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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long when talking do you ask to see a face pic ?

How long is it before you are happy to send one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to get it done as early into conversation as possible. I’d hate to get on really well with someone, only for them to when they see my mush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instantly. It’s a lot more awkward to reject someone when you’ve been talking for a while just because you don’t like their face.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Pretty much straight away.

I expect to see their face within the first couple of messages so I send mine and request theirs. If they’re reluctant to send one, I don’t pursue the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First message, beef curtains not long after.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

A couple of days? I dunno, it doesnt happen very often

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I like to see who I'm talking to, but it doesn’t put me off if they don't.

I've even had one meet where I met her without seeing her face before meeting her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I ask more or less straight away and return one straight after .

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It depends on why we're talking really. Generally I don't suggest for ages. And even then it's an awkward jumble of words.

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I can’t recall ever asking for one…..I usually just offer and see if it’s reciprocated. If not, it’s a decent indicator of how much someone is bothered.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

My face is on my profile, so I prefer they show me theirs with their first message (if not in their gallery).

In the past it's been embarrassing to have to reply that they're not for me after we've chatted for a while. I need to be attracted to the face to want to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not until we have engaged in some sort of flowing conversation and I'm interested in taking it further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send it straight away. It’s my best feature.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Within two or three messages if it looks like we're enjoying the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s something which is different for each conversation.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

I prefer it with their first message.

Unless it’s someone from the forums and then I’m not overly bothered about how quick it’s sent as it’s more friendly chat then I want to shag you chat

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london


"I prefer to get it done as early into conversation as possible. I’d hate to get on really well with someone, only for them to when they see my mush. "

The same as this

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Friendzone is whenever

Sexual is straight away

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"How long when talking do you ask to see a face pic ?

How long is it before you are happy to send one ?"

Within a few messages if all else seems good. No use wasting time and fingers if there's no physical attraction between all

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

As a guy and if I’m messaging first, then I’ll send a photo on the first message if the profile requests it. Most often I send a face pic on the second message which means they’ll have replied to my initial message and are interested.

If people are interested and attracted, they often send a face pic within the first couple of messages they send.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


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How long is it before you are happy to send one ?"

9 inches

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Early on in the conversation. Stops the constant chat and then the awkwardness when there’s no attraction, from either side.

We won’t engage in any type of sexy talk or meet talk without seeing one and if we’ve sent ours and they haven’t sent theirs, it Indicates they either they are not keen or just messing us around.

We’ve had a few people who have said they don’t send face pics out… …it’s not blind date!

K

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I send a face pic if required either on request or profile text. For me, I don't ask for a face pic unless a meet is planned. That's so I don't say hi to the wrong person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never asked for a face pic to be honest it has never occurred to me to ask. There are plenty of my face on my profile.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I ask for one straight away, then I'll send one if I think they're compatible and they're verified in some way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight away xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight away xx "

Oh forgot my Jx. Well it’s always me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the conversation is going ok, usually I ask for a face pic within the first 10 messages, if it gets that far x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I only really answer messages that have sent one with their first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight away.

You get talking to someone, think hey they're ok, then bang, face pic. Ffs.....

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Straight away xx "

I agree with this, pretty much straight away as you need to see who your chatting to and be attracted to them etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long when talking do you ask to see a face pic ?

How long is it before you are happy to send one ?"

It really depends on the person. If I’m clicking with them and they ask me, it’s a little off putting. If I’m not really clicking with them, it’s even more off putting when they ask.

I like to volunteer a picture of my face out of the blue when I’m comfortable. Usually, I’ll get one in return. But it’s rare I get to that stage at all.

Except for this last week. This last week the stars have aligned ever so beautifully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will send one when asked or ask for one when the time is right

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Either straight away or after few messages I enjoy the part not knowing too see if we connect also without knowing what may look like

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