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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been chatting with a few people on here and they have said that they would meet with me but aren't meeting up at the moment yet are meeting others and having verifications posted.

Should I bother chatting any longer as it's feels like lip service saying they want to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Do you need profile advice?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you need profile advice? "

Nope it's perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without knowing everything about said people and the content of your conversations with them, I'd say they're just avoiding saying your not for them. I could be wrong (more often than not)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is to agree to meet someone I've been chatting to longer. I'm not gonna meet someone that I've only chatted to for say, 4 weeks before someone I've chatted to for 9 weeks. That's just an example.

And i make it clear that there's a difference between 'yea you seem a good person to chat to with a possibility of a meet'and 'yea we can chat here and it's good but I'm not going to guarantee a meet'

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Meets are for chumps, all the cool kids aren’t meeting at all ever!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Meets are for chumps, all the cool kids aren’t meeting at all ever!"

So true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guess I'm a chump

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Probably happens to everyone on here one time or other, just forget about it and move on, we have had a cancellation in the past after paying for hotel's and getting sitters, then seen a verification on their profile weeks later. We still went to the hotel found someone else and had a great time nevertheless. Needless to say we don't speak to them anymore and probably never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could be working though a back oder wonko

I would probably just stop asking and if you injoy chatting to them keep chatting

And just hope they say a meet but would also look at others also

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This has given me an idea for a new name

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"This has given me an idea for a new name "

I said right from the start we'd never meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This has given me an idea for a new name

I said right from the start we'd never meet "

This wasn't about you

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"This has given me an idea for a new name

I said right from the start we'd never meet

This wasn't about you "

Wow, you are frustrated

I'll be off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been chatting with a few people on here and they have said that they would meet with me but aren't meeting up at the moment yet are meeting others and having verifications posted.

Should I bother chatting any longer as it's feels like lip service saying they want to meet me "

Seen your thread and what l would say to you is ..send a message that you'll meet wherever ever it suits but after that do not message them again , that way you have done what you can but tbh l would'nt hold my breath either , this place is full of people that want compliments but will never meet cause they don't ever have any intention of, that's just the way it is.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Maybe they’ve just been to group socials or something.

At least you know where you stand.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

^ the 2 posts above

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"They could be working though a back oder wonko "

kick a man when he's down lol

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