FabSwingers.com forum: Repeat meets

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you do repeat meets....

How many have you done with the same person/couple? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone 20 times then they moved in for a few years, other than that until we both decide to move one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was seeing a lady regularly for nearly 10 yrs got better the more we met until her husband found out. Nothing starts out long term but I do love return meetings but one offs can be as good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I'd rather not discuss, too much pain due to friend recently passing away, but for 5 years when living in London we lived at each others homes

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

My FWBs have usually lasted well over a year so no idea. Quite a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you do repeat meets....

How many have you done with the same person/couple? x"

Still seeing my fwb I met 10 years ago

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We have met one couple once a year for the last 6 years due to us living at either end of England.

There was another couple who lived near us who we met probably 20 to 30 times in the space of 2 years before they left Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s alright for some I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m Like that drink you had when you were young. You know the one you can’t ever drink again, that night you’ll never forget… you’ll never want to meet me again,

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We've been meeting the same lady for at least one weekend a month for a year now.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I have a few ongoing doms now (via here and Fabguys) but you can never have enough contacts imo. For non bdsm I have to be in the mood.

It's all about both parties being ready, willing & able at the same time for me. I don't really do set meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes, we love them. We are at 14 and counting with one guy and have made 7/8 with a few people.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Over a 10 month period but not often as only when he was on leave from army x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine have lasted years and turned into solid friendships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a once a week meeting with the same woman for nearly four years. We’ve not seen each other since March 2020 - bloody covid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been meeting one lady in particular for getting on for ten years on & off, usually once every couple of months. The sex just gets better & better. I used to see another lady every week,not always for sex,we just seem to click. Unfortunately she had health problems & has since died.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe 6-7 with one FB xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m Like that drink you had when you were young. You know the one you can’t ever drink again, that night you’ll never forget… you’ll never want to meet me again,

Like absinthe! Or thunderbird red lol

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My longest with a FWB (god knows how many meets...now just friends) has been over 25 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My longest with a FWB (god knows how many meets...now just friends) has been over 25 years

25 years as a FWB or 25 years overall? x

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"My longest with a FWB (god knows how many meets...now just friends) has been over 25 years

25 years as a FWB or 25 years overall? x"

I'd say about 15-20 years with benefits x

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

A number of years ago I met the same couple almost every week for three years.

More recently I have met one particular lady 5 times.

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"If you do repeat meets....

How many have you done with the same person/couple? x"

I’m going to say 8 or 9. Could be a little more or a little less though

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

3 years is my longest.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I'm guessing you mean meets with sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a 3 meet max rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m Like that drink you had when you were young. You know the one you can’t ever drink again, that night you’ll never forget… you’ll never want to meet me again,

Like absinthe! Or thunderbird red lol "

White lightning

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Quite a few times as they get better every time you meet

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Over 20 but that is spread over 3 years

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

If you're referring to "playdates" then five with the same person, over a year.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I've met a couple of people twice, I prefer one offs but it's hard finding decent guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once. Really hoping g yo meet a few couples and singles that we click with to do this.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Started off as meets.

But nearly 3 years later he’s my partner. Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done zero.

I intend on doing a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve done zero.

I intend on doing a lot."

Not meets though.

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

Until I run out of fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 and I have my eye on a lovely lady I'd like to meet in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you do repeat meets....

How many have you done with the same person/couple? x"

Pretty much all of the people I've met up with on here have been repeat meets. Once person was at least once a week for around a year. Tend to only have one night stands if I don't want a to see them again

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Until I run out of fingers."

That's why toes come in handy

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Not many of ours has been repeat meets.

We only have 1 person that we meet regulary.

A few of our meets have been disappointing.

Either pushy,cant perform or dont stay in touch.

Looking for a bi fem to have regular meets with and friendship.

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By *av-RickMan
over a year ago

Nearby

Used to meet a couple semi-regularly who I met on a different site for a period of 2 to 3 years.

Became more difficult with work patterns etc, so eventually meets became harder to arrange and eventually stopped, was a distance that was a little further than a last minute message was easy to arrange a meet. Hope to find similar set up again but a little closer to home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

I’ve had many a repeat meet, which most have turned into friendships and a regular thing as and when schedules allow.

Always great to have multiple FWB’s cos each offers something different and it’s good to have variety

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"If you do repeat meets....

How many have you done with the same person/couple? x"

The last person I did regular repeat meets with a decade ago started as a couple of times a week and then often became 2/3 day stretches at a time, including weekend trips away clubbing.

