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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How sexy do you feel (in yourself) lately? How’s your body confidence?

Anything you would do to improve to get better?

I’d say sexiness I’d rate myself 10/10 I don’t think I’ve ever felt this sexy and desirable!

Body confidence, maybe 8/10.. Just have a few bits I’d like to work on but overall it’s more good than bad. Also I’m gaining some weight which is going in the right places, which I don’t mind at all x (thighs and ass )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1/10.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy...about 3/10

Body confidence -3/10

It does improve after wine though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minus 5 on both counts

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I’m happy sitting here being 6/10 my confidence comes from my chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't and never have I had any

Don't really give a shit about it either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask me this question again when I haven’t ate my bodyweight in chocolate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body confidence is a 10 at the minute, I would never say I was sexy though, just don't see it

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Sexy 6/10

Body confidence 5/10

Randyness 10/10

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I am who I am.

10/10 every single morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sexy...about 3/10

Body confidence -3/10

It does improve after wine though. "

Well wine is good x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Body confidence is a 10 at the minute, I would never say I was sexy though, just don't see it"

Then how HOT do you feel (in yourself) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admire your confidence

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Below the waist? 10/10

Above?

Somewhere between a 2 and a 7/10, depending on the time of day, whether I've had sufficient caffeine and how many hours I've worked that week.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2/10 but hopefully that will change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40/10

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’m simply not a sexy person. Body confidence is pants as my injury is stopping me doing what I want so probably around a 2…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A strong 7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy 5/10

Body confidence 6/10 or 8/10 depending the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Body confidence is a 10 at the minute, I would never say I was sexy though, just don't see it

Then how HOT do you feel (in yourself) x "

I'd say a 7, above average but nothing amazing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"40/10 "

Hello

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

Body confidence is 0

Sexiness depends on a variety of things but right now maybe 2. Earlier I'd been caused to feel sexy so it was a 9 I reckon.

Posh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 3 or 4 body fat is far too high and wont shift

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By *elight 99Woman
over a year ago

richmond

A firm 8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexiness - 5/10

Body confidence - 4/10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite happy . I have what I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nul points as they say in Europe

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

Body confidence is down low at the moment but im hoping it will get better as i lose weight and tone up. I feel sexy when i have nice underwear on and a beautiful man in front of me and my body confidence kind of soars and i dont give a shit. Its kimd of mad

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Never thought twice about it - actually couldn't care less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not great, but it seldom is. I forced myself to take a photograph of my chest and post it here to try to drum some confidence today - not sure it's worked as there are a lot hunkier men than me on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexiness I’d say 6/10.

Body confidence 6/10 as well.

It’s a journey, loving yourself. Long way to go. But OP I love how confident you feel. Go you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never felt fitter so I'll go for 7/10

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

In general maybe 6-7/10 for both. My boyfriend has a way of making me feel 10/10 though. I wish I always felt that good.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Body confidence about a 5 at the moment which is the highest it's been the last few years.

Sexiness lagging well behind, I tend not to feel sexy unless I'm pretty body confident.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Him 6 everyday 8 when out.

Her 5 everyday 7 when out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body confidence is fairly good - I'm in reasonable shape from training.

Do I feel sexy? Yes, thanks to a special lady who openly and regularly perves over me, it's a nice feeling.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy wise id say im a 6/10.

Body confidence id say im at a 2/10. Going outout tonight and i hate the outfits iv brought with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In general maybe 6-7/10 for both. My boyfriend has a way of making me feel 10/10 though. I wish I always felt that good. "

That’s amazing! So good when you have someone to make you feel a 10/10

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Hello sexy SuperSlute! It's lovely to read your confidence, very cute indeed.

So right now, I'd say my body confidence is at about 6.5? I'm working on my body and confidence.

My sexy feeling is a solid 8. I'm desired and loved by two beautiful people, I'm liking the softness of my curves and not hating my chubby self. Plus my libido has come roaring into life recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't the place for specific responses, but there are some very attractive people on this thread giving themselves low scores, which is sad.

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Body confidence - definitely 0 right now. Never felt fatter

Sexiness - depends on my mood. If I'm lounging around watching crap on TV, possibly 2, dressed up and feeling more feminine, then maybe a 7

Other than losing a dramatic amount of weight, nothing will give me body confidence so that's up to me to sort.

