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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Just saw the male thread.

Well ladies. Is it?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yep! Let's be honest, my photos are dire, my bio is a smidgen better but I'm happy with my fab experience, I tend to take a more proactive role and charm them with my words and waffling. I've made some brilliant friends, my sexual confidence is starting to come back after a health shock... I'm working on me and Fab helps me in a weird way to do so.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Just saw the male thread.

Well ladies. Is it?

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beers and chips at the ready Nora

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yep! Let's be honest, my photos are dire, my bio is a smidgen better but I'm happy with my fab experience, I tend to take a more proactive role and charm them with my words and waffling. I've made some brilliant friends, my sexual confidence is starting to come back after a health shock... I'm working on me and Fab helps me in a weird way to do so. "

That’s a great positive response .

I am generally interested as I know a lot of

Women don’t meet, some do, some just here for the forums etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because all the good looking men are either down in London or they’re desperate.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Just saw the male thread.

Well ladies. Is it?

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nah not really "

Oh you’ve had some fun over the years SB, surely!

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Yep! Let's be honest, my photos are dire, my bio is a smidgen better but I'm happy with my fab experience, I tend to take a more proactive role and charm them with my words and waffling. I've made some brilliant friends, my sexual confidence is starting to come back after a health shock... I'm working on me and Fab helps me in a weird way to do so. "
I'm a big fan of your work,, and pics,, but hey you already know this

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"No because all the good looking men are either down in London or they’re desperate. "

I find they’re mostly ooop north tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it is, free dick pics for all you lucky ladies. What more do you want!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Of course it is, free dick pics for all you lucky ladies. What more do you want! "

Errmmmm. A lot more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can experiment with women op to ensure it’s not “just a phase”.

Save money on sex toys too if you find the right guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because all the good looking men are either down in London or they’re desperate.

I find they’re mostly ooop north tbh "

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either. "

Nah dating means potential “real”relationships. Not for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because all the good looking men are either down in London or they’re desperate.

I find they’re mostly ooop north tbh "

So they have all the good looking women AND all the good looking men?

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Yep! Let's be honest, my photos are dire, my bio is a smidgen better but I'm happy with my fab experience, I tend to take a more proactive role and charm them with my words and waffling. I've made some brilliant friends, my sexual confidence is starting to come back after a health shock... I'm working on me and Fab helps me in a weird way to do so. "

Your bio and pics look just fine to me.

X

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"No because all the good looking men are either down in London or they’re desperate. "

Or both in your case

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

The place would be boring without you Nora

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course it is, free dick pics for all you lucky ladies. What more do you want!

Errmmmm. A lot more! "

More dick pics? You heard her lads!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"No because all the good looking men are either down in London or they’re desperate.

I find they’re mostly ooop north tbh

So they have all the good looking women AND all the good looking men?

"

The majority yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either.

Nah dating means potential “real”relationships. Not for me!"

People aren’t looking for relationships on tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because all the good looking men are either down in London or they’re desperate.

I find they’re mostly ooop north tbh "

I appreciate this post

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Of course it is, free dick pics for all you lucky ladies. What more do you want!

Errmmmm. A lot more!

More dick pics? You heard her lads! "

Hahaha. I guess there were two ways that could be read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because all the good looking men are either down in London or they’re desperate.

Or both in your case "

Ba dum tsssss

!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either.

Nah dating means potential “real”relationships. Not for me!

People aren’t looking for relationships on tinder "

I have no idea. Never ever been on one of those sites. And I won’t be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s worth it, depending on what you are looking for.

I met amazing guys on here, some are proper gems too.

But I don’t know if my priorities are a bit changing lately, and if this site is right anymore.

ANYWAY, I totally recommend it for ladies who want to spend time with guys without over thinking it too much x also so many snacks and it’s less daunting than swiping left and right

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Yep! Let's be honest, my photos are dire, my bio is a smidgen better but I'm happy with my fab experience, I tend to take a more proactive role and charm them with my words and waffling. I've made some brilliant friends, my sexual confidence is starting to come back after a health shock... I'm working on me and Fab helps me in a weird way to do so. I'm a big fan of your work,, and pics,, but hey you already know this "

I might do. Thanks for indulging my transparent af validation plea.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either. "

It doesn't have a forum though. At least I can interact with people on fab without having to get those nonexistent "matches" first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. best fuck off now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the friends....yes.

Not sure about the sexy side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep! Let's be honest, my photos are dire, my bio is a smidgen better but I'm happy with my fab experience, I tend to take a more proactive role and charm them with my words and waffling. I've made some brilliant friends, my sexual confidence is starting to come back after a health shock... I'm working on me and Fab helps me in a weird way to do so. I'm a big fan of your work,, and pics,, but hey you already know this

I might do. Thanks for indulging my transparent af validation plea. "

Will validate you anytime

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either.