And I've woken up with her every morning for the last 7 years and will be doing so again til I pop my clogs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longest for me has been every other weekend ish with a couple over 6/7 months, but given I’m still a veritable newbie to the lifestyle who knows.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I’m a bit of a nerd and keep a record so I could go back and get an exact number of meets over 3 years.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We prefer repeat meets everything including the sex gets better the more you get to know the couple/ singles ..

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

My last repeat meet turned into a permanent one

Tg x

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

3/4 times with a couple of guys I've met off here, but I knew one of them previously.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We have a FWB that we met through fab and we've been seeing her for almost 2 years now. Once every 2 months or so, and even been to a friends bbq together as well as a Xmas party last year

she is now literally a really good friend that we just happen to get naked with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all about repeat meets. Have lost count to be fair. I see them weekly or more often if possible for as long as it lasts (months/years).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had many repeat meets

I don’t really do one offs. It’s usually only life things and time that gets in the way…

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I don't count but there are a few on here I have met several times.x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Always. 2 for 2 years now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always. 2 for 2 years now."
like the sith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t see someone more than once, even if they are amazing and perfect

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Best I ever got was my first verification and that was three times. Which I never knew why it’s stopped but then again It could not have been that bad

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Always. 2 for 2 years now.like the sith

The what now?

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I have for the past 2 yrs plus.

My ex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always. 2 for 2 years now.like the sith

The what now?"
sith always 2 there are no more no less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah have some I like to call regulars and I see with some regularity x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Nooo, I'm more a cream and leave kind of girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won’t see someone more than once, even if they are amazing and perfect

Good old hump and dump

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Yes.. Love them..

I'm on about meet 200 with one guy.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Met someone I think over a 3 year period. Would really love that kind of thing again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met someone I think over a 3 year period. Would really love that kind of thing again."

I’d click my heels if I just met you the once

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

On here for last two years I've meet one or two people twice the rest are just one night events...there's a couple I would of loved too of met again but unfortunately that didn't happen...the way it goes really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A FwB I met through here who I've been seeing about 2 years.

Most others have been a one or two time thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 years, 6 years, 2 years, 4 years... are the longest. Maybe I'm not as crap as I thought.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Met a couple about a dozen or so times over 8 to 9 months

Sadly that has now come to an end

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"If you do repeat meets....

How many have you done with the same person/couple? x"

Did... around 30 with one couple. In general it does get better as trust grows, barriers fall and you learn about each other. You can also mingle social meets, meals out etc, meet individually some times

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By *iggy5Man
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Many, many meets with one couple. Stopping over at theirs. Meals (I love to cook), socials and even holidays at their place abroad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No-one from here, but I just started meeting my FWB again post-Covid. We've known each other 3+ years. I'm only interested in that kind of connection.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Yes, i love a double portion, or triple or more!!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I have had a number of fwbs or fuck buddies from here. Repeat meets are great and improve each time.

One offs are good too.

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By *MrandMrsRedxCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I now live with my last repeat meet. So now it’s a daily occurrence

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

I've been shagging my latest fwb for nearly 2.5 years. Best sex I've ever had. Really need to call it off soon though as I've developed feelings and that's super naughty. Just can't seem to give him up though

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

"Until I run out of fingers.

That's why toes come in handy

I had thought you might take my little piggies to the market, or somewhere interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering how long it takes me to trust someone, repeat DATES are all I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost count as I've got a good friend him and we've known each other over four years now x

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

Dating is the new swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Considering how long it takes me to trust someone, repeat DATES are all I want. "

In.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m Like that drink you had when you were young. You know the one you can’t ever drink again, that night you’ll never forget… you’ll never want to meet me again,

Like absinthe! Or thunderbird red lol "
oh I love the absinthe…. Made the mistake once of drinking it in the dark and flicking a lighter near it to see how much was left in the bottle

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I’ve been meeting the same person for over 18 months now.

Sometimes once or twice a week, sometimes several months between meets.

I’ve never had a fwb/fb for so long, but we are totally comfortable with each other, I’d trust him with anything.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We've only met one person twice (but we have only met three people and a couple). The first time was a social and the second time things really heated up.

This is not by design. We hope to meet people again and again if we get on well. Sadly it hasn't turned out that way, but hopefully that will change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few that I have met over a hundred times and some that once was enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking for my first meet

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Many, many in 3 years with my FWB

apart from the covid lockdowns of course

Most of my meets have been repeats. I can only recall 1 or 2 one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw a couple.from.here at least 3times a month for 4yrs....also a lovely lady before that once a week for 6 months...all fantastic fun with sex getting better.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Yep, repeat meets are great! Means round 1 was so good you’re both back for seconds! Why not! If you both click meet ‘n quick!

