I’m confident then lol that's more like it,, Ta Fffk. "
must be my oirish Dublin genes and … jeans

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Confidence is important to me definitely. I'm shy and two shy people means bugger all will happen lol,

Thats what Gin was invented for

Lol not enough gin in the world to make me confident.

You are more of a vodka vixen then?"

Oh heck no, don't think I could manage it these days

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I’m a little bit unassuming. Chilled but you can have confidence while being chilled and unassuming, I’m confident then lol that's more like it,, Ta Fffk. must be my oirish Dublin genes and … jeans "

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I love confident men! Be able to do rude stuff confidently too. Mix in different circles, use power tools, reverse park… the list is endless actually

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If a man with a beautiful face is sitting in a corner, sipping his drink, nonchalantly perusing the room, my knickers will blow up.

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I love confident men! Be able to do rude stuff confidently too. Mix in different circles, use power tools, reverse park… the list is endless actually "
who said power tools, I'm sponsored by Dewalt, lol

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Quitely confident is the best way..these people that think they are centre of attention, all a bit ott "

There's confidence and then there's Gaston.

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"If a man with a beautiful face is sitting in a corner, sipping his drink, nonchalantly perusing the room, my knickers will blow up."
brilliant Nana

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Quitely confident is the best way..these people that think they are centre of attention, all a bit ott

There's confidence and then there's Gaston."

To be fair, Gaston was an absolute dream of a man.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"I love confident men! Be able to do rude stuff confidently too. Mix in different circles, use power tools, reverse park… the list is endless actually who said power tools, I'm sponsored by Dewalt, lol "

Excellent choice

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Quitely confident is the best way..these people that think they are centre of attention, all a bit ott

There's confidence and then there's Gaston.

To be fair, Gaston was an absolute dream of a man."

we talking beauty and the beast here ladies??

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I love confident men! Be able to do rude stuff confidently too. Mix in different circles, use power tools, reverse park… the list is endless actually who said power tools, I'm sponsored by Dewalt, lol

Excellent choice "

ohh I know my way around a Router and skillsaw, but suuuusht, don't blow my cover

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By *acystaceyWoman
over a year ago

Ceredigion


"I need a man to have confidence to find him attractive.

I do not find every confident man attractive.

"

This

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I need a man to have confidence to find him attractive.

I do not find every confident man attractive.

This "

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Sometimes I like the quiet ones

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm flexible and prefer the right man, who may develop confidence, in his own way

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Sometimes I like the quiet ones "
ohh jesus, I can be quiet,, sometimes,, all be it with the help of duct tape,

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I'm flexible and prefer the right man, who may develop confidence, in his own way "
jesus Sophie, you ever think of getting into Politics??

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"If a man with a beautiful face is sitting in a corner, sipping his drink, nonchalantly perusing the room, my knickers will blow up."

What about a man with a face sipping his drink through a straw, blindly perusing the room because he left his glasses at home?

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"If a man with a beautiful face is sitting in a corner, sipping his drink, nonchalantly perusing the room, my knickers will blow up.

What about a man with a face sipping his drink through a straw, blindly perusing the room because he left his glasses at home?"

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Sometimes I like the quiet ones ohh jesus, I can be quiet,, sometimes,, all be it with the help of duct tape, "

That definitely helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more confident than I realise, although it can be confused with giving off a positive energy. Personally I'm only confident with the opposite sex when it's energy not wasted. Guess I'm the type of guy who like to be led than lead, but if the hint is tied to a brick then I'd notice

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Sometimes I like the quiet ones ohh jesus, I can be quiet,, sometimes,, all be it with the help of duct tape,

That definitely helps"

saying that, the tape will stick to my beard,, oooouuuccchhh

I need to rethink this

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I'm more confident than I realise, although it can be confused with giving off a positive energy. Personally I'm only confident with the opposite sex when it's energy not wasted. Guess I'm the type of guy who like to be led than lead, but if the hint is tied to a brick then I'd notice"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft spoken with a wild side

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Condindence/assertiveness/cheekiness yes

There's nothing that dries up a vagina quicker than arogance and its associated entitledment.

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Condindence/assertiveness/cheekiness yes

There's nothing that dries up a vagina quicker than arogance and its associated entitledment. "

lol

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Very important to me and one of the first things I look for, I'm a big personality and need someone who can match me at least or I tend to take charge all the time

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Very important to me and one of the first things I look for, I'm a big personality and need someone who can match me at least or I tend to take charge all the time"
dun Dundun dun da dun Dun da dun,,

(Luke I am your Fa,,,) ffs I did it again, sorry sorry, you were saying,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not essential to me. I quite like shy men. is that because they are easier to eat alive Nora,

Yes lol

Knew you would say that,,

"

Because one never(must) stop exploring!

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I’m attracted to confident men, he can be the one holding court or the one comfortable in himself sitting alone, they usually have an air about them. I like a man to take the lead

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I’m attracted to confident men, he can be the one holding court or the one comfortable in himself sitting alone, they usually have an air about them. I like a man to take the lead "
good to know,, in the vault with that info

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I need a confident man to stand up to me or I will just take over and be bossy.

I don't actually mind a smidgen of arrogance...I'll play up to that and it can make things feisty

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quiet confidence. ^

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By *he Ambassador OP   Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I need a confident man to stand up to me or I will just take over and be bossy.

I don't actually mind a smidgen of arrogance...I'll play up to that and it can make things feisty "

I like Feisty,

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Very important to me and one of the first things I look for, I'm a big personality and need someone who can match me at least or I tend to take charge all the time dun Dundun dun da dun Dun da dun,,

(Luke I am your Fa,,,) ffs I did it again, sorry sorry, you were saying,, "

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