It doesn't have a forum though. At least I can interact with people on fab without having to get those nonexistent "matches" first "

Does it not? I wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for

The forum so wouldn’t be for me then x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres more bikes than york town centre

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either.

It doesn't have a forum though. At least I can interact with people on fab without having to get those nonexistent "matches" first

Does it not? I wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for

The forum so wouldn’t be for me then x"

Nope, I think its rubbish and is why I came back here to help ease my loneliness

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I've learnt how to delete and block, so it's been worth it

In all honesty, ive met some lovely people, made new friends on here, the sex had been good as well.

I've taken time out and not met many over the past year as I have been finding myself/healing, after a rocky time. Now I'm slowly meeting again.

Another thing fab has given me is more confidence in lots of different ways.

So is it worth it? For me, yes it has.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely yes.

I’ve had a wide range of experiences on here, some good, some not so good, but I’ve met the most amazing people, and the good/fun/new experiences far outweigh the other.

Yes, I’m extremely wary, and play my cards close to my chest at the moment, and mostly my fear overrides the desire to get out more, I’m working on that.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I believe it is worth it, I've met really good people in the past, I think that fab is not the free sex site that a lot of new members recently seem to think it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what your looking for

If it’s just mindless sex with guys

Would probably say yes

If it’s dateing then probably not

As most guys say they wouldn’t date on fab

Witch is totally stupid

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Yep! Let's be honest, my photos are dire, my bio is a smidgen better but I'm happy with my fab experience, I tend to take a more proactive role and charm them with my words and waffling. I've made some brilliant friends, my sexual confidence is starting to come back after a health shock... I'm working on me and Fab helps me in a weird way to do so. I'm a big fan of your work,, and pics,, but hey you already know this

I might do. Thanks for indulging my transparent af validation plea.

Will validate you anytime "

And another. What a win.

Sorry Nora, I genuinely find it interesting to read about the experience of other women. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next they’ll be a thread “is it really worth being here at all?

Nobody posted a link to a Beyoncé - single ladies you tube video.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either.

It doesn't have a forum though. At least I can interact with people on fab without having to get those nonexistent "matches" first "

TRUE! But at least I know with matches that when I message a woman she is open to physically ruining me. Also the forum is rubbish- they’re all shagging one another and ignore all the men.

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By *elight 99Woman
over a year ago

richmond

Noooo not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe it is worth it, I've met really good people in the past, I think that fab is not the free sex site that a lot of new members recently seem to think it is. "

Free sex??? Thought it was a baking site!! Best get the sponge out the oven.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yep! Let's be honest, my photos are dire, my bio is a smidgen better but I'm happy with my fab experience, I tend to take a more proactive role and charm them with my words and waffling. I've made some brilliant friends, my sexual confidence is starting to come back after a health shock... I'm working on me and Fab helps me in a weird way to do so. I'm a big fan of your work,, and pics,, but hey you already know this

I might do. Thanks for indulging my transparent af validation plea.

Will validate you anytime

And another. What a win.

Sorry Nora, I genuinely find it interesting to read about the experience of other women. x"

I agree! I do too! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either. "

You mean the dateing site whare you get bamed up humped and dumped no thanks

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I believe it is worth it, I've met really good people in the past, I think that fab is not the free sex site that a lot of new members recently seem to think it is.

Free sex??? Thought it was a baking site!! Best get the sponge out the oven."

Oooo mind you don't get a soggy bottom x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either. "

Or twitter. Seriously active for getting m chatted up. More likely to follow through than fantasy sites like tinder or here. Just what I’ve seen and heard of women rather thank experience.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Of course it is, free dick pics for all you lucky ladies. What more do you want!

Errmmmm. A lot more!

More dick pics? You heard her lads!

Hahaha. I guess there were two ways that could be read "

Nora takes it two ways. You read it here first

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Of course it is, free dick pics for all you lucky ladies. What more do you want!

Errmmmm. A lot more!

More dick pics? You heard her lads!

Hahaha. I guess there were two ways that could be read

Nora takes it two ways. You read it here first "

I think we all know that’s not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either.

You mean the dateing site whare you get bamed up humped and dumped no thanks "

Now that’s what I can a REAL sex site.

Plus, don’t underestimate the sell of no dick pics.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Of course it is, free dick pics for all you lucky ladies. What more do you want!

Errmmmm. A lot more!

More dick pics? You heard her lads!

Hahaha. I guess there were two ways that could be read

Nora takes it two ways. You read it here first

I think we all know that’s not true "

You said it. Right then!

It's a good thing you love me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either.

Or twitter. Seriously active for getting m chatted up. More likely to follow through than fantasy sites like tinder or here. Just what I’ve seen and heard of women rather thank experience. "

Twitter is very good I’ve heard the same. But can receive dick pics on there which is a negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either.

You mean the dateing site whare you get bamed up humped and dumped no thanks

Now that’s what I can a REAL sex site.

