FabSwingers.com forum: Fingering vs oral

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Lots of messages I receive proclaim expertise in oral skills. I do love receiving good oral but I find a man who is skilled at fingering gets me hotter than anything. Am I in a minority?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

likewise

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing beats both, i sucked and fingered a woman and mmmmmm she exploded. want to try it again

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm not a massive fan of fingering. Been with too many men who believe rough is always better.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"nothing beats both, i sucked and fingered a woman and mmmmmm she exploded. want to try it again"

But its not just sticking fingers in. It's a great technique that gets me off, and I'm not referring to gushing or squirting.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No your not, I love to do oral and while my fb loves oral she definitely gets more turned on when I finger her , two fingers and she's putty in my hands lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer a man who knows what to do with his fingers than his tongue

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer fingering to receiving oral, I'm not an oral fan at all.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I'm not a massive fan of fingering. Been with too many men who believe rough is always better."

I've had that. Feels like they're trying to clear out the drains or look for their watch!! But what of really accomplished fingering skills?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its important to have a good technique for both and to listen and respond to what the lady is enjoying.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nothing beats both, i sucked and fingered a woman and mmmmmm she exploded. want to try it again

But its not just sticking fingers in. It's a great technique that gets me off, and I'm not referring to gushing or squirting."

she didnt gush or squirt but reached orgasm so quick.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Lots of messages I receive proclaim expertise in oral skills. I do love receiving good oral but I find a man who is skilled at fingering gets me hotter than anything. Am I in a minority?"
Definitely agree...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to use both, but personally the fingers just shade, never had any complaints at my technique

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Often good anal fingering gets me off even faster but perhaps I've been lucky enough to discover someone who has perfected his technique.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think its important to have a good technique for both and to listen and respond to what the lady is enjoying."

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I much prefer fingering to receiving oral, I'm not an oral fan at all."

nor I but it's surprising how many people are amazed at this and think I'm odd. A slow finger circling my clitoris now that's another story altogether

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nothing beats both, i sucked and fingered a woman and mmmmmm she exploded. want to try it again

But its not just sticking fingers in. It's a great technique that gets me off, and I'm not referring to gushing or squirting."

Same here love oral but then if i'm stood up and fingered just right i will gush.

So i like both

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nothing beats both, i sucked and fingered a woman and mmmmmm she exploded. want to try it again

But its not just sticking fingers in. It's a great technique that gets me off, and I'm not referring to gushing or squirting.

Same here love oral but then if i'm stood up and fingered just right i will gush.

So i like both

Greedy.....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to touch just as much as taste! A tough choice made easier by asking my partner what feels best at the time..it's good to talk!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer oral

to many men think the way to get a woman wet is to stick as many fingers up as possible and ram like made

i tend to tense up if guys try to finger me as so many have hurt me doing it in the past

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to finger as I get so turned on watching the woman's response, the look on their face

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"i prefer oral

to many men think the way to get a woman wet is to stick as many fingers up as possible and ram like made

i tend to tense up if guys try to finger me as so many have hurt me doing it in the past"

Sorry you have had such bad experiences. I guess I've been lucky. Been with a lot who were talented.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to go with the flow

It's all about finding the rhythm and tempo, whether it's oral or fingering, you know you're doing it right if you get the feedback.

A little practice makes perfect

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Lots of messages I receive proclaim expertise in oral skills. I do love receiving good oral but I find a man who is skilled at fingering gets me hotter than anything. Am I in a minority?"

No I love it too.....a mixture of fingers and oral or both together is even hotter.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I like to go with the flow

It's all about finding the rhythm and tempo, whether it's oral or fingering, you know you're doing it right if you get the feedback.

A little practice makes perfect

And a lot of practice makes astonishing!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love to touch just as much as taste! A tough choice made easier by asking my partner what feels best at the time..it's good to talk!"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to go with the flow

It's all about finding the rhythm and tempo, whether it's oral or fingering, you know you're doing it right if you get the feedback.

A little practice makes perfect

And a lot of practice makes astonishing!!"

Oh I agree with you there

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like oral but not for too long. But i love fingers and the odd fist

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like oral but not for too long. But i love fingers and the odd fist"

even the thought of fisting makes me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I like oral but not for too long. But i love fingers and the odd fist"

I've only done Fisting with one person. He takes his time and prepares well. And when he does OMFG!!!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I MUCH prefer oral. I've also endured the 'dynarod' approach to fingering - I do wish men would stop thinking porn films are a true reflection of what women like!

