FabSwingers.com forum: Why do some people put this on a verify?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

the thing that puts me off meeting a guy is when they display a verify from a female which reads?'hands off ladies,he is mine'or 'dont want to share him.'so is it a warning to other ladies to keep off this guy? I am never sure? And why would a person actually show a verify like that? Would he then go and meet other women and display their verifies?. What do others think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I speak I’ll get in trouble

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

If somebody ever said that about us (which they haven't) then we probably wouldn't be friends much longer and the verification certainly wouldn't be shown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shour but that’s definitely a odd vers and not shour why someone would desplay that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of things that people put on verifications that make me cringe. It's a pissing party haha

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's really cringey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That always makes me laugh and roll eyes.

I had a lady message me before asking why have I looked at her profile twice, I answered her back saying I was looking at a potential meets verifications and she was one of them. She blocked me

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By *handsMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I personally wouldn’t show that type of veri, however we all are unique and if others want to show it, surely it’s up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because thats what they choose to do

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

But I've noticed they often write very similar things on all guys profiles. Maybe it's just a copy and paste thing?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

. I licked him he’s mine

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Because people are possessive?

I’ve only ever had that sort of thing on a veri once and that was a LTR, so was kind of appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's not impossible that it's a form of satire and a genuine claim of ownership.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

. I licked him he’s mine "

That’s exactly what she wrote on mine

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

. I licked him he’s mine

That’s exactly what she wrote on mine

Haha is it. I’ve seen that a few times. Think I did it once for a laugh but I do daft things like that.

I forget some people are serious on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it once with one person but we weren't swingers nor shagging others and neither of us shared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone at a party years ago who messaged me the following day about meeting me. He came to mine and we verified each other afterwards. A few months ago I was chatting to a friend in the club in Glasgow who told me that this guy's female friend saw my verification on his profile and apparently let rip on him as she thought they were exclusive but according to him they weren't.

There's always going to be someone seething that you met a guy who's seeing other women too

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Marking their territory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it puts you off then don’t meet them.

I’m here for all your problem solving needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it puts you off then don’t meet them.

I’m here for all your problem solving needs."
blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once send a joke verification to a man that I know very well, saying that he was terrible, awful, had no skills was so boring. What was odd he did show it on his profile and as a result he got quite a few messages.

By the way he was not terrible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it puts you off then don’t meet them.

I’m here for all your problem solving needs.blocked"

Unblocked.

Reverse psychology.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Best not to read mine then Denise

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

It's just a playful thing in my eyes. I don't ever think anyone is serious when they put that.

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

Always reminds me of them seagulls from ‘finding Nemo’

Mine mine mine mine mine

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Something about lampposts...

LvM

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I did once send a joke verification to a man that I know very well, saying that he was terrible, awful, had no skills was so boring. What was odd he did show it on his profile and as a result he got quite a few messages.

By the way he was not terrible.

Terrible veri’s make me laugh. I’ve done quite a few in my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's just a playful thing in my eyes. I don't ever think anyone is serious when they put that. "

We don't know that for sure though. The woman who laid into the guy who met me said to him that he was hers and no one else's x

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By *elight 99Woman
over a year ago

richmond

It’s a bit like a dog peeing up a lamp post … territory

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

By the way he was not terrible.

Terrible veri’s make me laugh. I’ve done quite a few in my time"

Don’t think I’ve ever done a serious one!

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

By the way he was not terrible.

I don’t think so either

Terrible veri’s make me laugh. I’ve done quite a few in my time

Don’t think I’ve ever done a serious one!"

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Hope I get some more good ones at the next social

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It's a bit of a laugh. If they wanna enforce that then both parties should put a ring on it.

Showing the verification is presumably an ego boost for the dude in question.

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By *rummy2020Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I love reading veris, some people say the weirdest of things!

I did once say someone was a crap shag - deliberately as they were and a right nause too - and they posted the veri so clearly didn’t even read it

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman
over a year ago

Sussex

. I licked him he’s mine "

I saw this on a guys veri who was trying to meet me.

Put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. I licked him he’s mine

I saw this on a guys veri who was trying to meet me.

Put me off "

Is that how it works?

You lick people and they're yours?