Plus, don’t underestimate the sell of no dick pics. "

So what have a guy lie his way in to my knickers then ghost me after words

Your such a charmer

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"Of course it is, free dick pics for all you lucky ladies. What more do you want!

Errmmmm. A lot more!

More dick pics? You heard her lads!

Hahaha. I guess there were two ways that could be read

Nora takes it two ways. You read it here first "

Ain’t she lucky

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either.

Or twitter. Seriously active for getting m chatted up. More likely to follow through than fantasy sites like tinder or here. Just what I’ve seen and heard of women rather thank experience. "
Ah yes Twitter is a brilliant resource. I've had some wonderful conversations as a result of it and met some delightfully kinky people that I'm still exploring avenues with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being able to view Sam tender in the comfort of your own homes in brilliant HD picture form is worth your subscriptions ladies.

Don’t take him for granted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being able to view Sam tender in the comfort of your own homes in brilliant HD picture form is worth your subscriptions ladies.

Don’t take him for granted."

Who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done alright xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really. I've had sex once since I joined the site. So many gross, entitled men and a fair few misogynists too. I've never had so many revolting messages in my life. When I have started chatting with someone they have in most cases been lying through their teeth to me.

If it wasn't for the forum I would have left after a month because I've had so many brilliant conversations and made friends as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being able to view Sam tender in the comfort of your own homes in brilliant HD picture form is worth your subscriptions ladies.

Don’t take him for granted.

Who? "

Don’t waste your time!

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Well I'm not having any luck, nor have I had any luck on here with the female.

Tinder here I come.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either.

You mean the dateing site whare you get bamed up humped and dumped no thanks

Now that’s what I can a REAL sex site.

Plus, don’t underestimate the sell of no dick pics.

So what have a guy lie his way in to my knickers then ghost me after words

Your such a charmer "

. My love, I’m not really being serious. I know tinder is not a serious dating site with nice people on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not really. I've had sex once since I joined the site. So many gross, entitled men and a fair few misogynists too. I've never had so many revolting messages in my life. When I have started chatting with someone they have in most cases been lying through their teeth to me.

If it wasn't for the forum I would have left after a month because I've had so many brilliant conversations and made friends as a result. "

I would message you but you live up north so out of my league.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either.

Or twitter. Seriously active for getting m chatted up. More likely to follow through than fantasy sites like tinder or here. Just what I’ve seen and heard of women rather thank experience. Ah yes Twitter is a brilliant resource. I've had some wonderful conversations as a result of it and met some delightfully kinky people that I'm still exploring avenues with."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say fab been fun lol

I went completely viral on Friday

Was fun to sit back and watch as a pic made the rounds

Funny to watch as it turned up on none fab related group chats

If platforms off fab have shown me anything

It’s shown fab clique as if your not in the in crowed you don’t get anywhere

Fun thing is my off site platforms are though the roof men woman couples tv/ts should be a awesome summer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not really. I've had sex once since I joined the site. So many gross, entitled men and a fair few misogynists too. I've never had so many revolting messages in my life. When I have started chatting with someone they have in most cases been lying through their teeth to me.

If it wasn't for the forum I would have left after a month because I've had so many brilliant conversations and made friends as a result.

I would message you but you live up north so out of my league. "

. I thought you looked down on Northern women

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either.

Or twitter. Seriously active for getting m chatted up. More likely to follow through than fantasy sites like tinder or here. Just what I’ve seen and heard of women rather thank experience. Ah yes Twitter is a brilliant resource. I've had some wonderful conversations as a result of it and met some delightfully kinky people that I'm still exploring avenues with."

I avoid Twitter like the plague

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm not having any luck, nor have I had any luck on here with the female.

Tinder here I come....."

You need the other thread for males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because all the good looking men are either down in London or they’re desperate.

I find they’re mostly ooop north tbh "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not really. I've had sex once since I joined the site. So many gross, entitled men and a fair few misogynists too. I've never had so many revolting messages in my life. When I have started chatting with someone they have in most cases been lying through their teeth to me.

If it wasn't for the forum I would have left after a month because I've had so many brilliant conversations and made friends as a result.

I would message you but you live up north so out of my league.

. I thought you looked down on Northern women "

Not the ones from Australia. Swing is the loml

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

For me it has been - I’ve met some lovely people, gained 2 wonderful fwb’s and discovered sides of me I didn’t know existed prior.

I’m here for fun, banter and to showcase my exhibitionist side, whenever it’s not fun anymore I’ll leave! it’s not a necessity to my life but it’s an escapism when needed.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not really. I've had sex once since I joined the site. So many gross, entitled men and a fair few misogynists too. I've never had so many revolting messages in my life. When I have started chatting with someone they have in most cases been lying through their teeth to me.

If it wasn't for the forum I would have left after a month because I've had so many brilliant conversations and made friends as a result.

