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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just driven 800miles( North wales to the Highlands of Scotland)round trip for a weekend of fun. What's the furthest you've driven?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 miles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flew to Italy….true story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3,944 miles.

Though I must confess, there’s a couple of planes in there too.

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By *itygamesMan
over a year ago

400 mile round trip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3,944 miles.

Though I must confess, there’s a couple of planes in there too."

You haven't done it yet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manchester but wasn’t exactly for a meet

Was down for a weekend off clubbing and putting it about

Saturday mid day I thought up the insta shag flag had a mid day meet

Before hit the clubs on the Saturday night

Right before covid hit in 2020 around January time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3,944 miles.

Though I must confess, there’s a couple of planes in there too.

You haven't done it yet..."

Well, I’m packed so, it counts now.

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

1100 mile round trip... couple of times now

Bob

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I don’t drive

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Next village.. have car, won’t travel.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Don't drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as far as that but far enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 miles

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Used to drive from Leeds to Glasgow every second weekend.....now its only about a 2hr drive which is so so worth it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

250 mile round trip

Wouldn't do it again unless it was someone very special

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

About 2.5 hours drive

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"just driven 800miles( North wales to the Highlands of Scotland)round trip for a weekend of fun. What's the furthest you've driven?"

Was it worth it?

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By *erlinhgvMan
over a year ago

Liverpool / London

Drive all over for work and play and do have a woman drive from London to Liverpool once or twice a month

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Over 300 miles one way from me. To be fair it wasn't a meet as such. I made a very good freind onlije over a vanilla forum. She invited me up to see her and stay with her. Sex wasn't necessarily something that was on the cards, freindship was the focus. But we hit it off and naturally we ended up in bed together. Well worth the trip, Inreally liked spending time her company. A trip I made again when I could. Fortunately she found a man she is really happy with and married to him now. Unfortunately that's where our times together had to end.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"1100 mile round trip... couple of times now

Bob

And he meant to say it's totally worth it and he cant wait to do it again. Obvs

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

600 mile round trip, it was worth it.

I’ve never had a problem with travelling though

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It was a 50 mile round trip to Blackpool. I was meeting at a club, so even if we didn’t hit it off the journey wouldn’t have been wasted.

I would only go further if I’d met them previously and could trust them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"just driven 800miles( North wales to the Highlands of Scotland)round trip for a weekend of fun. What's the furthest you've driven?

Was it worth it? "
Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

A little over 4000 miles myself.

Nowadays I don't drive (P does) but if friendly with people we're happy to travel the country

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

I've flown to New York for a meet. Does that count?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate."

Why is it desperate when you have a connection with someone?

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Why is it desperate when you have a connection with someone? "

Exactly this. Some people will never find actual joy when they close themselves off.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate."

For some, there’s more to a connection than convenience. It’s not desperation, it’s meeting the right people

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate."

I’m realising that you’re ‘one of those’ posters, revelling in agitation and negativity. Noted

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I drove to France one. Never again

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate."

Wow.

If I was desperate I'd take up the offers of "meet now" rather than finding people I actually like and want to meet.

There is no need to be rude about people who value a connection over a squelch and a squeeze.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate.

I’m realising that you’re ‘one of those’ posters, revelling in agitation and negativity. Noted"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless she lives next door….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate."

Says the guy with no verifications.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate.

Says the guy with no verifications. "

*mic drop*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd travel a fair distance I'd say 70-80 miles tops atleast they won't know anyone we know . We'll I hope so anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 mile round trip but would travel further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went from London to Derby once, was a great meet and stayed the night but wouldn’t do it again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate."

For someone who takes a photo of themselves in a mask and uses it as a profile pic I'd start there. Actually it was 4 days/nights in the company of a woman where we spent the time looking round the area, cooking for one another and enjoying each others company in and out of the bedroom. We'll worth the journey. Not sure why I'm replying and justifying my actions

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've flown to New York for a meet. Does that count?"
only if you drove the plane

As long as you both enjoyed yourselves thats the main thing

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Cheshire to Northampton well worth it many years ago but good memories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate."

Oh thats a shame! I was going to message you for a meet, but as we are 200 plus miles apart (according to fab) I'm guessing you not be interested. Never mind eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate."

Ahh dammit

*day ruined

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate."

That's why my make up is all over the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a plane to Denmark to meet a married women I worked with 2 nights in Copenhagen

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

1hr drive max for me

Anymore they would have to provide snacks and entertainment preferably a trampoline haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would travel if you was a couple though if you want to be discreet and not fuck locals

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Damn there’s some long trips on here. Fuck that

30 mins is pretty much my max on a good day.