It's a bit harder to be hurt by a man's tongue, although not all men are accomplished at licking - some adopt the 'la la la' approach, just flicking relentlessly in one spot *sigh*

Still preferable to rough fingering though

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to finger and make the woman cum than wank with the cum covered hand.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A few guys we've been with seem to have the jack hammer approach to fingering, I always stop them and ask them to be more gentle its to be enjoyed not endured

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I MUCH prefer oral. I've also endured the 'dynarod' approach to fingering - I do wish men would stop thinking porn films are a true reflection of what women like!

It's a bit harder to be hurt by a man's tongue, although not all men are accomplished at licking - some adopt the 'la la la' approach, just flicking relentlessly in one spot *sigh*

Still preferable to rough fingering though

Or they suck the clit so hard it makes the eyes water!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I love it too.....a mixture of fingers and oral or both together is even hotter.

[/quote

thats where am going, if you get someone who knows his job in pussy dept, with both tongue and finger you will go gaga

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I MUCH prefer oral. I've also endured the 'dynarod' approach to fingering - I do wish men would stop thinking porn films are a true reflection of what women like!

It's a bit harder to be hurt by a man's tongue, although not all men are accomplished at licking - some adopt the 'la la la' approach, just flicking relentlessly in one spot *sigh*

Still preferable to rough fingering though

Or they suck the clit so hard it makes the eyes water!!"

I love my clit being bitten, some dont bite hard enough cause they think they will hurt me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love oral, but fingering always does it for me and makes me cum massively esp when the G-Spot is hit...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rlicker123Man
over a year ago

gillingham kent

iv found with 2 lady's i know fingering and licking at the same time is the best for them.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few guys we've been with seem to have the jack hammer approach to fingering, I always stop them and ask them to be more gentle its to be enjoyed not endured

awful sensation

Slow, deep fingering with a little oral help is amazing!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I MUCH prefer oral. I've also endured the 'dynarod' approach to fingering - I do wish men would stop thinking porn films are a true reflection of what women like!

It's a bit harder to be hurt by a man's tongue, although not all men are accomplished at licking - some adopt the 'la la la' approach, just flicking relentlessly in one spot *sigh*

Still preferable to rough fingering though

Or they suck the clit so hard it makes the eyes water!!

I love my clit being bitten, some dont bite hard enough cause they think they will hurt me"

Now that would be a turn off for me. Beginning to feel for the guys here!! So many different preferences!! LOL

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll stick to my go with the flow method........

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I MUCH prefer oral. I've also endured the 'dynarod' approach to fingering - I do wish men would stop thinking porn films are a true reflection of what women like!

It's a bit harder to be hurt by a man's tongue, although not all men are accomplished at licking - some adopt the 'la la la' approach, just flicking relentlessly in one spot *sigh*

Still preferable to rough fingering though

Or they suck the clit so hard it makes the eyes water!!

I love my clit being bitten, some dont bite hard enough cause they think they will hurt me

Now that would be a turn off for me. Beginning to feel for the guys here!! So many different preferences!! LOL "

I feel sorry for the guys too but it is all about comunication, if you don't like it (women of men) say so nicely, if you do like it say so very nicely

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

O meant women OR men, guys get a say too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

[Removed by poster at 28/10/12 11:03:56]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Communication is key but some people's listening skills need improving!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a selfish point of view I enjoy oral but I also enjoy giving a woman a sensitive massage of their G-Spot.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love oral, its something that totally turns me on and I could happily lie there for ages.

I find that too many men are rough with their fingers and I blame the obsession with getting women to gush for this. A tongue is much gentler and that's how I like my sex.

But my favourite is licking whilst gently pressing my gspot, that never fails to make me orgasm

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love both, but tend to gush when fingered and him or her hit just the right stop

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I love oral, its something that totally turns me on and I could happily lie there for ages.

I find that too many men are rough with their fingers and I blame the obsession with getting women to gush for this. A tongue is much gentler and that's how I like my sex.

But my favourite is licking whilst gently pressing my gspot, that never fails to make me orgasm

I think you're right about the current obsession with gushing.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like fingering a girl but.... When licking her clit or having my tongue inside her just got to love the taste !! X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Fingering over oral gets my vote - having said that it does take a man to know what he is doing and "rough" is definitely not what is called for. It is technique and while some have it... some do not

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of messages I receive proclaim expertise in oral skills. I do love receiving good oral but I find a man who is skilled at fingering gets me hotter than anything. Am I in a minority?"