I would message you but you live up north so out of my league.

. I thought you looked down on Northern women

Not the ones from Australia. Swing is the loml "

Oh, I see! So the southern northerners are ok

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Yep! Let's be honest, my photos are dire, my bio is a smidgen better but I'm happy with my fab experience, I tend to take a more proactive role and charm them with my words and waffling. I've made some brilliant friends, my sexual confidence is starting to come back after a health shock... I'm working on me and Fab helps me in a weird way to do so. I'm a big fan of your work,, and pics,, but hey you already know this

I might do. Thanks for indulging my transparent af validation plea. "
you are more than welcome,,

Anything else needing Validation you know where to come,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not really. I've had sex once since I joined the site. So many gross, entitled men and a fair few misogynists too. I've never had so many revolting messages in my life. When I have started chatting with someone they have in most cases been lying through their teeth to me.

If it wasn't for the forum I would have left after a month because I've had so many brilliant conversations and made friends as a result.

I would message you but you live up north so out of my league.

. I thought you looked down on Northern women

Not the ones from Australia. Swing is the loml

Oh, I see! So the southern northerners are ok "

Oh I’ve said too much! I have to be going now.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"No not really. I've had sex once since I joined the site. So many gross, entitled men and a fair few misogynists too. I've never had so many revolting messages in my life. When I have started chatting with someone they have in most cases been lying through their teeth to me.

If it wasn't for the forum I would have left after a month because I've had so many brilliant conversations and made friends as a result.

I would message you but you live up north so out of my league.

. I thought you looked down on Northern women

Not the ones from Australia. Swing is the loml

Oh, I see! So the southern northerners are ok "

Southern northerners are the best

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Yep! Let's be honest, my photos are dire, my bio is a smidgen better but I'm happy with my fab experience, I tend to take a more proactive role and charm them with my words and waffling. I've made some brilliant friends, my sexual confidence is starting to come back after a health shock... I'm working on me and Fab helps me in a weird way to do so. "

"charm them with my words and waffling", you had me at hello Meli

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I’d recommend tinder. Excellent sex site. Can’t receive dick pics on there either.

Or twitter. Seriously active for getting m chatted up. More likely to follow through than fantasy sites like tinder or here. Just what I’ve seen and heard of women rather thank experience. Ah yes Twitter is a brilliant resource. I've had some wonderful conversations as a result of it and met some delightfully kinky people that I'm still exploring avenues with.

I avoid Twitter like the plague"

I don’t even have it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not really. I've had sex once since I joined the site. So many gross, entitled men and a fair few misogynists too. I've never had so many revolting messages in my life. When I have started chatting with someone they have in most cases been lying through their teeth to me.

If it wasn't for the forum I would have left after a month because I've had so many brilliant conversations and made friends as a result.

I would message you but you live up north so out of my league.

. I thought you looked down on Northern women

Not the ones from Australia. Swing is the loml

Oh, I see! So the southern northerners are ok

Southern northerners are the best "

Only if southern is south of the UK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not really. I've had sex once since I joined the site. So many gross, entitled men and a fair few misogynists too. I've never had so many revolting messages in my life. When I have started chatting with someone they have in most cases been lying through their teeth to me.

If it wasn't for the forum I would have left after a month because I've had so many brilliant conversations and made friends as a result.

I would message you but you live up north so out of my league.

. I thought you looked down on Northern women

Not the ones from Australia. Swing is the loml

Oh, I see! So the southern northerners are ok

Southern northerners are the best "

I'm more southern than you, Nora. I win!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Well I think the fact that I've met someone who's very special to me would confirm that it was worth it.

But even before that I was having a whale of a time on here. I've met some wonderful people, had some unforgettable experiences, and had my ego stroked an awful lot.

It's a shame about the negative side of human behaviour that occurs, but even that is not enough to overshadow the many positives that I've gained from being on here.

So yes, it has absolutely been worth it for me

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"No not really. I've had sex once since I joined the site. So many gross, entitled men and a fair few misogynists too. I've never had so many revolting messages in my life. When I have started chatting with someone they have in most cases been lying through their teeth to me.

If it wasn't for the forum I would have left after a month because I've had so many brilliant conversations and made friends as a result.

I would message you but you live up north so out of my league.

. I thought you looked down on Northern women

Not the ones from Australia. Swing is the loml

Oh, I see! So the southern northerners are ok

Southern northerners are the best

I'm more southern than you, Nora. I win! "

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I would say yes, I use it how I want to and when I want to, it’s not a necessity in my life just an escapism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its quite simple women love the cock

Women love the minge and you can find both here granted a few of each would do well with a blast ointment but there are there if you want em

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Well I think the fact that I've met someone who's very special to me would confirm that it was worth it.

But even before that I was having a whale of a time on here. I've met some wonderful people, had some unforgettable experiences, and had my ego stroked an awful lot.

