FabSwingers.com forum: You type it and then delete it…

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How often do you find you do that when reading a thread. You go to reply but can’t be bothered?

What’s your reason for deleting?

Mine is normally I notice the spelling mistakes and by the time I change it all the moment has gone.

Also FAF?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

My reason for deleting is usually that I realise I cant be fucked to say what I wanted to say because the person its aimed at wont understand it or is too much of a cock womble to appreciate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines usually I’m going to seriously offend someone and can’t be arsed with the pile on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every other time

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've done that quite a bit. Sometimes because I realise I just can't be bothered as it's a troll post ,sometimes because I can't write it exactly how I like to, sometimes I the moment just goes and other times I think nah there's no point you can't fix stupid so why even bother wasting time posting

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Mines usually I’m going to seriously offend someone and can’t be arsed with the pile on."

Me too

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"My reason for deleting is usually that I realise I cant be fucked to say what I wanted to say because the person its aimed at wont understand it or is too much of a cock womble to appreciate it."
This x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Because I realise I'd rather give my energy to wanking than a wanker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mines usually I’m going to seriously offend someone and can’t be arsed with the pile on.

Me too

Pile ons are funny and you get a real sense of if you’re right or wrong by the messages of support you get in your inbox.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Because I realise I'd rather give my energy to wanking than a wanker. "

Can I watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never if I have something to say I will say it

Use to mind what I sed but then realised there no point as it’s fab not like I am going to ruine anything as they all on the no list anyway put them selfs there

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I realise it’s not funny by the time I’ve finished

Either that or just cba in the end. Easier just to type ‘I’m in’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because nobody will be interested in what I want to say.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Because I realise I'd rather give my energy to wanking than a wanker.

Can I watch

I thought you'd never ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was given good advice by someone.

Read it back and If it makes me laugh, it’s too inappropriate so don’t post it.

So then I delete it.

My posts are more tame but I’ve not been banned for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time

I take a second to think can I really be bothered

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

I’ve just done it now with story about the bendy ex landlady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was given good advice by someone.

Read it back and If it makes me laugh, it’s too inappropriate so don’t post it.

So then I delete it.

My posts are more tame but I’ve not been banned for a while."

You have never second guessed a single thing you’ve posted on these forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was given good advice by someone.

Read it back and If it makes me laugh, it’s too inappropriate so don’t post it.

So then I delete it.

My posts are more tame but I’ve not been banned for a while.

You have never second guessed a single thing you’ve posted on these forums

Think how bad they’d be if I didn’t!!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Mines usually I’m going to seriously offend someone and can’t be arsed with the pile on.

Me too

Pile ons are funny and you get a real sense of if you’re right or wrong by the messages of support you get in your inbox. "

They do make me laugh....saying that I've been a really good girl lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes triggering the idiots just loses its appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was given good advice by someone.

Read it back and If it makes me laugh, it’s too inappropriate so don’t post it.

So then I delete it.

My posts are more tame but I’ve not been banned for a while.

You have never second guessed a single thing you’ve posted on these forums

Think how bad they’d be if I didn’t!!"

Next time you’re busy for a few days just do a Jonny uncensored thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mines usually I’m going to seriously offend someone and can’t be arsed with the pile on.

Me too

Pile ons are funny and you get a real sense of if you’re right or wrong by the messages of support you get in your inbox.

They do make me laugh....saying that I've been a really good girl lately

A few glasses of wine should sort that out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sometimes triggering the idiots just loses its appeal. "

They will always win by dragging you down to their level

*can’t remember who said that, something by Einstein I think. (Someone will know it)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Every other time"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes triggering the idiots just loses its appeal.

They will always win by dragging you down to their level

*can’t remember who said that, something by Einstein I think. (Someone will know it)"

Mark Twain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I realise it’s not funny by the time I’ve finished

Either that or just cba in the end. Easier just to type ‘I’m in’ "

I did say FAF?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sometimes triggering the idiots just loses its appeal.

They will always win by dragging you down to their level

*can’t remember who said that, something by Einstein I think. (Someone will know it)

Mark Twain."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just hit send.

who cares anyway. its only the internet

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I feel strongly about replying and then by the time I’ve wrote it all out, I think ‘is it really worth it’ so then I delete it…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Majority of the time

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the reasons already quoted are exactly why for me.

Especially some of the more serious ones I actually really do want to post on but way the forums here work re lack of notifications, etc. I just mostly CBA. As it feels arduous and lacking the flow I became used to when I started using forums when I was young(er)

Hence I tend to exit without even posting.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"I realise it’s not funny by the time I’ve finished

Either that or just cba in the end. Easier just to type ‘I’m in’

I did say FAF?