Seriously fuck that. Id rather meet no one then have to spend almost entire days travelling. Can’t think of anything worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You would travel if you was a couple though if you want to be discreet and not fuck locals "

You can still be discreet with local people

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By *l6789Man
over a year ago

croydon

Lisbon regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love traveling. There's a couple of places that I'd love to travel to. Maybe I'll bump into a local and then can show me some sights.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"You would travel if you was a couple though if you want to be discreet and not fuck locals

You can still be discreet with local people

Nah they'll write to the local paper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You would travel if you was a couple though if you want to be discreet and not fuck locals "

Damn locals!!!

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate."

You should link to this comment on your profile. You'll never be more famous on Fab and this is your claim to fame.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate."

In his defence the question is very vague

If a blank profile messages you from 2000 miles away and says “faf?” And you jump at it, that’s a little desperate

But the question is so vague that I could include the 1000s of miles I travelled to go to Disney land when I was a kid.

Obviously the people jumping on him have decided to take it personal and assume he means your desperate or sad for travelling far to see someone you have a deep connection with

Maybe he just thinks it’s a bit desperate in the scenario I first painted?

So instead of doing the usual fabs thing where we all feel personally attacked and jump on someone, I’ll ask if he could explain his comment further. Would you not travel far to meet the love of your life? Or do you just mean “faf” type nookie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You would travel if you was a couple though if you want to be discreet and not fuck locals

You can still be discreet with local people

Nah they'll write to the local paper "

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

The furthest I've done is from Manchester to Kent was to a club but kind of for a meet I suppose!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate.

In his defence the question is very vague

If a blank profile messages you from 2000 miles away and says “faf?” And you jump at it, that’s a little desperate

But the question is so vague that I could include the 1000s of miles I travelled to go to Disney land when I was a kid.

Obviously the people jumping on him have decided to take it personal and assume he means your desperate or sad for travelling far to see someone you have a deep connection with

Maybe he just thinks it’s a bit desperate in the scenario I first painted?

#notalllongdistancemeets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've flown to New York for a meet. Does that count?"

I flew to Florida few years ago to meet someone, we spent 2 weeks together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Essex to Newcastle but a long time ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy doing that trip again?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I've flown to New York for a meet. Does that count?"

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According to the gospel of Depeche Mode - everything counts in large amounts.

So yes.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

About 150 miles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

150 mile round trip x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fancy doing that trip again?

It was a bit far but Newcastle was a nice place to stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

300 miles round trip for 6 hours

Totally worth it

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I flew 4300+ miles for a holiday/meet but it was someone Who I’d been talking to for quite some time.

IMO, Distance isn’t as important as the connection I have with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fancy doing that trip again?

It was a bit far but Newcastle was a nice place to stay "

Pleased you enjoyed it

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

About 25 miles there and back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fancy doing that trip again?

It was a bit far but Newcastle was a nice place to stay

Pleased you enjoyed it"

I did on and off for 2 years

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I ever get to the point where I have to travel such distances to get nookie, shoot me. I couldn't look myself in the face knowing I was that desperate.

Oh thats a shame! I was going to message you for a meet, but as we are 200 plus miles apart (according to fab) I'm guessing you not be interested. Never mind eh "
ooh ooh ,pick me, pick me

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

An hour either way is about my limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"300 miles round trip for 6 hours

Totally worth it "

Was it the halloumi fries?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"300 miles round trip for 6 hours

Totally worth it

Was it the halloumi fries? "

More the trip to the supermarket

good a good deal in there!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I've flown to New York for a meet. Does that count?

I flew to Florida few years ago to meet someone, we spent 2 weeks together. "

Mickey mouse doesn't count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flew to Italy….true story

Goddman romantic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"300 miles round trip for 6 hours

Totally worth it

Was it the halloumi fries?

More the trip to the supermarket

good a good deal in there! "

Bag for life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 hour round trip to wales for a coffee and to watch people speak welsh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've flown to New York for a meet. Does that count?

I flew to Florida few years ago to meet someone, we spent 2 weeks together.

Mickey mouse doesn't count

Rumbled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"300 miles round trip for 6 hours

Totally worth it

Was it the halloumi fries?

More the trip to the supermarket

good a good deal in there!

Bag for life?

I almost got caught with my fingers in the till

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

He travels a 160 mile round trip regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Birmingham for a party invite

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