It's a shame about the negative side of human behaviour that occurs, but even that is not enough to overshadow the many positives that I've gained from being on here.

So yes, it has absolutely been worth it for me "

I’ll never let you forget your promise to me though . I should have screenshot that veri on my old profile!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Well I think the fact that I've met someone who's very special to me would confirm that it was worth it.

But even before that I was having a whale of a time on here. I've met some wonderful people, had some unforgettable experiences, and had my ego stroked an awful lot.

It's a shame about the negative side of human behaviour that occurs, but even that is not enough to overshadow the many positives that I've gained from being on here.

So yes, it has absolutely been worth it for me "

What Lily said

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

It has indeed been worth it and remains the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has indeed been worth it and remains the case.

"

Until you meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to help any who think it hasn't ....

Or want it to be even better.

(Satisfaction is not guaranteed. Or even suggested. Any joy you do get is probably more luck than judgement on the part of the OP. Past performance is no indicator of future performance. May contain nuts.)

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford


"Yep! Let's be honest, my photos are dire, my bio is a smidgen better but I'm happy with my fab experience, I tend to take a more proactive role and charm them with my words and waffling. I've made some brilliant friends, my sexual confidence is starting to come back after a health shock... I'm working on me and Fab helps me in a weird way to do so. "

That's great to hear, and your photos are not dire! They are great!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Happy to help any who think it hasn't ....

Or want it to be even better.

(Satisfaction is not guaranteed. Or even suggested. Any joy you do get is probably more luck than judgement on the part of the OP. Past performance is no indicator of future performance. May contain nuts.)"

Disclaimers are so sexy

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"No because all the good looking men are either down in London or they’re desperate.

I find they’re mostly ooop north tbh

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy to help any who think it hasn't ....

Or want it to be even better.

(Satisfaction is not guaranteed. Or even suggested. Any joy you do get is probably more luck than judgement on the part of the OP. Past performance is no indicator of future performance. May contain nuts.)

Disclaimers are so sexy "
wait until you see my Sydney uni one...

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"It has indeed been worth it and remains the case.

Until you meet me "

Don’t threaten me with a good time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has indeed been worth it and remains the case.

Until you meet me "

See! Best people all up north humping one another

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"Well I think the fact that I've met someone who's very special to me would confirm that it was worth it.

But even before that I was having a whale of a time on here. I've met some wonderful people, had some unforgettable experiences, and had my ego stroked an awful lot.

It's a shame about the negative side of human behaviour that occurs, but even that is not enough to overshadow the many positives that I've gained from being on here.

So yes, it has absolutely been worth it for me

I’ll never let you forget your promise to me though . I should have screenshot that veri on my old profile! "

It will never happen...but if it does I will of course honour my promise. Pink and frilly we agreed on, right?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes I'm having a ball.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Well I think the fact that I've met someone who's very special to me would confirm that it was worth it.

But even before that I was having a whale of a time on here. I've met some wonderful people, had some unforgettable experiences, and had my ego stroked an awful lot.

It's a shame about the negative side of human behaviour that occurs, but even that is not enough to overshadow the many positives that I've gained from being on here.

So yes, it has absolutely been worth it for me

I’ll never let you forget your promise to me though . I should have screenshot that veri on my old profile!

It will never happen...but if it does I will of course honour my promise. Pink and frilly we agreed on, right? "

Ermmmmm x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Happy to help any who think it hasn't ....

Or want it to be even better.

(Satisfaction is not guaranteed. Or even suggested. Any joy you do get is probably more luck than judgement on the part of the OP. Past performance is no indicator of future performance. May contain nuts.)

Disclaimers are so sexy wait until you see my Sydney uni one... "

Oh my God.

I just came in my knickers

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"It has indeed been worth it and remains the case.

Until you meet me

See! Best people all up north humping one another "

Prudish south, that's why

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Putting up with all the unsolicited mail must be an absolute pain.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Not these days for me x

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"Well I think the fact that I've met someone who's very special to me would confirm that it was worth it.

But even before that I was having a whale of a time on here. I've met some wonderful people, had some unforgettable experiences, and had my ego stroked an awful lot.

It's a shame about the negative side of human behaviour that occurs, but even that is not enough to overshadow the many positives that I've gained from being on here.

So yes, it has absolutely been worth it for me

What Lily said "

What have I told you about delving into my head Posh? It's not safe in there!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

No.

You’re all fucking cock teasers, fakes, flakes, male fantasists, photo collectors, escorts in disguise who are here just to destroy the fragile male ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

You’re all fucking cock teasers, fakes, flakes, male fantasists, photo collectors, escorts in disguise who are here just to destroy the fragile male ego "

Someone with the balls to say what all the incels were thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has indeed been worth it and remains the case.

Until you meet me

See! Best people all up north humping one another

Prudish south, that's why"

I want out. But I want to take London with me.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"No.

