FabSwingers.com forum: Attraction

By *heirry84 OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Just wondering what people's opinions on attraction is? Whether you think it's natural, so you don't pick who you're attracted to or learned, from past experiences and societal conditioning.

When i think about myself, I love big titties. I feel this has always been the way but when I look back to my first proper sexual relationship, she had huge boobs. But then I also think back to primary school when I was really attracted to the first girl who had boobs. I didn't even have the plumbing at the time but was almost instinctively drawn to her.

Just wondering what other's opinion on this is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how shallow you are.

Some people are attracted to somebody for more than their tits.

Some aren’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion is you like big boobs.

You're in the minority there

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Eye contact is the start. Not really anything to do with looks as such.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Mine is natural, I can fancy the pants off him online, but until I meet him in the flesh I won't commit. My tell is my hands, I gesticulate a lot normally when chatting and will subconsciously physically reach out to touch him and its not till that moment that I realise I want him In my life

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Surely it's different for everyone. To be fair lots of people do not like the usual pretty looks and go for quirky looks or personality characteristics that they find attractive.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Eyes smile and personality.. wins every time

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

On here, it's how they chat. After that, face and personality. The rest is added bonuses

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By *heirry84 OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"Mine is natural, I can fancy the pants off him online, but until I meet him in the flesh I won't commit. My tell is my hands, I gesticulate a lot normally when chatting and will subconsciously physically reach out to touch him and its not till that moment that I realise I want him In my life

Ahh so your body tells you who to go for? I gesticulate quite a lot when speaking as well, I purposely worked on it as it helped massively when I was teaching English as a foreign language. And yes I do the same and will always touch a person I'm interested in to communicate my feelings.

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By *heirry84 OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"Depends how shallow you are.

Some people are attracted to somebody for more than their tits.

Some aren’t."

Purely going off physical attraction here. Mainly talking about what most would ask for on their profile. Otherwise you could judge everyone who states what they want or find attractive as shallow

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By *heirry84 OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"Eyes smile and personality.. wins every time "

Add charisma and humour in there and you're on to a winner...

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Personality and humour do it for me.

There are two girls in the office I work in. One is very pretty, the other is more what some would call a 'Plain Jane'. However, she has a filthy sense of humour and she really makes me laugh. Lots. If she wasn't attached, and if she wasn't 22 years younger than me I would ask her on a date.

There is someone on here who I've no idea what she looks like, but her replies to posts make me laugh, and I have no doubt that she would be a fun person to be around, even as platonic mates. Alas, I am not in her age range, but in the unlikely event she reads this, twigs on that I am talking about her, and messages me asking for cake and wine, I'll be out that door and into my car like a shot!

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