Interesting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's just a playful thing in my eyes. I don't ever think anyone is serious when they put that.

We don't know that for sure though. The woman who laid into the guy who met me said to him that he was hers and no one else's x"

Single women ey tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's just a playful thing in my eyes. I don't ever think anyone is serious when they put that.

We don't know that for sure though. The woman who laid into the guy who met me said to him that he was hers and no one else's x

Single women ey tut tut "

They are the worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I 100% judge people by the verifications they choose to display and from whom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's just a playful thing in my eyes. I don't ever think anyone is serious when they put that.

We don't know that for sure though. The woman who laid into the guy who met me said to him that he was hers and no one else's x

Single women ey tut tut "

Nope, the lady is married and the husband doesn't know she's on here

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘She’s a keeper, treat her with respect.

Actually…..don’t go anywhere near her as after mulling over it, I’ve in fact suddenly decided to propose to her…’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. I licked him he’s mine

I saw this on a guys veri who was trying to meet me.

Put me off

Is that how it works?

You lick people and they're yours?

Interesting..."

Yes but where?

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Always reminds me of them seagulls from ‘finding Nemo’

Mine mine mine mine mine "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the thing that puts me off meeting a guy is when they display a verify from a female which reads?'hands off ladies,he is mine'or 'dont want to share him.'so is it a warning to other ladies to keep off this guy? I am never sure? And why would a person actually show a verify like that? Would he then go and meet other women and display their verifies?. What do others think?"

I just see it as that for that lady she’s met her match and he’s so much up her alley, doesn’t mean he’s not up anyone else’s alley, and it doesn’t mean he is. You either click with someone or you don’t.

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman
over a year ago

Sussex

. I licked him he’s mine

I saw this on a guys veri who was trying to meet me.

Put me off

Is that how it works?

You lick people and they're yours?

Interesting...

Yes but where?"

Does it only count if being licked in a certain place?

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"That always makes me laugh and roll eyes.

I had a lady message me before asking why have I looked at her profile twice, I answered her back saying I was looking at a potential meets verifications and she was one of them. She blocked me

I won’t block you

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Think it's just a term! Sure they don't actually mean that? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. I licked him he’s mine

I saw this on a guys veri who was trying to meet me.

Put me off

Is that how it works?

You lick people and they're yours?

Interesting...

Yes but where?

Does it only count if being licked in a certain place?

That’s what I’m asking.

Like in a coffee shop?

In a bar?

Oh… you did mean like face, penis…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A veri would be good to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never ever see a bad Veri,to me they only prove a person is real , what is written in them is of no consequence to me at all simply because you never see a bad one .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A veri would be good to start with "

We’ll verify each other.

Oh, no, wait.

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman
over a year ago

Sussex

. I licked him he’s mine

I saw this on a guys veri who was trying to meet me.

Put me off

Is that how it works?

You lick people and they're yours?

Interesting...

Yes but where?

Does it only count if being licked in a certain place?

That’s what I’m asking.

Like in a coffee shop?

In a bar?

Oh… you did mean like face, penis… "

I was thinking somewhere on the body but now you've thrown in another option

We need some written rules I think.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Where do we stand on ‘Better than a wank’

Asking for a friend

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

You never ever see a bad Veri,to me they only prove a person is real , what is written in them is of no consequence to me at all simply because you never see a bad one ."

You've not read some of mine

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Where do we stand on ‘Better than a wank’

Asking for a friend"

I'm jealous. No one has ever said that about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. I licked him he’s mine

I saw this on a guys veri who was trying to meet me.

Put me off

Is that how it works?

You lick people and they're yours?

Interesting...

Yes but where?

Does it only count if being licked in a certain place?

That’s what I’m asking.

Like in a coffee shop?

In a bar?

Oh… you did mean like face, penis…

I was thinking somewhere on the body but now you've thrown in another option

We need some written rules I think. "

Just another girl is obsessed with trying to lick my toes!!

I keep telling her no but she’s adamant.

Waiting for a stand and deliver joke from Donis off the back of this.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Where do we stand on ‘Better than a wank’

Asking for a friend"

I’d take that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one like that, it’s tongue in cheek. It wouldn’t put me off at all. I’ve displayed it and not had a problem since

J xx

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

You never ever see a bad Veri,to me they only prove a person is real , what is written in them is of no consequence to me at all simply because you never see a bad one ."