You’re all fucking cock teasers, fakes, flakes, male fantasists, photo collectors, escorts in disguise who are here just to destroy the fragile male ego

Someone with the balls to say what all the incels were thinking "

Shit! He read my mind!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Fab has been very good to me as a single female - I’ve picked and chosen some of the very best and it’s still working for me. My inbox is never devoid of yellow messages

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"It has indeed been worth it and remains the case.

Until you meet me

See! Best people all up north humping one another

Prudish south, that's why

I want out. But I want to take London with me. "

I want out of the god damn country!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It has indeed been worth it and remains the case.

Until you meet me

See! Best people all up north humping one another

Prudish south, that's why

I want out. But I want to take London with me.

I want out of the god damn country!"

Up until about 10 years ago those words would have never come out of my mouth. The past ten years have been planning exactly that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes it is, I've had amazing experiences and met some fabulous people over the years, and some I have formed strong friendships with. This place or I should say some of the people I've met, have shown me so much, taught me so much about myself, massively improved who I am and what I'm about, given me confidence to live life as the real me but most of all it has given total strength to my relationship with my husband and made me fall in love with him all over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has indeed been worth it and remains the case.

Until you meet me

See! Best people all up north humping one another

Prudish south, that's why

I want out. But I want to take London with me.

I want out of the god damn country!"

Tell me what country you’re planning to go to so I can avoid

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"It has indeed been worth it and remains the case.

Until you meet me

See! Best people all up north humping one another

Prudish south, that's why

I want out. But I want to take London with me.

I want out of the god damn country!

Tell me what country you’re planning to go to so I can avoid "

I'm going to the same country that Nora is planning to go to

But given the choice Germany

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just saw the male thread.

Well ladies. Is it?

"

well depends on what you're looking for. I'd say it's a lot easier for you ladies on here then it us for us men.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Just saw the male thread.

Well ladies. Is it?

well depends on what you're looking for. I'd say it's a lot easier for you ladies on here then it us for us men. "

You don’t know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just here for the pics....isn't everyone

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Just saw the male thread.

Well ladies. Is it?

well depends on what you're looking for. I'd say it's a lot easier for you ladies on here then it us for us men. "

What makes you day that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just here for the pics....isn't everyone "

I’m here to cuddlefuck and do the occasional helicockter for entertainment purposes

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"Hell yes it is, I've had amazing experiences and met some fabulous people over the years, and some I have formed strong friendships with. This place or I should say some of the people I've met, have shown me so much, taught me so much about myself, massively improved who I am and what I'm about, given me confidence to live life as the real me but most of all it has given total strength to my relationship with my husband and made me fall in love with him all over again

"

Oh Ruby! This is truly beautiful I hope your journey continues with the happiness and joy you bring to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just here for the pics....isn't everyone "

I’m here for your pics…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

You’re all fucking cock teasers, fakes, flakes, male fantasists, photo collectors, escorts in disguise who are here just to destroy the fragile male ego

Someone with the balls to say what all the incels were thinking "

Damn straight!

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I’m just here for the popcorn and snacks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just saw the male thread.

Well ladies. Is it?

well depends on what you're looking for. I'd say it's a lot easier for you ladies on here then it us for us men. "

Then why are some of us ladies saying it's not worth it?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes if you play your cards right

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I’m just here for the popcorn and snacks "

Is it butterkist?

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yes if you play your cards right "

Higher!

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito


"I’m just here for the popcorn and snacks

Is it butterkist?"

Yes if you like that kinda thing

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s like everything in life, put the effort in and you’ll eventually get rewarded with some desires - so yes it’s worth it, if you try.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Yes if you play your cards right

Higher!"

It can’t go any higher

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Hell yes it is, I've had amazing experiences and met some fabulous people over the years, and some I have formed strong friendships with. This place or I should say some of the people I've met, have shown me so much, taught me so much about myself, massively improved who I am and what I'm about, given me confidence to live life as the real me but most of all it has given total strength to my relationship with my husband and made me fall in love with him all over again

"

That is so lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if they bring snacks.....

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yes if you play your cards right

Higher!

It can’t go any higher "

It’s an age thing probably

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Absolutely. Spread my wings, learned a lot. No regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s like everything in life, put the effort in and you’ll eventually get rewarded with some desires - so yes it’s worth it, if you try. "

I haven't been able to make it to a social yet but I think I have put the effort in. With my profile, photos and the energy I expend on the forum. I've talked to a lot of guys. But it's not worth any further effort IMO to meet anyone other than new friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell yes it is, I've had amazing experiences and met some fabulous people over the years, and some I have formed strong friendships with. This place or I should say some of the people I've met, have shown me so much, taught me so much about myself, massively improved who I am and what I'm about, given me confidence to live life as the real me but most of all it has given total strength to my relationship with my husband and made me fall in love with him all over again

Oh Ruby! This is truly beautiful I hope your journey continues with the happiness and joy you bring to others."

