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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think about lots of things. It’s terrible. Anyway today I’m thinking about how virginity is a myth. A made up heteronormative construct. And that has led me to think so what is sex? What is sex to you? Please tell me, I’m very interested to know!

Happy bank holiday to those observing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nonexistent.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)

How can virginity be a myth....? Virginity means you haven't had sex before.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Anything that gives me pleasure of the sexual kind.

I once had a chocolate fondant with walnut ice cream that could only be described as orgasmic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How can virginity be a myth....? Virginity means you haven't had sex before. "

I thought (and may be wrong) that it’s not having had sex as sex is defined- which is heteronormative? So like, if you’ve not had penetrative sex, to some you’re still a Virgin? Again why it comes back to - what is sex?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"How can virginity be a myth....? Virginity means you haven't had sex before. "

But one person's idea of what sex is could be different to anothers

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

For me sex is physical and mental worship of a person I have feelings for

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By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside

Sex is life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think most definitions of virginity are surrounding ‘sexual intercourse’. So does that mean say women that only have sex with women are virgins? And if sex doesn’t have to be defined that way for one group, why, say amongst straight people, does virginity have to have such a fixed meaning to do with penetration? Is that all that sex is? Penetration?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think most definitions of virginity are surrounding ‘sexual intercourse’. So does that mean say women that only have sex with women are virgins? And if sex doesn’t have to be defined that way for one group, why, say amongst straight people, does virginity have to have such a fixed meaning to do with penetration? Is that all that sex is? Penetration?"

I bloody hope not!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think most definitions of virginity are surrounding ‘sexual intercourse’. So does that mean say women that only have sex with women are virgins? And if sex doesn’t have to be defined that way for one group, why, say amongst straight people, does virginity have to have such a fixed meaning to do with penetration? Is that all that sex is? Penetration?

I bloody hope not!"

So do I

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think most definitions of virginity are surrounding ‘sexual intercourse’. So does that mean say women that only have sex with women are virgins? And if sex doesn’t have to be defined that way for one group, why, say amongst straight people, does virginity have to have such a fixed meaning to do with penetration? Is that all that sex is? Penetration?"

Many people maintain their virginity for cultural and religious reasons by not having penetrative sex. It just seems like a detail to me but what do I know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anything that gives me pleasure of the sexual kind.

I once had a chocolate fondant with walnut ice cream that could only be described as orgasmic"

Would you say you can only have orgasms if the pleasure is of a sexual nature?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me sex is physical and mental worship of a person I have feelings for "

Ooo when you say worship can you elaborate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex is life"

And life is sex

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"For me sex is physical and mental worship of a person I have feelings for

Ooo when you say worship can you elaborate? "

Tantric....

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"How can virginity be a myth....? Virginity means you haven't had sex before.

I thought (and may be wrong) that it’s not having had sex as sex is defined- which is heteronormative? So like, if you’ve not had penetrative sex, to some you’re still a Virgin? Again why it comes back to - what is sex?"

True, the definition is poor... possibly. Depends why anyone wants to know I guess.

But it's not a 'myth'.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Anything that gives me pleasure of the sexual kind.

I once had a chocolate fondant with walnut ice cream that could only be described as orgasmic

Would you say you can only have orgasms if the pleasure is of a sexual nature? "

Now you're asking!

The pleasure I had from this chocolate fondant in terms of the sensations in my mouth and the texture of the food was so intense that my closest point of reference was sexual. I doubt I'd have shuddered my way moaning and writhing to an orgasm at the restaurant table though, no matter how good the walnut ice cream. So yes, I probably could only have orgasms via sexual pleasure

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Should we buy you a book?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex sounds hot. I’m in.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"I think most definitions of virginity are surrounding ‘sexual intercourse’. So does that mean say women that only have sex with women are virgins? And if sex doesn’t have to be defined that way for one group, why, say amongst straight people, does virginity have to have such a fixed meaning to do with penetration? Is that all that sex is? Penetration?"

In a purely scientific, biological and reproductive meaning... yes.

But we have moved past sex being just for reproduction, so if we want a word to define if we have had sexual interactions with someone, we probably should have something new.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Anything that gives me pleasure of the sexual kind.

I once had a chocolate fondant with walnut ice cream that could only be described as orgasmic"

I had a chocolate cake that was so good once, I got an errection.

Don't tell anyone though, as its a little embarrassing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is life!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Anything that gives me pleasure of the sexual kind.

I once had a chocolate fondant with walnut ice cream that could only be described as orgasmic

I had a chocolate cake that was so good once, I got an errection.

Don't tell anyone though, as its a little embarrassing. "

Have you got the recipe? I think Mary Berry is writing a new cookery book ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me sex isn’t a thing

There’s only

makeing love

And fucking

And yes there’s a difference

Makeing love I am connected my feelings and hart are in it

Fucking well that’s just mindless pleasure

Always say

These only a hand full I have made love to

But I let just about anyone have a fuck at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But can you be a virgin again if you have not had the pleasure of sex for a really long time. If so I am virgin lol

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Anything that gives me pleasure of the sexual kind.

I once had a chocolate fondant with walnut ice cream that could only be described as orgasmic

I had a chocolate cake that was so good once, I got an errection.

Don't tell anyone though, as its a little embarrassing.

Have you got the recipe? I think Mary Berry is writing a new cookery book ..."

No, it was bought in a tiny little village cafe. Can't even remember where.

"Cakes to cum to" it'll be a best seller

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

Agree that there is a difference between sex and making love.

What is sex, from memory, it was alot of fun and one of those many experiences i would like to do again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is too deep for me. Coincidentally I’ve never said that about a vagina.

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