There are bad verifications. They are ones where its basically "yes we met these people and they were human"

A good verification I guess depends on what you want people to know.

Personally I hated ones that went into too much knitty gritty.

We liked to give veris that spoke a little bit to the personality of the people we met.

Ultimately a verification isn't worth the paper its written on but also at the same time they can be telling

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

I think people worry far to much

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

This is why none of my private meets show....can't be doing with the drama llamas on here.

It's pathetic x

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Id never say it but I very much doubt it's literal

& I'm positive he'd still go on other meets & display the verifications given the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. I licked him he’s mine "

YES!!!

I’m that bitch

Territorial as an angry chihuahua

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where do we stand on ‘Better than a wank’

Asking for a friend

I’d take that

Certainly better than someone saying they would rather have had a wank with a cheese grater

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

"It's just a playful thing in my eyes. I don't ever think anyone is serious when they put that.

We don't know that for sure though. The woman who laid into the guy who met me said to him that he was hers and no one else's x"

Surely that's a communication issue not a verification issue. If they haven't had propper that then that'll be why there's misunderstanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treat this one right" really does my head in. Nah, I thought I'd be an imbecilic neanderthal who would take a shit in her toilet and not flush

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

. I licked him he’s mine

I saw this on a guys veri who was trying to meet me.

Put me off

Is that how it works?

You lick people and they're yours?

Interesting...

Yes but where?

Does it only count if being licked in a certain place?

That’s what I’m asking.

Like in a coffee shop?

In a bar?

Oh… you did mean like face, penis…

I was thinking somewhere on the body but now you've thrown in another option

We need some written rules I think.

Just another girl is obsessed with trying to lick my toes!!

I keep telling her no but she’s adamant.

Waiting for a stand and deliver joke from Donis off the back of this."

I think he only knows Black Lace

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

-Why don't you ask him? It is a weird one to show, but some people think veris are impressive or amusing things. I don't myself, they are far too subjective. They can be a useful insight though. All mine are off (and I don't have many as people into fetishes tend not to give them).-

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

""Treat this one right" really does my head in. Nah, I thought I'd be an imbecilic neanderthal who would take a shit in her toilet and not flush"

Is it so wrong that I want you to do this, just to read the veri that comes from it?!

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By *ottieBBWWoman
over a year ago

West of Scotland

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By *ottieBBWWoman
over a year ago

West of Scotland

"Always reminds me of them seagulls from ‘finding Nemo’

Mine mine mine mine mine "

imagine the site added gifs - seagulls everywhere lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It could be reverse psychology, trying to offload him

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

""Treat this one right" really does my head in. Nah, I thought I'd be an imbecilic neanderthal who would take a shit in her toilet and not flush"

I’ve got a treat her with respect or you’ll have me to deal with

. Cringe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a real cringe one from a social I won't display. Hate when people go into too much details too. Just not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Treat this one right" really does my head in. Nah, I thought I'd be an imbecilic neanderthal who would take a shit in her toilet and not flush

Is it so wrong that I want you to do this, just to read the veri that comes from it?!

Not gonna lie, I'd be just as interested to know what they would write

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Treat this one right" really does my head in. Nah, I thought I'd be an imbecilic neanderthal who would take a shit in her toilet and not flush"

To be fair my ex fwb did this. Pebble dashed my whole bathroom. Don't think he realised and I never mentioned it. Hopefully he'll read it here and realise I kept it quiet for 4 years but will double check the next time he expodes in someone's bathroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Treat this one right" really does my head in. Nah, I thought I'd be an imbecilic neanderthal who would take a shit in her toilet and not flush

I’ve got a treat her with respect or you’ll have me to deal with

. Cringe!"

Oooh tough guy, wouldn't want to mess with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Treat this one right" really does my head in. Nah, I thought I'd be an imbecilic neanderthal who would take a shit in her toilet and not flush

I’ve got a treat her with respect or you’ll have me to deal with

. Cringe!"

Wait until he finds the cum stain on the curtains

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