Oh don't,you'll make me cry, but thank you massively. I know you understand me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell yes it is, I've had amazing experiences and met some fabulous people over the years, and some I have formed strong friendships with. This place or I should say some of the people I've met, have shown me so much, taught me so much about myself, massively improved who I am and what I'm about, given me confidence to live life as the real me but most of all it has given total strength to my relationship with my husband and made me fall in love with him all over again

That is so lovely "

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Hell yes it is, I've had amazing experiences and met some fabulous people over the years, and some I have formed strong friendships with. This place or I should say some of the people I've met, have shown me so much, taught me so much about myself, massively improved who I am and what I'm about, given me confidence to live life as the real me but most of all it has given total strength to my relationship with my husband and made me fall in love with him all over again

Oh Ruby! This is truly beautiful I hope your journey continues with the happiness and joy you bring to others.

Oh don't,you'll make me cry, but thank you massively. I know you understand me "

I missed this before! That’s so lovely xx

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

For me yes, it's been nothing but positives and I look forward to the rest of my journey on here

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

For meeting couples and ladies it’s brilliant, if you’re into that! But trying to arrange stuff with men is a full time job here! I’ve had way more success on the other app, if I discover they’re on here then it’s a bonus.

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By *appyDays82Man
over a year ago

Derby

I’m just struggling full stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what she's seeking and driven enough to get what she demands then goes for it....we live in a world where these days a woman should be able to say "fancy a fuck" too. Without sounding like a total slapper

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I would say yes. I've met lots of new people, which has been great for my anxiety and confidence.

Reconnected with an old friend, definitely worth it!

Also very frustrating at times, but that's just life!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"It’s like everything in life, put the effort in and you’ll eventually get rewarded with some desires - so yes it’s worth it, if you try.

I haven't been able to make it to a social yet but I think I have put the effort in. With my profile, photos and the energy I expend on the forum. I've talked to a lot of guys. But it's not worth any further effort IMO to meet anyone other than new friends. "

That’s your choice to make if you feel it’s not working for you. Socials are one part of fab, great way to meet new people and not even for sex. That side I tend to keep away from the forums and mostly the socials, with the odd exception. It all depends what you want from the place, personally I just see it as meeting new friends for a drink and a laugh, anything after that will naturally happen if we both want it too. If not I’ve got a new friend to have a laugh with. I’m a great believer in don’t go looking for it, it will appear when / where you least expect it.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If they like being fucked by strangers who couldn't care less whose pussy they have their dick in, it's a marvellous place for a woman

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’m just struggling full stop "

I'd have thought you'd have them queuing up x

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It’s like everything in life, put the effort in and you’ll eventually get rewarded with some desires - so yes it’s worth it, if you try.

I haven't been able to make it to a social yet but I think I have put the effort in. With my profile, photos and the energy I expend on the forum. I've talked to a lot of guys. But it's not worth any further effort IMO to meet anyone other than new friends.

That’s your choice to make if you feel it’s not working for you. Socials are one part of fab, great way to meet new people and not even for sex. That side I tend to keep away from the forums and mostly the socials, with the odd exception. It all depends what you want from the place, personally I just see it as meeting new friends for a drink and a laugh, anything after that will naturally happen if we both want it too. If not I’ve got a new friend to have a laugh with. I’m a great believer in don’t go looking for it, it will appear when / where you least expect it. "

Yep. This is pretty much how I look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most things, it depends how you use it

Its changed a lot in the 5 years since my first account, not sure if that's due to covid or just a shift in how people view each other. I think people are just not as genuine generally.

I'm happy to look and see and have fun on a more selective basis these days.

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By *over of Life777Woman
over a year ago

Sevenoakes

Well as this is a swinging site

Which is very different to other

Sites which we are not allowed to say

As per rules

And yes there is a difference

Need to get out to clubs

What you put in

You’ll get out

It’s really up to you

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Well as this is a swinging site

Which is very different to other

Sites which we are not allowed to say

As per rules

And yes there is a difference

Need to get out to clubs

What you put in

You’ll get out

It’s really up to you "

You personally you mean? I have no desire to go to clubs. Tried it once. Wasn’t for me.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Like most things, it depends how you use it

Its changed a lot in the 5 years since my first account, not sure if that's due to covid or just a shift in how people view each other. I think people are just not as genuine generally.

I'm happy to look and see and have fun on a more selective basis these days.

"

Do you think? I don’t think it’s changed that much. Forums have but I think that’s just people coming and going really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have patience, and a good idea of what you're after then yes I think it's worth it but that doesn't mean it's easy!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Like most things, it depends how you use it

Its changed a lot in the 5 years since my first account, not sure if that's due to covid or just a shift in how people view each other. I think people are just not as genuine generally.

I'm happy to look and see and have fun on a more selective basis these days.

