FabSwingers.com forum: Hatemail

By *ustauseer OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

Anyone else ever received hate mail from forum members?

Surprised it took this long to be honest, it’s hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not hate mail as such, but in the past I’ve had a few messages from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to report it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do dick pics count?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not from the forums no. Not yet anyway!

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By *ustauseer OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

"You need to report it x"

I have zero confidence in reporting it, it won’t change it, it’s just hilarious what some people will say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else ever received hate mail from forum members?

Surprised it took this long to be honest, it’s hilarious "

Ignore it honestly, block and report. Some people are just out and out trolls

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

No, only nice messages

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

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By *ustauseer OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

"Anyone else ever received hate mail from forum members?

Surprised it took this long to be honest, it’s hilarious

Ignore it honestly, block and report. Some people are just out and out trolls "

It’s the rabbid bad grammar and just sheer anger that’s hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had any on fab before but had plenty in the past, it’s amazing how low people can stoop over a comment they don’t agree with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need to report it x

I have zero confidence in reporting it, it won’t change it, it’s just hilarious what some people will say. "

Good to keep your humour - people get a kick out of being c*ntish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never at all but mind you I only post in the lounge mostly witch are a awesome bunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had the odd winge about things because i wont go all filthy with on rude threads and say silly things instead but i then explain they have me confused with my twin brother cos i simply dont give a fuck and they block me and all is well again

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By *ustauseer OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

"Nope never at all but mind you I only post in the lounge mostly witch are a awesome bunch "

They are it’s great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes OP, really bad messages get reported too

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Hate mail no, but I have had some odd messages. I don't chat to many forumites though, so it stands to reason most of my messages (including the twattish ones) are from non-forum fabbers.

Report, block, delete.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I've had a few "

No, they were love letters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope never at all but mind you I only post in the lounge mostly witch are a awesome bunch

They are it’s great "

It is that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Yup. It fuels my flames

It means I’m doing something right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few

No, they were love letters

Not the one you sent

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

We've had members say they want to hate fuck us... is that the same?

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've had a few. I report and then block. It's unpleasant, but most forum interactions are great

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By *ookie doughMan
over a year ago

leic

I've been called a time waster followed by profanities because I very politely declined an offer to "fuck and go bb"

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By *ustauseer OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

"We've had members say they want to hate fuck us... is that the same?

LvM"

That’s hilarious, although I’d definitely let you both go to town on me

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Nasty messages yes! They just cowards! Not brave enough to put ut on the thread so they pm their hatred x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh op. Where do I start. Not just in here, they filtered out onto other social media.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Anyone else ever received hate mail from forum members?

Surprised it took this long to be honest, it’s hilarious "

Had nasty messages but never from forums members. Quite the opposite from the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I have never experienced this in any way, thankfully

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, people actually need to care in order to hate me

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I wouldn't say hate mail but I had a couple of crappy messages over the years. I just delete and block. I can't be bothered with childish cowards who say things in private rather than having the guts to say it in public.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Yes twice, both time from females I’m afraid, they sent horrid messages then blocked us, wouldn’t mind if we were nasty people but we’re far from it, so figure it’s their problem not ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, people actually need to care in order to hate me

Don't wish for hate mail FH!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Not hate mail but I've definitely been warned off by some ladies for chatting to what they classed as 'their man'. Pathetic.

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get them occasionally, but can’t be arsed to report them. Delete and block button is a lot more efficient in dealing with twunts.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't really engage privately with forum users so never encountered messages from them x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Not hate mail but I've definitely been warned off by some ladies for chatting to what they classed as 'their man'. Pathetic.

Ruby"

It is pathetic when they do that

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

There has been a few, rare incidences. I just block people who send actual abusive messages. I think the more annoying ones are when you disagree over a subject on the forums and someone takes it to your inbox. Keep it to the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the texts from my mum that hurt the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, people actually need to care in order to hate me

Don't wish for hate mail FH! "

I think I'd get a laugh out of it to be honest. If it happened regularly, I can see why it would get people down but a one-off comment, I would just go "WTF" and delete it

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

I have received some proper vitriolic cxxp on my many years on here

Report and block

Bizarrely I've also been reported for sending nastiness (so not my style, why waste the effort and, as my dear departed nana used to say "if you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all princess (proper lady my nana))

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Yep.

Usually in direct response to something I've said in a thread and as it clearly says in our profile to keep anything relating to the forums in the forums, rather than sending a PM, I just delete the message and block.

I'll only report if they've been a grade A chunt or if I've not had my first coffee of the day and am feeling ratty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite possibly, I delete most without reading though.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Never!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, people actually need to care in order to hate me

Don't wish for hate mail FH!

I think I'd get a laugh out of it to be honest. If it happened regularly, I can see why it would get people down but a one-off comment, I would just go "WTF" and delete it"

You don't get wound up though, do you? I get massively wound up so easily!

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

"Not hate mail but I've definitely been warned off by some ladies for chatting to what they classed as 'their man'. Pathetic.

Ruby"

I've had this at parties.

Just shooting the shit over a beer with a couple or single woman in a friendly manner - you know, because it's a party - and the other couple they arrived with feel the need to warn me off.

I know I'm a fucking tart but I never knew I was just so gosh-darned irresistible that I could entice people to change their plans seemingly against their will.

Against their better judgement perhaps

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Nope, people actually need to care in order to hate me

Don't wish for hate mail FH!

I think I'd get a laugh out of it to be honest. If it happened regularly, I can see why it would get people down but a one-off comment, I would just go "WTF" and delete it

You don't get wound up though, do you? I get massively wound up so easily! "

Be like elsa let it go

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

Send your hate mail to me, I Iove to fuck back.

They only want attention I will satisfy their need.

Apart from that I am a nice guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, people actually need to care in order to hate me

Don't wish for hate mail FH!

I think I'd get a laugh out of it to be honest. If it happened regularly, I can see why it would get people down but a one-off comment, I would just go "WTF" and delete it

You don't get wound up though, do you? I get massively wound up so easily!

Be like elsa let it go"

I'm better now. I think.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Nope x

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I'm not important enough to get hatemail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate mail...no, nice mail...no, no mail...yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, I wouldn't describe it as hatemail but I've had a couple of messages from regular posters on the forums who have messaged me to be unkind. But it doesn't really bother me, I just send them a big love and hug back.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I haven't but I know people who have. They were from popular people too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else ever received hate mail from forum members?

Surprised it took this long to be honest, it’s hilarious "

Can you be more specific on what your definition of hate mail is.

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

"Anyone else ever received hate mail from forum members?

Surprised it took this long to be honest, it’s hilarious "

Yes twice strangely from ladies

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