Which I only recently discovered didn’t stand for what I thought it did

Yeah, pop round !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I feel strongly about replying and then by the time I’ve wrote it all out, I think ‘is it really worth it’ so then I delete it…

Imagine how much shite would be on this forum if we all posted these deleted ones from the past. 175 in every thread.

Well, no t every thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I realise it’s not funny by the time I’ve finished

Either that or just cba in the end. Easier just to type ‘I’m in’

I did say FAF?

Which I only recently discovered didn’t stand for what I thought it did

Yeah, pop round ! "

*grabs coat….close this thread admin, I’m Outa here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually because i don't want a forum ban... or i don't want members of the forum attacking me for my preferences on certain kinky things.. what happened to different strokes for different folks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"usually because i don't want a forum ban... or i don't want members of the forum attacking me for my preferences on certain kinky things.. what happened to different strokes for different folks?

Px "

Now I’m intrigued.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"usually because i don't want a forum ban... or i don't want members of the forum attacking me for my preferences on certain kinky things.. what happened to different strokes for different folks?

Px "

Oh goodness. That’s where my bans were from. Kinks etc

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Because what's the point in trying to have a debate with people who just want to shut you down by saying they're offended because you don't agree with them?

Some people just aren't worth a forum ban.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I almost never delete these days. The forum seems to have swung enough politically - I used to delete all the time.

It's lovely, actually.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I almost never delete these days. The forum seems to have swung enough politically - I used to delete all the time.

It's lovely, actually."

Political? For the politics for though surely ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I almost never delete these days. The forum seems to have swung enough politically - I used to delete all the time.

It's lovely, actually.

Political? For the politics for though surely ?

It covers a lot of what comes up in the forum in general, not just the politics section

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Nine times out of ten I type then delete because I thunk why bother anymore I just get ignored now

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

All the time, for all kinds of reasons...

Losing my train of thought in constructing a long reply on some of the more complicated threads; assuming someone else has/will make the point I was going to make; deciding it's not as funny as it sounds in my head; losing the will to type; or not wanting to get in the way of a other people's conversations. And sometimes I just hit post too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nine times out of ten I type then delete because I thunk why bother anymore I just get ignored now

Not today girl. Not today.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

I usually write a reply then have to delete it because I know I will get a ban for saying the truth half the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I usually write a reply then have to delete it because I know I will get a ban for saying the truth half the time

So are you telling the truth now?

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Your reading what you wrote, you scroll down and refresh by accident, it doesn't get a second chance.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"I usually write a reply then have to delete it because I know I will get a ban for saying the truth half the time

So are you telling the truth now?

I re-worded it so I didn't offend anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I realise it’s not funny by the time I’ve finished

Either that or just cba in the end. Easier just to type ‘I’m in’ "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I usually write a reply then have to delete it because I know I will get a ban for saying the truth half the time

So are you telling the truth now?

I re-worded it so I didn't offend anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't spelk or reply quick enough usually thats why I delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't spelk or reply quick enough usually thats why I delete

See lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your reading what you wrote, you scroll down and refresh by accident, it doesn't get a second chance.

I have hit ‘Post message’ by mistake so many times when I scroll. I once reported someone’s post by accident

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I do that all the time... for a multitude of reasons.

I'm pretty certain there are people who wish I'd do it more

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I usually write a reply then have to delete it because I know I will get a ban for saying the truth half the time

Oh I know that feeling....I was always on the naughty step

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I usually write a reply then have to delete it because I know I will get a ban for saying the truth half the time

Oh I know that feeling....I was always on the naughty step

Report for detention

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I stop. Count to 10 and either leave the thread or try again

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I usually write a reply then have to delete it because I know I will get a ban for saying the truth half the time

Oh I know that feeling....I was always on the naughty step

Report for detention

Yes Sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive done this alot recently, I write something and then think why bother? , it will only get ignored again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either someone will be offended, they won't listen so it's pointless or the thread becomes a cake shop order yawn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Either someone will be offended, they won't listen so it's pointless or the thread becomes a cake shop order yawn."

Half the time I take offence from my own posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"usually because i don't want a forum ban... or i don't want members of the forum attacking me for my preferences on certain kinky things.. what happened to different strokes for different folks?

Px "

I refuse to be bullied for my preferences, and bullying is what it is.

I don’t give a fuck about what people think of it/me, but I want this to be a safe space for others, so I will post, and I will defend my right to post, and fuck those who like to condemn/bully/silence others.

*backs away from the Prosecco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm well aware that everyone has opinions and should be equally allowed to express them without recourse...we live in a land of free speech not a fascist state.