"

It's definitely changed lately in all my years that I've been on. I don't use it half as much as I did. Maybe one day it will go back to how it was....I'll probably be long gone by then though x

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By *ackyloveMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It will only improve.

Keep it up.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Well I think the fact that I've met someone who's very special to me would confirm that it was worth it.

But even before that I was having a whale of a time on here. I've met some wonderful people, had some unforgettable experiences, and had my ego stroked an awful lot.

It's a shame about the negative side of human behaviour that occurs, but even that is not enough to overshadow the many positives that I've gained from being on here.

So yes, it has absolutely been worth it for me

What Lily said

What have I told you about delving into my head Posh? It's not safe in there! "

I like it. It's cosy and familiar. Except that one box that says "danger"... I'll have a brew and open that later

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By *ackyloveMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks

Can you message me more about your message.

Many thanks

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By *ackyloveMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Well written.

And it's surely more exciting when you meet for a drink and gave some fun, then when plan for fun and need to keep it to just a drink

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I really enjoy being here, wish I had done it sooner in fact! I’m single not hurting anyone. Helps with my confidence and have managed to get out to clubs, which I never thought I’d do.

Not so sure about meeting up with potential fabbers, still a bit wary. Never know… one day

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Well written.

And it's surely more exciting when you meet for a drink and gave some fun, then when plan for fun and need to keep it to just a drink "

Hi. If you press reply and quote people will know who you’re talking to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s like everything in life, put the effort in and you’ll eventually get rewarded with some desires - so yes it’s worth it, if you try.

I haven't been able to make it to a social yet but I think I have put the effort in. With my profile, photos and the energy I expend on the forum. I've talked to a lot of guys. But it's not worth any further effort IMO to meet anyone other than new friends.

That’s your choice to make if you feel it’s not working for you. Socials are one part of fab, great way to meet new people and not even for sex. That side I tend to keep away from the forums and mostly the socials, with the odd exception. It all depends what you want from the place, personally I just see it as meeting new friends for a drink and a laugh, anything after that will naturally happen if we both want it too. If not I’ve got a new friend to have a laugh with. I’m a great believer in don’t go looking for it, it will appear when / where you least expect it.

Yep. This is pretty much how I look at it. "

Given the number of messages I got when I joined and the offers I still get, I thought finding a FWB (or more than one) would be easy. I also hoped I would connect with people as friends too. I shall keep on making friends (I hope!) and seek the rest elsewhere.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yep for me it most definitely has been worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really enjoy being here, wish I had done it sooner in fact! I’m single not hurting anyone. Helps with my confidence and have managed to get out to clubs, which I never thought I’d do.

Not so sure about meeting up with potential fabbers, still a bit wary. Never know… one day "

Some of us don’t bite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes a nugget comes along..

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By *over of Life777Woman
over a year ago

Sevenoakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found Fab worth while. I've met some really great people on here so far. Most of those I've seen, I'm either still seeing fairly regularly, or we've kept in touch and plan to meet again when they're working nearby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days I think yes other days no.

When i joined i hadnt had sex or any intimacy in a long time, As a single lady I have made some amazing friends, have had some great nights out at socials, been on holidays with a fab friend.

Have definitely gained some confidence but lately just not feeling it, I'm not looking for anything serious just a fwb that can meet up every few weeks and have a laugh and lots of hot sex, night away or cheeky weekend and yet I'm struggling to even get a decent coffee meet.

I enjoy the forums and if they weren't accessible I'd probably have deleted my account months ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah not really

Oh you’ve had some fun over the years SB, surely!"

I can count on one hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely. Spread my wings, learned a lot. No regrets"

Met me

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'll make it worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine it is, to the degree a Lady wants it to be.

A Guy will meet if he can get a meet

A Lady will meet if she wants a meet

Just my observations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they like being fucked by strangers who couldn't care less whose pussy they have their dick in, it's a marvellous place for a woman "

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

No. FAF?

LvM

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yeah for sure

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I think it is if a woman uses the site as best as possible.

Message filters up to stop endless low effort messages then just message the ones you like the look of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it worth it?

I'm saying yes it is, so far, even though its only been a relatively short period of time.

Ignoring all the rude, "fuck now" messages, the ones who just want want wank material, the married ones..occasionally there is someone who makes it worth it.

Time, patience and perseverance are needed. Also keeping up with messages as I'm a bit shit with that and have let too many good convos slide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learnt so much about myself, discovered i have a kinky side and i love that i have found somewhere i can just be me, with no judgement.

I've talked to and met some really amazing people on fab, male and female.. And it all starts with a little yellow message

I've also learnt not to google unknown things

The sheer variety of differences in body parts, shapes, sizes and peoples confidence and beauty has also lead to me finally embracing my own body and gaining an inner, quiet, confidence. This has been by far the most valuable thing for me. I wish I'd found fab in my 20-30s.

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