As for improving sexiness, I'd say I can't actually improve that myself. Totally depends on situation and who I'm with

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By *olourpurpleMan
over a year ago

Waterford

I’d go with two sevens. I’m quite happy in both departments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello sexy SuperSlute! It's lovely to read your confidence, very cute indeed.

So right now, I'd say my body confidence is at about 6.5? I'm working on my body and confidence.

My sexy feeling is a solid 8. I'm desired and loved by two beautiful people, I'm liking the softness of my curves and not hating my chubby self. Plus my libido has come roaring into life recently. "

Yay to all that x x definitely love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10/10 on both counts

Libido however -10000/10

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

This completely depends on who I am with at any time

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"This completely depends on who I am with at any time "

This for me too

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Depends on what I am doing. Roughly a 7 out of 10 but on occasions up as high as a 9.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

10/10 on both counts

Just waiting for Liverpool girls libido number to kick in though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"10/10 on both counts

Libido however -10000/10"

Random question, would it go straight up if u were meeting the right person?

Cos generally speaking I’m not feeling that oompff, on a day to day basis. But when I meet the right person it definitely goes skyrocket

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Minus 100

Not feeling sexy at all

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Body confidence - body is reasonably. It's getting older. But it still functions just. 7/10

Facially - different matter. Feel old. Feel less femine than I want to be. 4/10.

Sexy - when my head is in it - 8/10...

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

3/10 sexyness 6/10 body confidence

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By *arkcrystalMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Awful..Truely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"10/10 on both counts

Libido however -10000/10

Random question, would it go straight up if u were meeting the right person?

Cos generally speaking I’m not feeling that oompff, on a day to day basis. But when I meet the right person it definitely goes skyrocket "

I couldn’t even be arsed to meet anyone to find the right person and to be honest, I’m a complete commitment phobe - I won’t even go on a social as it’s too much like a date!

Wouldn’t be fair to get into anything with anyone as I don’t have a sex drive and my fella would be one of the thousands on here cheating because his woman doesn’t fuck him. Fuck that!

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

struggling to get above a 2 recently

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

3. The peri menopause is taking its toll on my skin etc and my libido has plummeted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally flatlined in all departments

0 out 10 across the board at the moment...and currently being here isn't helping any confidence I haven't got

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

6 at the moment

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Currently 7/10

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Sexiness - 9/10

Body confidence - 7/10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a 3 out of 10 for confidence which is pretty high for me. I am doing well with weight loss, and I'm very realistic these days about what is achievable for me. So I'm starting to embrace myself more, those parts of me that I'll always have, like my little belly and hip dips, softness and cellulite etc. Whereas in the past I wouldn't have been able to accept them.

Some days are better than others, but overall it's good and better than it ever has been.

I hope your ass continues to get fat and juicy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didnt read it properly and was having an i feel fat moment earlier

I see my sexiness as around a 7 or 8 only based on the lovely flattering messages i get and the women customers who hit on me

My own body confidence i give a 5 but only because my tubby gut wont bugger off its looking more and more likely il have no choice but to do a situp or 2

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice


"Sexiness - 9/10

Body confidence - 7/10"

a perfect 9/10 x2

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"3. The peri menopause is taking its toll on my skin etc and my libido has plummeted. "

Have you tried evening primrose oil luna, it's worked wonders for my menopausal skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexiness - About 6/10. My face has a lot to do with the few points knocked off.

Body Confidence - 8/10. Loving my body recently and can see the gym work and diet paying off

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

For me sexiness is confidence and confidence is sexy

It’s not a number or a scale it’s down to you to realise your own worth to put your energy into you! You can make yourself feel like shit easily or you can make yourself smile - never rely on others to make you feel a certain way and that’s where the confidence comes it’s that knowing your comfortable with you and that’s exactly what I am!

Naturally there are days when I need a kick up the arse but I’ll always give myself it where as years ago I’d look to someone to give me the boost I needed - so for overall improvements in how I view myself and the journey I’ve been on to get here it always be this response never a number x

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Sexiness, quite high, always feel quite sexy.

Body confidence, quite low. Improvements need to be made...for me, not for anyone else.

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