I'll say what I say because I can, not entirely without remorse but do respect opinions, but try and shit on me then do expect retaliation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"usually because i don't want a forum ban... or i don't want members of the forum attacking me for my preferences on certain kinky things.. what happened to different strokes for different folks?

I refuse to be bullied for my preferences, and bullying is what it is.

*backs away from the Prosecco "

*woody backs away from Hippy chick…

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes it’s pointless calling people out.

They already know what they’re doing, so just let them keep digging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"usually because i don't want a forum ban... or i don't want members of the forum attacking me for my preferences on certain kinky things.. what happened to different strokes for different folks?

I refuse to be bullied for my preferences, and bullying is what it is.

*backs away from the Prosecco "

Yeah, go Hippy!

If I delete something it's because I've gone too far and I've got angry. So I logout until I'm calm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How often do you find you do that when reading a thread. You go to reply but can’t be bothered?

What’s your reason for deleting?

Mine is normally I notice the spelling mistakes and by the time I change it all the moment has gone.

Also FAF?

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it’s pointless calling people out.

They already know what they’re doing, so just let them keep digging

Although, you know, sometimes it shuts them up doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mines usually I’m going to seriously offend someone and can’t be arsed with the pile on."

Pretty much

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Sometimes I type out something that could call someone out but then I realise that they're just a stranger on the internet and I really can't be arsed to get into a war of words with them because it doesn't benefit me in any way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often type and then delete because folks are fickle and I just can't be arsed with the backlash and people not understanding that it's ok to have a difference of opinions. Some folk on here just look for arguments and look to be offended. Can't be doing with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never yet. Think it through before we send and if we think it will go bad then we don't send. We're surprised you got to the end of that question.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"I often type and then delete because folks are fickle and I just can't be arsed with the backlash and people not understanding that it's ok to have a difference of opinions. Some folk on here just look for arguments and look to be offended. Can't be doing with it."

No we don't!

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"Sometimes it’s pointless calling people out.

They already know what they’re doing, so just let them keep digging

Although, you know, sometimes it shuts them up doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we don't!

Yes we do!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Sometimes it’s pointless calling people out.

They already know what they’re doing, so just let them keep digging

Although, you know, sometimes it shuts them up doesn't it?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Think I start typing something and then delete it about 50% of the time.

Sometimes it because I can't express my thoughts clear enough for other to understand or because I think fuck it this will just lead to too much hassle if I write what I really want to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I start typing something and then delete it about 50% of the time.

Sometimes it because I can't express my thoughts clear enough for other to understand or because I think fuck it this will just lead to too much hassle if I write what I really want to say."

I write what I want and am then surprised at the hassle.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Think I start typing something and then delete it about 50% of the time.

Sometimes it because I can't express my thoughts clear enough for other to understand or because I think fuck it this will just lead to too much hassle if I write what I really want to say.

I write what I want and am then surprised at the hassle.

I'm not surprised at the hassle. Bring it

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

No we don't!

Yes we do!"

I strongly disagree *insert personal insult*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we don't!

Yes we do!

I strongly disagree *insert personal insult*"

He's behind you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I start typing something and then delete it about 50% of the time.

Sometimes it because I can't express my thoughts clear enough for other to understand or because I think fuck it this will just lead to too much hassle if I write what I really want to say.

I write what I want and am then surprised at the hassle.

I'm not surprised at the hassle. Bring it

I guess I have been surprised at the number of times people have got very angry at me for disagreeing with them. Expressing my opinion. Which I do try to do politely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we don't!

Yes we do!

I strongly disagree *insert personal insult*"

I’m OFFENDED!

*flounce

*slam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we don't!

Yes we do!

I strongly disagree *insert personal insult*

I’m OFFENDED!

*flounce

*slam "

See, there's always one!

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

No we don't!

Yes we do!

I strongly disagree *insert personal insult*

He's behind you!

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

No we don't!

Yes we do!

I strongly disagree *insert personal insult*

I’m OFFENDED!

*flounce

*slam

See, there's always one!

Just typical of the generation of snowfla... Sorry, I can't finish that sentence word without cringing

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Think I start typing something and then delete it about 50% of the time.

Sometimes it because I can't express my thoughts clear enough for other to understand or because I think fuck it this will just lead to too much hassle if I write what I really want to say.

I write what I want and am then surprised at the hassle.

I'm not surprised at the hassle. Bring it

I guess I have been surprised at the number of times people have got very angry at me for disagreeing with them. Expressing my opinion. Which I do try to do politely. "

Some people are remarkably sensitive and like to project their feelings onto others

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

All the time!

I just wrote a mammoth reply to Toms last thread, then decided that actually it wasn’t worth the hassle (and last time I replied on a thread of his I got a ban

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over a year ago

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