FabSwingers.com forum: Given the game away

By *aughty but nice... OP Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I'm interested to know what have you done in the vanilla world that has almost let your secret out about you being a swinger ?

Me I quite often pull my bank card out of my wallet and my club membership cards fall out at the same time

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Took my uncle out for food after a sport event. Bumped into a couple I know well from Fab. Odd thing was, I was an hour from home. They were two hours from home. I was a bit tongue tied for a few seconds but between us on the spot we concocted a story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing. I’m a good boy away from fab.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Me being a swinger isn't a secret so I have nothing to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of people have asked why my WhatsApp name is Keyser Soze

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"A couple of people have asked why my WhatsApp name is Keyser Soze

What does Keyser Soze mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple of people have asked why my WhatsApp name is Keyser Soze

What does Keyser Soze mean?

Never seen ‘The Usual Suspects’?

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

The other day one of my work friends started talking about that shite TV show about swinging/open relationships etc. I realised I'd gone a bit far when I was explaining to her about poly relationships, triads and quads etc. I got a few quizzical looks.

Katie.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Me being a swinger isn't a secret so I have nothing to worry about. "

I'm curious - how does it come up for you to tell people and what have been their reaction? Was anyone harder to tell?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t differentiate between sex and swinging.

I generally haven’t spoke to my friends about having sex since I was a teenager.

Doesn’t matter what kind of sex, it’s still sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make jokes about cheese and pickle sandwiches and how it’s reference to my fab name to people that don’t know I’m on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make jokes about cheese and pickle sandwiches and how it’s reference to my fab name to people that don’t know I’m on fab.

Plenty of people know I’m poly but don’t know about fab too. And that’s also funny

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I don't advertise it but neither do I deny it if asked.

Its my life and my choice how to live it.

Mind you interest in me within the swinging lifestyle is so small it's hardly worth talking about it to outsiders these days.

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

I have slipped up a few times when talking about alternative lifestyle choices. My sister in law called me up on it. How do I know so much about swinging. "If you weren't married to my sister I would be very suspicious"

My nearly had a stroke but her sister made a comment about how many topics I could talk about.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

If someone has queried my single status I just say, I live alone but not lonely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woman’s fashion tips like pairing a Dress with heels or something or a dress

Or talking to woman in general when they go off on seton things and I am talking to them completely understand what they mean

Had some odd looking off amzment out off it

Ha ha

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By *aughty but nice... OP Man
over a year ago

Staffs

It's amazing how we all keep it secret

Shame society is the way it is imagine if it was the social norm

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Mainly making up reasons why we're going out and need childcare and when asked "did you have a good time?"

Errrrrrr yes, I had sex with four guys mostly at the same time *the voice in my head*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other people seem to give the game away.

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By *aughty but nice... OP Man
over a year ago

Staffs

"Mainly making up reasons why we're going out and need childcare and when asked "did you have a good time?"

Errrrrrr yes, I had sex with four guys mostly at the same time *the voice in my head*"

Naughty lady

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

My swinging life is no secret with my friends and work colleagues

xxxxx Suzi

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Nothing to hide.

Single guys don't suffer moral indignation from the lifestyle...well not as much.

My condom did fall out my wallet as I drew my bank card...in the bank...with the female bank manager.

Made worse by the fact it had worked its way out of the foil and was just a condom, on a wallet.

I moved swiftly and hope her indifference was ignorance and not fortitude.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We live in total secrecy, apart from one close friend and her husband, I enjoy the buzz of having my secret life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger so not an issue. Two people know about the kinky side. I'm not secretive about being non-monogamous. Just very matter of fact about it and haven't had any problems!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I just show them the videos

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't tend to tell people about my sex life

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