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I prefer repeat meets can explore together especially when your both open minded and up for trying new and exiciting things together x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone 3 times but that finished for reasons I won't go into. It's rare you find people you connect with enough to take it past 2 meets.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I met someone 3 times but that finished for reasons I won't go into. It's rare you find people you connect with enough to take it past 2 meets."

I'm thr opposite, it's rare I find someone just to have a 1 off meet with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won’t see someone more than once, even if they are amazing and perfect

Good old hump and dump"

Absolutely

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I met people over the years who have become friends for life. We occasionally catch up and sometimes play. I suppose it's how you connect if it lasts for repeat meetings. Always a worry when you meet someone and they want more than just the lifestyle if its not what your looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met someone 3 times but that finished for reasons I won't go into. It's rare you find people you connect with enough to take it past 2 meets."

All I find are rare gems I want to meet more than once

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I prefer repeat meets, have had lots with a few friends, and don't see that stopping.

The only thing that stops any being regular repeats is location and time, not through lack of wanting to meet them.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We like making friends we can see repeatedly.

Mainly couples and single girls but there are several guys we’ve seen more than once as well.

Familiarity makes for great sex..

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"I met someone 3 times but that finished for reasons I won't go into. It's rare you find people you connect with enough to take it past 2 meets.

I'm thr opposite, it's rare I find someone just to have a 1 off meet with

Snap!

I think it's down to judging that initial connection... or we are just so go they need more

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Regular is always best sadly our regular couple have stopped swinging.

Looking for a new couple.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

My FwB almost 9 years whenever we can but he is my best friend too so always in contact.

I have met others too during my time here at fab - I keep in touch with a select few and still see them from time to time. I consider them all to be friends now

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Not really interested in anything that would become regular. Just don’t want the familiarity

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I met someone 3 times but that finished for reasons I won't go into. It's rare you find people you connect with enough to take it past 2 meets.

I'm thr opposite, it's rare I find someone just to have a 1 off meet with

Snap!

I think it's down to judging that initial connection... or we are just so go they need more

I'm going with the last part of your sentence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last one I met 3 times and that was enough. Would like to find repeat meets but I can’t connect for too long

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"I met someone 3 times but that finished for reasons I won't go into. It's rare you find people you connect with enough to take it past 2 meets.

I'm thr opposite, it's rare I find someone just to have a 1 off meet with

Snap!

I think it's down to judging that initial connection... or we are just so go they need more

I'm going with the last part of your sentence

So am I

(and I glad you managed to read past the typo) x

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Most of my meets are with the friends that i have met here , we don't meet every day but yes regularly , when the free time coincide for both sides . We respect each others personal lifes and privacy but we have this friendship where there's connection and chemestry where take us to a very enjoyable moments for all of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice, I'd say

Nikki x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you do repeat meets....

How many have you done with the same person/couple? x"

yes I've had repeat meets. I find if we click then the sex just gets better and better. hence I'd live to find a FWB

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I much prefer repeat meets rather than one offs .. But that's maybe because I actively seek a friendship/ fwb scenario anyway..

I find it difficult to have one off sexy time encounters if I don't think the other person will remain friends afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I much prefer repeat meets rather than one offs .. But that's maybe because I actively seek a friendship/ fwb scenario anyway..

I find it difficult to have one off sexy time encounters if I don't think the other person will remain friends afterwards

I would agree with this

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I much prefer repeat meets rather than one offs .. But that's maybe because I actively seek a friendship/ fwb scenario anyway..

I find it difficult to have one off sexy time encounters if I don't think the other person will remain friends afterwards

I would agree with this

Cheers

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"If you do repeat meets....

How many have you done with the same person/couple? x"

Depends on the person. Before getting with P, I had done meets with someone I knew for ten years. Ideally when single I'd like fortnightly meets but it's not always possible.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I tend to see people a few times a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you do repeat meets....

How many have you done with the same person/couple? x"

I always end up having full blown relationships with girls I’ve met from here

So obviously, there’s been many repeats

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Had a few long term buddies. Longest was 7 or 8 yrs.. another around 4.5yrs, another 3.5, another around 6mnths or so, another (a cple) just under a yr. When I was with them we were meeting near daily or every other day. There would be occasional repeats with new meets but nothing more than a few days in total I'd say.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Yes.

The longest standing is about 7 years. I don’t know how many times but likely to be in the 100s.

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