Im the same as you...dont mind a "little" oral but prefer fingers

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

actions speak louder than words so it would seem

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Lots of messages I receive proclaim expertise in oral skills. I do love receiving good oral but I find a man who is skilled at fingering gets me hotter than anything. Am I in a minority?

Im the same as you...dont mind a "little" oral but prefer fingers

"
It is for that reason I am sceptical of profiles that put a lot of emphasis on good oral skills... I want sexy fun ... not a public speech

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a mixture of both, if a guy is licking me and I want fingers I'll ask, if I want more fingers I'll ask for that too, I think being responsive should give him some idea if he's doing what you like, if not...tell him, but I agree, some guys do go at it like they're digging for gold.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I like a mixture of both, if a guy is licking me and I want fingers I'll ask, if I want more fingers I'll ask for that too, I think being responsive should give him some idea if he's doing what you like, if not...tell him, but I agree, some guys do go at it like they're digging for gold."

I have no problem voicing my needs and wants but have found that some guys get so in to oral they forget what their fingers are meant to be doing.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem voicing my needs and wants but have found that some guys get so in to oral they forget what their fingers are meant to be doing."

Or maybe they gone deaf with thighs squashing their ears....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Oral is fine if the person is within earshot but I usually use a two finger salute if someone else could hear and might be offended.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have no problem voicing my needs and wants but have found that some guys get so in to oral they forget what their fingers are meant to be doing.

Or maybe they gone deaf with thighs squashing their ears....

My thighs aren't that big, unless he has a huge head!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem voicing my needs and wants but have found that some guys get so in to oral they forget what their fingers are meant to be doing.

Or maybe they gone deaf with thighs squashing their ears....

My thighs aren't that big, unless he has a huge head!!

Or huge ears

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have no problem voicing my needs and wants but have found that some guys get so in to oral they forget what their fingers are meant to be doing.

Or maybe they gone deaf with thighs squashing their ears....

My thighs aren't that big, unless he has a huge head!!

Or huge ears

Then deafness wouldn't be their problem, but wearing a balaclava might be.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was oral all the way but this is duly noted

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Different strokes for different folks. I like men to be proficient in all the arts.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem voicing my needs and wants but have found that some guys get so in to oral they forget what their fingers are meant to be doing.

Or maybe they gone deaf with thighs squashing their ears....

My thighs aren't that big, unless he has a huge head!!

Or huge ears

Then deafness wouldn't be their problem, but wearing a balaclava might be.

Balaclava.......isnt that just as bad as leaving your socks on??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

There is nothing a tongue can do that a finger can't (during sex that is).... but there are many things that fingers can do which a tongue never could.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have no problem voicing my needs and wants but have found that some guys get so in to oral they forget what their fingers are meant to be doing.

Or maybe they gone deaf with thighs squashing their ears....

My thighs aren't that big, unless he has a huge head!!

Or huge ears

Then deafness wouldn't be their problem, but wearing a balaclava might be.

Balaclava.......isnt that just as bad as leaving your socks on??

No. It's the Northern equivalent of a Gimp mask!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

squeezing a finger in alongside a cock (your own or someone else's) seems to create ooohs and aaahs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"squeezing a finger in alongside a cock (your own or someone else's) seems to create ooohs and aaahs"

As does a vibe!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like oral and fingering and having a hubby who is very good at both and manages to hit the right spot every time makes me a very happy lady. Have played with a few who have found the spot too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love oral, its something that totally turns me on and I could happily lie there for ages.

I find that too many men are rough with their fingers and I blame the obsession with getting women to gush for this. A tongue is much gentler and that's how I like my sex.

But my favourite is licking whilst gently pressing my gspot, that never fails to make me orgasm

Here here

What's the obsession with squirting anyways? Had a nurse tell me it's just not possible for a woman's body to hold that much fluid without it being urine... But it's up to you what you choose to believe

Some oral and some explorative fingering here please.

Littlebit

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoyed this thread, cos I reckon I'm useless at oral but had no complaints re my fingering abilities!!

And enjoy seeing/hearing and generally experiencing a lady's responses/reactions to my efforts, such a turn-on!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread